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PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

Always heart warming when a beautiful, sensible comment like this makes first comment. Hope many see and think straight. Too many people not thinking straight these days.

mrchineke:
Ok, come and marry me by force na. See if you will not be 6ft under in 6 months.

Who is this one? Do you realize you just made a threat of killing someone? Just because you are on the internet you can talk as you like.

Anyways my life is not bound to be lost in the hands of another human being, because I'm also careful not take stupid decisions and I watch my company, so the day I will meet a demon like you who has the intention of killing, God will take you first to that 6ft under you so desire such that I never even get to know you existed.

Let everyone be responsible for their actions. You don't like a woman but can sleep with her recklessly to get pregnant and I should be sorry for the person? I don't waste my sympathies on nonsense.

overdrive:
See as this woman put her husband for trouble.

Not really, he is a bigger idiot. Was he blind to the things going on in their home?

I stopped reading. Na God catch you. It's just sad you'll bring in a child to your mess.

Sleeping with who you don't want to live your real life with and now forming stuck in a loveless marriage.

Realshay:
smile.. yeah I got a lot of samples..

How do you I see them. I'll send you an in mail through Nl. Pls reply with your samples

Realshay:
I can do that in a professional and creative way.. let's discuss

Hello, have you got a sample?

Offpoint:
I can do that.... If you can afford me let's talk.

Hi, before we talk affordability, you know you need to show something first. Have you got samples?

I'll like to find a good photo manipulator as in the samples below, for my personal needs and other gigs.

Would like to see samples too.

Saintinoo:
I will think about what she does right, and if it outweights d wrong, i will forgive her, but warn her not to try it again.
You can't just end your marriage plans because of this, we all are criminals one way or the other. I believe you friend is not 100% pure.

yes you can end it. It's not JUST BECAUSE OF THIS it's beyond just this one action and how it will reflect in other things. You might excuse it, maybe even eat the money with her, Bonne and Clyde them. His life his decision.

Saintinoo:
Those banks are also robbing us, they hardly return the illegal charges on our account.
If you think you can have an angel as a wife, then try and watch your own life and see if you have no fault.

Hush puppy Junior. How are you doing? Can you see the nonsense you just typed and so because people are not perfect you shd be so unperfect you can steal eh.

Let me help you small, you see that money she wants to eat, it's a banker that will pay for it from his salary or her salary. YOU HEAR? Maybe a contract staff earning 70k working 7 to 7 every damn day.

Don't let me curse you with this comment along with those who liked your comment. Stop excusing bad behavior. And don't give us that BS that no one is perfect.

SAYS A LOOOOOOOOT! SCARY EVEN! HUSHPUPPI BEGINNER LEVEL.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

She is talking about companionship not sexing around mister man. Besides women are more likely to stay unmarried after a spouse death who they have lived long with they will rather endure the loneliness and they feel it's more honorable for them and the kids will have more stability than having another man in their lives. Too much conflict.

Also, address your fears with the person you are in a relationship with. You can get clearer answers from her.

comshots:
Legitimate hustlers always find it hard to be rich in Nigeria.Is it the #20k salary for non graduate and #40k salary for graduate that someone will work till he dies?Had it been hushpuppy was in Nigeria he would be struggling to make ends meet with all these peanuts jobs as salaries.
I am not supporting crime but hushpuppy should be in the categories of Nigerian politicians.They are fraudulent.

So when are you leading the campaign and march to catch the politicians. That's why you have a moniker like that, sense is distant, all these I'm not supporting something BUT... But what? Are we talking about politicians right now or Hush puppy?

itsme01:




Two Movie Producers that see movie Production Business as war and battlefield are Kunle Afolayan and Funke Akindele

They don't joke on set , to them a movie Project is like NASA rocket lunch that no mistake must be tolerated

Well if I am to be very fair and honest here, Funke paid you to write scripts and even gave you a lodge and a laptop to work with, now you complained she took away the TV in your lodge, and insisted you use the laptops only for scripts writing, and not Facebooking , yet you complain, why not use your own salary to buy yourself a TV, and Internet enabled device, subscribe and watch internet on your own time

Accross UAE, most recruitment firms would paste it openly that they don't want Nigerians, they accept Ethiopians , Cameroonians , Ugandans and other Africans , then I curiously asked an HR with this recruitment firm why, the lady said they had bad experience with Nigerians, Nigerians sign an offer letter because of the salary without reading the responsibility

The Chagaoury are now using labourers from India, Benin Republic and others for Eko Atlantic,

Dangote refinery also uses Indians and Chinese

And if you think ordinary Nigerians are worst try the civil servants


.

