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Pinkieblue:
Well if u had read it deeply u would have understood that I never compared myself with him....... Well maybe I don't know how to express myself in written form........ But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........ And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity.......

Your point(s) got my attention most esp. this...'But I feel if u want to correct someone u should not also do the same thing u are correcting someone for........' and this.... 'And one person should not dominate over the other in a relationship cos there won't be any form of sincerity'. Let me cite an example of some pastors that mount the pulpit and tell congregation not to lie (that God forbids it), before they climb down d pulpit, they lie more than necessary times... do you believe it happens, if you dont believe, it happens for real! what i mean is that its better to learn a lesson from d message of a messenger and not the character of the messenger himself. You can change him by simply enduring and obeying, the problems opposite sexxx have is they dont know how close they are, to the heart of each other even if they are extremely-close not until they (tend) to call it off. As women have tender heart, men too do have, they are the worst specie (am referring to reasonable ones). We pretend as if we are not moved with all your cares and respect, but hiding the truth kill us more! . About dominating(ion)... that depends on two of you, if you dont have a tendency of being a dominant, you will not observe that somebody is trying to dominate over you in a relationship. check yourself, its either you are not successful in dominating the relationship or you were hooked to a BOYFRIEND out there to catch his fun!

santos247:
This is so so hillarious

It is da bomb

Sprintson:
He said the truth na!
Dem deh understand brain again?

He said the truth na!
Dem deh understand brain again?

what do you understand that truth to be?
C= Commot
B=Buhari
N=Now!
Am I right? and you concluded that, that is creative. Wao, I clap for both of you, Bravo! Pls, kindly read the topic and the content again: after then, u will not associate yourself with 'lo-content'.... its a specie!

Pinkieblue:
Its really a man's world....... But he chats too with his fone na and I don't complain....... He talks to ladies too and I don't complain, he even hugs and hold them and I don't complain...... But he see the dislike from my facial expression....... Be he has a right to seize my fone and prevent me from talking to other guys....... Like seriously is this for real

You are in the position to know whether its for real or not.... my own sermon is respect for each other spans the lifetime of a relationship. Naturally, ladies need to endure men veeeeeeery well if you want to get a worthy guy (its not easy sis'). You dont compete with a man, dont ever form the attitude of 'if he does this, i also have the right to do that'. You are not killing anybody but yourself. What every man respect in a lady is her ability to hold herself. Thats why its the responsibility of a responsible man to be responsible for the responsibilities of his woman (and his). When he is busy doing that, you stay focus on his lapses and cover him up. Anyway, i dont know the kind of guys you call boyfriends or the kind of relationship you keep. Neither do i know your age, but its an advantage you comprehend this earlier.

Spain007:
must u understand his brain?

lol! I want to know if such specie exist....

Pinkieblue:
Ok

I broke one guys heart sha...... Not really ooooo

He was the jealous lover, he does not want me to talk to any guy, sometimes he seizes my fone cos he wants me to give him full attention..... One day he smashed my fone against the wall because I was chatting...... He was too controlling abeg..... One day my fone rang he saw a guys name and almost beat me up so I used that as an excuse to end the bondage

At least I was fair enough to give him a good reason to end it....... Later he started begging me saying he won't do it again, started calling his close friends to beg me....... But I think leaving him was the best thing to do...... Your life first before love so that we don't hear stories that touch

I am also jealous (to the ones that i love) and i dont take bullshit from my GF. why should i hang around with you and you place priority on other activities, most esp. texting or chatting, i wouldnt take dat sheet. Respect is reciprocal, put yourself in his own shoes. If you r doing somting gr8, nice and understandable, but chatting, who is on d other syd? I will like to know. Mama, let me tell you the truth, if your bf is not jealous, he has a spare (that is just the basic truth) and you likely to be the spare. But on the other syd, guys shouldnt be dat aggressive - smashing phones, screaming, beating, slapping and crazying. But to be sincere, their actions are better than mine: i will make you love me back and stroll away. You will love to have me forever but you wont have me, Screamers are better than me!

Pinkieblue:
Suffer ke.......

My ex told me that not every relationship leads to marriage..... But it helps you correct your errors and character and prepare you for your next relationship......

So when someone leaves me I let the person be and just reflect on things I might have done wrong and correct them before I go into another one......

I date one guy at a time...... So because one guy left me I should let the next guy suffer...... For what na

Heart break is really painful but u have to accept the fact that the person is gone and just move on........

i find it difficult to read from a young lady this kind of text, most esp in this our present society, its quite encouraging. You even learnt something great from your ex- wao! Most ladies forget about brain when they get entangled in a relationship these days... money the motivating factor

jopretty:
You don't get my story, he ran when I was still in Hospital. Then my face was swollen and that left eye was closed. I didn't see with it for more than 2 yrs. The accident happened over 6yrs...Time, they say, heals. Ryt?

I got you better there, well, some pple are like dat. Thank God for the new guy, i guess i he should be the RIGHT

Juzzybabe:
This is no joke please as it has to do with my marriage.I just want to be sure that my decision to reject his offer isn't going to be a mistake. I will appreciate advice from married and mature individuals. Thanks

You need to be a hero for your unborn. by keeping the two: your husband and your unborn. If he genuinely trusts his parent's custody, you should also trust it, afterall he is their product that you got married to. while being in Dubai, keep a close check (Thank God for communication) and probably get a trustworthy relative that can always watch your back. I bet you, within a very short period of time, its either you guys get another kid over there or he sends for this first one. He will feel like being a dad in a short while!

jopretty:
Zoom well, below my left eyebrow.

but dat lil scar shouldnt scare a MAN away, may be he had other reasons..... i think u edited a lot in ur story. anyway, how is d nu guy doing?

