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It is well! |
If our own one and only cow even gets missen here, nobody will look after IT cos everybody knows that it will be a celebrated work over for the youth come 2019 if you understand what I mean... |
Wait till she finally removes it, then, peace finally comes. |
E nor konsign me tho...
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This one na iluminamumu |
These ones just dey act Mafioso com dey claim legislators..smh |
Pidginwhisper:See as ur mouth dey smell alcohol and cigarette... smh! |
daragoldy:YOU should read again, what does a 14 yr old girl with rough background be doing in a club? Shouldn't that communicate to u that she started prostitution even b4 meeting the alleged baby daddy? Mofos. nancynwafor93:Why then the claim that she was all out for revenge AFTER she was heartbroken? |
Some pple with scanty story sha, just to get traffic. How can a 14 yr old girl be determined to revenge a broken heart by a man with hard-core prosrutution? Jebure na!
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nobilis:Since we are now on the same page, let me quickly share this… After reading this and we couldn’t still go to the next stage of resolving to weigh the importance/advantages of homosexuality as it affects our individuals and the society at large, then against the disadvantages it poses with facts and figures, then I’m done! We need to call it a quit if we couldn’t sufficiently provide the best of means to rid-off an act that is not adding any value to our society but rather serving the selfish purpose and desperate pleasure fulfilment of an insignificant numbers of a people in the society we share together. If not for selfishness as aforementioned in this post and severally in my previous ones, how can you think of engaging in an act that is not acceptable and furiously condemned to the extent of tagging it a crime in your first society? Why do you want to become uncooperative to the society that brought you up with all it has done for you, because of some alien and environmental influence? Why can’t you be self-disciplined with strong will even if the temptation keeps coming? If you think morality is a course not worthwhile, YEAH, it is! In fact it is the most important value of man, next to the default characteristics itself… MR NIGER D! They might see it as something that has to do with their personal selves but it is better we curb an act that will later degenerate into something we will not be able to handle eventually, instead of toying with same. Let me break it down here: every human or child has the tendency of choosing the bad way over the good way upon the fact that our mind is designed to have the ability to know the right thing from the wrong thing (ethics) but from inception of man, it has been always that we find it more convenient to choose the bad way over the good one, probably due to the excuse of comfort, pleasure, lustfulness, curiosity and the likes. We have common sense, we know what is ideal and genuine, we know what can add value to human’s existence yet in most cases, we choose self-satisfaction over core values. To me, I share the fact that when an act is considered barbaric or immoral within a society that existed before you and you are coming up with an idea that is contradictory, the most important thing you need to first consider or sell is the value of your new idea and not your selfish adventure / pleasure. At least, a new idea must be able to convincingly add worth to your own self and the rest of the society; that is when I consider an idea innovative and worthwhile. Not the one that will be all about ‘YOU and YOU’, ‘YOU and YOUR SELF’, ‘YOU and YOUR PLEASURE’. Its quite sick! Its your life tho but its also selfish! An idea to me can be dropped if it is selfish in nature. Afterall, it is illegal for now, not until it is proven crime-free. Now, let me relate the genesis of Homosexuality the way I understand it vis-a-vis my personal experience: When I was at the age of 14/15, there about, I was playing football (Juvenile Soccer Academy). There was this particular team mate (name withheld) of mine that had this feminine nature kind of, not physical feature tho. It was just natural. He was tender hearted, he was never upset with any issue even when others were furious, he was skilful, he was fragile, he laughed to almost every issue either funny or tensed, he was kind-hearted and kind indeed, he was soft, he had this ‘butty’ look but has a very humble background, he was feminine in nature except his physical appearance that looked like a trained soldier/footballer. All these features attracted me to him but obliviously. I had this brief fantasy / feelings for him; I was attracted to him sort of. Mw, as at that time, all I knew about sexx or sexual orientation was just the curiosity of going to store to check out the bigger dick! That child’s play kind of. Then, I had had unattached sexx with a neighbour (a girl, almost my age out of her own curiosity of what she used to see her elder cousin doing with a guy), it was nothing tho. It didn’t have anything to do with the feelings I had for the guy because it was not around the same time and moreso, the sexx didn’t come to mind at any point in time. it was casual, passive and immature, so I couldn’t have seen it as a pusher. It was a child’s play and nothing close to the real sexual feelings, I was not sexually activated, so I couldn’t have had sexual feelings for the guy (my team mate). Sincerely, I did not know or ever even thought that it was a special feelings I had for him then not until when I was growing up and started hearing some stories about how some folks banged themselves sort of (after a lot of years). I still didn’t have sexual feelings for him when I adequately understand the meaning of Gay, even though I always missed him and wished to see him anytime I remember the feelings I had for him then. Funny me, when I grew up to understand or remembers the story of Solomon that loved a man as described by the Bible, ‘like a woman’, I used to laugh and consider the feelings I had for the guy as a representation of Solomon’s Gayish Life (haha!) Upon all the feelings I was experiencing then, I never for one day discuss it with the guy nor show it (meanwhile, he might be feeling the