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EducationRe: Reps Oppose School Resumption, Propose Three-Month Postponement by BonPatrick(m): 11:50am On Jan 17, 2021
Nothing
CaIIMeAthena:
wetin you been dey do all these whilehuh
EducationRe: Reps Oppose School Resumption, Propose Three-Month Postponement by BonPatrick(m): 8:26am On Jan 17, 2021
Am happy about it I really need time to get enough money
Freestainworld:
na dem gbagam, I talk am say e go happen, it's unfolding already
RomanceLove, sex and feeling by BonPatrick(op):
If you love me, prove your love, this has been the everyday jargon for most young men/women who are in an intimate relationship.

If you have something deep for me, please let me feel you inside of me.

What proof is that"SEX"

_SEE�_

Love takes a gradual process in the sense that it requires 3Cs to function properly which are the main elements of true love.

▪Care
▪Commitment
▪Communication

If your relationship lacks the aforementioned components of love, then proving with SEX is what I termed OBSSESSION , love based on emotional excitement and folly.

When its very obvious to you that you doesn't have an atom of love for that person but you can't let go of him/her due to beauty and cuteness, that's love based on lust.

Your thought is always preoccupied by that person, in fact you can't even sleep, eat or do anything without staring at their picture countless times a day.

True love is not foolish.

True love makes decision wisely not based on emotions.

True love is not suspicious.

True love is considerate.

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"If you don't give me SEX I will break up with you".......it's love based on lust, the person might be lusting after your body and once he/she has gotten that, they will start looking for faults up and down just to discharge their partner. They're everywhere looking for bed mate and not someone to build a rewarding relationship with.

Sex is not love, love is not Sex and you can't compare love with Sex.

Animals do have Sex, does that mean that they are in love, no.

If sex happens to be love that means all the whores would be in love by now.

Sex is an unadulterated pleasure established by God to be enjoyed only in the boundaries of your marriage.

Love is a lifetime Commitment in the sense that if you claim to love someone, you'll be truly committed to the person for life time.

Sex is feelings, it's a matter of 5 minutes sexual urge and the feelings bows.

If you build your love on sex and feeling; that means you will be good to your partner whenever you feels like because feelings comes and go, we don't have same feelings everyday.

If you claim to love, love genuinely and not for what you will get in return.

Let the purpose of your relationship be crystal clear because without purpose, mistreatment is unavoidable.
RomanceRe: I Need Your Answers Please Help A Bro by BonPatrick(op): 3:53pm On Jan 13, 2021
Thanks allot
LIVINGICON:
It is called abdominal fats which is caused by excessive food intake mostly junk foods, with little or no physical exercise.
FamilyRe: HELP: My 3 Year Old Son Can't Do Without Cartoons, Stays Awake Till Morning by BonPatrick(m): 3:39pm On Jan 13, 2021
Lol I wonder oo what if he gets to 15 the man will leave house for him
fafambo:
stop paying for subscription,or subscribe for cheaper channels that has only NTA news and Co, let's see if he will sneak out to ur next door neighbors house to watch it till 3am..ordinary 3 years old baby dey give u sleepless night
RomanceI Regret Being In A Relationship by BonPatrick(op): 9:58am On Jan 13, 2021
I regretted being in a serious relationship.
I called my girlfriend on Monday morning to come and play with me but she told me dt she's going to her dad office to work there and I said no problem. Later on I called her to check on her and she told me dt she wants to go and withdraw but still in her Tailor's shop. I was like" are u not going to ur father's office again?" And she replied "no". I said no problem and I now told her to call me when she gets home bcoz she told me dt her phone battery is low and she said okay.
Later on I saw my missed call on my phone and I tried calling back but she wasn't picking. There's a place she use to plug her phone when d battery is down, that's made me believe that she has plug her phone. I now called her sister so dt I can talk to her Tru ger sister phone but unfortunately her sister said she has gone to plate her hair in saloon. And d saloon she normally used is close to her friends house. I now called her friend to here from my girlfriend but unfortunately the girl made me understand dt my girlfriend phone was wt her while I was calling and she refused to pick up. She now told me dt I should keep calling till she pick. I called again and she later pick, I now asked her where she is and she replied dt, she's wt her tailor. I was now like, " I called ur sister to hear from you and then told me u are in saloon". She now got angry dt " why would I called her sister and still call her friend to confirm her where about when she had already told me" and she ended d call and I try calling her again but she keep calling me names and ended up the calls. I called her friend to help me talk to her. Bcoz of dt, her friend came to my shop yesterday bcoz we don't call each other since yesterday. Her friend was trying to settle everything but she's claiming she's right. She later come to collect her mum ATM card from me yesternight bcoz her mum do call me to help her to withdraw, sometimes 150k or 200k. So, I called her yesterday for her to apologise for wat happened and she told me that she can never apologise. Please friend wat do you advice me to do?
Am I wrong or right in this?
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken by BonPatrick(op): 9:24am On Jan 11, 2021
God bless you bro I immediately detected it was lie and she is playing me because on 26 we have sex she said I have small penis and that she will do it with another guy
Mcslize:
It will take a smart guy to know that the girl is with another of her guy. She is simply double dating. Did you read where he told op that he should pretend to be her customer? And also she told op the guy she was with when Op called was her brother. That's a pure broad day lie. That's the trick ladies that double date use.

