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RomanceThings Ladies Do In Their Desperation Not To Be Single by Brightgem(op): 7:58am On Nov 07, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNiZJlaLaNA


From "let him beat me to show his love" To paying all the bills on a looser, to allowing a man treat your relationship as a favour to you, down to those who have no business being in a relationship yet, watch this video where I focus on ladies and the things we keep doing in our desperation not to be single.

Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Greatest Lie You Ever Told Or Someone Told You? Share Experiences by Brightgem(f): 2:37pm On Nov 05, 2020
Stephenomozzy:
grin

An elder friend who I respected told a 19yr old me that he had secured a 500k design and print contract for me ( I had just started a small biz). He had me print samples, draft proposals, and everything. Baba started posting me upandan, collecting mobilization from me. Scheduling and rescheduling appointments.

Las las......It dawned on me Nigga was lying. Hehe....I tried all respectable ways, him no wan refund me.....Then Sweet African mother heard of it. na she help me do debt-recovery grin
writing aside graphics might be a cool side Hustle for you. This was an interesting short story.
TV/MoviesHow To Stop Social Media From Driving Your Crazy by Brightgem(op): 1:05pm On Nov 03, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHHUZdDY-cI

People asking God when, God how because Social Media makes you think some people actually have a perfect life.

How can you calm yourself down and save yourself from the different platforms driving you to the edge every time?

Stress, Anxiety and Depression attached to use of Social Media is a real thing, so listen to my own tips for having it a bit easier on the online space that has come to be part of our lives.

CelebritiesRe: Lekki Toll Gate: DJ Switch Speaks About Shootings by Brightgem(f): 11:37pm On Oct 23, 2020
Kobicove:
Rubbish!

Why is this lady not yet under arrest?! angry

The government imposed a curfew which you and your co-travellers disobeyed!

That is the reason why we have this calamity on our hands.

As a result of your disobedience of the government's order innocent lives have been lost and people's businesses have been wrecked rendering them bankrupt!!! sad
Haahahahha! Blame everyone else except the bad system that got us here in the first place. The system that was killing youths and wasting lives daily through the police. The true nemesis of it all. A failed nation and government.
PoliticsRe: EndSARS Protest: The Misinformation Circulating Online - BBC by Brightgem(f): 11:22pm On Oct 23, 2020
360degreess:
.. You member of the "particular people", God will put you people to shame just like He has been putting you to shame for long. Your evil agender against the govt will fail.
Buhari remains your president till 2023 either you like it or not.
You couldn't make your point without making it about Buhari. So what's ur agenda exactly.
CrimeRe: Sanwo-Olu Family House On Fire. His Mother Lives There (Video) by Brightgem(f): 12:00pm On Oct 21, 2020
Sirmwill:
No naaaw

All these Violence should be directed to Tinubu and Buhari abeg

SanWo Olu has only been a puppet.

Modified:The Mother is Safe as the Military came earlier to take her to a secure location before the Attack

Like if this is Good news to you
Share if it is bad news

Let us wear Jeans wrapper for this situation
While trying to make a valid point. You ended up sounding stupid. Be careful let them not find you yourself. Violence is bad enough. Sanwo Olu is a puppet. Is he a fully grown man with a developed brain and a choice or he has a gun to his head to be part of a rotten system.

Don't come with that he is a puppet bullshit except a part of your brain has abandoned you and ceased to function. You want to tell an angry mob how to behave, go and look for like and shares in the streets na. Keyboard warrior
PoliticsRe: Falz, Aisha Yesufu Tells Protesters To Obey Curfew by Brightgem(f): 10:00am On Oct 21, 2020
musicwriter:
If protests stop now, we're returning to status quo, if not in worse shape...........and the whole exercise would become a sheer waste of time plus lives already lost. Be smart!.
Lolz! See we are not enemies to ourselves, let's get it we are fighting a common cause.

We've all seen what happened between last night and this morning. And I don't blame the protesters at all, everyone knows why they are out there and the pain they carry and the change they want, but it's sad.

I don't think this fight will end and we returning to any status quo, it's the beginning of something greater.

But again I say, we can only fight effectively if we are alive and well.