same way about me in silence as well because we were very close). Any form of relationship (other than friendship) or intercourse with him wouldn’t have been possible because I did not even have an idea of its possibility (me wey never even date a girl much more a boy like me). Gay was not on the street of Nigeria then but go to secondary schools now and ask them the meaning of gay, you will be amused/amazed with their analysis on GLBT. Personally, I got to know or have a clearer picture of GLBT recently, (can u imagine?) now that is getting crazy and more popular within our society. The story I’m sharing here is the greatest soft pulse I have for GLBT community (as claimed) because I understand obviously what it means to be attracted to a same-sex person. Just like the way you will put your mind off it, if you fall in love or feel sexually attracted to your blood sister, your cousin or even your daughter, is the same approach, if you fall in love with a same sex person. All these feelings are natural for one reason or the other but mind you, the exact way you controlled yourself against incest is the same way you do for homo feelings as it is also condemned in our society. After all, it has not been proven that it is genetic in nature. BroS, you just need to try hard to let go! Let me now point out some vitals in my story (my fantasied gay partner); 1. that, assuming that I was carelessly trained and exposed to immoral sexual life, I had a great tendency of taking a bold step towards expressing my feelings to him and he too, being a juvenile would have taken it as one of those playful funs just like the way I conceded to the other girl, my first sex-mate. Who knows, may be a relationship would have sprung up between us but thank God for good home training and upbringing I now cherish. 2. that, relatively, if Gay was popular as at that time (referring to early 90’s) in our society just like now or more in the future, may be that singular feelings would have put me in a curious list, and I would have felt like checking out the feelings, the fun of dating a same sex and or even having sexual intercourse with a fellow guy. From kissing to smooching and other things follow. 3. that, I would have grown up with it and assume that there is one gene that is responsible for the feelings I had for the guy. It is natural though but growing up as a kid and even as a grown up man, you have a tendency to being exposed to different kinds of natures, habits, attitudes, characters or addictions. All these attributes are natural and environmental acquisitions that develop with us and blend with our life styles as we grow up. Rest assured that the aforementioned attributes are the feelings Homos also have and go a step further by assuming or consciously claiming to be a nature that must be welcome into the system that forbids it (Don’t ask me why it is forbade, it is immoral and illegal – check the meaning of illegal). And also seeking the empathy of some vacillating individuals to contradict the norms of the same society they belong to. Conclusively, Im not desperate to involve you or register you in my school of thought rather trying to let you know that Homosexuality is not a genetic sexual orientation but a natural feelings that can be nurtured or ignored. Yes, it can be ignored if you have the strong will and found it unnecessary. It is not genetic until some people make it so and that’s what we are actually trying to guide against. Generally, if you can ignore it for the sake of its irrelevance to you and the society you belong to, fine for you but in the contrary, I advise it is wise to do what will make you to be conveniently acceptable in the society you belong to, my point of view! Thanks for reading. |
vinegurl:Yes he is and we don't want his memory / name to come to mind when a good thing is discussed. |
awakeupcall4all:A partisan cannot give us an accurate review here jere! |
tomakint:Let the clash begin! |
Calabar comes to mind reading this post... ![]() |
Its spelt Aba'cha. Don't make that Nebuchadnezzar feel important among the living. |
jakandeola:Baba, u did not review that post very well. I thought it was from all these attention seekers. Moreover, it clashed with a time that I was desperate to block some mentions. Good morning! |
I want to comment |
Where is the slay? |
400billionman:Ur fa.....! |
Culture! |
Ghostmode2two:PMB is tribalistic / bias. We need a young mind. |
He did not offend him, gej was incompetent! All I see here is two fishermen shaking handsvand exchanging pleasantries. |
Na una go spend these people money finish. She wear dis small tin way d material no reach quarter yard, dem go call am 850k now. U dey hail am, hin head go dey swell, next, she go go buy another one wey small pass dis one for 1.5m. Small tym, her money go finish, u go come dey say: Ah aunty, wetin u use ur money do? when she goes broke! Una fit kii person sef. |
Pls seun, how do I block abular wetin wetin and jakandeola for unsubscribed mentions? Thanks. |
Obi1kenobi: nobilis:We all care about our existence and our individuals here, I believe the reason we are trying hard to enlighten ourselves on what can save human race and protect the special ones among us. To my understanding and reach, I think it is yet to be proven that gay is genetic in nature. The best known result from various researches so far is that sexual orientation may extend to DNA as a result of time. If we are debating on nature, human race and society, I think values and importance should be prioritised. Priority in the sense that; what value is an invention/innovation adding to our existence and coexistence. If we consider value, then we think of the disadvantage as it concerns the importance. I stand to learn here one importance of gay marriage as it promotes the human race or the economic value of our first society. This should bother me much before thinking of its adverse effect. To my understanding, I think homosexuality is more of an environmental influence than the genetic or biological affiliation. I'm not here to judge anybody but of the school of thought an act that is generally unacceptable to ur first society nor add significant value to yourself is worthwhile of dropping. The only reason I will agree with any one that is attracted to same sex partner and gets desperate to live