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There is hope... But assurance, I'm not sure.
One guy sef dey bear assistant boyfriend, wetin we no go see?
Abeg, assist me o, my girlfriend needs money.

They call it no time

They are educated ...

Make dem nor spend d 45m finish b4 d wedding o... My last kobo

Amaraokafor:
He is a hustler. Although money had been issues.
Myself I lost my job and family is OK.I m not comfortable with the kinds of jobs being offered. Family is relatively OK and ready to financially set me up to start business. I'm more business oriented. But I noticed they want to give it to me after marriage....

The distance BTW u guys?

Amaraokafor:
Excuses known so far
"I'm not sure I will be around let me check... "
"I will take my vehicle to mechanic that time.... "
"There are documents I need to submit, let me get back to you ..."
"I'm going through some spiritual matter.... "
"OK.... but let's see tomorrow or next, infact I will get back to you on that"


Or he changes the subject by cracking jokes.

Really gone thru tumour I think..

Amaraokafor:
OK.

Fine, do u know his source of income? How much do u think he earns monthly? You mentioned that he sends money to you occasionally, like how much is the biggest shot and how often?
Do you personally have a reliable source of income or probably, are your FAM relatively rich?
If u respond to all these questions sincerely, I will help u solve part of your worries. Mind u, ain't a pastor nor a marriage counsellor, rather will use experience and street knowledge to help u out.

Amaraokafor:
You don't get it.
He sends me money if I ask although I rarely disturb him knowing "our" situation. But if you ask me what I prefer to do with it, I will say let's spend the money together making memories. But can one make memories who isn't available?We don't need much. I'm not a longer throat. Infact,all we need is a ticket and I'd come with whatever "choppables" we need.just that I can't seem to find him.

Sorry, can I ask u some personal questions?

Amaraokafor:
We have money problems. But my major problem is that is that this guy is not available when I need him.

I have heard it over 1 million times since I was born, that: money is not THE problem but perhaps, it is always IS.
I set u up with that first comment, so as to really know where the problem is... And its the money with all evidence, I'm not a kid.
There is no how u can endure someone for 3 good years and there wouldn't be reason for two of you to seal up. The only potential reason to hold on is when money is still pending.
About the issue of him avoiding you or to host you, I think that's also monetary as well. He might not feel comfy hosting you when he is not prepared to spoil you with adequate and befitting fun. You might be thinking that you don't mind whatever preparation but I'm telling u as a man, it takes David's bravery to confront such situation and responsibility.
But more importantly, find out why he is not always willing to host you since distance is one great issue.

Amaraokafor:
Thanks.
I have talked to him. I have raised lots of prospect for the future which we agreed on. I have given him a lot of heads up and better ways to handle future things that's not money consuming. I'm using every means available including prayers to set it right.I want to ask a question, can you plan a future with a man you see just once in 4 or 3 months?

If money is not his problem, then drop him.
Divert all ur energy on finding out why he declines when you offer to pay a visit.
I want to be believe that you have confirmed his potency,
Probably, your guy might be Don Jazzy's family, is, having money and still forming un-ready, I mention it again, Drop Him! This time around, I'm becoming more aggressive. I mention again, drop him, even without announcing to him. If he realises that you have moved on and he really needs you, he will go to one of the best groceries around, buys a lovely ring and gives you an unfailing date.
Mw, if money is sincerely his challenge, then you need to be patient. If u have the means, help him to start up in a closer location, wait for him patiently to get to his feet and you will be glad you did!

Hopeful

Say no more!
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But the poser is bae sha....

Amirullaha:
You are misinterpreting my words...
I simply mean how true is he to his words that he will visit Nigeria someday considering the fact that he has a busy schedule...

Keep your good words to ur self Jere Mr Oliver!

Nigerian youths have trained their president. Good for all!

I hope she's happy now...

LordAdamX:
Is 2010 to 2011 3+ years?

-Lord

Yeah u r right!
I believe u can resume your work now...

nagoma:
This food inside leaves is not North; Don’t be too ethnic in your self righteousness

But you know that other facts are genuine, right?

Who are we to believe IPOB or FG?
May God help us!

LordAdamX:
Read the OP again.

The loophole was brought to her attention in 2011. She and the Minister of Transport wrote to Jonathan to close the loophole. Jonathan closed the loophole within 5 months of her appointment.

GEJ was made president in 2010. Loophole was closed in 2011. So where is the 5 years coming from?

-Lord

You would have corrected him by simply stating the correct numbers of years, 3years plus instead sounding as if the years were even more than that approximate of 5yrs he mentioned.

I feel like crying...

I feel like crying mere looking at the picture and staring at the topic at the same time.
Northerners are not dominated by visionary leaders @all. Someone even suggested that their backwardness drew westerners back effectively. He referred to the case of Obafemi Awolowo's era as a prime minister of the west, he mentioned how he used cocoa money to create free education in sw, built the first tv station in Nigeria and Africa (wntv and later hijacked by fg and named it ntv then later nta), he referred to cocoa house, etc. He said if sw continued to grow at that rate, it would have excelled as the best region in Africa competing with peers in the world but see us now.
Through the fg, Nigeria/Hausa acquired a lot of those assets and investments, mismanage them and took us back to 60yrs. Not only that, they corrupt our supposed leaders to the extent that they are even more corrupt now than their initiators. They exchanged our cultural values for Goro! Awon alatenuje!

enlady:
This is pathetic. What 5 years are you talking about? She discovered the fraud 2nd month in office. By 5 months into their tenure, reforms were implemented that blocked the loophole.

Express ur self very well, we didn't get you...

zlantanfan:
This okonjo is so overrated and stupid that she was receiving salary in foreign currency in Nigeria for her undercover job as finance minister shockens me

What is your problem with the foreign currency she collected, didn't she serve as a minister?

Wisdomval67:
Lol,the truth is painful. Look for something else to do. Learn trade,or become a farmer,or DJ but please stay far from musician. And don't do cover with songs from people like Burna boy. Make you try Danfo Drive song or Daddy Shokey song,originally stereo man or try use Klint the drunk song go cover. No be say I want fight but na true I dey tell you. And don't talk about my bighead because I didn't talk about your bleached skin.

Why fah?

OboOlora:
Beech...

Afi obo olora na, smello!

OboOlora:
Wow, u killed it Bro.

Make I copy wetin other people talk

LazyMind

D reason this show seems to stay...

justtoodark:
they are not that smart...if they were smart they would have tried everything to separate from white people....

the arabs,chinese,native americans are doing it....they dont just get it....

Blacks in America are almost a native apart from history. I don't think they need to separate cos separate might lead to another Africa in the soil of America. It is suicidal !
They will just be like some of our eastern brothers here in Nigeria frantically clamouring for separation... It is suicidal!

Black Americans are soulless, they don't even know the fate tomorrow has for them. Major Whites can decide to make them trace their origin and no war will take place. Folks, have you ever heard of Black Africans before? The answer is Hell No! Have you ever heard of white Americans before...No! But here we are, a whole (affiliated) beings being addresed as black this, black that. And that did not even bother UNA an inch, parasito nation!

If u can't manage the seat, start trekking from where you are na...

Mobsync:
I was minding my business. I swear, I was. It was just that the light and noise of your siren was just too disturbing.

I'm trying to pretend like it never happened but I get to think every comment as wow, wow, wow, even though it isn't so.

Baba wow.

Don't allow the siren to block your cochlea then since you can not deal with your ego