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First girl born into a family of 7 (parents inclusive)... Became a local choir lead vocalist at age 5 (Methodist Church ogoli). Born into a wealthy background but without a silver spoon. Dad obviously didnt accept the career layed out for him. We struggled as a family from start till dad's finish. Every victory God gave us, we got by his mercies and grace!
To the rest of the world, we are perfect! Dad is gone but they've got an educationist mum, music minister older brother, showbiZ Pash, schooling baby siblings who are perfectly rooting in Media, Basketball and medical Science! Truth is we're all that! But there's more.
There's more behind the smiles, there's more behind the skits, there's more behind the many loving friends. Tonight it's just me coming out!

Failed chemistry in waec and neco as many times as could be frustrating enough! This was same period I got kicked out of grab d Mic cos I was doing gospel songs. ALTHOUGH I was awarded best in science back in the secondary school level, Chemistry didn't give me peace of mind. At a point I wanted to drop out of the university because i thought I was a failure! Dad wouldn't let me! God blessed me with good friends like Tosin who kept encouraging too. Mum kept praying, my siblings kept insisting and I kept pushing. Now I was in 300L...my school gave all the support they could and I officially needed to leave this time but family insisted I tried again and I did. This time, I was driven out of the hospital to the exam hall with my drip. Parents stood by me through this rough part of my life and by the grace of God, I cleared them. (PARENTS PLEASE LEARN TO STAND BY YOUR KIDS).
Finally graduated 2.1 Information and communication Technology. At this point I had to serve in Kano. Typical part of kano...I get to ask Mallam Shaibu to move his donkey so I could open my door most times. New rules my stubborn self couldn't obey_no gospel songs aloud, no loud prayers, certain way of dressings etc. You couldn't even say hi to the male folks freely! Well God willing, I ended up eating lunch and dinner right on a mat with these same rule makers after their prayers EVERYDAY! The name Fashion (Passion) became a household name. my 22nd birthday, Josh and the local government chairman fixed a party with my parent's help. they came all the way to kano to celebrate me. I had no clue there was a party or a match being played for me. new dress by Faiza, food by Kunbi. end of service, I got a land from same people who arrested me once for putting on a T-shirt and jeans! They still call...now I love them!
Like every stubborn child in a family, I didn't go back home... nah, I asked dad for his Norton Antivirus pack, got to Abuja and the hustle began! I'd move from a cyber cafe to the other tryna update their virus for a year and they'd pay whatever they could afford! and on and on and on... different jobs, businesses and music hustles until dad passed on. within these years of my life, I've watched best friends turned enemies..I've been hurt, betrayed, misunderstood and written off by people I've loved and lived to please. guess what? within these years too, I've been blessed, loved back, appreciated, comforted and understood!

the thing is, sometimes you watch me react to things you think I'd probably burn down an estate for and you might be thinking...why isn't she reacting? it's because while anyone is busy tryna hurt me... God is busy trying to teach them lessons. I can't tell you what his grace has done for me....his favor and his overwhelming and undeserving love!

sometimes I fight for what I believe in, other times I let go because I realize the other person isn't there yet! And on the other hand, sometimes people even hate and fight me without my consent. lol...I know it's funny!
Hey am not perfect, not close! but am Pash, I push to protect bonds shared especially when it's worth it but like anyone else, I can't stand been taken for granted!
I've seen wealth, I've seen poor and that's why i easily fit into any class for those who might be wondering.

I hope that, that situation that's dragging you don't pull you down! God has given you so much potentials to win your battles... whatever they are.. Education, career, business, Marital blessings, child birth, good family that'll love you, good friendship etc
God is standing by you! he'll hold and guide you through! Forget whatever people say or think about you. the answer isn't yours to give, it's God's! the battle is the Lord's! Wake up and stand for what u believe in, expect the challenges cause they'll come! mostly through the people you love and respect...don't hold grudges against them, they're been used by a force or even nature... drag yourself out of whatever pit you're in and survive! you're great! you're awesome...you're wonderful, amazing and simply blessed to be alive!
BE YOU!

Your fellow warrior,
Pash.

Sheena
Die wretched
Live and let die
Going bananas
The medallion
Sakobi
Karashika
Witches
Forward ever backward never
Parent's trap
Monkey business
Cheaper by the dozen

BdorianGray:
And how did it go with you both ? Its been over a year ..

