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What you need to do.
1. Recreate the Aunty Mary Episode titled DISTRESS JEANS.
2. Upload your video to any social media platforms you use. Use the following hashtags #themoralcode #AuntyMary along with any captions you write for your video.
3. Send a DM with link to your video. And add your name and phone number.

NOTE THE FOLLOWING
📝You can freestyle and recreate that episode in any way you want, but it must be visual and maintain the same message.
📝Please record your videos in Landscape and NOT portrait formats. Write across the screen of your video #themoralcode, it can be slightly faint.
📝This competition is open till 30th of September.
📝Prize money will be paid to producer who shares link to video in DMs. So have a proper agreement with those you're working with, we will only communicate with the person who submits the link.
📝Any submission that has multiple people claiming it will be cancelled. Any submission that doesn't follow the guide will be cancelled.
📝We will not ask you to get votes and comments on your video, you will be rated based on quality, authenticity, creativity and effort. So anyone can win this.
📝Winners will be announced the 1st weekend of October, should anything change, it will be communicated.
📝Any rude comments during process or after announcement of winners will have the persons submission canceled and the person(s) blocked.
📝There will be 2 winners. 1st and 2nd. We will have equal rights to your videos. You can use as you want and we will use on our platforms.

How well can your recreate the Aunty Mary series? 🤔Your time starts now. 🕛

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Payoneer Mastercard Works just fine

Thank you very much. Would try that.

Kindly assist if you know the right cards that'll work on upwork for buying connects.

A dorm account card, virtual dollar card (Chipper) and card of a residence in UK have all been tried. Only the last was debited but owner confirmed instant reversal.

I'm guessing it could be a peculiar problem for Nigerians, pls help with suggestions if you've successfully done this on upwork.

Sometimes it's the good decent men who end up with funny ill mannered women. Men can become more conscious of behaviors they may find problematic in the long run and this episode of the 5 delves into that. So dear decent men, this is for you. From being ungrateful to having zero zeal to learn, watch to learn these red flags you as a Man should avoid.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUFpktIVYpo?si=-AivvfrPo665pALQ

Let's be reminded about the shortness of life and that death respects not status.

True Story.

I've been looking at vehicles on Jiji and Facebook market place where I have successfully purchased two vehicles before. And this camry (Picture shared) is going for 1 million. Ah! The alarms go off in my head, how is this car this prize and it's still there? This is give away na. I reach out to advertiser (on Facebook) whose name is Okoroma Rosemary. She sends a number I should call.

I call and they don't pick, eventually calls back. Says yes, they listed the vehicle, between the number when dialed shows a name that has customs added at the end. So we talk, she says yes she put up the ad, its an auction car and I ask if she works with customs, she says yes. Confirms that the car is 1M including doing the papers for me, I say where is the car, she says it's in Lagos, and I say I'm not sure I can buy, I thought it was in my location, she says the transaction is still possible, goes on to explain she'll confirm my identity, she'll process the papers for the car in my name, and one of their own verified drivers will deliver the car to me, then I'll check and pay (First concern, you'll drive a car all the way and then I'll check before paying). She also says the only thing I'll pay for is the logistic part of getting the car to me, which is fueling and driving the car down and when I pay on delivery I will pay short of whatever I spent on the logistics, meaning if I paid 100k for logistics, I will pay 900k when car is delivered (Another red flag, this is Nigeria, who is that generous) I ask her full name, she tells me Ademola Stella.

I say we should move to WhatsApp I have more questions. So I ask on whatsApp that someone I know in Lagos, can come check the car with a mechanic so that if all is good, I will just pay through the friend and the deal can be done once and for all. She goes on to say something about being at the border, Seme Boarder in Badagry (is there any connection between Seme and Badagry? Well I don't know Lagos Like that) That my friends will need clearance to get in and so it's better her own driver does the delivery and then I can check.

This person has the DP of a custom officer in uniform, but her voice does not match that person's face. I ask for her work ID, she says well that's a bit personal but sends pictures of an ID with Ademola Stella written, but I'm looking closely and see some graphic editing has been done on the ID. I look up the name Ademola Stella online and realize there's multiple profile under that name, posing as a custom's person, in one profile the person has officer at seme border Kaduna (Lagos to Kaduna again?) Looking at the old pictures on the page, it's a guy that was posting and his account was probably hacked by Ademola Stella.

