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Chai I so much love this, the real deal is about to start...

Politicians are scared
Police are scared

Until they change their ways, it will become more dangerous

Look at how simple and organize the UK parliament is while in Nigeria is otherwise...

#Shame on Nigeria Government
#Shame on all politicians in Nigeria
#Shame on the military
#Shame on the police

This is only the end of the beginning, the government,, the elders have all failed us...
This is a wake up call

I believe all of them must have fly out of Nigeria

Kingdemu:
You see why I've been saying it is no longer a protest but civil unrest? Infact it legally ceased to be a protest the moment curfew was imposed.

It's unfortunate that the situation has reached this level. However, Nigerian army acted within the ambience of the law.

Section 33 sub 2 of Nigerian constitution has justified their act:

The section states;
(2) A person shall not be regarded as having been deprived of his life in contravention of this section, if he dies as a result of the use, to such extent and in such circumstances as are permitted by law, of such force as is reasonably necessary –

(a) for the defence of any person from unlawful violence or for the defence of property:

(b) in order to effect a lawful arrest or to prevent the escape of a person lawfully detained; or

(c) for the purpose of suppressing a riot, insurrection or mutiny

you're quoting the constitution, did any police thought about it before brutalizing us... I am a victim of both soldiers and police brutality so I don't have any remorse they can do what ever they want to do...

omoharry:
Me too..I am sad & my heart is heavy .

my heart is bleeding what did we do wrong to deserve this absolutely nothing may God help us

I can't sleep, my heart is broken

Brutality of SARS, I wept when I was reading there stories
We Nigerians has suffered in the hand of this cruel individuals... May just prevail by all means what ever it takes

#Endsars
#Endpolicebrutality
#Endbadgovernment

Your prediction is very much incorrect, CIA is know for their brutal way of destroying nation but there's an expection... Whether they back buari or not is not obtainable

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Meedon:
Though. I've written a book on this particular issue in the month of May. But I'm still battling with this issue lately.

My motivation is very low.... I mean, I procrastinate a lot. It got so bad, that I even procrastinate standing up from bed in the morning.

Are you having the same issue? If yes drop your comment.

And if you have any solution on this, please drop your candid advice also.


Taink you.

There no procrastination in my life, I have eliminated it completely the money I make on a daily basis keeps me motivated... The only think I procrast on is gratification I delay it big time...

If you are masturbating quite cuz it drains energy

Use you bodyweight to exercise in the morning before 7 am

You are in you comfort zone so step out of it

Pstarogood0100:
EASIER SAID THAN DONE

From what you said, she gave you her virginity. It implies that you have both come a long way, sweet memories and you have both shared a lot in common. So, how do you think you can do without such person easily. It won't be easy for you bro . You can't let go of the feelings you have for her easily. Try as you can, you won't be able to suppress the feeling for too long even when you try to forget her completely, its not just possible. Trying to forget her will work for you for sometime but won't last for a long time. And if you are not careful enough, you will be the one to beg her for reconciliation. I have been there before and I know how you feel right now.


But, at this point you need to swallow the redpill and accept the truth.

You have both come a long way, you disvirgin her right? You have both share sweet memories and all the good time.

At this time, you need to sit and analyse the situation. you need to ask yourself this questions and answer it by yourself.

1. Who is misbehaving between the two of you.

2. Are you sure you are not the one overreacting?

3. Are you sure she is not beginning to cheat on you? Because ladies start to misbehave when cheating you with another person.

Now, relax and take a deep breath. Don't take it too far as you are taking it.

Sometimes, in a relationship the partners tend to loose interest in each other because of too much availability. We might want to try something new, that's human nature. The relationship might become boring sometimes, you know...

Now listen. From your write up, she is the one misbehaving. Because, for you to tell her to her face that you can get any lady anytime you like shows that she must have been doing something worth suspicious of cheating. And for she to start avoiding you because of telling her that you have the capable of getting another lady without stress. Its a clear indication that she is up to something nasty before you told her, but she want to use what you told her to her advantage. Don't fall for it.

