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Money2000:
Hello NLers... Sometimes ago, I was in dilemma to leave my loyal and faithful girlfriend...
Guess what? I finally caught her cheating. She was double dating for 3 months (dating myself and one other guy).

I have dated this babe for 4 years, until I caught her cheating. I was so angry that I ended the relationship.
I am in a new relationship anyway, but I can’t seem to find the friendship I had with my ex.

I sometimes feel I go extra miles to impress this new girl (not like she bills me, but I caught her one time receiving money gift from a guy, whom she claims that they are just friends, and that she would stop talking to him) although she appreciates every little thing I do. She has also been supportive.

My ex apologized and beg me to reconcile things with her, but I thought I love this new babe more than her... so I told her to move on. After like 2 months, she has finally moved on oh.

The problem now is that, I am beginning to miss my ex so much, the friendship we had, the mind blowing s*x and some other experience we had together, how we have helped each other grow in life financially (my ex was with me when I was broke and had nothing) P.S: my new gf is kind of boring in bed, her pre-intimacy game and s*x is nothing compared to my ex (I prefer my ex)...

These days, any small thing, I am dreaming of my ex, seeing her in my dream, which makes me very happy... but when I wake up to reality, I become sad because it’s just a dream.

I have taken this my new gf to family, and I’ve also met her family too...

Now, I am in a dilemma if to go beg my ex for reconciliation because I miss her so much... I think I have actually not moved on...

I need your advice pls

UDOKABESTLUV:
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ebukajay184:
A corps member serving in Akwa Ibom has been arrested for allegedly hacking a young man to death with a machete, IgbereTV reports.

Facebook user, Godwin George, who narrated the said event on his page, said he saw a large crowd attacking a lady on Sunday morning, January 10, around 9.30am at Abak road while she was being stripped naked.

According to Mr.George, he was told that the lady identified as Odume Princess Paschaline, was apprehended with bloodstains all over her while trying to jump out from a fence at the house where she had gone to hookup with the victim.

Following an interrogation over the bloodstains, the University Of Nigeria Nsukka graduate was reportedly beaten to a pulp after they discovered the crime she allegedly committed before she was taken to the Police Headquarters in Akwa Ibom.

The Facebook user also gathered that the lady allegedly used a matchet to attack the young man, killing him instantly after several cuts on his stomach and face.

See his post below.


https://www.facebook.com/100000517435184/posts/4312328765460995/?app=fbl

Princewill1:
The high successes recorded by dubious politicians, fraudulent pastors and ponzi scheme operators in Nigeria are living proofs that Nigerians can be so gullible. We can easily be deceived. The astronomical hype on Canada is the latest deceit in town. Here are things you need to know before immigrating.

1. The list of richest Nigerians is filled with Nigerians living at home. You're more likely to make it into Forbes if you live in Nigeria. At least that's what the stat shows, whether people making into Forbes in Nigeria are engaging in corrupt practices is a story for another day. The odds of becoming a dollar billionaire favours those at home . No Diaspora Nigerian has ever made it into Forbes billionaire list.

2. There are more money to be made in a developing economy than in a developed economy. That's why as you're rushing out of the country, Lebanese, Indians and Chinese are rushing in. Only few will understand. You're sitting on the biggest market in Africa yet you haven't realize this but the Lebanese and the Indians knew this.

3. If you are the type who don't fancy working for others, it's much more easier to own a business in Nigeria than in Canada/US. Western countries were set up for the 99% populace to work for 1% elites. Their education systems were designed to produce workforce for the rat race. Not to create employers of labour.

4. It's stupidity to resign from a high-paying job in Nigeria in a bid to relocate to Canada/US. Your eyes will get clear up when you start facing the hard realities in Canada. Those who had made this mistake in the past are ashamed to come on social media to talk about it. The ones talking on Twitter are 'freshers' who just arrived.

5. If you want to secure 2nd passport for your kids, you don't necessarily need to immigrate to achieve this. There are other ways, one method is overseas child birth.

6. You're 5x more likely to be shot and rubbed in New York than in Lagos. Poor neighborhoods all over the world has more crime rates. The thing is, when you finally made it in Nigeria,you can move to high brow areas with lesser crime.

7. Nigerians are spending up to 8millions ($21k) and above to immigrate to Canada/US whereas an average canadian or American citizen can't boast of $10k in their bank A/C's. They live pay check to pay check.

8. Some Nigerians claims that they ain't relocating because of the money but because of good infrastructure, good health care system, value for their money etc. That's a lie! 98% of Nigerians who're eager to travel out are relocating because of economic reasons. There are good infrastructure, good health care system and value for money in countries like Kuwait, Russia, Brazil, South Korea, Chile etc but Nigerians ain't trooping there, indicating that their preference for Canada/US is purely based on economic reasons.

