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@whitelexi
  Correct yarns.

@emenma
Thanx for d clarification.

My advice is don't push it.
Allow him to make his decision and don't try to influence his judgement in any way. The fact that he's still holding on to his "absentee" lover shows he's a good man though it might seem painful to u now.Most guys I know don't tow such honorable lines.
  Do not go into any close relationship with him without being sure he's formally disengaged from his absentee babe.
This might prove to be a long and arduous approach to the issue at hand making the choice of looking for love elsewhere seem a li'l more appealing n' honorable.
Still your choice.

One less thief we gotta worry about. . .
He's outta here n' that's how it turns out.
-NWA

Killed a 4ft snake.

4.

Whether politely or impolitely done,unreciprocated love always hurts.Your cousin's preoccupation should therefore not be guarding her feelings. As said let him be blunt and straight-to-the-point with her,and above all avoid all forms of physical contact.

@plezant(thread starter)

Plz score urself on that checklist and let's know how u fare.

I wldn't try it if I were u.

I love ur signature.
It's so friggin true.

There're some inconsistencies in your posts that u should address if u're really keen on gettin the right kind of advice.
In your very 1st post u said he doesn't even notice u only to say a few posts down the road 'bout how deeply you both feel for each other.
What exactly is the real deal here?

iice:
Some women don't even know who the father is.

Y'can say that again.

michelin89:
Haaa! Wonders shall never end.
In those days you had to shift the undies to see the butt
today you have to shift the butt to see the undies.

LMAO.
How true.

Luscious lips.

The ears.

The heartache u're experiencing now courtesy of the older sister is nothing compared to the reproach awaiting u if u proceed to mess around with the li'l one. Wise up and hook up with one of the many singles out there who're dying to have a real man in their lives.

coolskeelz:
to cut the whole story short,she is coming to spend next weekend with me,so what do i do with her.

Like u had no say in the arrangement.

What other response are u after? Isn't ur story self-explanatory enough?
Even a retard can tell there's no future in any relationship with this girl,unless u're just keen on shagging her like practically every other guy that crowds her world.

badgirls:
but i hope Bose wins

Me too.

Yeepa!!

. . .Maybe she just wants to sing u a lullaby.
_{maternal instincts @work.
Just kiddin.}

These goons don't deserve the attention we're givin' them.
I would gladly give them my account # so they can break down all their savings into the Arabic-less denominations and let me make good use of it.

As if u were reading my mind. All the therapy this guy needs is 3nights in a condemned criminals' cell among hardened convicts and his life will never be the same again. Nonsense! I don't even remember ever beating my dogs.

Can someone please suggest to the doctors what other means to use in driving home their legitimate requests to a deaf,insensitive and inconsiderate government that only understands confrontation not dialogue?

NB:Note that the doctors are still on a partial strike not a total one.

Ol'boy na exam o! And if u read wetin d girls don yarn some boys don dey gawk big time!

isi

To answer ur question upfront: Yes it is adultery.Pls stay away from it.
The mistake women make time n'time again is always believing the new guy is better than d philandering husband.
Don't u think the emotional trough u are experiencing cld've made even the devil look like a knight in shining armor?
I'm not in any way questioning ur judgement,all I'm tryin to say is u're too emotionally vulnerable now and any "sharp" guy can easily work his way into ur heart n'eventually btw ur . . _{u know what}
For most women,it's only when he's thru dt they realise d nu guy wz no better dn d devil @ home.
What kinda man will fool around a married woman anyway? Think 'bout it.

NB:Most pathologically adulterous men are actually secretly hoping and praying for their wives to get involved in such a mess.That way all hell will be let loose and believe me it's usually not the man dt will be @ d receiving end.
The same society dt is lookin the other way as ur husband is comitting sexual atrocities all over the place will kill u for dt one-time romp.

No disrespect intended but[b] Oga [/b] Seun d'you mind intimating us on the reason for this selective deleting of posts?