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The message the son sent to his mother made me tear. Oh God!. He must have seen hell.

Raw kidney?? Haba.. China.

cococandy:
Disinfectant wipes

Some come in sprays as well

Wow. Thanks. This is my first time hearing it. I will buy it. I didn't know we have disinfectant wipes. Thanks.

aeion:
I like to play my guitar before I eat. Maybe because I'm happy I'm about to eat. Iunno.

I love to clean and have been a neat freak since I was a kid. I love Lysol and buy it in packs. People were greedy during Covid-19 and finished them off of shelves but thankfully I can find them again, yay.

What's Lysol?

Jesu.. Hmm.

Ashawopapa001:
How do we know you are married?

If the person tells you so, then that's is it.

Even the law court doesn't recognise the wedding ring, but the documents and witnesses.

Ashawopapa001:
I once asked a beautiful lady of her number after flirting with her and she reciprocated, she declined saying she's married with kids. I then told her I don't mind since I didn't believe she's married. She started ranting and trying to insult me.....
That's when I schooled her, "you ain't wearing a wedding ring and expect to be treated with respect reserved for married women, go home wear your ring you feminist if not I will spank that ass ASAP

That's not a strong argument sir. Most churches don't join you with rings, they use the bible. It's either your pastor blesses it privately or you don't wear any.

This is unbelievable.

I don't even know what to write

Don't waste your time, that's what's there. It's a good read though.


"My bestfriend snatched my husband from me" Nigerian woman cries out as she recounts experience
opera.comMar 2, 2020 8:23 AM
A Nigerian woman have narrated her experience on a social media platform on how her bestfriend snatched her husband some years back.

According to her there is no man worth fighting for if he loves you he loves you forever.

Honestly some so called friends ain't really friends they are back stabbers.



According to her she wrote:

I knew the woman my ex husband was cheating with, I didn't just know her, she came to my house a couple of times, i knew her house and her office.

We had discussions, once, upon her request and another, upon my request! It might seem impossible to you, I have friends and family members who can testify to this. My younger sister Joy was in my house the last I invited her over and we had a 2hrs discussion. In that discussion, I told her I was going to give up my marriage for her and told her what to expect from his family.

Each time she came to my house, I entertained her and kids. Yes because she never came have s#x in my house, she came as a friend because I made her feel like a friend from day one.Initially, I did everything possible to save my marriage.


But. When I realized my ex husband was deeply in love with this woman, I decided to give up my marriage for her.

To me, love is how someone treats me, not a piece of paper contract.

We were in court for 2 yrs, living in the same house. I wasn't in competition with this woman over my marriage.

I am a spirit filled woman and saw beyond her.This man loved this mother of three children who was older than me, her last child was older than my first child.

I didn't need anyone to convince me loved her. Everyone said it was juju, but I didn't care! I only cared that I wasn't being treated right by him and his family





Being the head of admin and operations in a bank, you will meet a lot of people because you're the core person in the bank and if you a kind person who doesn't know how to say no, you'll be messed up!He tried to help and help turned to love.

He was so in love with her. He went everywhere with her. The whole Lagos saw them together. I saw them together. She took him to her church every Sunday because she is a strong catholic and her church members thought they were a married couple.

Friends asked if I couldn't pour hot oil on her whenever she cameto my house. Some were ready to join me and beat her up.

Me, I love love. If it is not love, it cannot be love even if i kill another person for it. I have experienced so much love in my life. So i know what love feels like and that didn't feel like it and I couldn't pretend to be loved. Never.

This is where my strength was: I was born a fighter and I win because I fight with my brain and not fist and with God always on my side.I've always kept shit real. If I wanted to remain in my marriage, I could've done it! That would be choosing to keep suffering emotionally because I didn't want another woman to move into my house.

But i didn't see any difference in her moving into his house and taking care of her and children for another man outside, while I keep suffering inside his house with my/his children.

I could've stayed because of his position or money, doing suffering and smiling married woman to a who who didn't care about me and my kids. But that's self hate!I could've because he wasn't violent.

His family was my main concern, not the sidechic. Remaining there was just toxic and killed me inwardly, because I am overtly a free person who just wants everyone to be happy and free! So I choose happiness.

But I wasn't going to leave his house without the court deciding our divorce. I accepted my fate in my mind that the marriage was over.

