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Man cancels his wedding and relocates to UK alone after his fiancée insisted that N1m is too small for their wedding

J. cole said crime pays like a per time Job Crime is not a long term game if crime pays you get the Bleep out of it and retire legitly. No regrets I wish hushpuppi the best

Karma is indeed a bitch Atiku go collect wotowoto

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sweetellar:
What an ignorant comment. Why is that so hard to believe?
Thousands of children die daily in Nigeria from diseases exacerbated by malnutrition. That data is very correct

Its hard bro there's nothing like that the data is no bias stop believing these Organizations

Which can lie be this, this unicef can dey useless

afrika:
ONLY PEOPLE OF ABIA STATE CAN TELL US THE TRUTH.

ABIA STATE TODAY SEEMS TO BE LIVING IN THE SHACKLES AND BONDAGE OF DARKNESS.

IF IT IS NOT ORJI UZOR KALU HOUSES AND LANDS...IT IS OCHENDU CLOSES AND STREETS OWNED.

POOR STATE CAPITAL, POOR INFRASTRUCTURES.


LOOK AT THE PRESENT GOVERNOR.
ABIA HAS BEEN UNFORTUNATE THOUGH.

TOO BAD AND HERE WE ARE CELEBRATING ANOTHER OF OUR SONS, THE JAGABAN OF ABIA STATE.

Honestly he deserves the award am from Abia north and when I travel back home I was shock because alof the project the senator completed and he's still doing more the road to my village is well tad and we now have boreholes, streetlight and electricity all thank to him he want him continue to do more for people of Abia north

immortalcrown:
Why showing only him and his award?

Show pictures and videos of projects he completed in the constituency, let us see the standards. Don't just list the projects.

Honestly he deserves the award am from Abia north and when I travel back home I was shock because alof the project the senator completed and he's still doing more the road to my village is well tad and we now have boreholes, streetlight and electricity all thank to him he want him continue to do more for people of Abia north

obembet:
I don't think anybody in this great forum press phone than I do which I believe it as become something else. I can't stay 5 minutes without. Touching my phone.

I have my phone with me at all times and check it hundreds of times a day. From WhatsApp Message to Nairalander to Twitter and so on.

Please my great Nairalanders, help me, how can I reduce this attitude, it becoming something else.

As long as you are doing something productive like trading bitcoin, reading and creating content there's not need to panic.

Hope uzodinma should start packing his bags cuz he won't small That sit ever again he never won the election thanks to BVAS no more rigging imo people will sack him finally.

Some Nigeria men keep blaming woman where's they are the major problem we have after South Africa Nigeria is the next most Simping men we have in Africa. Zero standard a women will cheat over and over again some will still accept her back, some will train a kids who isn't theirs, placing monthly salaries on their girlfriends for no reason, investing a girlfriend which result to wasted investment, will tolerate disrespect, are controlled by the women on decision and many more.

Many lacks the zeal and the will to be strong and Stoic some are mama's boys and soy boys some are hustler's but lack sex control and waste all there resources on pussy and many more.

The high time Nigeria men start creating good standards for themselves the earlier all this ladies starts sitting up.

Nigerian women are not the problem it's Nigerian men who are the problem she did something wrong maybe cheating on you and you forgave her over and over again do you even have standards for yourself.

Every man should endeavour to Learn how to be strong and Stoic in personality roughly ten months you are already talking about marriage no vetting or strong testing to know who you are dealing with.

Most men don't understand what marriage means the origin of it, build yourself with abundance Mindset learn to move on as quick as possible, have high standards and forgive but never accept a cheat
Never date one particular woman even nature is against it, learn game and intersexul dynamics, create your own world and don't be a paragon of civilization

If you have good and rear personalities no woman, I repeat no woman will even think of leaving or cheating on you cuz stop blaming Nigerian women and be your own kings and your spouse will be your courtier who will forever be loyal and please you.

Why not save yourself the hassle and confront her yes she is a good woman but you don't deserve her, you deserve better
Men should start setting high standards for themselves especially in this modern days don't settle for less because she has nice qualities you like there're other women that are far better than her The only thing that money cannot buy is loyalty you deserve better and it's never too late as a man to start a fresh. Move on bro don't train a child who is not yours either he resent you or you will regret it in future.

What is holding you back from sending her packing
Never settle for less or you will regret it in future forget about your investment men will always bounce back and recover

This is what you get when you they tell you work on yourself make money, work hard bluh bluh bluh and here comes the disadvantages a grown up man of 45 years lacks game don't know how to approach woman or get what he wants He's making a fool out of himself, he's hard work and money may not save him

Guys when building yourself learn game too and intersexul dynamics, how to approach woman and how to act and treat woman you will need it in the long run.

As for your friend don't do a shit on his behalf
Never seek or ask favour on behalf of someone else to the master it will bring resentment. If he refuse to be your friend move on he's not worth the hassle.

Life is hard especially for men you have played your own part by helping him but his ego and small change he got staying with yahoo boys gave him the impression he has arrived.

Forgive him but never ever spend a dime on him allow him to face his punishment, everything action has its consequences so let him bare it he's a man

Don't stress yourself over it cuz natural you are a good person but sometimes being good is not worth the hassle you need to show you can do bad all by yourself, it brings not only respect to you but also you build a good reputation for yourself cuz you have the power to do both good and bad & that's what makes you a man.

sholay2011:
God bless you.