Wow! Insightful. So Las Las are we not lazy? This is sad. And yes after reading this I dnt get her rant, you had just one job, write scripts. I thought I'd read an extremely unfair treatment or something. Film making is their business, they can't be joking with it.

ethicallyright:
kneel and beg him. Pacify his damn ego if you love him. Submit to him.

SUBMIT to him, women are now differentiating between that word and slavery as well as suffering.

I must have wronged you terribly for me to go on my knees and beg you. If you meant what you said, you are a big time joker.

Alwaysachick:
Even when its obvious he is being in considerate. What happened today? He told me to go change my laptop battery today. He wanted me to leave my house by 4pm to Ikeja. My house to Ikeja is like 2hrs journey. I tried to pacify him that I will go first thing in the morning but he insisted and started bringing up other talks.

You know the answer stop asking. You will end up frustrated if someone cannot consider what you want and always it has to be what they want. And you used a word he behaves as if you are disobedient. Are you dating your father, boss or a partner that shd see you as equal. Why forcing you to do what is not comfortable.

Better talk to yourself, this is a red flag for you, your mind doesn't want it. There are times to feed a man's ego, but if it has to be all the time, you go tire.

Rokiatu45:
Damn people will still kick you while you’re down.

No real live or real one nowdays.


Now this dude suddenly has no family, no love one, no friends.


I am pretty sure when he was spraying money at patties and stuff he had a lot of friends.

Smh at the end of the day just do things the right way.
Because bad always comes to light.


What an incredibly lonely journey for him right now ouch.

Should we care what an incredibly lonely road it is for him? He's only just started naaa.

What about the incredibly lonely road he put many people from defrauding them? I can imagine being defrauded after saving for some years to do a particular thing.

If what befalls you is caused by your own misdeeds and deliberate missteps, it doesn't matter who's kicking while you are down, because this was something he was engrossed in even when he could have stopped.

We can only pity someone who normal life events happened to. Not this. I feel no pity whatsoever.

Rokiatu45:
Damn people will still kick you while you’re down.

No real live or real one nowdays.


Now this dude suddenly has no family, no love one, no friends.


I am pretty sure when he was spraying money at patties and stuff he had a lot of friends.

Smh at the end of the day just do things the right way.
Because bad always comes to light.


What an incredibly lonely journey for him right now ouch.

Should we care what an incredibly lonely road it is for him, he's only just started naaa.

What about the incredibly lonely road he put many people from defrauding them. I can imagine being defrauded after saving for some years to do a particular thing.

If what befalls you is caused by your own misdeeds and deliberate missteps, it doesn't matter who's kicking while you are down, because this was something he was engrossed in even when he could have stopped.

We can only pity someone who normal life events happened to. Not this. I feel no pity whatsoever.

smallsmall:
Madam, l appreciate your efforts to boost the Ministry of your husband, if all women were like you, the marriage institution wil be more stable.
Please dont relent.
If l saw your advert when l finished my house (six flats, Masonia HDF full kitchens with extensive Cupboards and lockers), l would have given it to you and your hubby but God willing, it wont be my last House.

Now, let me give you a secret. Most people here dont like to meet any seller until they are ready to patronise, even more important is that they dont like to call or chat suppliers/sellers because some of them are even outside this country and wont connect you to their Whatsapp or number.
I am talking from experience and if you doubt, l will suggest you go to that thread l listed at the bottom of this post, Read as much as you can, over there.
The thing you will observe very quickly is that the people who sell/supply the most are those who have organised their product and come up with a fair price to it..and PASTED IT ON THEIR PRODUCTS You will see pricing for almost anything connected to Building a house there.

I noticed that about two people have asked you for prices and you are asking them to connect to WhatsApp and speak with your husband!
You think those people have not seen your number or read that it has a WhatsApp? They do but they are trying to get immediate information and make an immediate decision, based ON PRICE.
75% or more of people who get such answers, wont bother anymore because there are alternatives that will give prices on their products, in the same field as yours.
A lot of people dont put their price on the product they are advertising, thinking what? I am not sure, maybe they think they can make more money if buyers dont know their price. Just maybe.

But online buyers appreciate "open sellers", especially when it comes to pricing and dont forget, l can give you a link to two other people doing Furnitures, like your husband. One of them supplied my furnitures and two of my tenants, based on my recommendation.
The thing he did was that for every product he advertises, he puts the price.
It does not change anything, if you agree and see value in it, you will contact him and arrange delivery. Its as simple as that.
Imagine if Jumia did not include prices and say buyers should contact the Sellers first, by WhatsApp?

If you dont beleive me, put price on some of your products (after doing your proper cost analysis, just a few things) as see if it generates more interest and sales, or not.
The reason l have gone to this length to explain to you is that l feel obligated to assist any woman that stands by her husband, the way you are doing. That is something we men appreciate.