The last time I checked with her, she moved on and invited me to her wedding honey! Thanks for checking.

It's not just about infidelity my dear people
..I am on a case right now where two nurses tried exchanging babies in the hospital. They were caught trying to exchange my friend's son for a daughter because the mother of the baby girl needed a baby boy to please her husband. If we hadn't caught them, in future my innocent friend would be assumed a CHEAT! As her baby's DNA wouldn't match her husband's. Let's be careful in our judgment.

kromokafor@gmail.com. Please send us your phone number through this mail. God bless you

Then you never had a woman! YOU WENT FOR A GIRL!!! Find yourself a woman just like every women out there is looking for a MAN! also don't forget to make yourself MAN ENOUGH for a woman to live with. Cause I realized that every man wants a good woman but BOOM! problem pops out when the woman also want her man to be good.

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Dear fiancé, boyfriends and husbands (living away from family as a result of work etc)...listen and listen attentively! If you truly love a woman/lady, here are things you should do! 1. Wake up early to call her..check on her! (Good morning baby, how are you doing and how was your night?) If U can keep to this and even call to check up on her during the day and at night, the love n bond btw u both will grow! You can't neglect her emotional needs n expect her not to get it elsewhere! U don't expect not to do this simple thing n yet expect ur woman to turn it down when it comes from elsewhere! She's a woman not a piece of wood! also avoid saying same thing during each calls
..spice things up Mr man!
2. Help out in house chores ! It's a woman's job!! Like hell nope! This is 21st century! Men u need to stop thinking about what people will say about u if they knew u were helping out on the chores...4get what ur friends tell u..most of them do this things to spark feelings of affection in their homes but lie to u just to keep the name. Ok so u can't Assist in the chores but will take assistance from ur spouse, some of u will even lazily lie around the house n watch her hassle to feed u isn't it? please wake up!
3. buy her gifts! no matter how little it is...cookies, hair ribbons, drinks, dresses, artwork etc. just buy her gifts and thank me later!
4. pray for and with her; oga don't pray with her! just sit there And keep staring at me like dodolido while a praying guy picks her straight from ur prayer less hands mtchew
5. gift her family; buy her siblings recharge cards ones in a while, teddies, books ..depending on ur level of financial freedom! send her mum recharge card ones a month too! don't visit them empty handed Mr man...borrow sense naw, when u win their love and acceptance, SHE WILL NEVER BE RIGHT WHEN U HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING! thank me later.
6. STOP CALLING AND RECEIVING LATE NIGHT OR EARLY MORNING CALLS ESPECIALLY FROM WOMEN/LADIES! in her presence especially! Mr man, how will u feel if she does thesame? some of u even keep in touch with your ex girlfriends...NONSENSE! we are just friends now, it's over ! like are u freaking thinking that we ladies are brainless? A BIG TURN OFF IF U ASK ME! if she's too important to stay in touch with her then please go back to her! can't be sharing a man's emotions when there are so many good men out there ready to takeover!
7. NEVER GET LOST STARING AT ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN U ARE WITH YOUR SPOUSE! ITS DISRESPECTFUL!! PLEASE MANAGE UR SEXUAL DESIRES!
8. take her complaint serious n work on urself instead of playing turning tables and calling her a NAG! if a woman starts nagging then there's something wrong with you and not her! if u had met her a NAG, u never would have married or dated her...
9. DROP EGO N PRIDE OGA! it doesn't feed u. accept ur mistakes, make amends and move on! men who give excuses instead of doing that are considered WEAK MEN!
10. Teach her how to make u Happy and allow her teach u too. could be fashion wise, speech, relationships etc
NB: pass as received sweety, I no sell am give u so no stingy with this message. the unlazy readers will benefit a lot. I love u all... WOMEN'S EDITION COMING SOON!!

Pash Tim!

