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Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do So Many Nigerians Have Such Deep Hatred And Rage Toward Akatas? by bobthebuilder99(m): 10:54pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
dasparrow: You sound like you have a personal problem with some specific akatas. Take your anger out on whoever those individuals are, and stop spreading lies about people you have never met. Honestly, I think you are lying, or you just don't know how to make friends. What makes me think this, is that some of the things you have posted are just complete lies, or your own fantasy. For example, black Americans supported Obama for his entire candidacy. You can look his primary election results and see the akata turnout. That was a bad lie. Anyway, the Akatas deep support for Obama is actually proof that they are NOT discriminatory towards Africans. I lived in New York, also in a black neighborhood, and there are soooo many people from all over the world there. Nobody cares if you are not American in New York. Walk down any street and you will find people speaking different languages, and people from all over the world. I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. I have noticed something while traveling. Some immigrants travel to foreign countries and try to avoid interacting with their hosts. They stay in their own groups and never talk to anyone else. Like the Chinese in Lagos that never learn a Nigerian language because they only interact with other Chinese. Were you like this? It is easy to think everyone dislikes you when you don't talk to them. This brings me back to what I have noticed in Naija. Akatas that are very nice are treated badly for no reason at all. I think there is some deep hatred and jealousy we have for other blacks that is unhealthy. Even when we see black British people, that might be descended from Jamaicans, we think they are Nigerians that are faking their accent. Then we treat them badly, because we "feel" that they are looking down on us by pretending to be British. The akatas I have met have been very happy to interact with Nigerians, only to be treated badly for no reason. I have never seen this happen in the US. The only people that tell stories of being disliked are usually people who spend their time trying to prove that they are 'better' than akatas. That is wrong. Nobody likes insecure people. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Asiana Airlines Crashes At San Francisco Airport, USA... by bobthebuilder99(m): 10:28pm On Jul 06, 2013 |
hurricaneChris: Me think say plane no de crash for obodo oyibo? Why would it be the US's fault if a foreign plane, operated by a foreign country, crashed while trying to land in their airport? 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do So Many Nigerians Have Such Deep Hatred And Rage Toward Akatas? by bobthebuilder99(m): 2:31am On Jul 06, 2013 |
tpia@: The akatas I know that vacationed in Africa get treated so bad. I was in a hotel in Calabar, and the workers were rushing to help all the non-black guests. Of course, they treated the African guests a little worse (we all have experienced this ). HOWEVER! If you opened your mouth and had an American accent, the people in the hotel would get nasty! Stories have been told to me about Nigerians cheating Akatas in business deals, just out of hatred for them. I have been in rooms, where everyone will smile in the akatas face while they are present, but as soon as they walk outside the door everyone starts yabbing them. If they think they can get away with it, some will even switch to Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, etc and yab them while they are still in the room. It just seems unnecessary, and I honestly don't understand it. Especially since we don't treat white, asian, and arab Americans like that. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Why Do So Many Nigerians Have Such Deep Hatred And Rage Toward Akatas? by bobthebuilder99(m): 2:25am On Jul 06, 2013 |
dasparrow: I lived in the US for some years. I didn't experience any of the things you mentioned, which is why it is so shocking to see the hate directed at akatas in Naija. There are a lot of akatas in Nigeria. I know a few personally. In my professional experience, akatas that work for American multinationals try to transfer to an African division of their company if the opportunity presents itself. Most of the akatas I know work with GE, building hospitals right here in Naija. I am going to visit two friends from the US this weekend. They are married, with a small child, and just moved to Abuja. Their company sent them here to identify investment opportunities. The people I know are very educated and had an unrealistic view of Africa before they came, but not in a negative way. They all thought Africans would welcome them like long lost family. They didn't expect how different it would be to be the majority race. We don't really care about being black in Naija, but being black plays a large role in daily life in America. They think once they come to Africa, they will finally be accepted, only to find out that everyone still views them as foreigners. WE know that they have more in common with oyibo Americans than they will ever have with us, but they expect to relate with us just based on skin color. I lived in Ghana for a while too, and always felt sad at how emotional akatas were when they saw the slave castles. Fully adult men would be crying, and women would be on the floor wailing like someone stabbed them. If you have ever been to the Holocaust Museum in Washington, DC, and seen all the Jewish people crying, you will understand. Unfortunately, everyone in America thinks Africa is