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Alpha male should be in wild jubilation now

Athemisia:
Where is this "God hate divorce" found in the Bible??!
So many people these days just quote anything and tag it to the Bible... Smh

If you can't take it anymore, brother and sister Walk out of it... Marriage is not a do or die affair
Most a times, the abusive partner will learn to value you more in your absence...

Malachi 2:16

God hates divorce but does not hate divorcees!
When violence and physical abuse are involved, leave the marriage.
Know this and know Peace.

God hates divorce but God does not hate divorcees!
When violence and physical abuse are involved, leave the marriage.
Know this and know Peace.

Any student whose parents could afford a private university education in Nigeria is in the elite class. His poise and command of English is not a function of the private university, rather his exposure to myriad of things around him. The quality of TV. Programmes, the vacation, the movies, the internet etc constitute his knowledge base.
It's likely he attended special primary and secondary schools. All these helped groom him for the intelligence and confidence he exuded.
However, having been exposed to these environments does not necessarily mean he is better than a child who attends a public university; Or that private university is better.
How many public university graduates have you interviewed? Your conclusion is subjective.

chukel:
what you do not know, you do not know. How did you even arrive at "one of the best brains". Una go just open mouth waaaa. Well that's your opinion. Your opinion isn't fact. Ask people who schooled with her.

Ask people or you?

chukel:
I never said she is a dunce. You stated she is one of the best which I'm disputing as a big lie. She was and is not near the best. She has always been a selfish, ruthless and greedy politician right from her SRC and VP SUG days.

That she is selfish, ruthless and greedy does not proof she is not one of the best brains around. Besides that's your opinion.

chukel:
one of the best what? If only you knew Betta from medical school, you won't type this trash. Very desperate person who can do anything to get what she wants.

where you her set in medical school?
Could you tell any incident that support your insinuations?
It's not just enough to put others down because you may not like them.
Anyone who passes through the medical school as a physician can't be adjudge to be a dunce.

Raxxye:
If "beauty" were the only requirement, she would have had nothing to worry about. But unfortunately, that could not help here.

She is a medical doctor and one of the best brains in medical/political sphere. What other requirements are you talking about?

How would he communicate this to his religious brothers up north?

If your adopted son becomes a governor and your biological son becomes a thief, which would you find fulfilment in?
The answer will show how selfish and wicked you are.

bazallah:
zakirai it's my town presently i'm on it

I hope you have a great experience serving there.
I did enjoy my stay.
It's in the mindset.

Your wife is both sick and paranoid.
She needs psychiatrist.

This is one of the few Christian communities who are the aborigines of the state about to be wiped out!
Sad!

Just to create a free Friday for Muslims.

Audio probe.
Keep deceiving the gullible.

I served in Kano state, Gabasawa local government in 2006 to be precise. The village was zakirai. At the time karaye camp was about being completed and it was one of the most beautiful camps in Nigeria. I understand story but if you look beyond your frustration, it will help your mental health.
The cost leaving in the village was cheap.
Go to sabon gari to unwind during weekends
Watch Spanish league with the locals in their viewing center.
Get a female coper and catch your fun
Avoid talking to any yarinya because u could be killed.

Op let me give you a picture How government employs. I speak as an authority I hope it will guide you.
We have the junior staff that's level 1 to level 6
The senior staff level 7 to 17
The permanent secretary which is consolidated.
Anybody without ND, hnd, bsc etc is employed as a junior staff.
Bsc /hnd employed as senior staff at level 8 step 2. However, bsc in geology will be taken at level 9
B. Engineering with coren certification is taken at 9. Same for accounting with ican.
Masters degree holders are taken at 9, lawyers 10, pharmacists 10, medical officers 12 at entry point.
The federal service commission is saddled with the responsibility of employing all senior staff while different ministries /mdas, with the approval of the commission can employ junior staff.
If you join the service as a junior staff with your ssce even when you possess a higher qualification, may u enter as a clerical officer; you can't bring in the higher certificate again during the course of your work. But you can work for 2 years, get your appointment confirmed, apply for study leave with pay, get approval and go for another ND and then hnd. When you are done, you will be converted from say clerical officer level 4 to admin or information officer, depending on your area of discipline, level 8.
You can then climb to 17 as the zenith.

Frelex:
but pls do u think that with time, i can submit my HND result?

Op can join with ssce but cannot use his nce or hnd for this particular job again.
However, there is room for improvement as a government worker who wants to further his education. The procedure is:
Work until you're confirm
wait the prescribed number of years, depending on your cadre, that's were you employed as a clerical officer etc.
Apply for study leave with pay,get the approval and go for a program of your choice
After your programme, slot in the results and you will be converted to a cadre that suits your qualification.
Good luck.

alizma:
You can even submit it the next day you get the job. They usually do in-house replacement and if you are the good boy of the bosses, you will be perfectly fit in the moment such opportunity comes in. I hail your understanding, maturity and humilpity.