So we lived as housemates for 2yrs, but i needed to prove to men that they didn't have a right to send a woman out of the house, simply because they think they can! Hell no.

I was ready to spend my blood on the best lawyers to prove that point.Guess what! He kept changing lawyers when he realized I wasn't playing.

They always think we women don't have rights. Most especially as I was a "stay at home mum" and he was the oga kpataki.

But when shit started going down in court, he ran to my lawyer and begged for out of court settlemen. I had earlier refused but obliged when he promised to meet my terms.Of course, no wahala!

All I needed was a decent three bedroom apartment and monthly allowance for my children. I didn't need anything else.The moment he met my terms of settlement.

I packed my things and left in peace and lived HAPPILY EVER EVER

Guess how old I was when all of these happened! Between 28 and 32 when there was no awareness and support. I can't pretend to be happy when I'm not. I would die!Be aware that their#peppermlovedidn't survive for more than 2yrs.

They got married, had a son together and the marriage went south like mine. If I had stayed, they'll probably still be together and loving by now!

Does he want me back? of course YES!

Can he get me back?

Too late to play a fool.

I AM HAPPILY SINGLE, SELECTING AND LOVING IT❤�Y'all play too much fooling yourselves over pr##k. Craze people everywhere!

Your husband's current sidechic is not going to be the last. How many you want fight sister?

Spend all that energy on yourself and start selecting who's worth sharing your beautiful life with.

No d##k is what fighting another woman for! We are all victims of circumstances.

PUZZLE

PARADOX

BADASSCHIC

QUEEN

BLESSED

Married women should know who they call their friends, personally married women should have limit with so called bestie.

AnonymousRebec:
We have a family group chat. Whenever my parents post something on the group, they always call all of us that we should read what they posted or if it's a video, we should watch it. The next time they call, they will ask if you read or watched what they posted and bring up discussions about it.
So my dear, we have to reply their post so that they will not feel ignored.

This is so like us. My mum will call me even in class for me to check what she posted, she will follow up on u, then discussions and series of warnings begin. I always answer with.." Beeni ma, ooto ni, eshey mummy, yes ma"
God bless our parents

francis5051:
Reducing her phone brightness to zero then told her that her fone screen was bad will be needing 20k to fix it..

Jesu

elmagnifico411:
aunty, what is wickedness in asking her to sweep the mirror she broke? Was she not even supposed to make a move towards sweeping It before she was asked to do so? You people overrate this pregnancy kini like we don't see them everywhere.. abeg jare, the woman did nothing to her. There's nothing here to forgive. She should work on herself before irreparable. Some one that cannot even apologize when she goes wrong? A friend's wife still served us rice on easter Sunday and put to bed yesterday, and nothing extra happened.

Now to the husband, hows your wife's family background? You know most of us are functions of our background. U no check well before u fall in love.

If that your wife refused to change, being happy might be very hard for u.

You are not there and he wasn't there too, so no one knew the exact tone or attitudes that went down there. He married his wife, He knew about her character and He's the only one that can find a way to solve it. This is just a fragment of his married life, so u can't judge anyone with that. In Marriage a lot happens, so if it's sorry that will bring peace, then let it be and He should continue to pray for her, I will tell that to a woman whose husband misbehaved too.
I laugh at seeing "pregnancy everywhere" ask few and let them tell u what they passed thru especially their first pregnancy. Some pregnancy are so easy while some are crazy.

jombo21:
My dear i ve sat her down so many times begging to let go of any grudges, my wife is a very prideful woman, since i married her she hardly or ve never said sorry to me when wrong, she ve never agreed that she ve hurt someone before. our last quarrel was on january this year. We have to involve her pastor. The woman came to our house to make peace, she told my wife to apologise to me but my wife blatantly refused till this day. I have to say sorry her to her for peace to rain. She always boast of keeping malice till eternity.

