₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,330,986 members, 8,448,110 topics. Date: Sunday, 19 July 2026 at 06:53 PM

Toggle theme

BMathew's Posts

Nairaland ForumBMathew's ProfileBMathew's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 12 pages)

FamilyRe: Get Your Quality Stone Free Local Rice From Nasarawa State. by BMathew: 12:01pm On Feb 05, 2023
How much per bag?
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Pays Visit To The Ewi Of Ado-Ekiti (Pictures) by BMathew: 1:10pm On Feb 03, 2023
I thought they said this man is very sick and can't even stand on its own, yet from one state to another.
Story is changing from old age, sick, sleeping, to desperate.....
One thing I know is, you can never distract a man who understand his mission.
PoliticsRe: Man Paid 100,000 In 5 Naira Notes by BMathew: 8:37am On Feb 03, 2023
The policy is good but at the wrong time.
Cashless policy remains the best but enacting policy influenced by politics is evil.

The masses are suffering.., cry
CrimeRe: Judge Shot Dead In Court By Gunmen In Imo(photos) by BMathew: 8:34am On Feb 03, 2023
shocked shocked shocked shocked
Graphics......
FamilyRe: Let This Motivate You by BMathew: 10:55am On Feb 01, 2023
Good, 🙏🙏
BusinessRe: Some African Countries Currencies (pictures) by BMathew: 3:37pm On Jan 28, 2023
Is that Alvan ikoku on 200ç(Ghana)?

FamilyRe: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by BMathew: 3:12pm On Jan 28, 2023
Following....🧐
FoodRe: Will You Buy A Small Bottle Of Water 2k? by BMathew: 3:07pm On Jan 28, 2023
😁😁😁😁
PoliticsRe: 2023 Presidential Election - Prediction And Analysis Of Possible Outcome by BMathew: 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2023
Interesting..... 😊😊😊
PoliticsRe: Throwback Photo Of Abiola And Tinubu On A Congratulatory Visit To Abacha In 1993 by BMathew: 10:56am On Jan 19, 2023
Check Tinubu's signature on his cap. That man is really consistent.
Same logo then, is going viral now.


Note: Be consistent with your life pursuit/dreams.

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Am I Overreacting Or Is This Person Wrong In What She Did?? by BMathew: 5:33pm On Jan 16, 2023
You have your life to live so also your friend. Forgive her and move on, then move in silence.
If you're not looking for competition or validation from anyone, is there any reason for you to disclose some vital information about your job with her?


Stay humble and be yourself.
TV/MoviesRe: Meet The Big Brother Titans Season 1 Female Housemates (Names And Pictures) by BMathew: 8:49am On Jan 16, 2023
All the south Africans should present their H. I. V test result, my candid opinion..... cool
FamilyDear Nairaland, Please Advise This Woman by BMathew(op): 10:27am On Jan 12, 2023
@Amarachi Iyawo Emeka wrote

Good morning ma.

Please I need sincere advice from you and your readers.

I am a working class woman who earns higher salary than my husband.

So based on this, I willingly shouldered more of the financial contributions in running our home.

My husband only pays the house rent and nepa bills but i pay our children school fees, our feeding, clothing and every other thing.

So recently my husband lost his job and became self employed while I was promoted at my own office.

I decided to finish our building project which my dad singlehandedly started 5 years ago before he passed on

This is to remove the burden of house rent on us but my husbands one kobo is not coming into this.

So we decided to move to a 3 bedroom flat in the meantime because our young family is expanding with a baby on the way.

We got a nice place with a spacious master bedroom and two other rooms. I told my husband that I wanted the master bedroom but he protested that its his right as the head of the family.

I got angry and told him I can't be paying our rent and not have a say on choice of rooms. I have more loads and need more space so I insisted on the Master bedroom.

He still refused. I told him I wouldn't help out with the rent again and he got angry. For two nights now he has been sleeping at the house of one of his bachelor friends place.

Seun,RoyalRoy
FamilyUpgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by BMathew(op): 12:06pm On Jan 10, 2023
I saw this post on Facebook, guys what's your honest opinion?

