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iice:
I want that person as my roommate!

^{*jumping up n'down excitedly[b]*}"Pick me!Pick me!"[/b]

@Nikegenius
 @Omo Eko
  I hope being analytical as u said is not a minus O!

 @Sweetypie
Methinks u're butting the brick wall;the will not to believe.As far as this rl'ship is concerned I think your chances are pretty slim. Forgive me,like I said earlier I'm a pessimist when it comes to long distance rl'ships.
 You need to give him a little shocker that'll prove to u whether this guy's still there for u or he's a goner.
Try one of those tests u girls use on us guys.C'mon u be babe now! Send him a text calling off the rl'ship.Don't give any reasons,u're simply no longer interested.^{Never say u've found someone else O!If u do u're on your own.}
His reaction will say a million and one things.
Of course if he calls immediately and sounds worried,sorry,starts pleading and all that,U'll simply say[b]"I was just pulling your legs. . " [/b]^{(Girls! lol)}
Best of luck.

He has walked quietly away.
Walk quietly away.

If you're keen on getting worthwhile contributions to your post you'd have to be more elaborate on some issues so answer these following questions to guide would-be respondents:

1.Define your relationship with this guy.Many people use the word fiance interchangeably with boyfriend. Were u guys seriously considering marriage before he left?

2.How old is the relationship?
3.Was his travelling out mutually agreed on by u both?
4.What was the state of the relationship before he left?
5.Any history of infidelity/unfaithfulness in the rl'ship?
6.When is he due back in the country?



I've never been a fan of long distance relationships.

Why don't y'all talk 'bout th fine ass guys y'met (at a party/at school whatever) dt got u drooling but never even gave u a 2nd look?

_{Don't bite me O!Na God I take beg U!}

Psychologists will tell u about the importance of the bereaved's presence at the graveside during interment.
It sounds the note of finality.It is finally etched in your subconscious that all is severed with the deceased.He/she is gone. The same holds true for this wedding. Go.
 The mere fact that u're even considering this (to go/not to go) reveals a degree of healing has already taken place.If the wounds were still fresh n'bleeding you'd still be cussing,wailing and hating. So go.
Dress your best (as befits any wedding).
Like some others have said (and it's most appropriate) get them a nice affordable gift.
Be all smiles(genuinely) at the occasion.It may be difficult initially but it has a way of making u feel good and therefore  becomes self-perpetuating.
If you happen to get close enough,have a pleasant word for the bride;som'n like"Hey your gown is so pretty!Just what I had in mind for my wedding.You sure exhibit good taste. . " You wld have made her day and believe me funny as it may sound even you will feel good afterwards.This sure beats sulking at home.

In summary;Be strong.
Life is replete with let-downs and believe me u can't just shrink into oblivion anytime these unsavoury phases of life come to the fore.
There's no revenge as forgiveness.
You can do it through Christ who strengthens you.
Forgive and move on.

Dis na temptation. . .
With a lot of confusion. .
Infatuation. . .oh no. .
-P-square(my remix)

goodbobo:
the mans wife doesnt know a thing and its all very secret . she even said she doesnt call this mans cell phone and doesnt send text .
I have two married male friends . one cheat while the other doesnt . i tell u if u see the one that cheats with his wife u will say wow this is marriage made in heaven but the other guy that does not cheat , men , na so so quarell at home every time .
Hey people I am not supporting cheating o but , when no one is hurt then life goes on .

@goodbobo

It's amazing just how stupid we take women to be.
What makes u think the wife of this philandering husband doesn't already know anything about it?
God!When it comes to relationship issues,we men can be soo stuck up and pardon me-dumb oftentimes.
   My dad was in an extra-marital affair and for 7 good years my mom pretended not to know anything about it.
Eventually things fell apart btween him and his mistress and guess what,my mom was the eventual winner;her home intact;only my dad lost a great deal of the family's trust and respect and at 65yrs he's still settling primary & JSS school fees.
We guys read n'interprete actions n'words.I've realised women read n'interprete a lot more than that.Women read n'interprete nuances;body language;hesitations,inflections,eye contact and the lack of it,you name it.They are far more perceptive when it comes to matters of the heart.Who says the wife doesn't already know(or at least have a hunch)?
   You(goodbobo) are obviously in support of this clandestine affair so I guess all u expect us N'landers to do is wish your friend all the luck in the world.
   Using your friend's need for sex as an excuse for her actions is just lame.For Pete's sake even stark raving mad women on the streets get shagged and even impregnated,there is therefore no rhyme or reason why your friend should engender disharmony,distrust and the possible eventual collapse of another woman's home whilst praying for a good home for herself simply because she can't get some single guy to "work it" on her.(Not that I approve of even that).

We sometimes throw sticks at 'em n' hurt 'em in the process.

9 for brevity.

. . taking a much desired,much delayed crap!
Pheew!

"At dis junction,I want to recognise the presence of Thief Adebayo Alao Akala. . ."

51. After all said n'done,visit a shrink!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=44496.msg964484#msg964484 date=1173997159]i once bought a diluted perf here so i'm skeptical about things like that.[/quote]OMG!!
Y'know u just confirmed one of my worst fears.I bought a Hugo Boss perf 'bout 3yrs ago 'cos I'd heard so much 'bout it.Yeah it smelt really nice but wldn't linger for more than 30mins.To say I spent a fortune on it. After about an hour of using it,I might as well have sprinkled pure water.
Thank God I haven't had a repeat of that misfortune but I haven't tried Hugo Boss ever since.

Does anyone have tips on how one can avoid being conned like this?

All At Once - Whitney Houston
If That's What It Takes - Celine Dion
I Wanna Know What Love Is -

^{I'll be back with more}

But none brings the tears like the hymn ". .Because He Lives" sung at funerals.

It goes som'n like: "God sent His son,they called Him Jesus. . . "

Am special because GREATNESS resides in ME.

_{No be the GUINNESS kind O!}

That I'm hungry n'broke can never justify my robbing you with a jack-knife.
I'm averse to her actions regardless of how excusable they're portrayed.

  I'll go with cute-ass.
  _{As in I agree with all she said O!}

@TaniCarr

Honey I feel your pain.
Getting intimate so soon = bad mistake.
The only reason one can adduce for his acting strange is that he's got the sex;he don't need the strings.
I'm almost sure if he shld get the slightest hint that u're ready to continue the intimacy without demanding any commitment on his part,he'd start acting cool again^{(prolly grinning from ear to ear)}
Dearie life is too short for regrets n'recriminations so just get up,dust yourself,stand tall,keep your head up,move on.

Welcome on board.
Have fun.

[quote author=Man-eater link=topic=44421.msg962975#msg962975 date=1173962527]Later on i started to listen to on-grond toasters because they ere physically there and giving me the attention i craved for.[/quote]Hmmm. .u naughty girl u.

babyosisi:
Let me warn,her father may have a bow and arrow and they don't miss when they have a target.

LMAO
Especially when the target is a bloody kafir with a hard-on chasing their yarinyas.

@Cyclone5
Well said. Y'took the words right outta my mouth.

@etete
If her mama don't gbadun u,ur chances are really,really slim.
Do all Cyclone5 just said and pray.
Wish u luck.

Cool Waters - Davidoff
Issey Miyake
212 Men - Herrera

"My friend why are u blocking d road? Reverse your car backwards!!"

Aaaaaawwww,that was so hard on my Amina.
_{Yes she gat issues but don't we all?}
I kinda like her.She looks so damn huggable.

He is a small shildren.

@kkutecolo

What's that ur number again?

Better to kiss many frogs and eventually marry a prince;
than to kiss many princes n' end up with a frog!