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Beans and spaghetti...

dunamis321:
There is a period of courtship, one can't jump into marriage.

Yeah, I won't argue, Courtship is also boring or whether it's just the girl I was with. Anyway, spicing up the relationship might mean corrupting the morals both of you hold.

...or is there a way courtship can be "real", (ie without pretence or holding back) between Christians in a relationship?

Truth is, it's boring. The moral boundaries no go make you flow. Marriage is the only option to be free on an intimate level with your Christian partner.

[quote author=Twaci post=59360332][/quote]What's this called? I wanna do a research work on it.

I screenshot these from instagram, and I think they are touched by the state of the economy.
However, can these showbiz people who may end up being "pleasers" really help and change Nigeria?

Your thought?

Just one thing, Pride.

wunmi590:
I understand your pain and point in standing between the person who will give you and everlasting joy.

Our problem in this country is that we attached so much importance to something that is not neccessary.

Since your father and mother who brought you to the catholichood, I see no reason why your aunty should be taking it so personal, like somebody who is hawking gala.

And for the priest, he just said that to scare you off from your husband, that Anglican is a darkness, though they were together before they depart each other.

I also have an uncle who is now a pastor in redeem, who told me to leave catholic that they don't teach anything, I never mind him, I still continue with my doctrine.

Please if you love your husband, enjoy him well and close your two ears from what they are saying, in other not to be distracted.


I am more of a Catholic than some people who were born inside the church and the doctrine.

Infact you hardly see me collect fliers of other church just because I won't go, and I don't want to waste the fliers.

I was born a methodist, but followed some friends who are Catholics and after going to the church, I really fell in love with the way they sing the Latin that day, so till today I don't joke with Catholics church, and I have encountered many huge success since I joined the church.

Even during my service, I dedicated most of my time to build the youth of the catholic church around me.

You just posted religion and self righteousness. Please seek Christ in order to understand Him.
YouTube has expository videos of Catholicism, except you are among those that reject Truth and Knowledge. God help us.

We know the answer, no be so?

A criminal that wields a pen can't be easily reached by the elastic hand of the law.

This Politician mentality sha... it's our virus.

I dig those that don't dig me, and vice versa. This thread has made me realize I need to be straight with someone who I suspect likes me that way, funny thing is I may have encouraged her.

Loneliness can mess things.

MrDickman:
lol this kind thread go swet die.. whre dm mods lalasticlala mynd44 oga seun. Mine was when i was posted to the north to go and serve a country they call my father's land. I was posted to sokoto state and along the journey we encountered an army check point. Naso my guy mistakenly throway dirty for floor. the can of malt we've been drinking. Naso one of the soldiers as ''who throw tha nonsense for floor''? nobody talk. Naso the boy vex order all of us mak we come down. After some ranting and barking. I decided to take my guy's place by telling them I was the one who did it coz this my guy was very ill but he had to be in camp the next day. That was how they started raining insults on me calling me names. before i knew it they descended on me kicking me, throwing blows and punches and hitting me with the butts of their guns. My crime was that I didn't confess on time. One hot babe that even tried pleading on my behalf chop slap she jejely waka go back of bus so embarassed. Nobody could talk everybody just dey look. After delaying us for like 2 hrs plus telling m to lie down faceup my head pointing towards the sun dem later release us. I went to camp with a dislocated wrist I tore a cloth to hold back in place and so many bruises and swolen face people thought I had an accident on my way coming.

Nigeria has one of the worst human right abuses in the world. If people can stand up to their rights I think all these things will reduce a bit. Assuming my fellow passngers backed me up and supported me that day I would have been more gingered to fight back but everybody just dy look like mumu. We were so helpless.

You are right. We're stronger in numbers, but we're cowards too. If there's how to ginger the other passengers to help, maybe this story would've been different.

They'd just be occupying space and gathering dust. Dem for atleast give em small respect, hide throway am.

Maybe you're talking about the woman aiming for perfection...
Girls, Women are overrated.

Repentance is rejecting the Old man and accepting the new man. It isn't instant but continuous.

...saw this late but I'm joining tonight. Olowogborogboro.

marksooyinmiebi:
Spotted!

Cam: iPhone 6.
Edits: BeFunky and iPhone 6 photo editor.

Zardli, these shots wasn't thru a window

According to the site at the bottom of this post, Nasal sprays containing oxytocin or a placebo when administered in an experiment promotes monogamy by
preventing men with partners from "signaling romantic
interest" to other women.

METHODOLOGY : The research team singled out
the most attractive female among them to
approach their male subjects.

Each of the 57 men
had been administered either oxytocin or a
placebo via nasal spray prior to the encounter.
The attractive researcher would stand about 24
inches away from the subject, and then move
toward and away from them.

The men were
asked to determine when the attractive
researcher was at an "ideal distance" and when
she got too close, making them feel "slightly
uncomfortable."

The men confirmed after the experiment was
completed that the attractive researcher was, in
fact, attractive.


RESULTS : Unexpectedly, the men who had
received oxytocin and who were also in
monogamous relationships preferred keeping a
significantly greater distance between
themselves and the temptress researcher -- the
hormone promoted bonding with their
significant other, not the stranger.

They stayed
an average of 4 to 6 inches further back than
oxytocin-induced singletons or anyone from the
placebo group.

Finally, If you can't get your hands on
the nasal spray, there are plenty of ways in
which oxytocin release can be stimulated during
a monogamous relationship.

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/11/study-oxytocin-the-love-hormone-makes-men-in-relationships-want-to-stay-away-from-other-women/265314/

It just popped up on UC BROWSER...

Wow. This is really happening. God please may it be peaceful, don't want war.

beautiful232:
But beating her wouldn't solve the problem,so I'm just saying you can deal with her in so many ways

You don't seem like a violent person, but why standing up for violent women?
Deal with her in many ways? Mention 2 and more ways, biko?

Good to know Power is privatized by Wealth Acquisitors aka Top businessmen since Govt can't handle it.

Our Leaders should pass through a Social administrative classes.

Big Lie. Ruby, try learn sewing cos you're a fabricator.

Check yourself if you're gradually backsliding. Or it could be the corruption in churches around your local area that makes you not feel like going to Church.

1Jn 2:29 and 1Jn 3:7 should be the watchword of Heaven conscious Christians.

They distribute Bibles to churches, hospitals, schools, prisons etc. They're the producers of the small blue pocket Bible.

What does a Christian do with Talents or gifts Christ and the Church have no use for?

I'm asking because of how most Talents are used in various and different ways in the world , and how they are awarded. Eg Acting and Dancing.

fuckerstard:
RIP bro.

These street trader that sells stuff in traffic are always ready to cause havoc, LASG should arrest them all and jail them. Most of them have weapons and they rob at nights.

I was driving on Ozumba Mbadiwe one hot afternoon, this angry looking street hawker intentionally hit my side view mirror and i pulled over to teach him a lesson. To my surprise the guy didn't feel sorry and was ready to fight me , the moment i saw his fellows drawing close i just drove off.

They are very mean.

Peasants, working class and serfs before the revolution had this developing attitude. My prayer is that innocent rich Nigerians won't suffer what awaits the politheiving-cians, when our own revolution comes.

Well done Bro. Nice

It seems that the increase in awareness on female battery isn't reducing the growing number of assault cases.

We're still seeing news with fresh assault cases, what really can be done to reduce it.

Read how the Ooni of Ife honoured Pst Adeboye stating that the man of God was a representative of God. Please is this Biblical? Real Christians, do you think Jesus would agree to this statement?

...they choose this road? OK.