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iservwurld:Remember that saying that "good things are worth waiting for". Coming into the country is not the problem it's how you come. Suppose your wife comes in as a carer, you will have to Pay for visa fees. Then she would have to do those things she's running away from when she gets to the UK to later work as a nurse. Then she has to pay for the whole family again to change visa status. Coming in as a carer is not worth it when you can come in as a professional. Of course she will be working as a senior carer when before she passes her OSCE, but at least she doesn't have to worry about IELTS or what have you. She transitions straight to a RN when she passes her OSCE. I personally won't recommend coming in as a carer. CBT is easy to pass and she can take IELTS or OET. If she can pass nursing council exam to become a nurse, then she has what it takes to be a UK registered nurse. She just has to believe in herself. Support her through her nursing journey not carer journey. |
Has anyone here watched the tinder swindler on Netflix? Naija scammers dey learn work for this guy hand |
Amazoner01:Register to vote. This carries a lot of points. |
icon8:Do you actually realise how hard it can be to keep up with this thread? Coupled with the fact that there's no proper filtering system to quickly search for stuffs in specific threads ![]() |
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TheGuyFromHR: meaningless questions indeed. You're really the guy from HR |
kode12:That was your post back in December 2020. https://www.nairaland.com/4158866/living-uk-life-uk-immigrant/502#97522412 |
mimilyrics:What sort of questions could be asked during the informal chat? Is this informal chat with the HR or the contact person of the department? |
mimilyrics:Exactly! |
LagosismyHome:The internet doesn't forget. The goal of some tech companies is to archive everything that makes it way to the www. ![]() |
kode12:You don scam innocent people wey dey give confirm update for this thread .@justwise @lexusg430 I need your thoughts. A friend came to the UK on a Tier 4 visa in September and was randomly applying for some permanent roles to test the water and see how employable he is. Now he’s got a company that has the ability to sponsor him on a T2. Is it possible to switch visa completely before the 3 months to the end of course rule? If he’s able to combine work and school, can he continue with the masters program while working full time on the Tier 2 visa? |
Viruses:Lol with your advice on not carrying a malaria drug. Trust me you don't want to end up in A&E thinking you have malaria. Before covid wahala, you will be delayed for hours and the kind tests they will run on you ehn, you will hate yourself. Malaria is a tropical sickness here and they need specialist to take care of you. If you really like yourself and don't want the drama that comes with having malaria here bring some with you. Having malaria drugs on you isn't a crime! |
Omah7979:A Google search will help you better. North Macedonia, turkey....not visa free but you get easy easily. So called e-visa or VOA |
Beedollas:Make sure to get your late husband's death certificate if you haven't. You will need it if you want to take the kids abroad! |
jimpix11:That must have been hard. Did you involve a solicitor? |
jimpix11:Do you mind painting the full picture for us and how you went about solving it? It would really be helpful! |
Beedollas:Yes you can bring them on the care visa scheme as the scheme allows dependants which your children her. However, you might want to come in first ti test the waters and settle down before bringing in the kids because childcare isn't small money here as you might have heard. This is because care workers aren't paid much and you might end up paying your whole salary on childcare since you don't have partner. My advice, make sure to include your kids as dependants in your visa application but don't apply for their visa yet. Then when you get in and understand how things work and have quite a good amount of savings, bring in the kids. This is because from day one of entering this country, you will be paying a lot compared to what you are used to in Nigeria. Getting an apartment is no stroll in the park sis. |
babajeje123 one advise I have for you is to pump the brakes a little bit. Summary: try shelf all plans and focus on saving for PSW visa life. You will be very very frustrated if you don't put your house in order. If you wan catch rat, you go behave like rat. Divert the attention to what your immediate family needs (paying house rent, childchare) not what your external families need. You're on student visa and I believe you should be focusing on saving for the after studies life. You probably have given her the wrong impression with the fact that you hustled the money and could fund bringing her down from Nigeria and also paying for quarantine hotel. Try to put other plans on pause and map out how to solidify your stay here. You can start by letting her know that you have put aside the plans on bringing your mum. Then mention everything that needs to be done to solidify your stay in terms of IHS surcharge, PSW visa fees and the likes. Brainstorm together how to go about it in terms of savings because you need to pay those fees to stay back here. Enlighten her about the finances that comes being an immigrant in the UK. Probably the reality would hit and change her perspective. You might not he able to achieve this if you don't pump the brakes on how much you disburse out (to other family members)except you had prior savings from Nigeria. Don't portray it to her like it's easy to make this £. Encourage her to get a job probably the reality will dawn on her. You're clearly working over the permitted limit and you should really be careful with that. |
Lexusgs430:Uncle don't let us cancel you oh . You didn't address we that are gender fluid.Where covid reach now, it is only if you don't go out that you won't catch it. |
hustla:You can also checkout mountain warehouse. I preferred the quality of their jackets to Regatta. Plus mountain warehouse has upto 60% sales going on. |