You can also link your products on this thread, just dont put too much advert on it. https://www.nairaland.com/2550211/general-topic-thread-to-discuss-anything/1440

Keep up the good work and let your husband remain honest and true to hi sintegrity, the Sky is his limit.

Lolz! Who are you and what exactly is triggering you gan gan! What is the colour of your problem in life?
You don't know me but calling me a feminazzis.
And inside your chest now, you understood my write up.

Did you go through comprehension class in school at all?

Was the topic or my comment about false accusations or simply that there is no excuse for it when it does happen. To you now speaking all that English makes you intelligent.

Anyways, oga small small, it's like your brain is also small, it didn't mature properly. You can't take me from where I am to where your IQ is, boy bye.

That's the only dose of attention I have left to give you. Your opinion would have only mattered if you matter to me keyboard warrior.

Deliberately sent again so you remember where you dropped a senseless comment.

Or control what you use your eyes to look at and your mind to think about. Once you keep this in control, you are good.

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techmo:
We are doing hushpuppi give away too , Interpol, FBI , EFCC, Dubai police can keep him

And throw the keys inside hell fire

[quote author=Runjozi post=91104037][/quote]Who's woodberry?

Adiola:
go and sleep already he is Yoruba period

What is the nature of your problem. So what if he's Yoruba? Is that the point, or the point is he did something everyone is talking about. Okay, he's Yoruba, we agree. Happy now, or you want lollipop too

techmo:




168 billion naira only hushpuppi yet can't invest in Nigeria

Fvck him papa , US scams and hacking proceeds stays in US, Chinese scam stays in China , Russian and Indian scam stays in their country

But Hushpuppi omo ale jati jati scammed a whole 168 billion naira and never spent a dime in Nigeria

5billion Na waiting the whole of Oyo State they drag as allocation monthly, with salary of all civil servants, infrastructural development, Orji Uzor Kalu barely stole 12 billion from poor Abia, now Hushpuppi stole 168 billion and him no change life of him people

.

Beht he did giveaways, isn't that investment in his fellow lazy yoots

See Hush Puppy, boasting all over about his dirty wealth, with plenty people tapping in the unholy blessing. How do you defraud almost 2million people, that's families, businesses, some people's life's savings.

Then some God forsaken people who the Devil have become their partners and guardian will tell you any way na way, na scam e scam e no kee person. Should it even be well in your life for saying such?

Your kobo kobo will pay off. Leave people with the flashy life alone. Your process and consistency will pay off.

GOD bless all the legit and honest hustlers.

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How does a man tape his wife's mouth, turn on loud music pull her hair out with pliers, stab her eyes and body while she's still alive and stab her all over till she dies and then he kills himself.

Yet it is claimed the previous day the two were seen jogging together. Some people must have screamed #couplegoals

See Hush Puppy, boasting all over about his dirty wealth, with plenty people tapping in the unholy blessing. How do you defraud almost 2million people, that's families, businesses, some people's life's savings.

Then some God forsaken people who the Devil have become their partners and guardians will tell you any way na way, na scam e scam e no kee person. Should it even be well in your life for saying such?

Your kobo kobo will pay off. Leave people with the flashy life alone. Your process and consistency will pay off.

GOD bless all the legit and honest hustlers.

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smallsmall:
Go and siddon joor!
How can you ask us not to ask how it happened, ........................ even for adults?
Have you seen where a Judge pronounced a Judgement without asking from the accused person and the plaintiff, to give an account fo what happened?

Some of you Feminnazzis are just interested in using Rape allegation (as bad and evil as real rape is) to further you hidden agenda so that once you make a false Rape allegation against someone, that person should be killed. We know your type joor.

The law says "An accused is INNOCENT untli GUILT IS PROVEN".
Kill somebody and then shout rape, right?
You will be hanged in return.

Call me any name you like, but in you, l see a murderer hiding under rape.

Lolz! Who are you and what exactly is triggering you gan gan! What is the colour of your problem in life?
You don't know me but calling me a feminazzis.
And inside your chest now, you understood my write up.

Did you go through comprehension class in school at all?

Was the topic or my comment about false accusations or simply that there is no excuse for it when it does happen. To you now speaking all that English makes you intelligent.

Anyways, oga small small, it's like your brain is also small, it didn't mature properly. You can't take me from where I am to where your IQ is, boy bye.

That's the only dose of attention I have left to give you. Your opinion would have only mattered if you matter to me keyboard warrior.

Children have no query to answer before God. They have not reached the age where they have to account for good or bad. So heaven without questions.

MadeMan01:
Tomorrow women will say they are not objects

No we are not objects. When you meet an object you will know.