I write back to her that I believe she's a scam, she sounds unprofessional for a Customs officer, amongst other obvious reasons. I block her. She deletes all her own part of the chat.

If it's too good to be true, it's too good to be true. People who get scammed sometimes were the greedy ones and sometimes they truly didn't know any better.

See the vehicle attached in case you have seen it elsewhere and see the image of the person probably being impersonated so she can be informed.

Then they should prioritize training more females to get an education and to be Doctors o. The north can help itself, they just refuse to. Sad.

Watch the latest episode of The 5 titled 5 WAY CELIBACY PROTECTS YOU --
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuq0dVsvydU

I am in search of a White or Blackboard doodle video creator, preferably able to use Doodlemaker or Doodly. However, any other software and platforms that can serve would be fine. The videos will be between 20 to 25 minutes. Doodle videos will be needed for some parts of the video and not the entire duration.

The number of videos expected to be worked on is between 8 to 9 set. The doodle creator will be expected to also source relevant pictures, images and icons needed to portray relevant information.

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When counting the top most publicly irresponsible women in Nigeria, she must be there.
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To those with the skill of video editing, basic animations and motion graphics preferably based in Abuja.
Will be glad to work with you on some upcoming projects.

Please send a link to your previous works to themoralcodeng@gmail.com

Please have evidence of experience. Please be patient in character, dependable and punctual with agreed time on submission if engaged. Please be straightforward and be ready to sign work agreements on payments and timelines.

If any of these feel or look like an inconvenience, please don't bother.

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Sometimes I look at the crop of people on Nairaland and understand why most of them never grow and remain at the same level of thinking. If your mind does not grow you will not do better, nor think better. In a recent post on Anita Okoye, many sick men on that post only had sick things to say about her, because of a picture with her kids, and how female divorcees just want to cash out, but will eventually realize no man is perfect after trying different men. A lot of those men don't want to be accountable even in their own personal lives,hence they make these kinds of statement online and it's the audacity for me of speaking about people in a manner as though you know them and lived with them. Like you know the pain, the hurts, the work put in to make it work.

Divorce is never easy anywhere, often times. Before a divorce happens, most times there has been a lot of effort put in ESPECIALLY by the woman, they'll pray, beg, tolerate and one day just know there's nothing more they can do. In these marriages, it is the men that often need to do better, but will always feel they can get away with anything, especially when they think they have means, or fame, until a certain period in life and they look around, they look back and truly see what matters, often when it is too late.

I pity women who see some men make the kinds of comments they do online and still go on to marry such men. Your suffering is going to be pro max, because they have showed you the workings of their minds and you chose to be blind to it.

Stop speaking with so much audacity over things you don't understand. You pick your phone and type very wicked and vulgar things over the lives of others, because you are a simp hiding behind a device.

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Yorubas and Igbos seem really good at athletics. Imagine how many stars we could make if the country supported young ones well enough.

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Please read the following carefully before you proceed to engage.

-- Aunty Mary series is a short animated series intended for release in 2023.
-- she is a character created under The Moral Code.
--- Visit The Moral Code Facebook page to see the kind of posts shared daily so you have a solid background of what the movement stands for and promotes. https://web.facebook.com/themoralcodeng
--- See the her posts shared within the body of this writeup to also understand how she sounds, thinks and speaks.

Understanding the brief.
---Her character - Aunty Mary is a middle aged woman who is smart, rich and sharp tongued. She uses bluntness and humour to pass her messages. She is focused on morals and proper behavior. In this series, it is intended that she will always drive towards someone on the road in an estate which she own but the fact she owns the estate is not known to all the residents in the estate. Whenever she drives towards someone, it is to rebuke, chastise or admonish them over something they are doing, something she heard or similar.

---The characters she stops in her car to speak to could be young, middle aged or older than her. Some of the characters may fight her questioning, or agree to it by way of seeing reason or may react any other way deemed fit by the writer.

--- Each episode is intended to last not more than 2 minutes. Have it in mind it is an animated series.

--- You only need to write what she says and what the person she is talking to says back to her in paragraphs, you are not required to script it.

---You have to write her character to be bold, in charge, witty and troublesome.

An example
AUNTY MARY STOPS BY A YOUNG CHAP ON THE ROAD
Ehen! I heard you had left the house, that is why I pursued you. What exactly is this you are wearing? why are your trousers torn?

