Carchoice: I am silent reader too. I was and still guilty of what the posters on the thread are preaching against. My conscience don’t let me comment.
I will talk about sexual desire and self control
The sex I had last year and some parts of this year could hold me for the next 10 years no cap. I’m always ashamed to say it. There was a day I had sex with 4 different ladies. One at 5am because She slept over and left in the morning. Another lady came at around 3pm and stayed till 7pm thereabout. I saw her off to the estate gate and saw two ladies going to a nearby hotel. I signaled one and collected her contact. Got home and got bored all of a sudden. I called her to come to my place, She told me her condition and we had an agreement. Few minutes later She called back that She can’t leave her cousin alone . She asked to bring her along. We had a new bargain. Both ladies came and I had sex with them. Sorry I had to post all this but just to give insight on where I am coming from. This is one of the many sexcapades I have had. And more of it happened this year.
I started asking myself questions as to how I get the energy to partake in all these endless and fruitless sex parties. I called it endless because you will never get permanent satisfaction from it. Few days later the urge comes back, what to do and to what end? You get trapped in a loop trying to satisfy what you didn’t create nor understand;.
I started doing research and reading online. What I saw made me realized I had been wasting something very vital to human and especially Man(male) because man is a creator(created in God’s image).
Sexual energy when rightly used is what makes a man to thrive, create and aim for success, it can make you godly too. This energy is like a fuel you put in a car to take you to a preferred destination. Where the wastage occurs is when you lack the knowledge to rightly use it or when the means to exercise this energy is readily and cheaply available(sex and masturbation). This then turn into a habit because that is what you can see as the only means to suppress this energy force which you don’t understand.
I have a friend I met through my brother. This young man is well to do. Different kinds of women visits him almost every day and night. But you know the surprising thing? He hardly have sex with them. Sometimes months you see him with different ladies but no sex. He tried explaining something to me but I couldn’t comprehend it because of my love for pvssy.
Fast forward this year during my research was when I got to understood what this young man was really doing. He was like me too. He liked sex so much but he found a way to hold on to the energy and put it to use.
Here’s what he did; He found out frequent ejaculation is a problem, he knew he had gotten used to having sex always, he couldn’t just do away with women completely but continued inviting them over just to be around him. I’m going to explain something I think many people here will not understand. Do you know that you can feel sexually fullfilled just by having a lady around you? On your bed, a lady you can just gist with, play with, even at the sight of seeing her buubs, you get satisfied without having actual sex. Some men even go as far as pre-intimacy, suck buubs and they are okay. He doesn’t go far more than the above mention because he had already conditioned his mind that, that 2 to 5min pleasure of sex is a disaster to his success and spiritual journey.
if you are very much into meeting with hook up ladies, they will tell you stories of high caliber men they met and spent some time with and they gave lots of cash but didn’t have sex with them. You and I will think they are impotent or ritualist.
Few days ago, I was relaxing and I sensed the energy was coming, it comes in form of energy waves, at first an overwhelming feeling but not specified. Reason why i said not specified is, this feeling is an energy, it is not just a sexual energy, your feedback to this energy is what it holds on to. It’s like the universe knocking on your door telling you it’s time to create something. What is it you are going to create? You have no idea. There are two major creations that takes place, the creation of life, which is having sex, getting a lady pregnant and giving birth thereby adding to the life circle. The second creation is the creating of the environment for the life you created to thrive. Your life was created this way too.
Back to the energy waves, This makes most people get irrational and irritated because they don’t understand what is happening to them. The females get this too. For a man, the moment you see an erotic photo of a lady or you unfortunately let your mind wander to how Sandra rode your dlck the last time. The energy automatically hold onto that thought and expresses it sexually. We have a choice to make at this stage but we mostly end up with no choice than to call Sandra or a new catch to express this energy in the form of sex or masturbation.
And immediately you finish having this sex or masturbation, there comes a feeling of “fulfillment”, whereas feeling of fulfillment is supposed to come when you achieve a success feat. Success doesn’t have to be becoming a millionaire, any work you successfully completes is success. But instead you get fulfilled just from releasing semen. Most times the zeal to do other things dies immediately.
If you feel guilty after sex or masturbation, your subconscious mind is actually talking to you but you have no idea how to communicate with it and understand what it’s saying. Religious people calls this sin.
I have come to realize that Bible and Quran teachings on fornication and abstinence is nature’s law and not some religious jargons.
I’m not telling anyone to stop having sex, I’m just telling my observations as to why do I keep having sex, unfulfilled and endless sex, trying to understand what this sexual urge really is.
Being a redpiller is deeper than anyone thinks. Women are never the problem and will never be. I have started to see women as women and not the problem but as an agent that depletes my energy, but this only happens when you allow it, because you are unknowingly using your energy against your desire to create feats for sexual pleasure.
I have also started looking to make friends with women that are on no sex friendship, ladies that you can’t discuss sexual topics with and they will also know you are a hard nut to crack. A woman will only manipulate you and turn you into a simp when She notices you express your energy on sexual related stuffs. She can notice this just from mere interaction. A simple YES or NO to some of their questions can give you away.
About paying for sex, I’m guilty as charge I can be sentenced to life imprisonment. No CAP. A man that has made up his mind to pay for sex is vulnerable to manipulation. He is Vulnerable to all the women he finds attractive and wanting to lay. Paying for sex is bowing to the pressure of your sexual desire. You are already manipulated.
