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Irresponsible parent and teachers.

Silly people all together. They all need to be prosecuted.

You are @ the peak of the challenges. Just be a little bit patience, and the solution will surface.

An hausa drama I watched sometimes ago is similar to your case. A lady's husband was sick to the point of death (leukaemia to be precise) and he needed an operation to survive. No money or help from no one whatsoever. And alas! The lady meet one of her long time toaster which her husband knew too though. He is rich and have everything, but wanted to help but needed the lady to sleep with him. But of-course the lady objected and damn the young man. She told her husband about it, and the poor man pleaded and pressurised his wife in sleeping with man to raise money for his treatment. What happened next was very vital. The lady reluctantly slept with the guy and collected money from him, but on getting to the hospital, behold there was a man waiting for her to pay her about N95m which he owes her late father. Eventually the operation was carried out and was successful, but after the operation the lady became sick and was taken to the hospital only to be labelled with HIV. Interesting story though, because her husband later dumped her to move on with his life with another woman.

Learn whatever you can learn from the story and behave wisely. God knows about your challenges and surely has a solution for them.

Happy Sunday.

Sunday February 28



“No one rude…is permitted on this road.”  Isa 35:8 TM

Don’t be rude

The Bible says, “There will be a highway called the Holy Road. No one rude…is permitted on this road” (v. 8 TM). Wouldn’t it be great if there was a highway specially designated for kind, considerate people? Instead, look around you; “road rage” is played out every single day. Discourteous drivers yell obscenities at fellow motorists, young and old. What’s making us so rude these days? Overbooked schedules, longer commuting times, demanding bosses, spoiled children, and the stresses of daily living? Showing patience is such a rare occurrence anymore. Ill-mannered, discourteous communication has become standard practice—even among professing Christians. Whatever happened to the Golden Rule Jesus gave us? “Do to others as you would have them do to you” (Lk 6:31 NIV). Most of the time we’re so absorbed in our own agendas that we don’t have time to even think about others! Shouldn’t our love for Christ and our desire to represent Him well here on earth have an impact on our day-to-day behavior? The Bible says, “Love is not…rude. [Love] does not demand its own way” (1Co 13:4-5 NLT). There’s never justification for being rude. So when you find yourself being impatient and discourteous, repent and recommit to following the Golden Rule. Realize that when you’re rude, you’ve made the very selfish and ungodly decision that your needs and concerns are of paramount importance. Followers of Christ are to be patient, considerate, and kind. Try to remember that today when you encounter somebody whose actions invite you to respond the wrong way.

Flavour, you are favour IJN.

God, please help this poor lady.

You are a miracle worker, and there's nothing that's too difficult for you. Please, heal this lady with all the complications in her body through the power in the blood of Jesus Christ.

She should forward this to VP Osinbajo. This country is in a mess. Let her uses the VP twitter handle.

Saturday February 27 



“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”  Pr 27:17 NLT

How to argue constructively

Arguments can be either constructive or destructive; it all depends on how you handle them. Many times our relationships fall apart or develop into unending chapters of misery because we either fail to recognize or are unwilling to face our problems before they escalate into emergencies. Rather than discuss what’s not working between us, we get into a conflict and argue about whose fault it is. In contrast to discussion that constructively airs the issues, arguments bring charges and appoint blame, which is destructive. They provoke hurt, anger, defensiveness, aggressive feelings, bitterness, and other strong emotions. That’s why the Bible says, “It is to a man’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel” (Pr 20:3 NIV). Now let’s get real for a second! This side of heaven none of us will live without differences of opinion and disagreements. Even in the best of relationships you’ll have them. And you must realize that not all conflict stems from willful behavior; it often arises through innocent mistakes and simple neglect. Entering into an honest discussion that details the reasons for the conflict helps bring clarity, understanding, and appreciation for the other person’s position. Above all, never go deaf! Pay attention to what the other person is saying. There’s nothing worse than having somebody think you’re not listening to them. It’s through open, loving discussion that our opinions about our relationships are honed and clarified. Indeed, the things you refuse to deal with can hurt your relationship more than anything else you do. That’s why the Bible says, “As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”

talktonase:
i pray the media that made her will not break her...

Amen. Plus, she needs to rooted her fame in God. Should not be carried away with fame. It is well with her IJN.

Their pictures please!

