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Now everyone want to take selfies with Ooni of Ife.
They want to commercialize him.
Global com with soon give him a deal for their promos
just wait and see

Congratulations...

I pray you won't get married in Dubai and divorce in Nigeria otherwise this is just a waste of time

Chai!!
some people can lie ehn

That is just a social gathering, not a church.

officialmcfresh1:
In few months i'll be 29years but am yet to know who my biological father is. I'm a 400level student of university of port harcourt from omoku in rivers state atleast so I was told by my grand parents.

I was told my mum was dating my dad and she got pregnant then they both decided to abort the baby, they went to a native doctor who helped them with native drugs she took severely but the pregnancy could not be aborted. My mum almost died in this process, it was then her dad heard about it and took her to the hospital where she was taken care of.

Well. The baby was born (me). My grand dad called the family of my dad to come claim their child and take up their responsibility. Unfortunately the night to the day they were supposed to come see my grand day, my dad left to lagos and has never returned to this day.

My mum got married and has 4kids now and her family is doing very well. She left me with my grand parent who raised me. I didn't even know she was my mum till I was grown.

She never care about me from day one. I went through hell to go through primary and secondary school cause her dad is very old and wasn't working.

I did a lot of things just to survive cause somehow God was just blessing the works of my hands until I decided to go to the university. My mum and her family is well to do in every essence and we live in the same town almost the same street but not in the same house cause I still live at my grand parents house whenever I return from school.

Now my pain is. How do I find out who my dad is. All my mum knows about him is that his name is Mr Oputa Onita from Omoku community in rivers state. When I confronted her about it she told me he has an elder brother by name Mr Ikechukwu Onita and this man was fully aware of what happened but they don't reside her in omoku town and I can't even reach them.

Am living like a stronger in my town cause almost everyone knows about this story so much that I don't feel comfortable even with my younger ones anytime I go visiting.

I don't know how to go about this but I feel it's time I need to fine out who my real father is because I believe I have the right to know. I have never seen him before, not even a picture of what he looks like.

My mum doesn't care about this and she doesn't even care if I exist of not. Someone who can comfortably stay months without calling or hearing from me. Anytime she sees me it's like I make her angry cause she never smiles whenever she see me. Just that sometimes she pretends to smile but we both know we don't have that mother and son connection or relationship which I've in so many ways to bridge the gap but still to no positive output.

All this affects me emotionally but I jut pretend to be okey. This sometimes make me jealous of my younger ones even if I don't desire to be. My immediate younger brother who am older then with about 4years is done with school and is living in a two bedroom apartment, has a car which his dad bought for him while am still struggling to finish school and staying with my grand parent in my one room apartment. No matter how much I try not to feel it sometimes it just gets to me and make me feel bad. But I suck it up cus I can't complain.

Truth is I am not looking for my dad because of any financial benefits. Am almost done with school and the time I would've really needed him is past. I just want to know who my father is and at least call someone the name dad and stop me from having this emotional trauma.

Now she's been trying under pressure to see me through the university after I managed to get admission.

Please good people of Nairaland. I am confused and I need help on how to go about this, I just need to know who my dad is. He's still alive and living with his family in lagos but I don't even no where in lagos and no one would give me any concrete info about him.

Please anyone with any vital information on how I can reach him or how to go about this should pls contact me through this number 08032782297.

I have read threads on how people where able to find help in similar case like this here on nairaland and I believe I would do the same. This is the only reason am doing this.

Please mod help push this to front page so it can get to the right persons please.

Thank you very much and God bless you all.

First you need to get all the vital informations about him. Where she met him, Where he schooled where she last saw him. occupations of his parents, the church or mosque he attended then, the landmarks in the area he and your mum lived back then. Search his names on Google, who knows you might just be lucky.
contact some state or national Tv stations and if your mother still have a picture of him it will help a Great deal.

Lastly, pray hard about it for God intervene and bring you two together.


All the best.

9. In front of any beautiful house.

I see a lot of pictures on different social media of ladies who takes selfies in front of another person's property especially houses they think has a beautiful gate or surrounding. And some enjoy this and they do it everyday. Some ladies would even dress up, make up, to go take selfies at the gate of the rich man in their neighbourhood. It show how poor minded you are when everyone that sees the pictures know it not even close to being your house.