These people never said they are backing down, my emotions are running high too, but we still have to let our reasoning be clear.

Falz had said, that after curfew would be lifted, protesters in all states should go to only one single location as protest grounds so that they can't pin any hijacking happening anywhere else on the legit protesters and that's a plan.

But then he said this before last night happened. cry

So I hope you get me
PoliticsRe: Falz, Aisha Yesufu Tells Protesters To Obey Curfew by Brightgem(f): 8:10pm On Oct 20, 2020
musicwriter:
If sister Aisha and Falz are no longer strong, they should allow others carry on the mantle. Don't quench the fire because you can't move on for whatever reason.

I think you all said we need a revolution in Nigeria? The revolution has not even started and people are already scared.

This's what a revolution looks like. The French revolution of 1789 https://www.nairaland.com/6192279/french-revolution-1789-looks-like
Be smart! We are all more useful alive than dead.
PoliticsRe: Falz, Aisha Yesufu Tells Protesters To Obey Curfew by Brightgem(f): 8:04pm On Oct 20, 2020
Imortal001:
Make aisha and falz calm down first!Who did they think they are?
The ones who with courage, the ones gingering the youths.

The motivation needed. They are what many could never be. They could get killed and the know that yet they are at the front. Don't ask us that kind of question again. You who you be?
CrimeRe: #EndSARS: Protesters In Aba Launch Counter-Attack On Soldiers (Video) by Brightgem(f):
Sad. We've have showed resilience during the protests, shown that Nigerian youths are not lazy afterall and Lord haven't we seen many sad stories come out. Things we never knew were that bad. We threw away all the differences they keep trying to use to divide us and we stood as one.

May the youths win. May truth win. May justice win.

We'll keep doing all we can to help ourselves, whether they do it or not.

We have a Free Mentorship and skill Acquisition Program coming up in Abuja November and December for young men. We have been helping ourselves out of the rut created by a bad system, this is also why we are becoming bold to demand our rights.

If you get mentored and then get a skill you become empowered to earn a living.

You will be mentored in Emotional Mastery. Entrepreneurial Thinking. Career development. Moral Codes. Afterwards you get a skill in
POP.
Painting.
Scridding.
Tiling.

It's a free program. Register using the link below
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1dOyCBIoMzZ88TpD6SrhIlwnOfxv8tuH7GNYbzFdYZVg/edit?usp=sharing

Check banner too for details.

PoliticsRe: EndSARS: Sowore Deserves Better Than What He Got In Abuja - Opinion by Brightgem(f): 7:19pm On Oct 16, 2020
HAccord:
Anybody who supported this government in 2015 is very much part of the problem that currently bedevils us.

There is no mincing words here.
Your thinking ought to be less shallow than this. I supported and own it with my chest.

They turned out no different than all the previous leaders, what we should be talking about now is how to stop recycling these old bofoons than talking about what could have been, if we cannot begin to think beyond APC and PDP that's how we are the problem and continue to be part of the problem
PoliticsRe: EndSARS: Sowore Deserves Better Than What He Got In Abuja - Opinion by Brightgem(f): 7:15pm On Oct 16, 2020
Eriokanmi:
he supported same govt in 2015 remember? He's a flip-flopper
What's this one saying? How does this make sense? I supported too but on the premise many of us thought they could do better, so if I think something was good and later found out it's not, I can't speak against it again ever? Or could we all see the future?

Abeg rest and talk another thing, this makes no sense. Sowore does what many of us can never do. Keyboard warriors.
Jobs/VacanciesOpenining For Communications And Social Media Officer In Abuja by Brightgem(op): 10:06am On Oct 16, 2020
21ST Century Community for Youths and Women Initiative (CEYWI) is a humanitarian, not for profit, and non-governmental organization founded in 2012. Our target groups cuts across youths, women with special interest in political and economic empowerment for the betterment of the society.

Are you a corps (NYSC) member? Currently looking to gain some experience in this area? CEYWI is searching for a Communications and Social Media Officer in Abuja.

