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Josnac:
Are you yourself a husband material
Work on yourself first then you'll learn how to attract your desirable woman!

The reason behind this question was that I've seen a lot of threads of guys seeking for wifes on this forum & then I asked myself can a nan really find the right woman here... So this isn't about working o

I've thinking about this lately. I really want to know if one could get a complete wife material on Nairaland because it seems most of the ladies here are of questionable character. Guys please share your honest opinion on this subject.

I comment my reserve

LORDKing001:
I'm pained the way the blame the lecturers just because the odds are against them.

Have you ever seen a mallama or a deeper life member who covered her face from head to toe been accused of sex for marks

The matter tire me o

Duchessree:
But why will you play hard to get when you really like him??

Please do you girls like to play hard to get if I may ask sef??

drips8:
That bulge though

I been dey think say na only ne see am o

Noted

Beauty & the Beast

MTN wan use this one silent Nigerians

funmisticqueen:
It all started when a certain manipulative narcissist who I will not dignify with a name gained a cult following by some male drones on romanceland, leaving some females hot and bothered and some with their panties in a twist.

A certain not too bright female NLander opened a thread in response, asking for a female version of his teachings. While some ladies could not be concerned, others like missghosted (also not too bright) proceeded to make a pitiful attempt, sounding like a psychotic misandrist in the process. Her writings lacked organization, class, enriching content. her plane was set to crash from takeoff.

I won't dwell too much about the drama involving my luscious self, rehkina, amatarasha, missghosted and some male monickers recently. It's disheartening that a rabid bitch is giving ladies a bad name with her lacklustre, in THE BOX content. Anyways, i am here to give any interested lady general advice and strategy on how to make a gain a romanceland following by posting female controversial dating content. I can take on this herculean task, but my dancing card is full at the moment. Don't do this if you aren't smart or have a two digit EQ and IQ

firstly, you gotta study your rival. he didn't arrive at having so many asslickers in one day. I also know it wasn't easy for him too. You also need a basic understanding of human behavior and psychology.

secondly, you gotta plan your content, do your research and come up with a strategy. This takes time, what are your goals? what persona and writing style are you gonna adopt? Make it an interesting read.

You would also need to be highly intellectual and cerebral, cutthroat, shameless and utterly selfish by posting about controversial toxic femininity while making it classy and feminine at the same time. That's very hard to pull off especially because a lot of females are already conditioned by society to think a certain way, so goodluck on your task!!

How do you know your hard work is paying off? A lot of men will become your antagonists, all hot and bothered, they will try to shame and label you, the mods might ban you. and maybe a few testimonies will come in.

If you need help, there are words of the wise to guide you, you just need to seek answers.

May the odds ever be in your favor.

Your loving romanceland Jezebel and Maleficient,
Funmisticqueen

Make I even ask you people sef....

Abeg se una no get work ni??

Sandra8:
It's hot

Another Gibberish you meant to say

Sandra8:
Ps: please read Understanding the Heart of Men 1 and 2 before coming back to read this. Thank you



Secondary alpha men (or pseudo alpha men as I like to call them) are the worst type of men ladies can ever think of dating.
They are NOT BAD HUMAN BEINGS in themselves but when it comes to love, since romantic relationship is a game of LOVE and HEARTS, secondary alpha males have nothing actually to offer. They do not have a heart remember (at least most of them dont). They severed it a long time ago because it let them down and they thought it weak.
They only care about themselves in relationships, placing SEX in the once lofty position of LOVE. The concept of love is unreal to them but sex at least is real even without any love. They make up the bulk of the men that polute the reputation of other innocent loving men. They are misogynist whether they know it or not, for a man without a heart is nothing but a BEAST. Their sand castle ego's are easily bruised by any woman they feel they cannot surmount or tame, hence their shaming and name calling against all women (unless If you lose yourself and your dignity as a woman, will you be spared temporarily by such males)
They are the regular takers and swallowers of the most addictive drug there is in the black-market today - the RED PILL!
It makes them high, it makes them strong, it makes them powerful as long as they take it. But because they are pseudo-alpha males they forget the grander scheme of the RED PILL creators - which is to give them GAME; that is how to easily hack the female mind. And the secret of all GAME is to play it in SECRECY to catch your prey UNAWARE without revealing the GAME you are playing. But most Pseudo-alpha males do not understand this. To be a true, genuine RED PILL taker, one must be a GOOD RED PILL CONCEALER!
Most Pseudo-alpha males especially here on NAIRALAND because of their unchecked hatred for women are yet to realize this and therefore have no GAME! Ladies please take note of these guys and stay clear off them. They are heartless misogynist!!!