YOUNG CHAP
No ma, it is not torn? It's just the style.

HER
Style ke? So when you get outside the Estate and a mad man sees you and wants to start famzing like see my brother, you will now be running away, or what exactly will you do? Do you even know what this thing you are wearing is called. Please pick your phone and check what this style of trouser is called.

HE
Distressed jeans.

HER
So you are wearing distress? You love to be in distress? So you didn't get the memo from the other guys you are living with in my house that you don't come out of Aunty Mary's house looking like a vagabond.

---NOTE Not less than 10 episodes is intended for the series. Starting this December and running into January you will write the needed episode. The offer is 10k per episode. Only the most creative, funny writer who understands this character will be picked for this gig. We may pick 2 writers whose samples are best. Writing credits will be accorded you at the end of each episode. You will be paid per number of episodes you write after you submit and it's accepted. You can freestyle as you want and cover any topics as long as the discussion centers on morals and correcting some societal abnormalities. Study her character well, so you it can reflect in your writing of her personality. Your write ups may be altered as the producer or other writers on the team sees fit in each episode. Do not add vulgarities in the dialogues, show your ability to use humor without being vulgar. Fell free to explore addressing Political, Relationship, family themes.

--- To Enter Send a writing sample of an episode to the email maryamtmc@gmail.com Copy your text in the body of the mail but start your email with your name, phone number and Title of episode.

--- We expect to receive a lot of emails. So please, if you do not receive a response by the 26th of December, your entry was not likely picked.

Looking forward to reading your entry.

See the question in image shared. Along with other recent posts of The Moral Code.

Dear anyone who can provide clarity on this.

What does it mean if you run a consultancy and in your TOR its is stated that the total consultancy fee is including taxes incurred and excluding VAT. The consultancy is also for and NGO.

Are you obligated to go and remit any tax to govt?

Please who knows the current cost of the 3rd generation CRV as new tokunbo purchased in Nigeria. A 2008 version.

Picture is make of car not year.

I can't help but see everything through that moral lens. It's so we all can get to examine that angle to life, to movies, books, daily happenings. So I'm still watching Tyler Perry's Sistas & often times I get turned off by certain show of certain lifestyles when watching movies or series. I often stop watching some, as I begin to question what exactly it is adding to me life. 

Tyler Perry is famed for great stories & that was the catch for watching the Sistas series. Certainly, some are not his fans but I am....erm, scratch that, may be I was, not sure I still am. Tyler Perry's films used to be so strongly about the black family life, morals, the repercussions of actions, the importance of God & Faith in the family setting, doing right after setting off on a wrong course. BUT WHAT IN THE "I DON'T UNDERSTAND" IS THAT MAN WRITING & PRODUCING THESE DAYS?

Oya let's look at the Sistas series - Every single woman in this series gets intimate with almost any random man & every single one of them bring men they don't even know that well to their apartments. Is this what freedom is? Is this what the new portrayal of being a strong black woman is? These women are quick to be intimate with someone they hardly know, quick to trust men with their bodies but yet worried about having an actual committed relationship with the men.

The men in sistas don't seem to have a home, always showing up at the women's spaces. These men are  unbelievably ready to put up with so much drama & nonsense from these women & we keep going round in circles with the drama. It's such a messed up portrayal of men. 

Is Tyler Perry still a believer in God or believer of the role of the Church in people's lives? Because last I checked all Abrahamic faiths, are very clear about homos*xuality. But in his recent films, it's being forced into our subconscious that homos*xuality is okay. Like guy which one you dey? You see, that's what happens when you have a lot of money & influence, you can do with those tools whatever you like. I can't understand how he can stand for multiple conflicting values. Well, that's his cup of tea. 

I'm just here musing. Follow The Moral Code accross social media platforms. See some posts shared this week.

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Being someone who treats loyalty like a religion as I always say, you won't doubt it when I like you, when I'm on your side, it will be crystal clear. I don't take special close people in my life for granted. Or those who have shown me kindness and consideration at any point in the past.

Enemy is a strong word. It means someone who wishes you ill, has done you great wrong in the past without correcting their wrong or apologizing, and will do it again if they can, it means they can harm you without really thinking twice.

