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adonbilivit:
see coded correction. thanks for being diplomatic but i doubt if she got ur actual "point"..."patience" not patient

Lol. I didn't mean it like that. I didn't even see it.

spiralwedge:
shmilling n shuffering tinz, shey?

Abi nao..

spiralwedge:
shmilling n shuffering tinz, shey?

Abi nao..

justcallbuki:
we have bypass that stage and its getting better everyday!
Uhmmn never knew i will still b in dis marriage till now! Thank u lord for d perservarance n patient

Patience is the keyword..

veave:
Right after you're oD'D to death on that cheap drug u injected into your dumb brain.

Oooooo! Just go away. I don't have your time.

Fufu!

Awoof dey run belle. They think they can eat free rice with oil and go scot-free?? Nahh...

veave:
I'll rather stay singe than marry a scumbag like you. Its your type that has refused to allow Nigeria get better. Waawaa!

Whatever rocks your boat, dear. I've said my piece. You can hang yourself for all I care.

samplegirl:
Only TWO. Afenifere 1 Ohaneze 1 but as a gentle man that respects the rule law JONATHAN knows and values even [b]1 [/b]vote given to him in a polling booth and not the one coerced by bombs.

You mean the 1 vote coerced by corruption and 'stomach infrastructuring'? That one sef dey.

Abeg, How many votes do 'Afenifere' and 'Ohanaeze' have?

bukatyne:
Really?

Help me see right

Me doing that would be me putting much energy all for nothing, coz you already have a mindset that my opinion is not valid.

JeffreyJamez:
Lmao I think say Na only me see that part o

iceberylin:
That link go rust

I tell u

She stole your shoes??

bukatyne:
I think you are also very poorly raised else you would not refer to poster's parents without caution.

It is not only when the parents are separated that the home is broken.

If discriminating against a 7yr old is okay to you then...

You've got the whole thing wrong

Isewa:
Reports state that the Director General of the NYSC, Johnson Bamidele Olawumi asserts that the federal government has approved N500 as daily feeding allowance for all National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) members. Olawumi is said to have disclosed this at a House of Representatives Committee hearing on the N4,000 online registration fee mandated for corps members. This should amount to a sum total of N38,900.

According to leadership, civil society group launched a ‘Say No Campaign’ to protest the registration fee. It was during the hearing that Olawumi made the announcement about the new feeding allowance. He disclosed that the federal government approved N500 as feeding allowance for each corp member per day.

This should amount to about N15,000 per month meaning the allowance should be increased from the present N19,800 paid to each Corps Member to N39,800.

Keep dreaming.

onila:
my maternal grandmother was in my grand fathers house till he died

dumbas/s thinks hes so smart
I cant stand arrogant mofo's

Oooooooooooooo! Okay! You win. Tired of you already, I want a divorce.

onila:
yr cute anyway

Haha.. Imagine. LOL. After you've yabbed me finnish

JiggamanGh:
No wonder Africa is centuries behind other continents. No wonder why they still burn children for being witches n use albinos for juju.

Why scorn a kid for having Divorce parent, after all the kid hd nothing to do with.

Those who adhere to this belief must not stop there. You should also keep your children from kids with dead fathers and orphans.

You see, having a divorce has a lot to do with the children; especially the girls.

You would observe that the girls turn against their father through the mother who teaches her what to do. I have seen this case first-hand, many times.. And girls like that, in this Africa/Nigeria, usually end up that way eventually!!

If you do the research, you'll find out that the OP's maternal grandmother prolly had the same issue.

The kind of mothers often imbibe bad attitudes into their kids. I'm no saying this is what happens always, but it happens!

You people only read to reply and yab, but not to understand.

onila:
not easy trying to reason with f00ls

Ok. I get. Its that time of the month. I'll pardon you.

onila:
someones mama is the primitive one in this case

But Onila, I dinno know that you do not have sense like this o. For real. What happened to you?

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
Thanks u for letting me know that I made the right decision, I def don't want my children to end up like you ,no offence

Just ignore these poorly raised and useless women jare. Also pray you don't meet such. Like mother, like daughter.

veave:
You are a let down to humanity. I spit on your shoe.
Tueh!!!