This information is not correct.
Op can join with ssce but cannot use his nce or hnd for this particular job again.
However, there is room for improvement as a government worker who wants to further his education. The procedure is:
Work until you're confirm
wait the prescribed number of years, depending on your cadre, that's were you employed as a clerical officer etc.
Apply for study leave with pay,get the approval and go for a program of your choice
After your programme, slot in the results and you will be converted to a cadre that suits your qualification.
Good luck.

TinkTwice:
Im considering a general hospital, if some other natural tips I'd get from here won't work.
Thanks

Go and see a dermatologist and stop wasting your time and resources on what drugs that experts didn't prescribe.
Go to a teaching Hospital if you really mean to get help.

And the civil servant does not have a name.
Keep deceiving yourself.

So the senior officers that are forcefully retired because of these present service chiefs were not tested in battle.
Only officers from the north who are Muslims merited it. Continue.

This is your side of the story and I know there is another side to this story.
I've been married for a decade and I will be blunt about my take on your side of this story.
1. You should let your partner know your salary. She can't force it out of your account. Knowing how much you earned will guide or restrain her from making unreasonable demand.
2. You only prepared for wedding that would be the talk of the town, you were not ready for marriage. Alas! This has exposed your level of readiness.
3. You have fed your mind with junk of inputs from people on nairaland, who painted the image of a man who does as he pleases against the wife. Be ready to marry again and again. You're not ready to have a successful marriage.
You enjoy your red pill marriage.

You failed to state whether the officers appointed were the most senior in their respective career.

rhektor:
You can do that and then create a thread for it here on nairaland

Then it's safe to say the purpose of making this post to portray buhari as being fair in his appointments is defeated.
We have seen through the charade of a post and we ain't fools.

Sagtop:
No, we need to let those children understands how our democracy faired. U can also create a thread on that.

Can we also have that of the custom, immigration, police, Dss, NIA etc.
Also, were the appointed officers in the past, the most senior officers?

The real reason Elrufai is laying off workers is because 60% of it is made up of educated southern kaduna aborigines.
This man is evil.

If you have passion for medicine, why not go for it. If you were to work in Nigeria, a medical doctor is placed above every other area of discipline. Let me break it down. A medical doctor entry point to service is level 12, while an engineer without Coren is level 8. Pharmacist is placed at entry point of 10.
A medical doctor at entry level 12 earns better than a deputy director at level 16.
A pharmacist earn better than an engineer.
Abroad, a medical doctor stands a better chance of gaining entry into western countries and you can google the pay.
A physician after mbbs is addressed as a Dr. while you have to study your as as engineer upto PhD. before you are called a doctor.
Medicine is not graded, I. e it doesn't have class of degree like 1st, 2nd upper or lower etc. once you graduate you're a doctor while you may hit a lower class in engineering if you did not show enough commitment.
My 2 cent.

You can go to work from your parents house while saving some money. By this you only spend on transportation. If you have your salary increased at the course of your work, then you can move out. 40k is grossly inadequate for you to live alone.
Also,
If you must leave, then come to agreement with your parents to augment your salary with some money. I wish you good luck.

One of the most unreasonable set of people is frsc officials.
In 2017, my director, a level 17 officer and I were heading to the office when we encountered frsc officials who were operating a mobile court. Now the director is one whose car documents are always complete and up to date. So we had no reason to worry meeting them.
Two cars in front of us were flagged down and we had to wait on the cue. Two officers went attending to those cars and we were about to move when an officer from no where jumped to the front of our car and asked that we parked.
My director obeyed and the officer came straight to the passenger's side where I sat and commanded that I move behind.
I asked the reason and he said he is charging us for obstruction of way.
I told him to sit behind if I must join us but he insisted and tried to use force since I refused to stand up.
My director came down from the car and was trying to locate the leader to the team to sort things out, when the officer blocked him and demanded for car keys. This is an elderly man whose rank is equivalent to no1 corpe Marshall. The boy went physical, trying to forcefully collect car keys from this man. I stepped in and took the car keys. While they come at me, the director started recording the incident with his phone.
These officers realising they were being recorded, descended on the old man, wrestling the phone from the man's hand.
They later called in SARS who picked us up and charge us for instigating a mob action against officers.
They later release the director on self recognition and impounded the car.
We sue frsc and when the most senior officer learned that they couldn't erased the video recording, showing their assault on us, he came begging through our lawyer.
It was shocking that our lawyer was the one telling us to resolve issues amicably, how the case could drag for longer than necessary, how the officer could lose his job etc.
At the end of two months, They released the car with an apology through and without taking a dime.

JeAgro477:
yes but it should be done at the early stage of the plantain when the leaves of the plantain are not broad

Squirrel is eating up my water melon plants, please what should I do?