Primary alpha males ( or true alpha males) - are nature's true gifts to woman hood. They are endowed with all the attributes that women want, they are not misogynist as you would expect (pseudo-alpha males are!!!) because women naturally are drawn to them and love them without them doing much to nothing.
They love the attention women throw at them and they in turn reciprocate it. They have an unspoilt heart to offer to females and women naturally will throw themselves at such men in hopes to win their hearts. At adolescence alpha males and females have the same heart, whole and complete but while fear ( that is doubt, mistrust, timidity, concern etc) guards the heart's of girls, reason guards the heart of alpha males.
Alpha males know by their reasoning that FEAR in the hearts of females can be unlocked by their wit. By their demeanor and speech they have females feel the opposite of fear and feel safe, assured and truly happy. The females feeling safe, assured and happy then opens their heart at their due time as a reward to the knight who won it fair and square. But Alas the reasoning of the alpha males still prevents him from opening up his own heart to be connected with that of his lover.
He believes now since his wit (unlike beta men that use their hearts instead) can unlock the heart of a woman he has no need to unlock his own heart in return. He is contented that her heart is his and his alone. But by so doing, he loses out on feelings of actual love!
Alpha males are one of the best options for females but to actually date and keep one, a lady must have true self esteem and must play not by your rules but by his rules - it sounds like it doesn't add up right? - but it does add up and it plays right into the ladies advantage. I will explain better in a subsequent post.


Lastly beta males - the most rampant of their kind. The easiest to deal with amongst the three. They are the second most liked of male hearts. And they genuinely love females because they too have a heart like females do, Albeit not complete ( like their primary alpha male counterpart)
But caution should be exercised still with them, they seek the validation of females above all, as such they are prone to bleeding on you at anytime, if they fail to meet your validation or valuation. Other than this they make a good choice of males cause they want to love and have a heart to give (which makes them vulnerable just like you are). Just ensure you pick the emotionally mature ones amongst them, while the others learn to heal their broken hearts and mature for romantic relationships.

Stay tuned, more to come.
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Seun
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Fountainofyouth
Blackivy29
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GIBBERISH

Bless Up bro�

enshi:
I am so sorry to border the house with my relationship matters.

Recall I made a thread last night
https://www.nairaland.com/5451621/gf-called-me-stingy-guy#82820223. About my gf whom I have been 75% responsible for called me a stingy guy. For real I was pained and this is because I know how I have tried to be responsible for her. So this made me realize that she must have either met or been with a guy who did above what I have.

And you're still calling her your girl friend
Because I couldn't sleep I woke her up by 3am and asked her series of questions and behold the confession came through ..
She confessed being with a guy (corper to be) two weeks ago .. According to her they smooched sucked each other and he fingered her yet there was no sex (you can imagine) I am convinced that she has been cheating but she still insists it was the first and last. I planned engaging her in two weeks from now cos that would have been our one year together..
Before now I have told her that I may forgive her of all things but cheating...

Pls guys and babes who have forgiven a cheat before what was the experience after then .. Do I go ahead to be with her or I should stand my grounds..

Pls help me before i thread a part that I would live to regret ..

And you're still calling her your girl friend...

Guy your mumu na raise to power infinity...

Newboss:
Sorry for your loss. Don't profess love to a lady again.

What then should you profess?


Seems you're a professional in this game

kollog:
Kindly share the Mumu experience you once had with a lady, Mine was:

There is this lady I have been on her neck for a relationship, been calling and talking to her about how much I Love and cherish her but she was just doing me Shakara. Went to check someone around town, only for the lady to called me that she just saw me passed, that she go like make we see. I later hook up with her at the joint she called me from some few minutes after. She and some guys had already consumed plenty of liquor. She told me she just bought a car for her clothing business in order to make the job easy for her (she sells males cloths going from office to office). She asked what will I drink, I insisted that am not drinking. she introduced me to d guys der as her potential Boo, man was feeling like heaven, only for her to tell me later to foot the bill. In my mind I was like WTF, man was seriously broke dt period,I just scoped her that I wouldn't be leaving soon that she shouldn't worry about the bill, that she can go, I later called the guy in charge of the place to beg that I am broke. I had to drop my phone. Went to clear the bill 2days later. Las Las, d baby no gree date me.

I've never been a mumu for any girl

Hmmm

Modified

I don't give a Fvck

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Modified


What are they doing there?

Let me read then come right to comment

Modified

Some strikers suppose dey learn from that Ceni of a guy

MONEY MUST BE MADE LEGAL OR ILLEGAL

Fear North

You schooled in Benin doesn't mean you schooled abroad na

RIPP Chimpanzee

Nice info