Some that are even dating old men will claim the man is their uncle. Nobody needs to tell op she was with another guy, so the guy wanted to know who the heck was calling his girl at that point of which he is still unaware that the said girl is dating op too along side him.

She is definitely playing both of them. That guy is not her brother. It's another guy she is with who she is still dating together with op.

Guys need to be smart to detect simple lies like these from girls. This is too glaring na.
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken by BonPatrick(op): 9:22am On Jan 11, 2021
Sir this is not the first time she is lying she even say a guy number as daddy and sent her so many love message i ask her she said is her dad
Yusufisraelj:
Yea so true, bkos I feel he should have blanked out her name since it was screen shot.

Nevertheless OP, you day try ooo, but why rush into premature conclusion's? Anyways you know the lady better, me I won't judge her by the text she sent you, but by the content of her character, it shows you don't trust her or has she lied before? Is this a pattern or the first time happening? Bkos u are using the situation and gut to come to conclusion.

Well na you know watin you want. What ever you decide is up to you, but I think you should seek to understand people more, bkos behind every action is a mindset sponsoring it, you should have dug deeper when she is around, so that you make am informed decision.
RomanceMy Heart Is Broken by BonPatrick(op): 11:49pm On Jan 10, 2021
Guys I need Una advice here ooo. I called my babe after we saw on 26. I call her this evening and she said she is somewhere I ask her where she ends the call. After 20 minutes she call me and told me her brother is asking her who is calling her and ask her at her age what will make her brother to be asking who calls her or not. She said I should pretend to be one of her customer where she does sales girl. I got very angry and end the call. After she calls many times I didn't pick she sent me message not to call her again. See the snapshot message below

CrimeRe: Soldiers Kill Man For Being ‘Blood Relative Of Gana’, Dump Body By Road by BonPatrick(m): 9:24pm On Jan 08, 2021
Useless man
Foreign AffairsRe: Nicola Sturgeon: Trump Not Allowed Into Scotland To Escape Biden Inauguration by BonPatrick(m): 9:08pm On Jan 06, 2021
Useless man
PoliticsRe: Emoney Receives Senator Ekwunife In His Palatial Home In Anambra: Pics & Video by BonPatrick(m): 5:54am On Jan 06, 2021
Post this on his page you will be arrested
Fasindo:
shocked







E money that doesn't have voter's card.

E money is only popular on social media nd not in Anambra so he can't mobilize people to Uche Ekwunife. One thing is certain is that he will not vote that so why seeking for his support.

I wonder why Iyom is always contesting for every election.
PetsRe: Double Celebrations As My Dog Gives Birth Today! by BonPatrick(m): 8:02pm On Jan 01, 2021
Lol
Kriss216:
Na Ekuke be this nahuh
HealthRe: Is Tissue Paper Or Water More Hygienic After Using The Toilet? by BonPatrick(m): 7:58pm On Jan 01, 2021
Lol you are funny
ethicallyright:
I like your article O.P. It's well written.