One of my senior friend met his wife in the 1990s as a typist working in a business centre near a court. He was smitten by her and promised to upgrade her.

He is a lawyer, he married her and trained her in school to become a lawyer too. She was called to bar, he got her a job in the court and she became a Legal Assistant at Judiciary.

His aim was for her to become a judge or magistrate. Presently, she is a Chief Registrar, she would have been among the judges appointed by Governor Wike except that she was originally from Akwa Ibom.

My senior friend have on many occasions travelled to the UK, USA, Germany and Hong-Kong. He never thought of divorcing the wife or abandoning his family. They have 4 children together.

Few years back, he decided for the first time to travel with the wife. The wife's sister has been living in the USA. He trained the wife's sister too, she met her husband who took her to the USA while living in his house in Port Harcourt.

The USA Embassy usually give 2 years Tourist Visa to first timers. So his wife got 2 years. While they were in the USA it was decided that the wife stayed back and give birth to their last child whom she was pregnant with.

My senior friend came back to Nigeria, few months after she gave birth and was expected back. A lawyer from FIDA (Women's Lawyers Association in Nigeria) served my friend a Divorce Petition.

He was heartbroken. He still loved his wife, but she said she wanted to stay back and was no longer interested in the marriage.

At the end of the day my senior friend was able to use her family and some of their mutual friend to talk to her. He promised to have a joint bank account with her and do all other conditions she stated, including another marriage at the registry.

She came back. He stole her passport. He decided within himself never ever to let her travel again. They celebrated their 25th anniversary recently. They were so happy in church, she bought him an expensive wristwatch, while he bought her a car. They have not done the marriage at the registry.

During his birthday last year, she surprised him with a trip to Transcorp Hotel, Abuja. She loves the husband, but if he allowed her to travel to UK or Canada today, she will begin to see a world better than what she has and she will forget her love for him and wish to have something better than him.

My friend has decided that he will make sure she doesn't become a judge. He wants his daughter, who was recently called to the bar to go into the judiciary, and he will pursue for her to become a judge in place of her mother.

He has learned his lesson, but the wife doesn't know this. The wife is not a bad person. She was being a wvmån. It is a biological trait in them.

Don't wait till it happens to you before you learn.

Go to many families in Anambra and Abiriba whose children flooded overseas in the late 1990s to 2000s; I make bold to say that 70% the mothers who went for Omogwu never came back to their husband. They abandoned their younger children, the family, and their husband and stayed back.

If you genuinely love your wvmån, do not upgrade her to a better life that she has never been accustomed to, you will regret it bitterIy. Build your wvmån but keep her below you.

Seun, RoyalRoy

FamilyRe: Mother Flogs Daughter Who Disappeared For 2 weeks During The Xmas Holiday (Video by BMathew: 4:29pm On Jan 09, 2023
grin
CrimeRe: Bolanle Raheem: NBA Demands ₦‎5 Billion For Slain Lawyer’s Family by BMathew: 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2022
Jennyclay:
It should be increased to ₦10 Billion

These policemen are animals on black uniform. Nonsense!
Don't generalize it, may we not fall victim of unforseen circumstances. Be kind with your use of words and stay positive.
Peace!
ProgrammingRe: I Will Mentor/ Teach Coding For Free by BMathew: 4:36pm On Dec 26, 2022
Sphade:
Hello, every body reading this
Just woke up today and decided that I wanted to teach someone how to program for free
If u are an absolute beginner and don't have a clear direction in your programming journey, I am here to help
I am a software developer fluent in a JAVASCRIPT and it major frameworks and libraries
I wanna help people get to where they want to be faster than going alone
It took me a lot of time to get to this stage and the process would have been 2x faster if I had someone to guide and direct me, so I have decided to guide and direct people so they can get there faster
If you're asking why am doing it for free, well it because I believe education should be free and accessable to all and when it comes to computer programming, there are already a lot of free and great resources online and as I also got my knowledge of computer programming from this free resources, am willing to give it for free
Just drop your number in the comments section
(Whatsapp)
But if you don't want a mentor but free resources
I have a lot of video(HD) of paid udemy course in python, PHP, react, Vue,html5,css3, JavaScript,adobexd, node and a lot more,
Just request for it in the comment section and I will give it for free
Nb:this videos are really huge like a lot of gb cause they are in hd so u gotta have a lot of data to download them