The Ideal candidate will be expected to have the following:

• A university degree in arts and humanities or Social Sciences or any related courses
• Should have experience managing social media pages and accounts.
• Should be a very good writer and speaker with good diction and communication skills.
• Should be able to write press releases, articles and send out newsletters.
• Should be able to take well composed, clear pictures or video should the need arise.
• Should have some knowledge of graphic design even if at most basic level using tools like CANVA
• Should be creative with content creation and be ready to create content regularly.
• Should have a consciousness and an eye for news relating to the thematic areas of the organization.
• Document visually activities of the organization, past, present and future activities.
• Should be able to understand the changing Social Media space and adjust accordingly.

Interested candidates should apply using the link provided.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1H_onzhkbuwFexlBhvODBHSf4UZr7RpAW3PLfgjlu_GM/edit?usp=sharing

NOTE – This position is in Abuja in the suburban part of ZUBA. Consider this as you proceed to apply.

Jobs/VacanciesFree Mentorship And Skill Acquisition Training For Young Men In Abuja by Brightgem(op): 9:55am On Oct 13, 2020
REGISTER FOR THE FREE MENTORSHIP AND SKILL ACQUISITION PROGRAM HAPPENING IN ABUJA

STRICTLY FOR MEN

Many organizations, Individuals are focused on Women empowerment, Career Development. Women have more safe havens they can run to if they are are in trouble.

What about our Men? Who is teaching the man he can be more? Who is teaching him about they potentials sitting inside him yet untapped?
Who is teaching our men how to be proper men, true gentlemen and true leaders?

This is why we have set out on this mission, to not only mentor young men on key topics that can make them better people, but we are taking it a step further by providing skills they will learn which can earn them a living.

This event will take place in November and December in Abuja. The topics to be treated during the mentorship sessions will happen on the 4 Saturdays in November starting from 7th November the first Saturday in November to the last Saturday 28th November. Note, that this is only on Saturdays.

Skill acquisition will be in the 2nd week of December. Refer to banner for more details.

Tell your brothers, cousins, uncles, neighbors. Limited slots available. Refer to banner for more details.

Use link below to start registering.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1dOyCBIoMzZ88TpD6SrhIlwnOfxv8tuH7GNYbzFdYZVg/edit?usp=sharing

NOTE - Remember that how well you fill the form will determine your chances to be shortlisted.

CareerTraining For Young Men In Abuja by Brightgem(op):
REGISTER FOR THE FREE MENTORSHIP AND SKILL ACQUISITION PROGRAM HAPPENING IN ABUJA

STRICTLY FOR MEN

Many organizations, Individuals are focused on Women empowerment, Career Development. Women have more safe havens they can run to if they are are in trouble.

What about our Men? Who is teaching the man he can be more? Who is teaching him about they potentials sitting inside him yet untapped?
Who is teaching our men how to be proper men, true gentlemen and true leaders?

This is why we have set out on this mission, to not only mentor young men on key topics that can make them better people, but we are taking it a step further by providing skills they will learn which can earn them a living.

This event will take place in November and December in Abuja. The topics to be treated during the mentorship sessions will happen on the 4 Saturdays in November starting from 7th November the first Saturday in November to the last Saturday 28th November. Note, that this is only on Saturdays.

Skill acquisition will be in the 2nd week of December. Refer to banner for more details.

Tell your brothers, cousins, uncles, neighbors. Limited slots available. Refer to banner for more details.

Use link below to start registering.
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1dOyCBIoMzZ88TpD6SrhIlwnOfxv8tuH7GNYbzFdYZVg/edit?usp=sharing

NOTE - Remember that how well you fill the form will determine your chances to be shortlisted.

BusinessPeople Who Keep Owing Money & The Problems They Cause by Brightgem(op): 9:11am On Oct 10, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42PgutrOjng

Owing your workers just because you can. Burrowing money endlessly and being famous for not paying back. Taking bank loans to buy material things.

Here I talk about how people who owe others cause them problems and also cause themselves problems.

Enjoy this video as you enjoy your Saturday morning. Follow The Moral Code across social media platforms if you are coming across my content for the first time.

