Slytiger:
The average Nigerian is corrupt and criminally minded. These ones will blame the FG too. Ordinary transcript to collect na war in most public universities in Nigeria because of these same corrupt civil servants.

Philipponzaghi:
Tinubu sets the bar for effective leadership, unlike PDP's history of looting and incompetence.

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

.Thank you.

Jewessgratitud3:
This thing should be
Rice 700
Fish 1300

Total waste of money. That money can Cook you rice at home and you'll eat to your satisfaction.

Half derica and one milk cup rice 600
Sachet tomato 150
Pepper 200
Fish 600
Vegetable oil 300
Seasoning 100
Onions 50

You'll get times 4 of this .

Fiscus105:



The man is enlightened? Even though he has conducted valid marriage for her daughter, yet he went ahead to do the second marriage in the church, meanwhile,having reached thr, he still wants to dictate for church what to do.

That ur man, if he goes to hospital or school, he would be the one to tell them what to do.

If he knows he is the one to do Marriage for her daughter and not church why going to church for same marriage he has done?

You people will never think rationally for once.

Go and learn different between Marriage and wedding. I give u as assignment.

Wen u know it u will know who is doing wedding and marriage for daughter

TenQ:

You are beyond redemption sir!

If you cannot explicitly answer my simple questions, please you may not be intellectually matured for further engagement.

Why should a couple have a second wedding if their first wedding is agreed to be valid?

Please if you can't answer this, I then don't bother.. just ignore it


Is there a law which says traditional wedding is the only valid wedding?

Fiscus105:
That father is a foolish plus stark illiterate.

Why taking daughter to church since you don't ready to abide by simple rule of govt (not even church).

It's govt that can declare two persons married, not even church, and at that particular time, govt has ceded such power to church.


Even if not, why did he want to ruin the day of his joy because of irrelevant issue.

JimmySwaggart:
Where are those doubters that doubt the existence of juju. To them every unnatural occurrence is a coincidence or even say it's scripted. I really pity them.

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

GanagiBitrus:

I'm usually not impressed by these comparisons of different Countries' Minimum Wages, Prices of Fuel etc.
What matters is the Purchasing Power & Standard of Living.

A man in Ibadan that earns 100k is essentially richer than his counterpart in Lagos or Abuja that earns same 100k.

Kukutente23:

First of all, I must congratulate you and your likes for the barefaced hypocrisy of "pitying" Tinubu and other policy makers. Instead of contrition and penance from your likes, what we get is a doubling down on beating the drum of support for misgovernance even when you can see the fruits of your earlier misadventure right before you.

Pre-2019, it was clear to the unselfish and the true patriots that Buhari had no business anymore with governance. I daresay, even to you and your fellow journeymen. But your endgame wouldn't let you see what was before you then.

The biggest damage done to our national economy occurred between 2019-2023 and who were those who ensured Buhari presided over the affairs of state in that period? You sir. Operation next level sent the country to the dungeon. It wouldn't have been possible if bullion vans had not nestled in a mansion in Ikoyi at the eve of that election.

So, the reason we can't return to subsidy regime is not because CBN borrowed. CBN borrowing is not a new thing. It is the reckless borrowing that's a dangerous thing. Goldman Sachs and JPMORGAN are both bankers to our CBN and a good portion of our reserves is banked with them. So your latter day alarmist stand is total nonsense. What you should be more concerned about is what this present govt will do to rejuvenate the economy because accept it or not, removing subsidy or devaluing naira will not shore up our reserves. Our reserves will continue to plummet as long as our economy is not producing any thing other than oil.

After the joyful announcement of 1trn savings in July, the reserves still tanked by a good number of millions of dollars. Not only that, CBN had resorted to defending the naira; same policy you just claimed was wrong under Buhari. No national govt leaves his currency to be beaten and battered by "market forces". It is the job of CBN to defend the naira. How it does it and to what end is the real point to look out for.

Finally, any time you feel the need to flog the past administration of Buhari, always remember to keep the thickest part of the horsewhip for yourself and your fellow hypocrites.

Thank you

BoldBrainz:


Glad you finally admit that Buhari was indeed a mess. Funny how the same you and your ilks who voted and defended the Daura cattle rearer, are at it again with this thieving Iragbiji charlatan.

WildChild00:



If it's there snap it, and attack it like a picture, this is just another propaganda

WildChild00:



Lol

But on the link, there is no where it is written, that is why I said it's propaganda

WildChild00:



It's their usual propaganda, he is now directing us to CBN website

worksmart:
Why would Buhari or Emefiele take a secret loan?

What reputable bank would agree to keeping their loan secret.

This is Bola the virus's latest looting strategy!

This is why he has the CBN governor imprisoned so that he could cook the accounts and claim that there was a secret loan.

Bola na real virus!

WildChild00:



Put the link here not me going to help you look for the link on CBN website

BOSSkesh:
Hmmm are you sure

WildChild00:
No link? Propaganda

Nonny95:
Uyo, Akwa Ibom right now.

Protest started from the state secretariat, will move around the metropolis, and end up at the Government House, Barracks Road.

Afamed:
Bitter truth.

The children of confusion and bitterness will soon come here to attack the messenger instead of focusing on the message.

They are here already.

See them above. Bitter children of hate. The moment you present them with facts and figures, you become their public enemies

No wonder,Okonjo Iwela said most of them were not employable years ago

Typical lazy youth.

Afamed:
Bitter truth.

The children of confusion and bitterness will soon come here to attack the messenger instead of focusing on the message.

They are here already.

See them above. Bitter children of hate. The moment you present them with facts and figures, you become their public enemies
Does he also know Ghanaians enjoy constant power supply? Hence less demand on pms? The man is dumb.

No wonder,Okonjo Iwela said most of them were not employable years ago

Typical lazy youth.