10. In a shopping mall.

It's been a trend in Nigeria for ladies to go to the sipping mall just to take selfies. Daily when I go through updates on one or two social media I see a girl's picture from the shopping mall. Meanwhile the truth is most don't have a penny to buy, and some may just decide to buy a #50 snicker chocolate or fun to save their face.


For me I think the best background for taking pictures is the Sky. When I take selfies I look out for a beautiful blue Sky and it always looks great.

So Op, hmmm... the lady got lost and stranded on her first visit to Abuja, somewhere. Practically she didn't know anywhere in a big city like Abuja. She found herself in the bush and without being scared or afraid the only thing she could want was have sex with a total stranger.

Either you are lying

or your mother's prayers were working on your head. Cause you were really stupid

I see a bleached skin

No more sex forever

Ki ni omode mo? ignorant little fellow

In Nigeria we don't bulid.
All we do is manage till we ruin totally beyond repair

Na only you waka come

8. I don't trust guys.

Guys any girls that claims not to trust guys anymore cannot be trusted. she has the tendency of being a player her self. She just want to trick you to think she's innocent. She wants you to persuade her to date you and few weeks into the relationship you'd realize she's started cheating. Why? she already claimed not trusting guys so she plays games herself.

What goes around comes around though. Hmmm.... the day he gets his chance to flog someone. Na die

look at their faces... looking hungry and hopeless

It's not even in it peak size yet... A ful matured crocodile will scare you

It's not even in it peak size yet... A ful matured crocodile with scare you

Village people and there matters...


Well I read of a man called Abraham who lived in his father's house till he was 75yrs old, with no child no achievements whatsoever. What a Shame!

If your elder brother does not live your father's house, likewise the village, he may never achieve any good thing in life. And he will eventually ruin all your late father's properties to zero.

If you want him to stop this nonsense, suggest and find a way to move him away from the village.

As said in the Bible in 1 Corinthians 9:14

14 In the same way, the Lord has commanded that those who preach the gospel should receive their living from the gospel.

But these cocky preachers of this generation?.... God have mercy

Great Evil

Abeg na there problem be dat. There are bigger challenges in life than this.

In Nigeria the end justifies the mean. No one cares how you get to Your destination, Just get there

If you can make in Nigeria you can make it anywhere.

Nigerians never learn. The authoritative thieves get celebrated when they come as they go but the common thieves get humiliated.

It's too bad.

Are there still Law Enforcements units in this country? or they're just not regarded anymore

None of my business

Once you go black you're never going back

she probably married him to get a Green card not knowing she'd be getting her death certificate.

Most Americans in the United States are psychopaths. There brains could snap anytime.You gotta be careful... You got to be


RIP

fiftynaira:
My crush!!!

Would marry her even if it's for 1 hour

So she can tell the whole world she just bought an husband?
No wonder you're called fiftynaira

is this a man of God or a man of himself? wonder never ceases in Nigeria

Good boy. No one is bigger than his/her family

Vic18:
is just a crush,what's wrong with it?she loves her hubby and she wouldn't cheat on him

lmao... I was with a girl few years ago who told same thing. In her words she said "I'm only attracted to Magnus, it's you I love". I warned her to keep away from him but she didn't. two weeks she came crying that she had"Did it" with the guy " it was a mistake" I don't want to lose you" "I love you" blablabla... bullcraps
I let her lose, I mean I shook her off, I mean I dumped her immediately.

Ladies like to think they can face their weakness without checking their strength first.In the process they complicate their relationships. Don't confess your attraction towards another man. That moment you already started cheating on your lover. You keep quiet keep away and fight it off your mind.
Your relationship depends on it.

I hope the money get to the right people and places

icebebe:
Wow! RMD will alwys remain dt sexy man av always knwn,wow wow wow,u took my breath away



I still love my husband doe

I bet you'd cheat on him immediately RMD gives you a chance.

In fact I believe you'd already did in your heart just seeing RMD pictures

The man is very handsome