So that thing people say about not inheriting someone's enemy in certain context does not work for me. Because there are some people who just want to use such statements to get away with nonsense two faced behavior. In this life there are certain things you don't sit on the fence about, you take a clear stand.

If your so called friend is rolling with someone you don't feel comfortable with, someone who's done you wrong and you are keeping at arms length, then is that even your friend? Because FRIEND too is a strong word that people just throw around.

Another context is your mother, if you have a good healthy relationship with your Mother, Father or siblings, can you be friends with someone who has wronged them? Because you don't inherit enemies?

Anyways, I'm just musing, but for me, I can even carry the fight of a random stranger somebody is trying to cheat, abuse or harass on my head, let alone those I care about. I'm not having it. I won't lie and pretend that doesn't backfire too. I mean imagine person wey you carry im matter for head come dey do anyhow later. But I'll keep being that person Sha, even for my own conscience.

So for me, the enemy of my friend in the moment cannot be my friend. If tomorrow something changes, fine. But in the moment, No!

Was reading recently too about ladies who ended up marrying their sister's husbands or fiancé. Make it make sense, there are desires you will have in this life that if they will cause betrayal or heartbreak for someone else, you kill those desires, because how can you do that to your own blood, are you the devil's apprentice?

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Read The Moral Code new blog post titled YOUR DECISIONS COME WITH PAINS AND GAINS. May be apt in this story cuz some kind of parties... well RIP to the departed.

See excerpts from the post and grab a free e-book at the end of the post.

Dearly Beloved! I have gathered you here today to tell you that every decision you take in this life and stick with will come with gains and pains.

Wetin I mean be say, for this life as you choose your choose on any matter, your decision go come with some kain wahala and e go also come with some kain better.

Here's the gist. Take notes.

If you chose celibacy, meaning abstinence from sex till the right time for the sake of following God's instructions and purity. Your body will test you, temptations around will test you, you will deal with the most unbelievable thoughts, you will almost lose your mind on some days. Yes I talk morals here, but I acknowledge our human side and needs. You are choosing to tame a side of you that submits to lust. While that may be hard, that decision also helps you avoid a lot of bullsh*t and mess that comes with giving your body to people, it helps you see people clearly because no intimacy is involved, you get to be more focused on your life and release abundance and certain blessings. Argue with your ancestors biko, but I strongly believe sexual laxity blocks certain good things from flowing to you, if you think everything blessings has to do with only material things, sorry durleen, you are not thinking straight. Finally, choosing celibacy saves you from STDs and unwanted babies who didn't ask you to bring them down here.

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It's one of the Morally decadant games. And until we fix our morals, we won't have a better family unit, society or nation.

Celebrity showing us video of her son hitting her bum, celebrity seeing her daughter with everything outside by a pool and all she can say is hmmm... Children dancing to music with sexually pumped lyrics and the parents cheering them on like idiots, parents watching useless shows like BBN with their kids, under age girls recording erotic videos and adults watching it. Skit makers always showing only sexual content focusing on women's bodies.

We are a ticking time bomb because we are not developing in the right areas, only in negativity.

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tinsel:

Why are you fighting so hard to defend this school? The school took away 10-year-old students from their parents to a faraway country and failed to protect and guide them properly. And to you this is ok?

Read what the person posted without emotions, the person in fact said the same thing you just said. Holding responsible the adults who didn't do the needful and chaperone properly.

Many were alarmed and disturbed as to why a 10 year old would be raped and filmed in that age range, but new facts prove there's no rape here. Juvenile delinquent act that should be punished, and we should question why only the girl was expelled or suspended, WHT happened to other accomplises

Following the scary and trending story told by the lady who traveled to Zanzibar and stayed in a hotel where she might not only have been violated but might have lost her life.

- Let's look at some safety tips for travel or staying in hotels. Personally I'm still scared of solo travel myself. Yet sometimes even within the country, you may have to travel for work and stay in hotels. That said, here are my tips around safety.

- Travel in a group, with someone familiar or with friends. If you are traveling for leisure, many companies offer group tours of vacation destination, join them.

- Have the room numbers of your travel mates to easily reach them on your room intercom.

- If you have to travel solo, please buy your own safety locks for your hotel room door. So even if someone has a key, they can't get in. This is very important, search any e-commerce site and you can get a lock to use on many trips. Your hotel room might have a safety lock, use that and probably use yours too.