Even though, you told her you have options, is not enough for her to take it to the level she is taking it to. DON'T FALL FOR SUCH TRICK . she's only doing what she has in mind to do and now you have given her reason to do it. At the end of the day she would want to play the BLAME GAME.

IF YOU ASK ME OF MY OPINION ABOUT THIS.

For me, she is your girlfriend and you truly love her, even if you deny this FACT .I know that you truly love her. So, breaking up with her is not what you should consider.

In as much as redpill doesnt preach manipulating or treating women badly . I won't advice you to hate her for her action rather, you need to take the bold action and command the situation to your favour. She is your woman, so is your duty to take what belongs to you and that's what you truly want. But, because you are clueless of what to do to get her back that's why you are considering breakup.

There is always bitter feelings when we break up with our partner when they are the one that facilitate the breakup. But, we feel fulfilled when we successfully break up with them because we don't want them again. The later is always better.

Now, in your case. She is the one trying to cause the breakup but it would have been better if you break up with her rather than she breaking up with you. It is always good when you are the one breaking up with her than she breaking up with you.

THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL DO IF YOU STILL WANT HER BACK.

Swallow the redpill and accept the truth. You are not married to her and that doesn't make her your property. So, she has the right to explore other things out there. And may be that's what she has been trying to do and now she wants to make you see that you have given her reason to do that.

As for you, you need to have abundant mentality. Not by saying it but by doing it. You need to make yourself scarce at the moment and you must ensure it 100%. This is the only way to get her back. For what she wants to explore out there won't favour her. However , it will favour her if you can't let go of her at the moment. THIS IS NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH swallow the truth has a man. For I know for sure that it won't be easy for you to let go of her. But you need to do it at the moment if you want to get her back. She will definitely come back to you.

While she keep flirting with another guy. Use this opportunity to brush yourself up and soak yourself up into the ocean of redpill and upgrade your game to the highest level. Life is too short to worry about those who don't want us.

Understand those things that must have make her to consider cheating and make yourself better in those things. Lean to improve yourself, focus more on yourself than focusing on her. You must not always assume she will be with you because of the love she has for you, instead always make yourself better and work on yourself to suit what your partner desires. Try to become who your partner want instead of building your relationship on love. Even though this is not a sure guaranteed to keep her forever but it will enable you to move on faster after break up and life in general.

WHAT SHOULD YOU DO FROM HERE.

Always go close to her and pretend as if you have nothing against her. Don't ever you quarrel with her over anything until you see any tangible something to accuse her with. Accuse her if you find any evidence and prove and if you don't see anything it will worsen the case if you accuse her, by then it will all become your fault.

Any which way, if she keeps annoying you and avoiding you, quarrel her over it and just ignore her by all means. Keep distance with her. By all means avoid her call. Delete her number from your phone for this will help you avoid any temptation of calling her. PLEASE, make sure you keep to this attitude until she comes back to you. And if she didn't come back, move on with your life. There are many fishes in the river. You are a man and you must learn to move on in life.

For , I know for sure that she will come back. SHE WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK. You don't have anything to fear about loosing her, she is still yours if you play the game right. She will come back. But make yourself unavailable for her for she to miss you and regret her action.

I went out to eat while I was In the shop and she called me and told me that she's in the shop I told her to wait for me that am coming.. When I got the shop a customer was already there I didn't give any attention I just ignored her for the time being to attend the the customer.. She was looking at me but I didn't utter any word...

The next thing I did was to say am sorry and now asked why she acted that way, breaking up with me just like that, she said i caused it that she was sick and I was busy texting another girl... That she needed my attention and I didn't give it her, when she saw the text she was devastated...

Anyway I talked sense into her and explained my ordeal although she was still acting up, I just ignored her cuz all she needed more attention, i did withdraw it a bit.... The next thing she did was to cuddled me from the back, I turned and kissed her and reassured her that there's nothing to worry about, I told her I love her and am not cheating on her and that was it

I had to fixed an appointment the go out on a date this evening, to make it up to her...