As a redpiller, if you don’t remove sex from the equation and learn to make platonic friends with women, you are not a redpiller and you will never fully understand what it means to be a redpiller. And even if you maintain a platonic relationship with a lady and one day you see a crack or a vulnerability in the friendship and sex is readily available, can you reject it and be the one to end the relationship by telling her she’s trying to take advantage of you just as the way women do men?
Sorry for the long post. Na everyday I Dey learn from the thread, I just thought I should contribute today.
Bros I have bookmarked your post. Very inspiring and educative
Ronnnie: Dear Redpillers be careful of this women around you...You might be getting all the sex you want,but when this women want to Destroy you can,it's as easy as breathing...Al they need to do is to accuse you,then everything you ever worked for goes down the drain...Even in the Quran it is stated that alot of women are in hellfire,the Bible also advices young men to stay away from women siting the story of Samson as a good example,yet most men here don't listen(stilll claiming redpill) Look at R.kelly,he was accused then of sleeping with underage girls back then but he kept killing the case Kos he had the money to bribe them and was settling each girl financially,but now that he is broke and can no longer settle them,he is being charged and sentenced to life in prisonment. Look at Frank Ribery,He slept with a prostitute who forged her age to be 19,not knowing she was just 16,Frank Ribery was accused and even lost his spot in the France national squad,but no one accused the girl for wrongfully declaring her age. Look at Neymar,he fell in love with a single mother in Brazil,bought her and her kids gift,sponsored her child school and even paid for her flight to Paris and back just be spend time with her.How did he repay her by filing a rape case when she got back to Brazil..Neymar saving Grace was the WhatsApp chat he released where they were both sexual with each other. Look at cristaino Ronaldo,He went to a club in network,had few drinks with a girl he liked there and they went to the male tiolet and had sex,when he returned to Manchester in 2008,she filed for rape but Ronaldo and Manchester didn't. Want the matter escalating so they paid her off with 7 million euros....Now she has filed another case again stating she has not mentally recovered stating she now wants 50 million euros in settlement. I can mention other Cases like Benjamin Mendy(of man City) who is now in jail, Johnny Depp who his wife claimed was physically harassing her but video evidence showed it was the opposite but still he lost his place as jack sparrow in the popular movie pirates of the Caribbeans,We all know the story of Tiger woods..Even look at our own Dbanj who a lady(forgotten her name) came up and said he raped her in an hotel room but wtf did you follow him to do if not to have sex.... To those Redpillers who think money is enough to keep your girl...look at the marriages of tiger woods,bill and Melinda gates,Jeff bezos and his wife,Dr dre....this will tell you that no matter what you have or what you offer,you can never satisfy a woman...
You are never a true redpiller if you don't know how to control your sexual desire...Better learn from the stories of celebrities and be wise..The world is against you as a Man It's not every Hole you stick your dick into because when you get into that Hole,you might not make it back out but just keep going down..Be safe out there my brothers
Best comment on this thread in a while.
Usually, I'm a silent follower but I chose to comment because all you said is true.
There's a reason the Bible mentions the art of "self-control" repeatedly. Not because God doesn't want sex but it's actually to protect the male from destruction. Downfall of Solomon started with his love for women. Those women led him o start worshipping their idols and he forgot the God that granted him wealth and prosperity.
My guys, no matter what anybody tells you, self-control especially against sexual desires is key. Its an admirable trait. Espouse it and build it up.
pansophist: Guys, alot of this guys are lying. Over 2.5M in a month? That's like spending about 100k everyday. Really? Why una de lie like this? I don't know where this guys find the money sef, lots of Nigerians abroad are broke. Real time. No joke. Make una de lie small small abeg.
I understand that you intend to make folks back home miserable, your sense on worth is predicated on how much other puts you on a pedestals, and them having the consciousness that you're doing fine, but it is wrong. It means you're a shitty person.
Thank you jars.
You even see most of them speaking with two sides of the mouth.
You hear comments like
"I came back home and spent some millions and then I saw this country is not easy and then I ran back. But please abroad too is hard ooo. Don't rush over here".
They think everybody here won't read their comments thoroughly.
Rtk5: I spent about 1.2m on my last visit to Nigeria that was in April and i didnt stay for up to 2months. I just advised myself to go back. Thanks to my friends who are all doing well so no much expectation. I wish people could be enlightened to know that abroad is not as they think it is. You go suffer ooo.
Tet you tan back to abroad "that is a place of suffering"
Joebie: with consistency this is the kind of midfielders we should be talking about. Not what "what should have been" biased analysis. See what he did to Adarabioyo for the second goal.
Joebie: It will be very hard for this guy to break into SE today. in fact even Tammy would not have it easy today. We are too loaded in that department with strikers that bring something different. We have high pressers, strikers with good anchor play, great finishers. name it. There is simply no vacancy at the moment. Unless he is scoring hattricks or doing well agains Ajax, e go hard am. The verdict already is Onuachu is a better finisher. That step he took was a mis-step - going to Genk.
You're right
The only English born guy with an edge (a bit sha) is Fikayo Tomori for the CB positions.
fabyom: NFF, please provide our boys with a better pitch and see us dismantle any team in Africa! Boys are on fire! However, If we want them to replicate such performances in the green white green, enabling environment should be provided! How can anyone expect Osihmen or Onachu to score those magnificent goals on those African potato farms called football fields? How can you expect Simon and Chuz to pull out a perfect cross on those potato farms?
Trust me, our boys are punching far below their weight classes at international events. However, the pitch is not the main problem
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Blueelf: 2:32am On Sep 29, 2021