Dear fiancé, boyfriends and husbands (living away from family as a result of work etc)...listen and listen attentively! If you truly love a woman/lady, here are things you should do! 1. Wake up early to call her..check on her! (Good morning baby, how are you doing and how was your night?) If U can keep to this and even call to check up on her during the day and at night, the love n bond btw u both will grow! You can't neglect her emotional needs n expect her not to get it elsewhere! U don't expect not to do this simple thing n yet expect ur woman to turn it down when it comes from elsewhere! She's a woman not a piece of wood! also avoid saying same thing during each calls
..spice things up Mr man!
2. Help out in house chores ! It's a woman's job!! Like hell nope! This is 21st century! Men u need to stop thinking about what people will say about u if they knew u were helping out on the chores...4get what ur friends tell u..most of them do this things to spark feelings of affection in their homes but lie to u just to keep the name. Ok so u can't Assist in the chores but will take assistance from ur spouse, some of u will even lazily lie around the house n watch her hassle to feed u isn't it? please wake up!
3. buy her gifts! no matter how little it is...cookies, hair ribbons, drinks, dresses, artwork etc. just buy her gifts and thank me later!
4. pray for and with her; oga don't pray with her! just sit there And keep staring at me like dodolido while a praying guy picks her straight from ur prayer less hands mtchew
5. gift her family; buy her siblings recharge cards ones in a while, teddies, books ..depending on ur level of financial freedom! send her mum recharge card ones a month too! don't visit them empty handed Mr man...borrow sense naw, when u win their love and acceptance, SHE WILL NEVER BE RIGHT WHEN U HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING! thank me later.
6. STOP CALLING AND RECEIVING LATE NIGHT OR EARLY MORNING CALLS ESPECIALLY FROM WOMEN/LADIES! in her presence especially! Mr man, how will u feel if she does thesame? some of u even keep in touch with your ex girlfriends...NONSENSE! we are just friends now, it's over ! like are u freaking thinking that we ladies are brainless? A BIG TURN OFF IF U ASK ME! if she's too important to stay in touch with her then please go back to her! can't be sharing a man's emotions when there are so many good men out there ready to takeover!
7. NEVER GET LOST STARING AT ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN U ARE WITH YOUR SPOUSE! ITS DISRESPECTFUL!! PLEASE MANAGE UR SEXUAL DESIRES!
8. take her complaint serious n work on urself instead of playing turning tables and calling her a NAG! if a woman starts nagging then there's something wrong with you and not her! if u had met her a NAG, u never would have married or dated her...
9. DROP EGO N PRIDE OGA! it doesn't feed u. accept ur mistakes, make amends and move on! men who give excuses instead of doing that are considered WEAK MEN!
10. Teach her how to make u Happy and allow her teach u too. could be fashion wise, speech, relationships etc
NB: pass as received sweety, I no sell am give u so no stingy with this message. the unlazy readers will benefit a lot. I love u all... WOMEN'S EDITION COMING SOON!!

Pash Tim!

MariaLavina:
Still waiting for summary

Am afraid, u don't get summary from articles and stories except you do that yourself!

Just call her anonymous*

I cooked. I swept. I scrubbed. I sucked. I bleeped. I comforted. I waited without questioning on countless nights that turned into mornings. I prayed. I defended. I lied to myself to remain in denial. I did it all, and in return for my sacrifice, I received a broken heart wrapped in humiliation.

10 years ago I met a man that would, four years later, become my husband. He was beautiful, charming, and had a new business with a lot of promise and solid plan. He wasn’t rich. He had his hangups, as did I. But, he was so into me, and I was so into him, that those things didn’t matter. After years of dating potentials that quickly turned into disappointments, I felt that this one would be different.

And it was, in the worst way possible.

The first few years were rocky. We had some good days, and some bad, but that’s to be expected, right? I thought so, and I stuck around, accordingly like the fighter my mother raised. His business would stress him out, and that’d cause him to spend late nights working on it while I cuddled up with my pillow and remote without a word of complaint. When he finally made his way to bed, I was at his beck and call for anything he needed to help him sleep, even if I needed the rest just as badly.

This was what I felt like a good partner should do, and I signed up for the highs and lows of it all. But I didn’t sign up for the rock bottoms.

As the days went on, his stress became our distance. Our distance made way for silence, and then secrets. He was no longer coming to bed late. He was coming home late. I didn’t know what to do differently, or more, or better. I asked several times, and he dismissed my requests to fix everything like I normally do in every other part of my life. I knew it had to be more than his stressful business he was building that was on his mind, but couldn’t bring myself to accepting the likelihood of it being another woman, until she left me no other choice.

“I love you, too,” read the text that lit up his face-down phone while he finished up his shower.

Another late night entrance and me pretending to be sleep. I suppose he wanted to wash some of the guilt off before coming to bed, but he forgot to put his phone on airplaine mode upon entering the house as I’d noticed before, but chalked up as an accident.