I understand sir, and I know u want it settled. continue to pray for her brother, but still it's ur marriage, and u r married to her, so if it's sorry that will settle d rift, say it but point out her errors to her and overlook it. God be with your marriage. and please don't listen to those saying if it's 2 months or 9months o.. our body differs and reacts differently when pregnant. There are cases of those who got pregnant and became hypertensive, some carried pregnancy with ulcers et al, so u see why u can't compare someone's preg condition to another. God will give u the wisdom to settle it.

u have to sit her down and talk her into forgiving your mother, beg her and apologise on behalf of your mother. Apart from her bending which could be so difficult due to her big stomach, she might at that time be experiencing some pain or discomfort which could cause the mirror dropping from her hand. My sister pregnancy wasn't easy at all, she had to even live with us cos of d husband's busy schedule, as old as my mum is, she was worried for her case because it's pain after pain for her till few days to delivery, so imagine her breaking a mirror and my mum asking her to sweep, that is wickedness! yes, your mum may not know how she's feeling from d inside especially d first pregnancy ish, but u can't judge her by saying she's a Christian blablabla. She was seriously hurt and most "hurt" from people we love or we r close to pain a lot. I think God wants it to be settled that's y she voiced out, and u are in the best position to say sorry. I guess if it was ur father, she wouldn't have been angry, I think she's angry because ur mum is a woman who knows how pregnancy is.

YorubaBigot:
My yoruba people are shamelessly supporting APC and the brazen impunity and abuse of power going on in kano. Everytime we keep on attacking ibos as if they are our problem

Elections in nigeria umder buhari and apc have turned to a battle field where blood flows, limbs broken, heads shattered, people shot and feared dead openly in a show of force by buhari in active connivance with INEC and security agents. Look at rivers state, kano state and otther states with lesser violence and killings.

Im happy this is not ekiti or osun states in the south west where we are so docile and rehearse textbook written by tinubu-the frog-eyed kleptomaniac. This is kano state and im sure apc and buhari will get a full dose of what they bargaining for when irate youths set the state on fire

This is the worst elections ever in the history of this country. Anyone in support of this disgrace of a sham called election needs a brain examination

It shall never be well with anyone who supports rhis brazen display and misuse of power by buhari

silence is better than spewing thrash. Fallacy of generalization.

yup, u go for Post graduate diploma first before applying for M. sc just like predegree before degree.

PrecisionFx:
Semovita is made with wheat. Goan make ur investigations wella.

U can tell me there 're other cereals that they might be used to make semovita, but fact remains that Semovita is made from wheat.

This is very simple to verify

okay, thank God u said *made from* but not d raw form of wheat, which is brown in color.

PrecisionFx:
The wheat product i know is semovita and I don't like it at all. It us white in color.

semovita isn't wheat sir. Wheat is brown in color.

PrecisionFx:
I don't get u sir.
Primarily u don't like wheat and I don't eat it.
But the wheat I know is white in color.

wheat is white in colour?!.. haba! stop lying now!

This is wickedness.

asobo:
Of PDP please. Thanks

yes PDP. that was a mistake. thanks.

GoggleB:
Seyi Makinde of PDP. Wake up

I'm not sleeping. thanks for d correction tho

[quote author=nadiq1 post=76248977]Of PDP
yes PDP. my bad!

It's not about the party, it's about the person. and Seyi Makinde of APC seems fit for the seat.

cosmatika:
Why are u beckoning on ur fellow zombies? Cos zombies work as a pack. Truth is always bitter. How many Hausa men have houses in Aba and Onitsha? How many Yorubas have hotels in Enugu and Owerri? But Igbos have investments in every nooks and cranny or this zoo. Show the Igboman some respect pls

they don't because u people are not receptive to visitors or strangers. I have a friend who bought acres of land in Owerri, to start an Agric biz, the guy is dead now, after much investigation, the boss he was working for told the police that how can a stranger come to claim his people land. my Friend that died is a Yoruba man and his boss is a high chief, when they arrested the boss sef, they told us he won't sleep in d cell because he's a chief, thank God we had connections from Abuja, if not a murderer will be set loose.

I have another friend who was given a contract to supply furniture to a hotel, when the owner came, he asked
his agent why he picked a Yoruba boy? despite him knowing that my friends quotation was lesser than "his brother's " own and d furniture are original.

I have so many stories to tell u about how u people especially when a person from another tribe or region wants to establish or build something in your land, attacks and hates other tribe gaining an upper hand in ur land. I have also lived in ur land before so I know what's up.

Igbos embrace other tribes, we do here in southwest! it starts from u. nonsense!

now they will start blaming RCCG for checking their genitals before marriage. Can u see this is real? may God help us all.

wow! wow! wow!. OP, u tried o. God help us all..

correct bad indeed! hmm

ouzo1:
Let us pray pls..

Jesu! don't tear ur belle abeg.

ok