₦airaland Forum

iamoyindamola:
Come of it he didn't say anything wrong

He said he just found out the name of the person. How is that possible? Person wey be say the name he used on NL is the same name he uses on Twitter and he has been trending before he(se.un) made his first post about the issue?

raumdeuter:
Sent her packing was okayish, beat her na where he dribbled his own defence and scored a beautiful goal

It was the urge to shalaye that made him score the won goal.

Aswear if he had ignored the initial tweet, it would just have ended in a case of a troll making things up against u. It will fizzle out within minutes.

Na why person supposed dey ignore trolls atimes

Theflint1:
Lol, Seun na clown, e say na I've just discovered the name of the person everyone is talking about

But yea, he does make very valid points.

https://x.com/seunosewa/status/1806674478694367306

Se.un is petty .

They are both not on good terms . I saw a tweet where they both claimed to have blocked each other .

He’s not supposed to be kicking his old friend at his lowest period abeg .

larride:
He also mentioned she has 2 personal SUVs.

The more reason why the wife didn’t want a new woman coming in to share the husband that can provide all that with her

Theflint1:
Omor shit's getting quite serious

https://x.com/Lagosdsva/status/1806671367309594649

Shiiiiit ! 🤦‍♂️

iamoyindamola:
They encourage fetish
The tictok prophet is cele

A lot of those Tiktok prophet are fake(if not all sef). They prey on gullible and desperate people whom they chop their money

raumdeuter:
After sleeping with a minor, DV is the next greatest haram in the world. Its sometimes better to be an armed robber sef

Aswear!

iamoyindamola:
Brother will you be kind to engage with a cele lady with waist bead
We need first hand experience, be rest assured if you get hooked we have ebuka and segedinho our able dibia to get you out

Cele are just normal people ; we just like to stereotype in this country. I have good relationship with both male and female acquaintances who belong to the movement. They are as good and bad as every other religious person.

Gloriousgbola see what we talked about. This person don bring out calculator calculate the money he press to his wife

https://twitter.com/trendingex/status/1806662966151946300?s=46

Omo , twitter is not a real place . This person don quickly turn the whole thing to a thread . They go as far mentioned the age of the new wife; she’s 21

raumdeuter:
From the receipt posted I saw that the transfers were this year. So the issue of getting 2nd wife na this year sef

Is he still together with the first wife?

I think he sent her packing based on his response to the troll

pocohantas:
Ah. Our senior wife went far o.😂😂
What is the significance of the waist bead? Make them no knack ni?

Me sef no know o. We will have to engage the juju believing brethren in the house for enlightenment

nihilistjnr:
Well I hope you guys have learnt the lesson here sha.

This why cheating is the less risky option. Keep home and play separate and enjoy ya life.

That's if you must have multiple women sha. I believe in monogamy over here

In other words, u are supporting the motion which says "Having a side chick is better than marrying a second wife"

nihilistjnr:

I Come dey pity the bros.

I wanted to say "Bros if those juju work, no be u go discover am na", but I no wan start another juju argument all over again

izzou:
[color=royalblue]If na Northern Nigeria, dem go burn the shop join[/color]

That is if dem no born am join

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I thank God Raumdeuter no be marriage counsellor.

So many homes go don scatter by now.

Advising on having a happy, long lasting marriage is definitely not his forte [/color]

Lmao

All his clients will just sue him for professional negligence sotey he will close shop within a year of being in business as counsellor

islamics:
Well, we never can tell, maybe reconciliation from both family might work out if it will be in their best interest.

It will be difficult for a man to trust a woman who put his name and his new wife's name inside a bottle with waist bead inside.

I'm not sure u saw the videos he posted before they were deleted. There were native soaps here and there, the bros was so scared he had to recite Quran verses while making videos of them.

iamoyindamola:
Where is raumdeuter when we need his advice

Raumdeuter come outside o. Ur advise don scatter internet o

liveLongNprospa:
Jarus dey womanize ooo.

I have a friend baba was chasing last year or so😂😂

Lobatan!

Sulele04:
Wait his first wife is not a Muslim ba ? Cause all these stuff of visiting a Cele pastor, Tiktok Babalawo, doing fetish juju & her not wanting him to marry a new wife despite knowing that's what Muslim men do.

Isn't she a Muslim I don't get ? Religious Nigerians are just hypocrites lmaoo later them go dey attack Danny they don't even believe what they worship.

Jarus handled it poorly though, at the end of the day she can't control her emotions but going diabolical is crazy the marriage is already dead how can he sleep on the same bed with her again.

Beating her also is pathetic, cause at the end of the day he caused it I am very sure if he had told her before marriage of his intentions all these would have been avoided.

It is a shame though but the marriage is def lights out.

The woman didn't see it coming . She must have been stunned initially when he mentioned marrying second wife; probably he doesn't even womanize.

From shock it turned to desperation and that was obviously what led her into going diabolical.