When I picked up his phone to see who was vibrating his cell at 2:46 in the morning, I instantly memorized the text, and the number it was being sent from. It replayed in my mind a thousand times over the following minutes of me pretending I was sleeping again while he dried himself before slipping under the covers.

I didn’t go to sleep that night, and the next morning when he called himself waking me up to kiss me goodbye for his daily errands, I all but erupted into screaming tears about what I’d saw. But I kept myself composed, gently kissed him back, and patiently waited for the door to shut behind him so I could get up and call this other woman.

Come to find out, I was the other woman. My husband was her everything, and by the sounds of it, he felt the same way. I knew of her, but she had no idea about me. He was distant with me, while they were falling madly in love. They had plans of starting a family soon, while children with me were not on his priority list, or as he put it, “too much right now.” Yes I was his wife, but it meant nothing. I had the label. She had his heart. For whatever that was worth.

Our conversation lasted about an hour before I had all I came for. The confirmation that my marriage was broken beyond repair, and that I needed to leave before I was, too, had settled in firmly into my ice cold chest.

I was officially a side chick with a little extra decoration on my ring finger to keep me shining while he kept me looking stupid. I know, it sounds harsh, but that’s nothing compared to how it felt. Giving your all to a man, and supporting his dreams, and neglecting yourself in the process just to have it all equal up to another woman’s happiness and your brokenness; I couldn’t accept this life for myself any longer.

I left the wedding ring, my keys, and a note on the kitchen counter before I’d gathered the essentials I needed to get away from the house long enough to finalize the divorce. His coming home late came in handy, and gave me time to make several trips back and forth to my aunts house to get everything. She had a mansion out in the woods of Grand Rapids, and an open door policy if I needed her.

And I needed her.

My phone blew up over the next week of my “husband” trying to reach me, at least while it was on. Most of the time I didn’t even care to charge it. After letting my boss know I was going to use all three weeks I had of vacation and paid sick leave, everyone else could wait, except my husband. I didn’t want him to wait. I wanted him to burn in hell.

But the next closest thing would have to do; his guilty conscience. It’s been three years, and I’m much better, now, and by the sounds of my phone as I’m writing this, he’s still burning!

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I never knew this brother had this problem!

He was one of the best dancers in church...well dressed and all and GBAM! There was a ministration for him today! The man of God called him out and told him about himself (things he had kept hidden for a long time) E.g he is homeless and slept on meat sellers table after they must have closed from selling for the day...hardly had anything to feed on and even used public bathrooms all the time...no job, no source of income...no nothing!
He was always well dressed because he was favored enough to have someone in church give him nice wears! But today, it all changed!!!!

He's getting a house (fully furnished) and the church made donations of almost a million naira for him today to start business...he also got gifts of clothings and other accessories!

God is faithful and this brother's testimony could be yours soon if only you hold God a little tighter! God is faithful. (Word Alive Church, Gwarimpa)....this is what churches should do! We all need unity to grow!

And by the way, the world need more of my kind...am happy I've seen a lot of people here who are my type. Positive minded people will save a lot of trouble! People like khiaa are very negative and bitter and want the world to live like them but that crazy and impossible! How are we even sure she's ever been anywhere and haven't only been watching too many Hollywood movies? It's okay for people to have doubts about the op...I've got no problem with that, but being too bitter about it when there are other relevant things to work at is really alarming. Am sure whoever hurt u did so because of your kind of person! You may call Nigerians white worshippers like you said....but I'll correct you on that one! We are good people who have decided to accept every human no matter the color or race! We aren't negative like you and will never be! You don't pay people with hatred you teach them to love! With that kinda mindset, you'd have better people around you. With this, I happily rest my case on this thread and I have no reason to open it again ....khiaa and her gang +not even sure if she's female but anyway....keep arguing with your phones...good thing is, you can't get my attention outside this place! I love you all

khiaa:
First off, I was conversing with the op not you, you brought your uninvited butt to my comment I don't even know who you are. If you don't like what I post simply turn your head and keep it moving, it really is that simple.
Yes I did say YOU NIGERIANS, meaning you white worshiping NIGER,iANS. Next time let the boy fight his own battle ànd stop acting like Captain Rescue.