Indians nah bandwagon and access to privileged information dey make them seem like Genius. Someone mentioned a guy solving Java problem without coding Java before! Are you sure he didn't have OOP knowledge from other programming languages? Are you sure he didn't get expo already from senior colleagues? I happened to have studied with couple of them and I'm yet to meet that genius Indian. Yes they do have access to information and massive support from their community and that's what distinguishes them, plus the excessive competitiveness. Who no go seem like a genius when you know the script or get access to past questions?. Remove the access to privileged information and you will see the true Indian. Don't forget these Indians sef dey hustle student jobs pass some Africans oh while studying. Last I checked, Indians didn't invent many of the technology we are benefiting from. Just that the younger generations in the western world no get plenty motivation to study to become a Genius. That's my experience so far and I think as a Nigerians or any nationality, we can always replicate whatever they are doing. It's all about what's motivating you and gives you assurance that what you're studying is worth it. The reason for the education standards in Nigeria getting poorer by the day isn't farfetched from many things affecting it. At least it wasn't so during the times of our fathers or grandparents. I can count the countless number of times I read with lantern. Abi how will I learn to code like a Genuis when NEPA dey bring light when I suppose dey sleep or data no dey to search the web? Do the vast majority of Indians live in darkness? Them no get access to better internet than Nigeria? About Nigerians not helping Nigerians abroad. Let's face the fact, we are losing/ have lost our family values thanks to lack of trust and too much juju. How many people mentioning the fact that other Nigerians didn't help them have helped their immediate family members first? So why expect something from a stranger when you can't even help your extended cousins because of one reasons or the others. Yes Nigerians don't help nigerians abroad e dey why. No be same Nigerians dey set their family members or friends up with shady deals and placing cocaine in the luggage of someone that's trying to help them transport it. Or sabotaging people trying to help them. I am sure we have all heard or know stories of siblings bringing eachother to abroad and things go South through taking eachother businesses and properties? So why are speaking like we lost our values overnight? All the Nigerians don't help Nigerians gang, if I message you to help me deliver something to my people in Nigeria will you? How many people fit bring that their uncle pikin? No be then we go remember say the man sef no be better person, hin no be Christian, hin no be dis and dat . Story and fake promises go dey come. Nah to use sense do everything. Heck, no be this same Nigerian some parents no want success for their pikin?About speaking phoney. English no be our papa and mama language afterall. Why not speak so that people wey get the language go understand us and avoid speaking twice. If you no try speak in a tone they understand, mah your loss oh. Many people have complained about not understanding foreign colleagues to me. They often have to say yes to them or have to politely ask them to come again. These people no like anything wey go stress them and it doesn't cost anything to pronounce things the right way for once. Instead of pronouncing them with hindi, ijebu, Anambra or Kaduna accent ![]() In conclusion, let's look inwards and see where we sef no dey perfect and how make changes beginning from our immediate family. Charity begins at home not on Nairaland. If we all truly help our family members I don't think we will be on Nairaland but we know he no dey possible for many things. |
fatima04:Does AXA mansard insurance actually cover what they say it will cover? |
emmas2k570:I think it's easier if you first speak with your recruiter about this. |
LagosismyHome:Them com be two people fresh from naija. BILL ![]() |
DFmum:From my own understanding, adminstrative review means that they made a mistake in coming to their conclusion based on the docs you submitted. I doubt that is the case in this situation. |
aragbaboy:Boss revolution isn't bad, the quality is crisps. Or you can tell people back home to register smile voice for you. It's VoIP tho, so your internet connection strength is a big factor, else yiu will end up in the[b]hello, hello, hello mtchew loop [/b]Whereas boss revolution can use your internet or your cellular minutes for calling. It's pricer than smile voice but offers more stable connection. |
emmas2k570:Yes the COS is only for you. But to help you bring your dependent without needing you or your dependent to show POF, they need to tick the Tick to certify maintenance for migrant (and dependants, if applicable) as Y. |
Lexusgs430: wonlasewonimi:Thanks for the clarifications. Wetin no get subscriptions these days? Bank account get subscription, internet get, TV get, Spotify get, train get, ASDA get, Tesco get, filling station get, credit institutions get....the list is endless |
Is it correct that freetrade trading app isn't free? I just signed up and there's basic and premium plan. Is this normal or am I on the wrong platform? |
quivah:Yes that is pretty normal. You're a nurse so there's nothing called public holidays for you. In fact you will work either on Christmas or new year. The only thing is that you will get holiday pay for the hours you work (if your employer pays that). Say if tou work a day shift on a public or bank holiday, you get paid the holiday allowance for that day. If you work night, you only get paid for the hours before the end of that holiday. It might actually be a good offer that you're ignoring in my opinion. Every care home as far as I know often have a clause of paying them if you leave before 3 years. However most people don't leave except in rear circumstances. I will advice you have a chat with the manager stating what is giving you cold feet with them. Something in the line of.... while I understand you're out to protect the interest of your company, I feel I am being pinned down with having to pay 10k should I decide on leaving. Not that I plan to, but from my perspective, it is important for me to enjoy where I work and the people I work with without the sense of feeling trapped. I do understand that the norm is for the amount to decrease with the more time I spend with the company. I would be open to discussing this extensively with you to find an alignment for the both of us. In the end, having this chat wouldn't hurt you since already turned them down. And probably you won't be the first to do so. It is fairly normal to counter offers here in abroad. Because in the long run, you're both doing eachother a favour. But that naija mentality dey always make us short-change ourselves. |
quivah:To be honest,. Their pay is quite good albeit the standard holiday pay thing. Did you say that there's no holiday? Or if you work on holidays you get standard pay? |
EniEye:With your child to where? |


meaningless questions indeed. You're really the guy from HR
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