I can't afford to loose her, I know am being too hard cuz all she ever wanted was my attention but I failed to keep up to that, I was too hard on her I guess I have learned my lesson

Thanks allot you are indeed a true unknown friend and a wonderful adviser... I appreciate!

TheUndercover:
Then ignore her, if she's not giving you listening ears then it's her headache not yours. Don't call her. Don't let any girl to emotionally drain you. Just focus on yourself bro and keep handling productive activities.

When she comes around, Don't be so cheap, let her chase you then after a while calm her down and hurt her with the truth. Tell her you won't tolerate that type of attitude any longer. If she doesn't trust you or she brings up any similar issues like this that you won't have any choice than to stop the relationship with her since you can't be with who can't trust you. I guess you guys are in a sexual relationship right? Hope she's faithful also sha ?

yes we are, she gave me her virginity...

Pstarogood0100:
From what you said, you told her how women flocks around you. That's bad of you to be sincere. You don't tell woman. Let them see it theirself in a cunning way. You don't tell them but show them

There are many ways to do it. If you are the type that doesn't double date but then, you just need to let her know that you have options. You want to prove to her that you choose not to double date her not because you can't or not because other ladies are rejecting you.

Its too mediocrity to tell your partner that other ladies wants to get along with you. Let her see it and believe it not by telling her.

Let me share my recent story with you. A day after the boyfriend day, I was chatting with my girlfriend. She asked me about how I spent my boyfriend day. I took the opportunity to make her jealous and to prove to her that I have options. But I didn't tell her directly.

I waited for the conservation to suit my plan. I was lucky when she asked me how I spent it and who did I go out with. I sent her a picture of a beautiful lady and I. I asked if she recognized the lady in the picture. Immediately, I deleted the picture. She became uncomfortable and asked me why I deleted the picture. I claimed I didn't have the intention of sending the picture, Infact "am not interested in the conversation any more".

She insisted that I must resend the picture. That was how I ended the chat with her. She called me a cheat. I told her different story entirely about the girl. She claimed I went out with her on the boyfriend day. I told her something differently about the lady.

At the end of the day, after much quarrels and argument. I admitted that the lady in question called me and forced me on that very boyfriend day to go out with me. I apologized to my girlfriend and told her that it won't happen again.

NOTE: the story about going out with another lady was framed up. It didn't happen. Naturally, I don't have time for ladies let alone flirting around. Am much into what will profit me financially and self development than chasing ladies around. However, getting ladies is never a problem to me.

But, sometimes we just have to do certain things just to balance up, which you were trying to do. But to me you messed up by telling her directly.

@ Brunosamel
There are many ways to communicate it to her by telling her you have options or other ladies want you. You just need to play your card well.

DONT TELL BUT LET IT BE SEEN.

thanks bro I won't be direct next time, but for what is worth I have learn my lesson... But I guess our time together is due

pcguru1:
I won't lie that text feels odd, especially calling another person babe and the person talking like you guys had something. You can be forming red pill but this is not right. If I see such text in my babe's phone I might walk out because of distrust. So its why I don't entertain women calling me babe or dear, because of mutual respect. Las las everyone go dey alright sha

I have never cheated on her she is getting is all wrong period, as for me I can't do otherwise... I just need time to move on

falcon01:
you Cheating motherfucker . you ain't faithful but sha she suppose no act like that because even if you are guilty she should have allowed you explain and get out if the situation... let her f*cking leave.

am no longer holding her, I might be a ladies man but am not a cheat... I don't hoe around

TheUndercover:
Hmm, to my own opinion, you don't need to acknowledge that women are flocking you, of course she sees that, saying that will just hurt her more. Hope your words is not contradicting with your actions? Like hope you're not doing things that will make her keep questioning your love for her? Its true to always let ladies be on their toes that you can always leave but it has to come in moderation bro but don't be dependent on her and don't let her take you for granted or disrespect you.