Pinkieblue:
This thread got me so emotional this morning..... Making me remember all my painful breakup..... Is it the one I ended when I found out he had a two year old child after dating him for 6years....the annoying part was that he told me over a drink and some guys were there supporting him...... Or is it the silent treatment I experienced from two different guys.....

After reading every comment here I just had to listen to westlife's song titled if your hearts not in it

but u did not mention anyone you played a Breaker na, shuuuu! Do you still have heart @all since they broken it all, next man go suffer o

jopretty:
Check my profile and zoom on my left eye, you'll see the scar

I saw your lovely face but not a scar!

photoshoot:
Ambode we need your attention oo



Anytime it was rains, we are not able to make use of our car because the bridge moves like its going to give way any time due to heavy water,

We need your attention in Oke odo, and also pray you send Julius berger to make a nice bridge like that ikoyi link bridge,


I am tempted to call you clueless, since you haven't done anything about this 10km bridge


Picture of the 14km bridge below

dont worry he will do it since you have motivated him by calling him clueless

sLentlover7778:
The solution to Nigeria palava na C.B.N (Comot Buhari Now)

I dont understand your Brain!

jopretty:
Well, maybe he thought I haven't

Bless you as you moved. But your story looks like one of the Nolly's

jopretty:
Had an accident after seeing him off, was admitted and spent two weeks writhing in pain cos I was badly injured and stitched. The dude came one faithful day and called it off reason being my 'beautiful' face won't be as it used to. I cried, reported him to God and moved on. New guy came onboard and helped me through, I became more "prettier." Years later, dude had a devastating accident that left him imbecilic, now he's back asking for my hand in marriage saying God showed him I'm his wife. I just laughed.

Its a lie, d guy can't come if you have moved.

I noticed that ladies' comments generally in this thread are somehow moody!















Are they all guilty or something?

gerrardomendes:
now wey fuel be 145 na im person dey waste fuel.
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.I dey come

You are a badt human being, as from today, I dont trust you again, you can kill!

Liftedhands:
Put yourself in her shoes and answer the question.

Your comment is short but deep, the challenge is 'nobody can be like you'.

Thank you Jesus! Father we thank you.

kikikikikikikikiki!!!!!!!!

The state govts that needed to seek bail-out b4 coming out of owed salaries, are still the same set of people you ask for 40% contribution. C'mon it is not logical!

folks4luv:
funniest comment devoid of logic on a Monday morning. u just won an award, congrats!

Help me to ask him/her that; Would they (APC) have used that as a campaign gimmick (although they were too desperate back then to be sincere) if they had done expansive, logical and analytical research b4 campaigning with that cheap lie and giving Nigerians false hope (what we term as 419)? They did not know that Nigeria did/don't have such funds on ground and they went ahead promising innocent 'children' unnecessarily just to have their parents' votes, back then, now they want to do the 'impossible'. Baba Awolowo did not impose any 'pool' on any western state before he achieved the little he achieved then and all the legacies (most especially education) are still what South Westerners rely on in present days. Let me dash Buhari brain: Instead of imposing unnecessary policies on those state govts/governors (that are not even ready to bear any responsibility b4), he should just get closer to them and find a means of partnering with them. Just like the relationship he has with the NASS. He should carry them along even-though there might be conflicts in their political/socio-economic affiliations/background but they will still feel sense of belonging. Then he will be able to know what each state can contribute/generate economically for this purpose and other developmental goals. And not like imposing your vision on a Tier of Govt as earlier claimed by Fayose. Assuming the states agree and they also impose 40% on LGAs too, the project will be a case of Taledomy (still-born - Dead b4 Arrival). God will help him sha!

STFUand4kMeHARD:
I support him on this ... fayose's face wasn't on the scam billboard below

i support u too on this....

I no know wetin Ajimobi de do for dat seat sef

They have a good cause or what do you think?

I know some people will still say this is not a reflection of determination, seriousness and foresight.

She don start to de make Tee Billz jogodo again, na wa o! and she is aware dat Balogun doesnt like her being happy. I know blame her sha, na Balogun cause wey hin too go wake the lying dog for where hin sleep jeje. He go de snap just one pix for one corner inside one hotel wey pple no too know... na him cause am joor!

;DI love you too! the mother of my children in dream

Av not recovered from the shock of seeing Haters in this kind of thread again. (thar.... in ibo low voice!)Haters are everywhere, thread softly bro!

What is official about dress code? dont you think comfort, confidence and smartness should be prioritised? which one ios official, which one is not official. Agbada na official for Saraki ni e? Bet busy my friend!

pcguru1:
Could be the stress of PHD or she might just want personal time, during my time in school , I switched off my devices because I really wanted no calls and just alone time, maybe you need to take your attention, at 32 I sincerely doubt she's gonna start playing games.

You are actually fair to the lady in question by trying to justify her possible excuse(s). But, according to th op, I don't think her study is d reason for this suspicious attitude because he partially complained about battery and phone conditions. Now, I suggest that op should try to find out d sincere reason for the incommunicado status of his fiancee (she should be able to give genuine reason). 2, the op should try to pay a sincere and reasonable surprise visit @ this suspicious hour (not meant for Violence if the worst is discovered, apply endurance and maturity). Finally, try to be frank with her; it won't cost you life but delivers you an assurance of the relationship you are into, warn her not to off her phone @ dat tym for a week if she loves you, if she can't afford to do dat for the relationship, brag, ewu n be look longer (there is fire on the mountain) sorry for my long note, I love writing texts. Best of luck!