You clearly have no knowledge on what a social media is all about...you lack manners and good sense of reasoning. And also next time u dont like what other people like the op posts, get your skull over and move on too. Work on yourself! God bless you

Btw, lemme leave this thread with this...we are all humans! If anyone decides to go fake, it ain't your business! Anyone wants to fall for it, ain't your business either! You see a thread and got nothing positive to say, IGNORE IT and zoom. After all, I don't see people bearing their real names here on nairaland...only a handful do so how many of us are being real? Lets make more money and grow things... God bless you all. (Damn! And Onome says it's fun here??!!)

2buffagain:
:face_palm: Nairalanders prove themselves retarded and negative-minded everytime.
Someone opens a thread to express his love for naija women and to ask a question.

Automatically he has to deal with stupid insults and one booboo something idiot starts yapping about racial discrimination....WTF?
You are all just so conversationally awkward. If you don't know what to say, just #shutup and stop making it seem like Nigerians are daft, when its just you Nairalanders!


@hondata I'm sure you'll find some naija babes who like you back.
I would suggest you be careful though. The average nigerian is opportunistic in nature and won't hesitiate to to take your moist heart for granted. Walk along the same lines as you would any woman who has the potential to scam you out here in the US.

I guess you're mistaken bro...am the one asking people to stop insulting him. Guess I deserve an apology for the mix up or is my name so attractive? Please go through the comments again! Am on the right side!! Khiaa is the person am sure you're trying to refer to not me (Booboo). Peace

khiaa:
You should use your brain and ask yourself, "I wonder why she may be bitter against white people, there has to be a reason" But you Nigerians can't see deeper than the white skin that you idolize. At the bolded, please stop.

You don't expect me to use your experience in living my own life do you? I've been with white people for the better part of my life and just like black people, they've got the good and bad so why be a damn racist?? You can't force people into believing that your perception towards things are the best... FREE WILL was given by God and you'll never take it away. Let people live their lives, possibly make mistakes and learn. So what if the dude was fake huh? He ain't the first fake one out here so why crucify him? You're pretty judgemental and that could make you judge the wrong person someday! Everyone's been through dungs aii, wipe the sweat and bounce. Btw did you just say "YOU NIGERIANS"?? SO WHAT ARE YOU? YOU WHITE NOW?

rs172:
Ok babe, take Hi-five omo iya mii..

Thanks bro...#hugs#

rs172:
Hustler number 1, no go divorce am after 2years when you don get green card oooo..


That one, even if i no know you swear don dey ground to chop oo

Sweety, only low level dumbass mofos hustle for green cards! My dad already had it all worked out for me, not like green cards are special stones though..
Thanks anyway.

rs172:
for your mind now green card don dey sure for you ba

Sweety am happily getting married to a French dude...we actually met in Dallas TX USA so I ain't got need for that. Thanks for your anticipation though.

khiaa:
Culture doesn't matter when you think the person is white but amongst yourselves you are very tribal . The HYPOCRISY is alive and kicking. By the way, he isn't white/American.

Your business! I ain't got time exchanging words with you and yeah, that dude is really right !!! Work on yourself, you sound really bitter from your comments here! Bless up!

Hondata:
I have always been attracted to black women, your beautiful. Next year I am going on a vacation to Africa, that is why I was curious how you ladies felt about white American guys.

I mean no disrespect to anyone on the forum.

Oh it's fine bro. Africa's got nice places. How did you learn about nairaland?

Lol...easy you guys! Ok back to your question Mr. Hondata, we don't do racial discrimination in Nigeria! We ladies want to be loved and pampered as much as the white women do...so if you find a black woman, please treat her right! Color, race or cultural variations doesn't matter...feelings does! Good luck!

I've been there and I understand. Marrying a wealthy guy too has proved uneasy for me as I was this ordinary girl who loved my pants and sneakers more than all the fancy stuff you could get in loberton. But this dude had been my besty since I was like 5 years old and it got me all confused! I worked on the parts I felt I couldn't cope with and worked on myself to meet up his standard...I look ordinary when it's just the two of us but look exquisite when family and friends are involved! Am not the outing type either n hate parties like hell...but I knew if I didn't become active there, I'd loose my baby and I wasn't ready too...now am an expert in make-up and Onome my makeup artist has lost her job...he also now wears jeans and sneakers with me sometimes to proof he understands and loves my style. It's just all about communication and understanding honey. Reach me here and I'll teach you kromokafor@gmail.com (his email but am incharge of it) #kisses

Obediently do whatever punishment it is they give you once it's not going to be at the expense of your happiness then sweety pie, LEAVE THE CHOIR!