poor. Which is sad, but is not based out of hatred. Americans think every country is poor. In college, all the immigrants (from China, Latin America, Eastern Europe, etc) would get asked dumb questions. Chinese kids had the hardest time from what I saw. Americans think Asians are smart and hardworking, but they also think that Chinese people don't have normal human emotions. They get treated badly and get made fun of a lot, especially if they wear glasses. Americans think most people in China are slaves with no rights and that their parents were all peasant farmers. I remember riding in a cab with an American, a Chinese, and a Finn. The American was "explaining" that Chinese and Finnish education is inferior to American education, and that because of their superior education, Americans would always be smarter. There was a big fight in that car! Anyway, our experiences have been different, so I can't say who is right or wrong. I do think that we should work on understanding our foreign cousins better though. I don't think they mean any harm when they ask if we live in trees. Africa is portrayed as poor in the American press, and let's be honest, in comparison to the richest country, we ARE poor. Turn on the TV, or go outside, and all the ads in the US have starving African children in them. I used to hate those commercials! We should do what Ghana does, and encourage akatas to come back to Nigeria and invest. Many of them don't know how much opportunity is here. It's better for Nigerians if akatas are getting rich in Africa, instead of oyibo colonizers and the Chinese. The akatas will never betray us. Let's all try to be friendly towards eachother! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Can A Non-national Join Nigerian Army? by bobthebuilder99(m): 6:42pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
Are you THAT hungry? 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Michelle Obama In Adire Attire By Maki Oh by bobthebuilder99(m): 5:53pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
Tafee: who is mechelle obama i guess commissioner agric ogun state Why so hateful? |
Fashion / Re: Michelle Obama In Adire Attire By Maki Oh by bobthebuilder99(m): 4:52pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
Orikinla: Is this a big deal? Wow, you have a lot of hatred for our black cousins. You must be Igbo. |
Nairaland / General / Why Do So Many Nigerians Have Such Deep Hatred And Rage Toward Akatas? by bobthebuilder99(m): 4:41pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
I have noticed this in Lagos. I am not a tribalist, so I don't understand. Can someone explain? |
Politics / Re: Fashola Commissions Carter Bridge Lighting Project. PICS by bobthebuilder99(m): 4:19am On Jul 02, 2013 |
Making history as the first bridge in the country to have public lighting powered by an independent power project If commissioning streetlights is not important, why is this the first one in the country? |
Politics / Re: Obama Africa Visit: Ignoring Nigeria Is America's Loss. by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:37am On Jul 02, 2013 |
[size=20pt]OBAMA CANNOT COME TO NIGERIA BECAUSE OF BOKO HARAM! [/size] Why is this so hard to understand? |
Politics / Re: Obama Africa Visit: Ignoring Nigeria Is America's Loss. by bobthebuilder99(m): 11:37pm On Jul 01, 2013 |
Obama isn't ignoring Nigeria. The amount of protection that would need to be put in place before his arrival would take JTF away from their very important job of routing the Boko boys. It wouldn't make sense. |
Politics / Re: Is PDP Practicing Divide And Rule Politics? by bobthebuilder99(m): 11:30pm On Jul 01, 2013 |
Politics / Re: Amaechi And Tinubu Celebrating Fashola's Birthday by bobthebuilder99(m): 2:49pm On Jul 01, 2013 |
[size=18pt]Maybe....he is a Manchester United fan.[/size] It's his birthday, he can have whatever kind of cake he wants. Now if the British attacked one of their Governors for having the Nigerian team on his cake, you will be the first one to call them racist. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 50 Boko-Haram Suspects Killed & Three Captured In Borno by bobthebuilder99(m): 8:43am On Jul 01, 2013 |
frankyychiji: my queen you are right. But its still too early in d day to do that. Personally I will need decades to heal. Keep spreading hatred and you'll end up in another civil war. |
Politics / Re: Obama Pledges $7bn For Electricity In Nigeria, Others by bobthebuilder99(m): 8:33am On Jul 01, 2013 |
These are facilitated private sector investments, it is not a handout. The Export-Import Bank and OPIC finance international deals with American companies. When Fashola purchased fire engines in Lagos State recently, the Export-Import Bank financed the deal between the American manufacturer and the LASG. The LASG has to repay the loan of course, but at very low interest. It is a win-win for Africa and America. |
Politics / Re: Is Tinubu's Daugther Qualified To Be The Iyaloja Of Lagos? by bobthebuilder99(m): 7:07am On Jul 01, 2013 |
frankyychiji: . Parasite mentality?? Are u refering to the most industrious and enterprising race (superior race) on earth. LMAO!!!!!! Igbos must be determined to make other tribes dislike them. |
Politics / Is PDP Practicing Divide And Rule Politics? by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:46pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
