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Since the father denied the child, why not give the child 3 name. These names will be the child's names, don't add surname even yours.

When the child is of age of understanding, you can tell him his story.

In future, He may choose to do change of name if he reaches out to his father and he (the father) accepts him.

This is what I would do.

EggovinMma:
But to write for broken language easy na . English na by force?? The only thing I dey see here na stick , stick, stick

The most annoying word there is"tomawo"

olrotimi:
That's one thing I still like about the yorubas and Hausas, if they don't have, then they dont have and you would know it. They wouldn't kill to get rich

Recently, there was a story about a Hausa lady who the Hausa husband killed because of her father's properties.

This applies to all tribes. Let us pray we don't meet the wrong partner.

Muafrika2:
It depends on which one is around the most. They will learn what they hear the most around them.

It doesn't depend on that o. I am always with my son more than the dad, but it has been Daady right from when he started talking. It is now Daady mii or Daady Daady.....

delishpot:
Is that Baba sala?

Nope! He is Baba Luwe

No pictures of any of her products?

Singing #What is good for the goose is good for the gander#

DrAda:
Thank you. I only hope my posts helps someone.

Yes. Most of your posts are helpful.

Bespiel:
Dear Graduate Mechanical Engineer, as there are no jobs tailored towards your discipline or otherwise, I have a simple suggestion for you.

Instead of wasting your valuable time, Why not take up some practical skills acquisition training in automobile (It could be road side mechanics if you don't have the funds for high class auto shops) or even on Air conditioning repairs and installation or other more practical mech Eng majors. I tell you, before you know it, you would be your own boss in no time. Coupled with the fact that you are a graduate, you'll easily develop a far better approach to managing your business whilst caving a niche in that line of business. The people you wanted to work for will turn out to be your customers or better still business associates as the case may be. Wish you the very best.

My thoughts exactly!

Virginia, do you know the meaning of kpekus?

You are beautiful too.... I like your sense of humor.

2014 when my doctor informed me I was going to have a CS, I said OK!

With shock on her face, she asked REALLY?!

I said yes and asked her why.

She said she was expecting me to scream God forbid, not my portion. I simply told her if that is the only way left to see, carry, cuddle, care for the fruit of my womb, so be it.

2016 and still counting, you need to see the handsome ,smart, funny, witty boy.

The prayers should be that may God make it successful, shikena!

egojiokwu:
Believe me when he goes back to his side chick, his pen,is will refuse to get erect. The girl be like, sweety what's wrong.

And after a few weeks of disturbing the guy to know when the "sister" will.come and visit again and the guy eventually opens up to her that she was his girlfriend, I wonder how she will feel. But for sure she will feel like a fool, she will feel deceived.....

oladamian:
It is still called Water system. This is an image of a Water System. Google is your friend

Thank you. Correction taken...

scarr:
This is what happens when people prefer to learn from "dem say" did u even bother to check the meaning of water cistern before storing it in ur head as "WC"?
Truly ure still a learner *smh

Ever heard of Water Closet before??


#indomiegeneration

I believe there are polite and courteous ways you can correct people.

Thanks all the same.

Lol @ Indomiegeneration. Indomiegeneration and bolseas should not be used in the same sentence.

sompsonz:
my dear no b only you ooo[img][/img]

I have been properly corrected it is Water Closet.

Evina:
Actually it's Water Closet!

The Cistern is where water is stored, that is the tank.
The writer is clueless as already depicted in her article.

Thank you very much. You are very polite. I didn't bother to find out before making that comment. I will modify my comment. Thanks once again

lonelydora:
Lol.......... I was in my second year in university when I learnt it was cistern and not system.


We learn everyday shaa.

We truly learn everyday. However, ranchoddas has done justice to the misconception. Water Cistern is very wrong. The correct word is actually Water Closet...

Ranchhoddas:
WC is actually water closet.A cistern is a tank that holds water especially on or within the roof of a house or connected to a WC.The OP is an ill-educated slowpoke who just needs the attention.He can't possibly be sitting on the cistern.Don't get it twisted.Thank me later.

Thank you Ranchoddas Chanchar....

I googled it too. You are very correct. Can we then call it Water Closet, WC?

ezinwa57:
if nt for dis Linda vs Wizkid ish, i wouldn't av learnt dat so soon....everytin has a purpose...am among d beneficiaries of dis fight.

There is usually a general question nairalanders ask which is "who this fight(in this case) don help"

I Bolseas can boldly say it has helped me....hehehe....

VanTee20:
You are not a learner o. WC is water cystem in full.

Abi o, how else would.one spell WC

Hmmmm. WC- Water Cistern..... I have been calling WC, Water System all these years.....I still be learner o....hehehehe

MODIFIED!

As corrected by Ranchoddas, Evina and several other well meaning people, Water Cistern is a water storage tank. Water Closet is a better description. ThankGod Eboh, please take note...

#Welearneveryday#

I initially wanted to scream BLOODY Coward, but when I read your story further, I realised that you have tried a lot of things but the outcomes are not what you expected.


People have written, advised you.....

I am happy you now have a rethink. A problem shared is a problem half solved. But in your own case, it is a problem fully solved. Sometimes it is good to open up.

What I keep thinking is that what if after killing yourself, those places where you went for interviews called you to offer you the job. I mean about 3/4 companies called almost at the same time.


You are a hard-working and honest person, your command of English is soooo on point.

I believe that we will congratulate you soon.

@austinosita,

This is soooo touching. I can say all these about my parents. Especially my dad. My dad suffered, suffered, suffered so much for me. He fought for me, he defended me..... I still give thanks to God that He left me a parent who is reaping the reward for the Labour they both had for me and my siblings.

Your prayers for your mum Will not go unanswered. God bless and continue to strengthen your mother. She is priceless....

What if he masturbated?

EnterPRO:
isn't that your brother ?

Lol.... oh no! I married her own brother which makes her my Sister in law. She married into another family, I don't know what to call her husband.....

@missyadorable, what do you mean by the comment you made?

My Sister in law's husband cried on their wedding day because his mother couldn't attend his wedding.the mum is late....

The same could apply to this guy, probably one or both his parent couldn't attend his big day

Kudos OP

@podosci...,

Small world! I believe I know you. You also know me....

You guys have been delivering quality jobs in the power sector and deliver on schedule too.

Kudos

Harney Project? Are you involved in power project?

Off topic, my younger brother graduated from polytechnic as a mechanical engineer. Right now, he is training with the kind of mechanics we call road side mechanics.

Back to topic, I think, orthopaedic surgeons could go and train with very good, professional Bone Setters. It will improve their expertise.

Just my opinion.

@Saronna, You really spoke my mind. I already replied before i read your comment....