9. It's cheaper to live in Nigeria. Canada/US promises higher minimum wage but the system will still take it away from you. It's like giving you with one hand and taking from you with another. $2k (N760k) will pay for your one year rent of 2 bedrooms apartment in a good location in Nigeria but same amount will only fetch you one month rent of a match box apartment in Canada/US.

10. This is not to stop you from traveling out but to inform you on the true realities. Economic immigration should be left for lower or working class who're struggling or to young lads who wants to school abroad and thereafter further their career overseas. Not to deceive Nigerians already earning good in corporate offices in Nigeria to resign and relocate where they will be employed as security guards or to deceive business owners who's businesses are thriving in Nigeria to close down business and relocate. Don't let them deceive you with the hype. Money don't grow on trees anywhere in the world.

Kriss216:
The year just started, but, I nominate this post as the Most Foolish post of the year!



Trying to compare staying in Canada and staying in Nigeria should be treated as a Criminal offence.

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

Dreyton36:
Believe it or not

Buhari is a confused human being
But here's the problem , no one from either PDP or APC can change Nigeria , they're all the same bruh

We need someone who weeds , smokes marijuana and sees things from a different view

Take a look at people like barrack Obama , he smokes
Justin Trudeau weeds 24/7
Same with Russian's head

Avoid pills and weed up cuz a normal human being can't rule Nigeria , you have to be a confirm junkie to rule Nigeria

Legalize weed
Let every Friday be a general party in naija with free weed all bills on the govt
Bag of rice 2k
Reduce fuel price to 50N per litre
24hr power supply
Pay every Nigerian monthly as citizens
Graduates 50k
Non graduates 25k monthly
Minimum wage 100k
Free WiFi everywhere
Legalize guns , I love a silent pistol pls


By that time even boko Haram go repent cuz na we fellow citizens go they fvck them up , iyalaya herdsmen


Everybody go they jolly after weeding you go chop food well then sleep under fan with enough light , once u wake u bomb client with free WiFi then go fvck olosho
Chai life go sweet , almajiri sef no go they again


Lights up my kpoli in peace

SamuelOamen:
https://thenationonlineng.net/well-end-insurgency-war-this-year-buhari/

RapistOnBail:


I just wanna cum on her face so badly

tiswell:
nothing is shameless in the harmless question he asked.







Learn to mind your biz

vickydankal:
1. Height
2. Dressing
3. Lips to know maybe if he smokes
4. Face (to know if he is handsome)
5. If he has a like-able spirit
6. Which will help me know if he is approachable
7. Is he born again and responsible ( Don’t worry we have a way of knowing.
8. Unconsciously imagine if he has big walking staff ( this happens once in a while if the guy passes the above tests)

All the above could happen in split seconds.

Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...

TalkTalkTwins:
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A Nigerian photographer, MO Documentary Photographer, has taken to Twitter to share the screenshot of an email he just got from his client. In the email which was reportedly sent from an influencer, he was told to deliver a job which included; a documentary-style video and another package that included approximately 1,000 photos.

How is this a story?

[img]https://1.bp..com/-EeMR-vG-aZs/X9tmkOUHXeI/AAAAAAAAE4Y/9BU3PwNdzT0iO87LUBl9Q_X4gH5xiS9UQCLcBGAsYHQ/w640-h488/blog.jpg[/img]

The wedding which was scheduled to take place on 10th April 2021 would be done in exchange for social media exposure to the client's 55,000 followers across all social media pages.

See a copy of the image below:
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Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/MayorOfUyo/status/1339513377236930560

powerfulguy:
Previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6148490/icpc-discovers-school-feeding-n2.67bn



https://www.thecable.ng/not-in-my-ministry-sadiya-umar-farouq-dismisses-n2-67bn-school-feeding-fraud/amp

allnewsnigeria:
https://m.guardian.ng/news/buhari-seeks-stronger-collaboration-to-end-corruption/

SilverNorGold:
God bless you his excellency, Professor Yemi Osinbajo.
God bless Honourable Femi Gbajabiamila..
God bless President Mohammadu Buhari.

You keep proving haters wrong. Nothing for them to even wail on...

I have received so many mentions from them attacking my person. But like Buhari, I'll turn the other cheek. I will not even report them..

To the mods.. Please don't ban any member for my sake. I have forgiven them already - even their future insults. I have already forgiven in advance.

My only prayer is that, sooner or later, they will realize all the sacrifices made by President Buhari and his salvation crew..

God bless President Buhari.
God bless Professor Osinbajo.
God bless Nigerians.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.