In the South East , I think Ebonyi people prefer water .
RomanceRe: Bae Lewis Claims She Dated Dangote In 2019 And He Broke Her Heart by BonPatrick(m): 8:28am On Jan 01, 2021
God bless you bro you nailed it
yarimo:
Poor photoshop undecided angry
PoliticsRe: 2021: Full Text Of Buhari’s New Year Message To Nigerians by BonPatrick(m): 7:46am On Jan 01, 2021
Useless man
HealthRe: New Yorker Cuts Off His Penis & Throws It Down Toilet After Skipping Medication by BonPatrick(m): 9:43pm On Dec 31, 2020
Useless people
CelebritiesRe: Emoney Orders Trailer Load Of Cows & Rams For 31st Night Celebration: Pics & Vid by BonPatrick(m): 3:00pm On Dec 31, 2020
Useless man
TravelRe: Update On Artillery Flyover Port Harcourt: Photos & Video by BonPatrick(m): 11:33am On Dec 31, 2020
Useless man
HealthRe: COVID-19 Update For December 30 2020 In Nigeria by BonPatrick(m): 3:09am On Dec 31, 2020
Scam
Car TalkRe: Innoson & Dignitaries At His Daughter Chinazom's Traditional Wedding (Photos) by BonPatrick(m): 7:06pm On Dec 30, 2020
She don reach 38 years shame on her
PoliticsRe: Aliyu Abdullahi, Aisha Buhari's Aide Refuses To Disclose Her Whereabouts (Video) by BonPatrick(m): 10:38am On Dec 30, 2020
She is on the run
Nairaland GeneralRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moments In 2020 by BonPatrick(m): 10:32am On Dec 30, 2020
I watch porn alot
cassyrooy:
Sorry for the wrong mention, I've gotten the message now.

Read Your Brain on Porn.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moments In 2020 by BonPatrick(m): 4:13pm On Dec 29, 2020
Yes
Prechgold1180:
So u want mk I advise u on wetyn go carry u go hell fire

Repent my guy
RomanceI Need Your Answers Please Help A Bro by BonPatrick(op): 4:03pm On Dec 29, 2020
Guys why is some girls have flompy stomach As if they are pregnant, Can someone explain to me?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moments In 2020 by BonPatrick(m): 4:02pm On Dec 29, 2020
How can I stop it my girl was really sad
Prechgold1180:
flee from masturbation

It' kils erection
I have been in day same situation before

Asin during lockdown all students don go hus

Me as a real g carry strong head stay school
Went to bonjul carried one expensive runs girl

Reach house dick Nur gree rise

Ogbeni I turn prick mechanic dat night

Two seconds I ended xvideo
Watch small see d way prick dey get up small small

As e reach half erection I rush d girl

Nah so my money Nur take waste dat night

Buh I don stop dat kind lifestyle sha
Nairaland GeneralRe: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moments In 2020 by BonPatrick(m): 2:59pm On Dec 29, 2020
Mine happen a day before yesterday as my girlfriend visited me we are naked and wanted to Bleep but I couldn't maintain an erection for over 4hours she was so disappointed and left. I feel so ashamed
RomanceRe: What A Shame by BonPatrick(op): 7:20pm On Dec 28, 2020
He is 29
Lightangel65:
1)He is not sexually attracted to you
2)Or he has erectile dysfunction (highly unlikely mostly affects men from 40 and above how old is he?)
3) He is not gay he likes puna
RomanceWhat A Shame by BonPatrick(op): 7:15pm On Dec 28, 2020
Friends I need your help iwas with my guy yesterday to have fun could you believe he didn't get hard even when I gave him hand job many times, he was surprised and felt so bad and ashamed. Can anyone help me tell what's went wrong?
RomanceRe: I Am Not Happy by BonPatrick(op): 7:22pm On Dec 27, 2020
I swear the video I did with my girlfriend yesterday very hot video is gone
johnhood:
Sorry for your loss. This shit happened to me too. Mine was the memory card(32GB) that corrupted. Everything I have mediawise was lost.
Anyway, if Baba Femi Videos is among videos you should be happy it is gone. It is a way nature is telling you to stop watching it.
RomanceI Am Not Happy by BonPatrick(op): 7:12pm On Dec 27, 2020
What happened last night remain a big mystery that I can't understand
A video I save in a particular fold all disappeared I couldn't understand it because I can't sleep on my phone and it will just delete one fold or if the phone wants to format it would have formated the whole memory card and not a fold I treasure so much with 28 videos.

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