with it, is obviously selfishness, ego and probably inability to engage self control as he finds the abuse of freedom / freewill a pleasure. It is recorded that some people have lost their lives through suicide because they were not given 'assumed' right of choice, I mean the opportunity to practise homosexuality, the act that can be easily controlled and forgotten if you really want to discipline yourself. Homosexuality to me is just a mere fantasy grown into habit and later nature. It is even claimed that smoking as an habit can be hereditary as a matter of time as it donates some impactful chemical to the genes and can be distributed down the chain. We all know that smoking can not affecting anybody other than the person that smokes directly just like same sex marriage. You might want to argue that cigarette smoke can affect close by people but as the smoke from firewood can affect same people. Authorities try as much as possible to caution smokers but do u know what, the population and rate continue growing outrageously. Just like the way the act in question can grow. Assuming the authorities have deemed it fit to eradicate that at earlier stage, may be cigarette wouldn't have joined the list of killer habit. Anyway, let's wait till the time it will be scientifically proven that samesex relationship can endanger human race, may be that's when it will be popular that the unnecessary act needs to.stop. And as for u asking how it will affect human race, tell me first, the valid reason you need to marry aan like you, then I will advance in my unnecessary research. |
Omakiri ko, Garuba no! Abeg next joor! |
No be the person wey get money for bank account ho use arm? |
I strongly doubt the information provided here and if it is true, then I will vote for buhaei come 2019 with just 3 conditions; 1, buhari must make him the education minister 2. He must do the same to our educational system 3. They must both use the projected recoveries to rejuvenate our education sector. |
geoinvestor:Make two of them combine effort to strike Ramos at once! and suddenly! |
Obi1kenobi: nobilis:I joined both of u together cos of my observation, you share the same school of thought on the topic of discourse, so I don't want to duplicate my text for time's reason. Are you also of the opinion that same-sex sexual attraction is natural or adopted habit? If natural, kindly prove with reference and state how it is scientifically or biologically proven. If it is not, and its adopted based on precedence, why then do u think it should be encouraged when it is not socially accepted in ur first society? Let me come from the perspective of morals first; morality is defined according to an online dictionary as an act that promotes the goodness of a society. It is also defined as the differentiation of intentions, decisions and actions between those that are distinguished as proper and those that are improper. There are some things that we can desire either naturally or lustfully that will irritate the society we belong to, the best thing you do as a right thinking person is to avoid such either publicly, or privately as much as possible even though it might not be easy but better still, let go! There are other legal immoralities that exist but pple that indulge in them try as much as possible to be discreet about them. An example is porn watching or acting... they rate it 18 so that underage will not have access to it, it is a condemnable immoral act to the large society but larger part of the society that condemns it publicly while watch it privately. Masturbation is a similar act. Now, do we now suggest that they legalise gaydom and quarantine the practitioners to avoid its popularity in the society and its negative effect on some softminded persons as u r claiming they MUST not be more than 5% in any population. So u both agree or accept the threat it might eventually portray if it is more popular than the normal, accepted and popular intimacy BTW a man and a woman. One of you even mentioned incest, what is the difference BTW incest gayship (whatever) let me ask... If you think a woman walking on the street uncladly is showcasing immorality and you agree that she should be cordoned off, I guess you should also condemn two men or women caressing, hugging romantically or kissing each other in a public domain. Then what is the essence of denying the one you called a lover an emotional touch when people are around. Another observation of mine is that, you are both underating the unpredictable nature of man. According to study, human is not designed to be static. Rather, he is designed to grow rapidly and that is why it is concluded in the study of human science that human's want is insatiable. Naturally, if you give man a space, man has a high tendency of expanding and growing. That is, if gaydom is given right acceptably in our society, its a matter of time, they will surpass the 5% you forecast here and brand it admiringly to be attractive to any one that gets hooked. Its a matter of time I mention again, and it still balls down to the extinction tendency I was referring to in my previous text. When WE were growing up, we used to assume that wearing undies, cleavage bearing and other similar stuffs were alien to our society that can never be popular but now, see our artistes and slay queens, they display their privates freely and peep accept it, love it and hail it. We even ask for more graciously, a typical example of what gay can grow to if not disvouraged. Believe me or not, if it Is accepted now and allowed, 50 yrs is too far for us to see it popular in our schools and dociety. It is that contagious! without.much lobby. You that you mentioned that gaydom is part of the strategies or measures put in place by some societies I'm not interested in, to reduce population or moderate it, well, be informed that the most populated country in the world is one of the world powers economically and that has to do with management and not overpopulation sah Lastly, it makes more sense to walk with two legs concurrently as a normal human being (if you have) than to crawl like a crocodile all in the name of self esteem, satisfaction or unguarded freedom. Safe broS! |
i opened the thread just to be sure that they really insulted him |
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