Ladies find it hard to trust guys that are ladies man, but since you've assured her but she's still doubting you (I hope you're not cheating also) then just act normal around her and ignore her when she brings it up again, that if she cannot trust you she should let you be. But if she insists, there's a chance she might be cheating also.

thanks bro I have tried talking to her but she is not giving me a listening ears, she have refuse to pick my call... I love her and I have never cheated on her although she have been acting lately I guess thats the way she want it to be I can't do other wise...

pcguru1:
Is comfort your girlfriend ?

nope she a girl I just met

Coder2Client:
Don't tell her to come back. In fact, tell her not to come back or call again. Delete her number, unfriend her on all social media. Get into new relationship. Work on your emotions. Don't get attached to a lady. Don't do things to impress or oppress your ex only the weak does that. Do things because it is your thing and not for show. Omo life is simple if you know the rules.

thanks bro this is impacting, although I feel sad but am happy cuz you guys got my back

@Dpychologist

Please is there anything wrong with this sms
Cuz my girlfriend broke with me because of it this morning

eazzzy1:
You made a post about finding the redpill constitution on October 4, 1 week later your girlfriend dumped you.

You are hurt but masking your hurt under the thought of let me focus on my life, you forgot to focus on your life till you got dumped? You won’t focus on your life, she will move on and you will also start looking for someone else to show you can move on too, but whatever you find will end again, till you fix your thought.

Your girl found an implicating text on your phone, instead of you to apologize or explain to her you tell her she will regret leaving you, are you Jeff Bezos?

This is just the beginning of series of heartbreak for you. The redpill teaches you how to treat women like trash, they don’t teach you how to deal with the resulting heartbreak.

The earlier you know most of these redpill guys are just good writers the better for you, most do not practice what they tell you. This is why young people should stay off social media, TV or anything that can adversely influence them.

this first thing I did was to apologize, told her there's nothing going on between our two but she didn't care at all, she broke up with me via sms... Please is there anything wrong this sms

Fact1:
Give her explanation nah,,,,,,she might have got it wrong,,,,,,,, people above me are just hypocrite,,,,,,,,,, yesterday i sent a post to one nairaland male and he misinterpreted it ,,,i have to beg him,,,,,,,,, morever who knows the type of message she saw,,,,,,,,,

biko what is wrong with this sms

DenreleDave:
Incase you are planning to send her money b4 the break up, pls lemme forward my acct number so dt u can share it. Gimme half and use half for used..

Chai this guy you are funny, send wetin for this hash economy, am not saying am perfect but life goes on

Coder2Client:
So, your life depends on the girl?
When she was going after break up, did you tell her not to come back?

I told her to come back but she said is over, I guess she has already made up her mind.. I can't kill myself na

Hello guys I got the shock of my life this morning, my girlfriend broke up with me becuz she saw an sms of a girl in my phone, she never asked for an explanation or the person she just ended it... I told her she is making a huge mistake if she leave me

Well I guess what Dpychologist said it's true woman are not logical indeed...

let me kuku ma focuz on my life...
I can't beg for love, i know my worth and value...

After everything set and done we are back together...
Thank you guys for your advice it really helped

This is an inspiration to me, although am yet to make a million at the age of 25 but am not loosing hope, am managing the little resources I have and also self developing myself for the bigger picture...

As an accountant I know allot about money and how money works but when you don't have a helping hand and rich siblings you have to try your best with God in front of you to make something out for yourself

My business plan is set already just building up resources to startup, I don't know where God is taking to but all I know is I've got the intellectuals and prepared for any outcome or opportunities...

Poverty is a choice, I keep pushing what ever it takes
One thing is for sure any day I clock a million, am millionaire for life...

Sorry bro is your problem, I can't give you any advice cuz am not married but for what is worth life is too short don't let marriage destroy your life....

Lolz congrats to her

Davash222:
We’ve lost a brother to these vagina citizens.

indeed we have lost one I pity his boring life... Since I embraced red pills my life has never been the same...

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flyingpig:
can I have the link and read too

enjoy it bro
https://www.nairaland.com/6096237/redpill-constitution-bitter-truths/4