- Always inform someone back home of where you are, tell them your room number and send pictures of the room and outside window.

- Push one of the arm chairs in your room towards the door at night. Especially if you don't have a safety lock yet.

- Lock your window by yourself, double check before sleeping, hotel window often don't have burglary proof, if there is a decking near your window, just as you can open it and step outside so can someone open it and come in. So lock your windows.

- Get you your own secret camera and record at night. There are cameras disguised as pens, toys or other objects, you can get one and place somewhere at night before you sleep facing the door of your room. Let someone else very close and trusted know you have a camera.

- Last last, abeg make we dey add prayer, the things in life that are out of your control are many and so you have to call on God even ahead of your journey. Ask Him to remove all obstacles and dangers ahead, let the thinkers of evil not even think to your side, if they do, let them fall inside ocean and be swallowed by whale before they even reach you. Amen.

- Stay safe dear humans, add your own tips in the comments section and Happy Easter to Christian Brethrens and Sisterehns.

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With everyone and their neighbors talking about the death of Osinachi and more persons coming out to reveal their plight or walking away from domestic abuse, I came across what I can call the most interesting real-life story this week from Adaora.

In the 90s, her father drove his family down to his hometown in East, a 10 plus hour journey with bad roads and all. They arrived tired, and ready to sleep, but on stepping out of the car, a family member said something to her mother, something insulting , her father insisted the person should apologize to his wife, and the person refused. What did he do next?

The person had called his wife “Ekwensu Ocha” which translates to “white devil”, in a manner to say, her father brought the white devil to the village. He put his whole family back in the car and left the village the same day, when the person refused to apologize. Remember they had just arrived from a 10 hour journey, but that insult was enough for her father to take that decision, painful and exhausting as it must have been. Adaora’s Mother is not a black woman, so you can understand the context and the discrimination.

Love should not have to be hard, sad, exhausting, insulting, full of useless sacrifices brought on by pain caused by another person. Love protects, and this was a true story of protection. I feel many need to see more stories like this to know they can be loved correctly or how being loved correctly looks like.

Adoara Lumina Mbelu is a personality those seeking purpose, their truth and willing to connect to their inner light can relate with. She says she is elevating human consciousness and I think she is doing just that. Find her and follow her online for a good dose of useful content.

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Hopefully people prepare for the actual marriage than the wedding.

Talking of marriage, romance and everything in between. Read you a short piece

Bisi got home and the most unbelievable sight greeted her in the living room; actually, the living room of her parent's house where she still lived. Her ex from seven years back was seated with some members of his family. Everyone appeared sober and quiet as she walked in. She looked at her mother who asked her in Yoruba to sit down.

She gingerly greeted everyone, as she looked round the room, his aunt, who she had only met once but spoken to on phone severally was there; his sister; his uncle; and a cousin of his; were all there. She eventually looked him straight in the eye and gave him the only kind of stare she could, a very cold and unfeeling one. She looked at the face with many worry lines, the face of the person who comfortably broke up with her after an almost three-year relationship, after they were already engaged, through a text message, and over a health condition she had no control over.

Bisi pinched her wrist slightly, and thought to herself, "Nope this is no dream". The eldest of the uncles started to speak first, "Our daughter, we know this man has wronged you, it took a lot for us to be able to follow him here". His sister passed Bisi a phone to show her two kids, a boy and a girl, both with very obvious genetic disorders. One had Down syndrome and the other appeared to have Treacher Collins syndrome. She didn’t need anyone to tell her, she knew what she was seeing.

Her ex and his people were there to ask her to forgive him and gave subtle insinuations that if she had done something to him which was making him go through his current situation, she should undo it. Oh! So these people think she was a witch or what, or some sort of vodoo woman who could affect someone's life like that.

Her lips parted in a smile that was a rather sad one. She looked at him, her ex, and said, "You this idiot, and selfish betrayer thought you can play God at the expense of someone's feelings... I have a health challenge that I never hid from you, you knew, but suddenly you felt you could discard me. But you never knew I had seen clear signs that you may have kids with genetic disorders. I knew it, but because my own philosophy in life is that when you have chosen to love someone, you endure through life with them, you face challenges together, I decided to keep it to myself".

She turned and faced his family, smiled thinly and added, "So while you’re all confused about what I'm saying, I'll take you through our story and the exact sign I saw in him."

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