I have noticed our friends from the South East becoming very xenophobic recently. I noticed this started when a Christian leader in Igboland stated that 90% of those affected by Boko Haram bombings are Igbos. Looking at the rise of the Civilian JTF in the north got me thinking. Then the horror stories we started hearing from Northerners about how much they have suffered under Boko Haram confirmed my suspicions. GEJ was simply practicing divide and rule politics. All the FG had to do was make a historically victimized group (the Igbos) think that Boko Haram was mainly focusing on them. After that, PDP had their minds (and their votes) in their hands. The Igbos banded together with another historically victimized group (the Niger Delta people) in solidarity because of their shared Christian identity, cultural ties, and because GEJ ( the supposed defender of the Igbos against Northern aggression) was a Niger Deltan himself. PDP is smart for whipping up religious hatred among the SS and South East people. They are the only region that is 98% Christian, so it is easy to control them that way. How many people living in the South East will come across a Northerner that could tell them the real story? Development is the only thing we should care about when it comes to politics. When politicians use "wedge issues" to distract us from that basic fact, we should all be on alert. And to those who have become convinced that APC is racist towards certain groups, ask your brothers in the Southwest how APC has been treating them. We all know ACN treats Igbos, Christians, and Niger Deltans just as well as other citizens. We also now know that it was indigenous NORTHERNERS who suffered the most under Boko Haram. Indigenous Christians AND Muslims. Note to mods - I do not think this needs to be placed in the ethnic section, as it is more about party and region than tribe. Datz all! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: BREAKING NEWS ****** APC Registration Knocked By Religious Fever. by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:26pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
Igbos are getting too hateful and racist. All your politicians had to do was make you think Boko Haram was mainly focusing on Igbos. After that, PDP had your minds (and your votes) in their hands. PDP is smart for whipping up religious hatred among the SS and South East people. They are the only region that is 98% Christian, so it is easy to control them that way. Development is the only thing you should care about when it comes to politics. Oh yeah, last time I checked it is a Christian Ijaw that is fighting your Governors, denying you the Second Niger Bridge, and ignoring your cries for development. Ask your brothers in the Southwest how APC treats them. We all know ACN treats Igbos just as well as other citizens. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Is Tinubu's Daugther Qualified To Be The Iyaloja Of Lagos? by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:17pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
You have to change the definition of "market" when speaking about Lagos. This is not your village. Lagos is home to serious, formal, businesses. Their are heavy traders and big businesses in Lagos, not just fruit sellers. An old illiterate woman could not handle this position. ABEG, shine your eyes well because it is 2013, not 1813. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lagos To Demolish Structures On Flood Plains by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:10pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
Ajibel: You can always count on paranoid and arrogant Igbos to think everything is about them. |
Politics / Re: Fashola Commissions 11 Projects In Badagry And Ojo by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2013 |
The only thing I know for sure is that this report hurts PDP's feelings! |
Foreign Affairs / Re: The Obamas' Trip To Former Slaving Port In Senegal (Pictures & Video) by bobthebuilder99(m): 4:18pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Ummmm wasn't it AFRICANS that sold African Americans into slavery. See your life! |
Foreign Affairs / Re: The Obamas' Trip To Former Slaving Port In Senegal (Pictures & Video) by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:13pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
Chillisauce: His WIFE was crying. Not him. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: The Obamas' Trip To Former Slaving Port In Senegal (Pictures & Video) by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:10pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
Okija_juju: Okay!! I hope you are not Ghanian. He already went to Ghana. Way back in 2009. It was one of his first foreign trips as President. He went to the slave castles and his wife was crying. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Juliet Ibrahim Questions Cost Of Ojb’s Kidney Transplant by bobthebuilder99(m): 1:31pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
Dis one... |
Celebrities / Re: Iyanya Donates N1M For OJB's Kidney Transplant by bobthebuilder99(m): 1:26pm On Jun 28, 2013 |
How much left? |
Islam for Muslims / Re: American Company Sells Pork-laced Bullets To Fight Islamic Terrorists by bobthebuilder99(m): 6:11pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
I posted this same story in the Islam For Muslims section and got banned. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Niger-delta Militants, Students Clash In Lagos by bobthebuilder99(m): 3:03pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
atlwireles: If they send them abroad most of you will complain. If you think most of these young men are not educated, then you are missing the point of amnesty. Calling them terrorists is just childish, but if that rocks your boat then knock yourself out.. Figure out why there was a problem and resolve it. The alternative is to send them to another training school abroad. LWKMD. Which country is going to grant visa to ex militants? Hope you are not thinking UK? |
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