#and somebody will go and marry this one later. Women don suffer

You too?? All these mannerless ladies on Nairaland sha. No wonder you keep staying single and later then get divorced. Then you raise another generation like you. Shior.

PROCTOR:
With all the thread i'm seeing these days ah swear i'm already agreeing with killjoy 's write up

Well, this is just an era, it will soon pass.

Good. But the story is too long.

It’s said that the first year of marriage is the hardest one. The adjustments and changes that spouses encounter as newlyweds topple almost every other period in life — you and your spouse may feel stuck between the couple you used to be and the married couple you want to become. Marriage is a big risk; it can guarantee a lifetime of love, fulfillment, security and satisfaction, but it can also lead to quarrels, abuse, loneliness and divorce.
Here are the top eight challenges that spouses may need to overcome in their first year:

1) Domesticity Problems
The first thing that springs to mind is anything associated with domesticity. This means anything that can be lumped into what we like to call “household chores,”like washing the dishes, doing the laundry, tidying up or cooking dinner. For many recently married people, sharing a house with someone else is entirely new. Trying to divide the tasks in a fair and even way can put an enormous strain on a relationship.

2) Financial Issues
Financial issues always crop up in the first year of marriage. Being married means sharing everything, spending money together,saving money together and dividing the income fairly. For the first time ever, you can’t simply decide to save up for a holiday or a new car; nor can you impulsively buy that new pair of designer boots. Your partner’s financial sensibilities have to be taken into account.

3) Romance Challenge
When you’re married, it’s easy to stop being romantic.There’s an element of safety, and the “you’re not going anywhere” mentality comes with a dwindling of the things that can make a relationship worth it; texting and calling from work, going out for a nice meal, flirting and looking good for one another.

4) Personality Differences
Living together means spending a lot of time together, so it’s inevitable that certainlifestyle differenceswill become abundantly clear. You might enjoy eating out while your partner might like to stay in and cook. You might like reading, and your partner might prefer watching television. It’s important to negotiate, compromise and find a balance.

5) Lifestyle Changes
As a married couple, the first year will bring a whirlwind of lifestyle changes. In your dating period, it was probably very relaxed, casual and fun. In a marriage, these things are inevitably combined withsome of the more boring stuff, like planning, working, stressing over money and sleeping early as opposed to going out and dancing. It’s important not to resent your partner for this.

6) Parental Influence
When you’re dating, it’s just the two of you. When you’re married, it’s the whole family or both families. You have in-laws to impress. You’ve taken their child away, so they’re bound to stick their noses into your affairs.Parental influencecan be a real burden on your marriage before you get used to it.

7) Unexpected Fights
The first year of marriage is said to bring aninflux of fighting. This is probably because you’re with each other all the time for the first time since your relationship began. Plus, the fights may have an intensity that they didn’t have before, and you might feel like you have fewer places to escape.

Independent Plans
It becomes easy to start acting independentlyof one another in the first year.Bound by the wedding ring, you might feel more inclined to make plans without consulting your partner. If you get into the habit of doing this early on, there’s a danger it might affect your entire marriage.

Marriage can be the most rewarding decision that you’ll make in your life. If you make it to your first anniversary, you’re halfway there. By establishing a strong base on which to build, the rest of your married life should be something you can anticipate, plan towards and look forward to.

https://mydayregistry.com/gifts/8-challenges-to-overcome-your-first-year-of-marriage/

Ehen.. Na so.

Drop it. I have a cousin that would advise your cousin well.

onila:
so bcus the marriage didnt work

the mother is irresponsible

primitive fcck!!
dumba-ss idi-ot!!

If you thought your opinion is the only one you think is right, why the hell did you put it up here on NL for comments?

Well, we have our opinions. Its even apparent you're a product of a divorce; you were not taught good attitude, this even makes what I said more valid... Rude ass.

Even if you didn't get good joint home training, atleast you can learn how to be polite yourself at your age.

Lol.

Sad.

I support it. Divorces usually takes a toll on the kids, especially the girls. They most often take from their irresponsible mothers who couldn't keep her marriage.