The marriage is as good as over.

pocohantas:
This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

Let me just say the truth.

if the wife is my sister, I will explore every legal angle to make sure she get a cut of the wealth he has built within the past 14 years they were together. It is obvious the marriage has broken down and fences can't be mended anymore

islamics:
It is why I say the word 'beating' has it's own definition in Islam not the literal definition we are all familiar with, just as you cited. In some textual translation, they use the word 'hit', hit her lightly. The 'beating/hitting' in this case is just symbolic not with the intent of harm or hurt which is also why lighter stuff like chew stick are used as example. If we are being frank, we can't consider hitting one with chew stick as beating. The hitting could even be in form of a play not as if you will say, come and kneel down let me beat you. Nope.
But if we focus on the literal definition of beating only, then there is nothing in the Quran that suggests that a husband is allowed to beat his wife irrespective of the situation. She is to be honoured and treated kindly, even when there is lost of love between them.


As for Brother Jarus, I pray Allah ease his affairs - Ameen

Alright bro.

One question please: What is the motive of using a chewing stick to "beat" a woman? What purpose is that "beating" supposed to serve? I mean if the husband is allowed to "beat" his wives "lightly", it is to what end? Is it supposed to make the women change or what?

larride:
No be juju be wetin happen today so?

No be juju, It's just a case of a man who let himself riled up by a troll account.

He was hyping his new wife who posted some pictures and some troll account asked if that was the reason he beats his wife & sent her packing. He knew the person behind the account was his wife's relative and started spilling all the beans.

He didn't keep his emotion in check

pocohantas:
Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

The bold is the summary of what happened to that bros.

I perused his account of the whole event and I didn't see anywhere he mentioned she was a bad wife or that she had inadequacies that necessitated him getting a new wife. It just appears as though baba is financially capable and he decided to get a second wife.

The wife is hurt and decides to resist the move through diabolical means and baba catches her which led to the whole fight/domestic violence and he eventually sending her packing.

I remember reading one of his old interviews where he spoke about how his wife advised him to sell his range rover to complete his house that was under construction. It is only normal for such woman who believe she's part of ur success story to resist another woman coming into the picture.

islamics:
Just to comment on the beating part that people are asking if Islam allowed.

The 'beating' allowed is a very light beating that should not harm her in any way using stuff light siwak (chew stick) and it must not be in the face. Just a simple hitting. The beating is not beating in the real sense of it cos it has it own definition in Islam. You can't use koboko and term it beating , that one na you dey at fault.

What is "light beating" ?

Any form of beating involves pain no matter how little it is . In fact, the dictionary meaning of beating is "a punishment or assault in which the victim is hit repeatedly"

Beating is simply assault no matter how "light" it is

larride:
You are right.

Egbon Raumdeuter, evidence don dey say juju dey work.

Jarus actually try to run away from controversy but this one wey him use him own hand type those things, gats be juju

Nibo latun jasi bayi ?

Even the new wife don private her account abi na deactivate she deactivate sef. The initial pictures that cause the rofo rofo don disappear

nihilistjnr:
Well. I haven't seen any of those screenshot bleed over to LinkedIn which is where I think the real damage could be done.

From a PR perspective, I'd be advising him to keep it that way and just go dark on twitter for a while till this blows over.

Jarus does not need twitter in my opinion.. he only has about 60k followers there, most of whom are unlikely to have the means to be his potential customers.

It's not like Jarus is primarikly Twitter Commentator on twiiterNG. He's a corporate brand who just happens to tweet. There'd a difference.

Personally, I think if he keeps his dead down for a little bit. He'll be fine. Gen Z pockets are not as deep as their memories are long.

I think he mentioned he gets gigs from twitter regularly.

Yeah, I agree he needs to go dark on twitter. But don't be surprised if he gets trolled on LinkedIn in the coming days.

iamoyindamola:
He will have issues
Those gender can come out to fight him for admitting he's a wife beater

Serious issues. People will forget what led to the whole rofo rofo and focus on the wife beating angle.

He will most likely take a long break from social media

RealityKings:
Sometimes we judge people because we are not in their shoes.. Don't judge, just watch and learn

That is not judgement. It is a clarion call for people to avoid putting their private business on the internet; u don't where it will spread reach

nihilistjnr:
You're talking about social media clout which Jarus imo doesn't even need.

I'm looking more at the corporate brand the man had built - as a published author, a philanthropist, a finance thought leader in the oil and gas sector, a real estate developer, etc.

To me that's where this has the most potential to do him the most damage. Having to deal with twiiter opps is comparatively almost inconsequential.bin my opinion

We are saying the same thing. The twitter clout which he doesn't care about is what will lead to damage of his corporate brand.

The people u see on twitter will make sure his business partners see some of those damaging stuff. Some brands will avoid working with him because of the twitter rofo rofo

Amigoss:
Think pieces don dey fly from their end already regarding his admission to beating her ,dem go soon make the 2nd wife lock her account

It is only a matter of time