CelebritiesRe: Father Of Two Slams Chacha Eke Over Crashed Marriage & Domestic Violence by Brightgem(f): 11:54am On Oct 05, 2020
This one is obviously just chasing clout, looking for online fame. Because I refuse to believe anyone actually thinks this kind of way in their head.
TV/MoviesRe: Inside Big Brother Canada Season 8 House. (photos, video) by Brightgem(f): 12:22am On Oct 05, 2020
saaphiere:
How is someone spending his or her money be your problem? Did you make the money for them to detect what to do with their money? The country is collapsing what or who are you waiting for? Can't you take the lead?
Lolz! You obviously have time. You are not an intellectual you are basic, that's why this is what matters to you. It's what you give a whole damn about, that's why you created a whole thread about it.

I don't engage with people who make noise about BBN anyways, there's a level their thinking is at. I won't deal. So enjoy what you enjoy pls and for your info, I am making my own change in this country in my own way, because I love my home. You destroy your mind when by what you let into it. BBN will only continue to destroy those who participate and those who dedicate their life to watching it.

I'm done here.
TV/MoviesRe: Inside Big Brother Canada Season 8 House. (photos, video) by Brightgem(f): 12:11am On Oct 05, 2020
saaphiere:
So BBN should be scraped because Nigeria is in bad state? Are the BBN organizers and watchers responsible for the problems in Nigeria?
When you want to destroy a tree, you attack it from the root. Figure out the root of Nigeria's problem and tackle it. Last time I checked, BBN wasn't the root of Nigeria's problem.
Then you don't understand how different negative factors are interlinked in society. The country is collapsing and the very youths meant to fight for their future would instead fight over a useless show and spend money they don't have on votes.
TV/MoviesRe: Inside Big Brother Canada Season 8 House. (photos, video) by Brightgem(f): 12:06am On Oct 05, 2020
saaphiere:
Do you know why I created this thread? Ok here is why. Some persons think that those watching BBN are irresponsible and jobless.
Since most of us worship the whites, I brought this here to show us that the whites also watch and participate in Big Brother. Are they also irresponsible and jobless?
Yes they are. Does being a white nation make them less irresponsible over a stupid show?

Or because they are white or foreign, we won't place them in same standards. BS is BS irrespective of where it happens or who's doing it.
FamilyYou And I, Let's Do These To Curb Rape by Brightgem(op): 10:37am On Oct 03, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNGcfAsV_mQ

From the places we go, to how we dress in the presence of certain people (watch before you jump to conclusions on that point) to raising accountable and responsible men, to having active support and back up. I discuss here some points on how we all can protect ourselves and those we love from the unending Sexual abuse we keep hearing about almost every single day, important points on protecting children also featured.

CelebritiesRe: Laycon's Fans Scamper For The Naira Notes He Threw Into The Air by Brightgem(f): 10:34am On Oct 03, 2020
i926:
You see it as humiliation but those ones picking the money call it blessing grin. If I were there, I can't even try it cuz pride won't let me sef. I don't even watch BBN.
I get, but it is him humiliating the people in the streets and the fact that the street people too are humiliating themselves, because when people scamper like that, it's a mini stampede and people could get injured or even die.
CelebritiesRe: Laycon's Fans Scamper For The Naira Notes He Threw Into The Air by Brightgem(f): 11:04pm On Oct 02, 2020
i926:
It's always good to give back to the streets. Spraying N100k won't stop his shine.
By humiliating people and throwing money for people to scamper for. Wow! Naija yoots grin how we think Sha. Well, some of us don't give a rat ass abt BBN and it's participants. Not surprised at his behavior, he emerged from a stinky show. So....
CelebritiesRe: Laycon's Fans Scamper For The Naira Notes He Threw Into The Air by Brightgem(f): 11:00pm On Oct 02, 2020
There you go. Very few people who come by sudden wealth are equipped to handle it.

The same youths who criticize govt for doing things like this, won't see anything wrong in their beloved BBN pipo doing this. You humiliate people by having them scamper for money. Using their poverty to elevate yourself. Issokay. It's the people who give the show attention I blame.
RomanceRe: 95% Of Female Students Will Die Of Hunger If Married Men Stay Faithful —lady Rev by Brightgem(f): 12:51pm On Oct 02, 2020
okay. So says a lady with a functioning brain to post this nonsense but a lazy and unproductive life to make something out of their own lives without married men. If you are in school, then somebody put you there and if you are content you'll be fine, plus school is one of the easiest pace to do business, sell a product or render a service, the market is there for you.