Very true

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LET ME SUMMARIZE FOR Y'ALL LAZI READERS...

SHE FELL FOR, AND STARTED DATING ONE MAN.

LATER DISCOVERED OGA IS MARRIED WITH A KID. MORE FILES WERE LATER OPENED AND INSTEAD OF ONE, THEY ARE TWO KIDS.

THE WIFE HAS HER NUMBER, AND HAS BEEN THREATENING AND WARNING HER TO LEAVE THE FAMILY ALONE.

BUT SHE'S BLINDED BY HER FEELINGS FOR THIS MARRIED GUY, WHO HAS BEEN CRYING SINCE SHE FOUND OUT ABOUT HIS MARRIAGE. SHE SAYS THAT THE MAN TELLS HER HE CANNOT SURVIVE WITHOUT HER, THAT SHE MAKES HIM HAPPY.. AND SHE KINDA ENJOYS HIS SWEET LYRICS AMIDST ALL THE CHAOS. SHE'S CONFUSED. HER MAN IS MARRIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN AND SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.


SO SHE'S HERE FOR ADVICE.

GBAM! You've said it all.

Read it tomorrow!

Hi guys, been ages...so last time I was here I told y'all I was going to start up this relationship and marriage club where real life experiences would be discussed or pointed out as stories. Here's one!

Met a Alex in Lagos after I realized my relationship for over four years was leading almost no where as the mom of the dude turned Into a nightmare E.g she'd tell me what to wear, hairstyle to make, even told us the number of kids we should have (2) instead of the(4) we actually planned and blablabla...guess what! He never stood up for me at any moment of embarrassment from his mum. I no say make him fight her o...at least (mumsi calm down na) nothing like that...on the last scenario, he even told her "thank you" after she was done insulting us... Lol

So I met Alex who seemed to be a nice guy and we got talking and well I realized he was getting too close for comfort so decided to awaken my fierce side so as to push him away. But no! He didn't leave! He then won my heart and we started dating. 2 months Into our relationship, we were still eating out and stuff and I got concerned (I no dey like make my boo spend unnecessarily) so I told him I'd want to know his house Sha. He told me he was getting somethings fixed in the house and would take me there ones he was done.
Three months passed and I got concerned! He always had a reason why we couldn't go to his house. One day, I got so curious and got into the social media to search for him and well, ur guess is right! I saw his pix with a woman and a beautiful baby girl. Remembering that I'd asked him severally and he told me he wasnt married and had no kids I decided to call and ask again. So I was like, is there anything you want to discuss with me?

"I have a daughter" he said. Oh boy my head spark! I hang up start dey cry. He called and apologized and am like...so are u married!? He said no..then he said we'll talk when we see...

My dear na so we meet the next day for my crib o. He started shedding tears and telling me about how his wife was giving him issues, never satisfied, always nagging, how they met and got married in less than 5 months, how she deceived him, how she's a chain smoker and he never knew etc that they were getting a divorce!

I HAVE A STRONG POLICY NOT TO MARRY A BABY DADDY OR DIVORCEE! (I've got nothing against them, just feel the women will always pop back in).

He begged me not to leave him, told me how he was happy with me, how he had told members of his family about me...etc. he would get a divorce and then we'll get married..assured me that I wasn't responsible for whatever they were going through...etc

I begged him to mend things with his wife and well he said Never!

He said he'd do something crazy if I left him o...I got terrified and decided to stay close. But avoided some communication that'd bring trouble. Little did I know he bragged to his wife already and she stole my contact number from him and sent me a long text...in the text. She informed me she already had two kids for him etc.

I ask am o...him say she born ee no tey (4 months ago), that he didn't Tell me cos he wasnt sure the child was his, he was going for a paternity test to confirm as his wife usually sleep out each time they had an argument! Haaaa bell hit my head o. I knew I couldn't marry him...but I needed a reason other than this to push me away since he already told me about his past relationships and how they always left (before his marriage) .

He's caring, charming and ambitious...he's truly the kinda man I'd want to call my boo but the wall too thick and I no want hurt anybody. He's begging me not to leave him, that his happiness depends on me...(that could be true as some people around him including his colleagues had confirmed it...they think am his wife cos she never went to his place of work) and they're like...madam since u came back from that your journey...your husband has been very lively and he looks his best now...

This is the best I can do to cut the story short my people
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