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This was exactly the way mountain of fire in my area was disturbing one man who is suffering from high blood pressure, the man went I called minister of health and they intervene and shut down the speaker... Instructed them to take in inside and directed them on number of speakers to use... Case closed the man is now one of the most respected person in my area

KimberlyWest:
No, he doesn't spend 30k on me monthly. He doesn't even spend a dime for months. That's because I work and I have dreams and aspirations, which doesn't include collecting stipend or allowance. We're both young and we have a future to work towards.

But, there's no template for a good relationship. If OP chooses to give his girlfriend that amount, I won't tell him he's doing the wrong thing.

Just because you can't spend on a girl, doesn't mean another guy won't.

See me, see sleep. No mentions again, biko. I'm sure the Op has made his decision sef.

good night jare and thank you for telling yourself the truth

KimberlyWest:
Thanks. But don't advice a guy to dump his girlfriend cuz he spends on her. A simple advice like, "Speak to her and cut down on the amount you spend. Tell her to get a job to pay some of the bills" would have made more sense than asking him to dump her.

The grass is not greener on the other side.

By the way, I don't see my boyfriend coming to nairaland to wail about my supposed entitlement. Until he does that, your opinion doesn't count.

tell yourself the truth do your boyfriend spend 30k on you every month, please let call what that is bad, bad!....
You only keep your wife on monthly stipend not your girlfriend... Besides Is only a simps that please women to that extent, I have learned my lessons so no girl in this planet will mess with me... Fuvk Love

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

see them Entitlement clientele picking offense.... Keep showing your true character...
If 30k was 1% of his salary as you said why is he now complaining to the extent of posting it here on nairaland.com...

How can you be spend a 30k on your girl monthly, how much do you spend on your mama every month.. You are wasting your resources imagine investing 30k every month for two years in any financial instruments...

Mere looking at things it's really draining you financially.... My guy dump her sorry ass and find another girl even if you going to spend it should be the least 7k and give you mama 23k every month and see how your doors opens

michjunior:
tryin....i did love her shaa....
cant love again wit ma hrt anymore

don't say that always you never can tell the next girl that will come close to your heart

Atleast you are awake now congratulations...
Next time let your intentions known before initiating anything with another female....
Move on to the next one bro

You girls always think sex is a big deal in a relationship someone who has been with you for years and willing to settle down with you and you deny him sex... If you are a virgin and he's a virgin what's the point of no sex and beside sex will come along way to help in your marriage...
Having sex is a thing and satisfying each other is another of which you both learn how to with the right knowledge and experience...

Funny this is exactly the way my ex met another guy while I was away hustling, she had the effortary to tell me how she kissed her and that she doesn't love me....

6 months later she saw my first picture on facebook and was like wow baby you have forgotten about me I told her no that she should come visit me I bleeped her like a dog and told her shebi you are still dating that guy, she said yes and I said bravo continue with him cuz I have moved on and this is farewell sex that I gave you...

She started accusing me of using and dumping her, Na so life be don't take shit from bitches give her space and when ever she visits Bleep her and dump her sorry ass

puremaker7:
and guys should be very careless, hmm?

don't misinterprete please

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

See brother am currently dating one she is one the sweetest girl I ever met, she has a good heart and Pray for me to succeed... She doesn't demand money from me and she loyal to the core... Her mom is aware we are dating and her brother too, they are so peaceful and quite... She love me to the core of her heart and always apologize and take corrections when ever she is wrong

I knew she goes to the church before we even started dating, I think she is my missing piece... I have been to all white garment church excluding hers, I asked her about her church and she told me what's in it that people are afraid of what they don't know as for me I don't believe anyone can hunt me spiritually as long as I have a pure heart and doesn't think bad of other...

This is the way a my friend brother missed the love of his life becuz of the girl goes to OOOBU CHURCH, another man married the girl and they travelled abroad in a short time and the guy is full of regrets laying blame on his parents for not allowing him to marry her... His is currently divorced right now

So my advice, you should know yourself and trust your gut one thing about me is that I also try what I don't understand so as to get gain an idea or knowledge about it... I'm only scared of the almighty and not any human
So don't let religion stop you from living your life and enjoying it cuz life is too short to be wasted....

I love my girlfriend cuz she loves me and understand me
She once told me I'm a star of which I know I am...
So bro enjoy the ride when you can and leave everything to the God almighty

Nigeria has become a laughing stock, bandits are no longer targeting civilian but rather police men... Very soon next will the politicians

This op dey look for sense

Ladies should be very careful... I pray she survived

Bright future indeed when the dullard has turn everything in Nigeria upside down...

Frankiecrenshaw:
tell your pastors acquiring billions everyday

I hardly go to church but I read my Bible everynight before going to bed... I pay my tithe to my mom
Money is sweet and more sweeter when you use it to help someone in need...

Everybody should learn from this statement material things is not the main purpose God created us... Other than wasting your money on unusable material stuffs use the money to help the needy... I rest my case

Brothers in the building, my best friend all his life doesn't know anything about women, he is 26 and still a virgin, have never dated any girl before in his life.. Sometime he seems scared and sometimes he get rejected because he is too nice. He is currently away from home and still not changes...

I got fed up and sent him a TRP link to read, told him I will consult the elder for any questions and comments

Good day guys what will you do if given one million naira, how will you grow it...

OBhdae:
She/he is a male.. Lol

imagine that, I pity him like Na woman wrapper wey him be

Silentgroper:
Lol.. Na man b dat o

quite unfortunate a man will be acting like a lady, there's no Brainer in this act

SILENTandSMART2:
Aswear my boyfriend spend dollars on me he ain't broke at all,


He bought a car for me so what's you point ?

Please don't curse me oo, me and you will go far in life ,

she still countered, Chai I pity your so called boy... Small girl with vill mentality be boasting what you are not we'll know better...

SILENTandSMART2:
Shut up,


Only broke guys say dis


Nah you go born baby abi?

Dat baby Alone is enough for you to spend all your dollars on me,

Please i don't like stress at all

I knew will counter me, is your type that doesn't listen to genuine advice and don't usually go far in life because of your vill mentality... Make your money and stop depending on broke ass niggas for financial gain...

See this one talking as if she has a rich boyfriend...

SILENTandSMART2:
As for me,


Yunno as a sexy and beautiful girl all i want is money, I don't care about your stature,


Just hold dollars and spend it on me,


I don't do broke ass niga at all,

They like story,

look at them Entitlement done enter your head... Go and make your own money jera

Where is the bump up specs, ordinary p35 scrap

Up Chelsea
4-1

Goal! Up Chelsea
Blues till I die

LordPsalm:
Guys instead of betting on football games and loose everything, why not bet on boxing, even if you lose, at least you know that the guy that made you lose got the beating of his life ......��

omoba you wicked but true talk dey inside it

True talk, illiterate governing the intelligent once and trying to subdue them...

Am suffering from ulcer too,. Mine accumulated when I was in School, doctor said it wasn't bacteria nor NAIDS drugs but rather stress but am grateful it's under control...

Don't have money I would have gone for PPI or do surgery so that it will be totally removed from the stomach... Until then I have to keep taking my ulcer drugs on a regular basis...

My dear, take your medication serious, it's not a death sentence, I still eat any food that I want, drink alcohol and smoke sometimes...

It's a relief to see that jumia cares about those who lost their life in lekki toll gate...
At least they cares, i'll be buying my birthday gift on jumia this year