Anyways if you are not lazy. Download this FREE ebook - THE SIDE HUSTLE BOOM.

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In it are tips for already existing businesses to find specific ways they can locate more customers.

So what if you don't even know how to do business? You are not business savvy? There are other IDEAS shared in this book, just for you.
And for those who are job hunting, you may have been doing somethings the wrong way and THE SIDE HUSTLE BOOM gives you some tips to be a more efficient Job searcher.

Click the link provided and get your copy.

LiteratureRe: In Search Of A Creative Short Story Writer by Brightgem(op): 12:49pm On Oct 02, 2020
This gig is closed now. Thanks for your interests.
LiteratureIn Search Of A Creative Short Story Writer by Brightgem(op): 3:28pm On Sep 29, 2020
Hello,

In need of a creative short story writer for a blog, not less than twice a month. Writer will have to write stories with strong moral lessons around life issues and topics like Faith and Fate. Manners, Right and wrong. Hypocrisy. Values. Honesty. The price for selling your soul. Moral Dilemmas and other such themes. Story should be well tied together and writer will be expected to come up with very catchy, ridiculous, shocking or funny titles for their stories.

Each story can simply be a 1 or 2 pager, as long as the essence of the message is captured. You also have the option to be acknowledged as the writer of the story if you wish.

Offering N2,500 for each of the stories written.

Reach out if interested.
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RomanceAbnormal Things People Now Do At Weddings by Brightgem(op): 12:27pm On Sep 26, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G5iIpI5vSsY


People now do funny, absurd, weird and out rightly ridiculous things at their weddings.

From going back to an ex before a wedding to spending beyond affordable, and more Watch this video on ABNORMAL THINGS PEOPLE NOW DO AT WEDDINGS. Happy viewing.

RomanceRe: A Story Of A Young Man Who Used To Maltreat His Siblings? by Brightgem(f): 12:14pm On Sep 26, 2020
lolz! This one is serious o! Closure is needed. Let the hurt one explain to the siblings how what they did hurt and if they don't apologize. free them. Also how are we sure it's not the person that claims to be hurt that did the siblings wrong or lived a bad life, hence he provoked them to insult him. I have a younger brother that keeps misbehaving, and I have told him I will get him locked up one day especially if I catch him disrespecting our mother beyond acceptable ever again.
FamilyYou Are Not A Queen by Brightgem(op): 3:53pm On Sep 22, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60ss8-m5H1I&t=1s


Anyone can easily call themselves a queen.
Are you a Queen if continue to be a baby mama to multiple men?
Are you a queen if you verbally of physically abuse your man or manipulate him?
Are you a queen if you use vulgar language?
Are you a queen if you are always objectifying yourself by how you dress or treat yourself?

Queens are not ordinary and mediocre. YOU ARE NOT A QUEEN IF... To find out the IF part, watch and share your thoughts.

PoliticsRe: Bulama Mustapha: Aisha Buhari Reacts To Daily Trust Cartoon On Hanan's Wedding by Brightgem(f):
Christians often ask. What would Jesus do? Got to ask Mama Hanan. What would the prophet do in a time when there's pain, hunger a pandemic etc?

Rumor has it you didn't travel for health reasons, but to shop for this wedding. Yet you want us to grow Naija and you could not shop for wedding here?

Sorry ma, setting example isn't by mouth, you have to live that example. Yes your children will get married, but something called decorum and modesty is needed.

Nigerians aren't having it easy and what do you expect when you who should make their lives better flaunt opulence.
RomanceRe: I Caught My Guy's Fiancee In Another Man's House by Brightgem(f): 11:14am On Sep 06, 2020
Ahmed0336:
grin

Three things are involved.

1. You can tell your friend.

2. Strike an agreement with her that you won't tell your friend, chop her then tell your friend.

3. If you keep quiet and your friend goes ahead and marry her your conscience will forever haunt you.




Singing these hoes ain't loyal till chorus fade.....
Who are hoes? Disloyal people attract disloyal people. You all should stop calling women derogatory names.

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