Thank you
Interested my digits: +234+8+1+6+2+8+7+3+9+0+4
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please Help Me With A Job! I'm Depressed by BMathew: 3:10pm On Dec 26, 2022
Affliatechris01:
We are in Digital age
Get a digital skill: freelancing, copywriting, content creation, running ads etc

I can guide the first 10people to reach out to me on whatsapp

+2+3+4+8+0+3+4+1+9+9+2+1+0
Interested, I sent you a dm on WhatsApp.
Technology MarketRe: Shikini Money: Smart Tvs✔️ & Soundbars ✔️ by BMathew: 10:28am On Dec 19, 2022
ALABACONNECT:
32" Samsung FullHD Tizen os smart TV with full smart option(Bluetooth inclusive x free Netflix login)

Model: J Series

Features:
. Tizen OS
. FullHD Smart tv
. Image enhancer
. Dolby digital plus
. 4 picture mode
. Over 3 sound mode
. Bluetooth
. Wifi direct
. Wifi connectivity
. Screen mirroring
. Full web browser
. Samsung smarthub/app store
. 3 HDMI/2 USB
. Optical/Auxiliary/AV ports
. LAN/SCART
. Free Netflix login
. Neat and durable
. UK used

Price: ₦80,000

Contact Alabaconnect on 07060542661 for details.

Or

Visit our showroom � at;
Shop 15 bonick plaza by Umuezinne Street, off St Peters Church, Alaba International Market, Ojo, Lagos state.

We deliver to anywhere in Nigeria (Terms and conditions applies)
#70k, can you waybill to lokoja?
FamilyRe: What A Donkey, Tiger, And Lion Can Teach Us About Letting Things Go by BMathew: 2:25pm On Dec 09, 2022
Fantastic....
Hope nobody link this with trending Nigeria politics.... Peace out wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by BMathew: 7:58pm On Nov 27, 2022
Jackanda1:
Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.

While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.

Examples:
1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.

2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning.
I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept. embarassed

These are just few examples i can type now, there is more.

I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?

nlfpmod, seun
To simply put, it's it's now your addiction and this is caused by the constant use of it, its thereby comes your way of life.
Now that you recognize yourself, admit it's an addiction then fight like a plague before it stand against you. Cus lie will always be lie, it won't have much impact on you positively but rather discredit.
If you're an extrovert, restrict the rate at which you talk, avoid the urge to explain too much and always admit and be sorry for your errors.
Wish you well, bruh
PoliticsRe: Abba Kyari: Cocaine Trafficker Narrates How He Bribed Nigerian Airport Officials by BMathew: 8:00am On Oct 21, 2022
National super cop on this one again...
PropertiesRe: Construction Of A 3bedroom Bungalow With Bq In Oron Akwa Ibom by BMathew: 7:42pm On Oct 08, 2022
Great work, following up steadily
PropertiesRe: Journey To Building My Two Bedroom Apartment by BMathew: 7:29pm On Oct 08, 2022
Following cool
FamilyRe: Does Property Sharing Hold Waters In Cases Of Divorce In Nigerian Marriages? by BMathew: 3:33pm On Oct 05, 2022
Ff
FoodRe: Five Benefits Of Eating Kpomo by BMathew: 11:51am On Sep 22, 2022
>:
HealthRe: Nasarawa Native Doctor Walks Out Of Casket At His Burial (Photo) by BMathew: 1:47pm On Sep 17, 2022
huh
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 5 Advantages Of Working From Home by BMathew: 12:45pm On Aug 24, 2022
It is well
FamilyRe: . by BMathew: 8:58am On Aug 24, 2022
tongue
FamilyRe: Top 5 Male Artistes Of The Past 5 Years In Nigeria by BMathew: 2:05pm On Aug 19, 2022
Kudos...
FamilyRe: How To Get Pregnant With Twins, Triplets, Quadruplets Etc by BMathew: 3:04pm On Aug 15, 2022
Thumbs up

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 12 pages)