I wonder if some of those commenting here are actually married in real life. If OP can pack out because of such, she needs to really work on herself, and that is not to excuse what her husband did. I wonder what would happen when her husband does something 'worse' in the future? In marriage, we forgive and forbear. We would offend each other. We would see the best and worst sides of each other, and that's okay. We discuss issues as two adults, and not act like kids. The husband no try at all for not contacting her for 2 months (except there is something OP is not telling us).

Nonetheless, anyone that struggles with forgiveness (no matter how right they are) is setting him or herself up for failure in marriage. OP appears to not be emotionally-balanced and needs to go for marital counselling ASAP, first, alone, then, with her husband.

She is the masculine man here that's why she had the audacity to leave my sister collected double of the amount her husband paid for a project when he found out he never cause a scan but rather laughed it off well I guess some women are built differently

Fahvvy:
How do you forgive him?
By forgiving him na ...

Marriage is not relationship o that you can brezz in and out as you wish ...
Marriage will test and stretch you farther than anything else will ..

On a more serious note...
It's clear and glaring that you don't consider yourself as a team? ...

Let's look at your write up ...

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that "we" should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller."we" did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

So even when "two have become one" you still act as if you guys are not a team ...

The only time the word "we" appeared there, it was because it was suggested by your hubby ...

So while he sees you guys as a team, you see yourself as competitors ...

Until you change your mindset, it's best you don't go back ...

I'm not trying to excuse your hubby's actions, however, if you intend to go back with this mindset of unforgiveness, disunity and distrust, just be prepared for everyday quarrel ...

And that too will affect your kids ...

She is the masculine man here that why she carries everything for head I don't support his man action but honestly someone like me will not accept such from my wife.

advanceDNA:
Tables have turned.....this is something women do on a normal day but they cant take it..... thank God you are doing well...enjoy yourself ....you dont need a husband anyway

Wrong advice bro some women have done worst but their husband still overlooks it. What so difficult of her forgiving the young man.

Righthussle:
Na why men dey carry metal for creek na. Their only interest in Bayelsa is oil.

You see bayelsa and delta these people no get sense at all oil producing state and there's nothing to write home about.

Confirmedzombie:
This is a working visit. Your Obi cannot be received this way.

Tinubu will rule you and your entire igbos for 8yrs and thereafter handover to an hausa man.

No igbo man will ever rule Nigeria. Obi will never rule Nigeria.

The North and yoruba plus many sensible igbos will never vote obi.

Obi will lose all the SE and SS states. Keep wailing till next year.

We are enjoying your cruise

truth be told you may see the promise land and may never leave to see and experience it, tribal nazim

God1000:
As much as I hate Putin, I think this is okay but I have a question

Should one be defined by his or her sexual orientation or the values the person embodies? Britney Griners comes to mind, she fought against police brutality in US by taking a knee several times when the national anthem is being played during basketball games. But today she's on her own.

Please note that I'm not in anyway supporting LGBTQ

Meanwhile Putin's fanboys in Nigeria should relocate to Russia and worship him over there.

You don't go to another country and mess up thinking because you're a star you can do what ever you want she is lucky it's not north Korea she would have been executed

Faber:
Guy if you bleep girls below 25, chai you go enjoy the goodies wey dey inside toto, the oils, the tight grip of your d**k, their moans etc, plus they will love you like mad. Just provide for them and you're good to go


Over 30yrs toto omoh, body don dry finish from smoking, clubbing and living a rough and wayward past. You found them mostly in churches. They are good for FWB, no try relationship with them cause they are on red alert now, they can use juju or pregnancy trap you down. Don't even think of marrying them. Their long lists of exes are still there. They will still get back to them after giving you one or two kids.

They are in the churches looking for husbands, simps to save the hoe. As a guy man, find the never fully repented ones, they still crave for all those stuffs they did while they where young. Tell her you are not for marriage, of she like you, you go dey bleep the hell out of her in your crib, while she's flaunting another guy and deceiving him to marry her. You sef go dey give her strategies to make the guy marry her.

People think Baba God dey stupid to pick a 15yr old girl to be the mother of his son Jesus Christ.. Baba God no see all those retired Oloshos for Israel.

Make guys dey use their heads o.

On point my guy girls in there early 20s sweet juicy and wet pussy.
If you have find one with something doing and hardworking Omo your life go geel I have three girls in the early 20s each they are always busy with work but each visit is memorable

Templee333:
I sugest u go for women above 60yrs,they are well matured & aren't interested in fashion & make up.

What truth did he speak the dude lacks game he should learn game and stop whining.

FreeStuffsNG:
Brilliant! Asiwaju Tinubu is the most brilliant and the only thinker and doer among all of the candidates.
Check my signature for free stuffs!

I didn't see fight corruption.

Obidients here and there a third force has been awaken people are feed up with PDP and APC urchins
My vote goes to Peter Obi

advanceDNA:
The way una dey justify things done by white people is appalling and the highest level of asślicking to say the least..
...when ISIS and boko haram did same..una go wail and condemn it in all possible ways....But since na your lord and saviour putin ..u had to look for justification for putting kalashnikov rifles and RPGs in the hands of kids.....

Oga...any war that has gotten to the level of kids becoming combatant has reached negotiation for peace

Kids are the tomorrow of the country for crying out loud
..

Although I'm not in support of it but this is by far better than the west and America indoctrinating the kindergarten on sex, trans, male and female genitals and the rest of woke ideology