Friday February 26



“In the same way you judge others, you will be judged.”  Mt 7:2 NIV

A sobering Scripture

Here’s a sobering Scripture: “Do not judge, or you too will be judged” (v. 1 NIV). Jesus was hard on the religionists of His day because they spent their time nit-picking. They condemned the disciples for not washing their hands, and Jesus for healing on the Sabbath. Consider Jesus’ response: “You judge by human standards; I pass judgment on no one. But if I do judge, my decisions are right, because I am not alone. I stand with the Father, who sent me” (Jn 8:15-16 NIV). So here are some questions you need to answer: “Do I judge others based on their actions, and judge myself based on my intentions? When someone’s behavior doesn’t reflect a choice or decision you’d have made, are you quick to comment? When people don’t move at your pace or do something the way you want it done, do you peg them as lazy and worthless? When you hear something negative about somebody, do you repeat it before checking to see if there’s any truth in it?” Ben Franklin said, “I resolve to speak ill of no man…not even in a matter of truth; but rather by some means excuse the faults I hear charged upon others, and upon proper occasions speak all the good I know of every body.” If you’ve a genuine concern for someone who’s going in the wrong direction and have earned the right to address it, do it in the spirit of love. And remember, you earn that right by consistently demonstrating love and care for them.

Let Kemi go and hang oooo if she is not satisfy with Jumoke's new fame.

Highest, he should return the 400m, because "Ori ade ko gbodo sun ita ooo.

Lol....

2, then follow by 4.

The other two are........!

I think it's old school kind of fashion. And it make the ladies look and feel cool. I don't see anything wrong with it though.

Thursday February 25



“I…am as a sparrow alone upon the housetop.”  Ps 102:7

You can make a difference

Do you feel unqualified for the job God has given you? Do you think He picked the wrong person? Many scriptural heroes felt the same. David, whose Psalms encourage millions, “a man after [God’s] own heart,” lamented, “I…am as a sparrow alone upon the housetop.” It’s hard to imagine a less significant bird, yet Jesus said, “Not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing” (Mt 10:29 NLT). One author writes: “In our impersonal world it’s easy to underestimate the significance of one. With so many who seem more capable, gifted, prosperous, and important, who am I to think my part amounts to much? Aren’t you glad Martin Luther King Jr., Walt Disney, Winston Churchill, Irving Berlin, Abraham Lincoln, Charles Wesley, [and Mother Teresa] didn’t think that way?…How many people did it take to help the victim on the Jericho road? How many were chosen to confront Pharaoh and lead the Exodus? How many lost sheep were of concern to the shepherd? How many did God use to prepare the way for the Messiah? Just one! Centuries ago a woman named Esther thought there was nothing she could do. She was the Jewish wife of a Persian king, about to be tricked into making a disastrous decision that would exterminate the Jews…Like everyone who stands in the gap, Esther was willing to get involved to the point of sacrifice, and say, ‘If I perish. I perish’ (Es 4:16). Today ask yourself, ‘What should I be doing?’ You can make a difference.”

Wednesday February 24 


“So Moses brought their case before the Lord.”  Nu 27:5 NKJV

Constructive complaining

When you get a reputation as a complainer, people will begin to avoid you. There’s an interesting story in the Old Testament about the five daughters of Zelophehad. Here was their problem. Their father had died in the wilderness before the Israelites entered the Promised Land. He had no sons to inherit his land, and the law didn’t allow women to receive it. Consequently, without a father, brothers, husbands, sons, or other men in their immediate family, Zelophehad’s daughters were left out completely. It wasn’t fair, but it was the law. So rather than complaining to others, the sisters presented their “petition for an inheritance” to Moses and the leaders. And When Moses brought their case before God, He agreed with the women and granted their request (See Nu 27:1-11). Now, what do you think the outcome would’ve been if they’d gone around whining to everyone and anyone who’d listen instead of going directly to those who could do something about it, namely Moses and God? It’s doubtful they’d have obtained their inheritance. Understand this: God can’t bless complainers! The sin of complaining angered Him to the extent He stopped an entire generation of Israelites from inheriting the Promised Land when they were standing on the very threshold. You say, “Well, I’ve suffered an injustice, so who should I complain to?” The Lord, the One who can do something about it! The Psalmist wrote, “I pour out my complaint before Him; I declare my trouble before Him” (Ps 142:2 NAS). And that’s the best advice you can take!

He would have just divorce the woman and move on with his life rather than getting into an unnecessary situation he found himself now.

Tuesday February 23



“This day is a day of good news, and we remain silent.”  2Ki 7:9 NKJV

If you don’t tell them, who will?

The Syrian army had surrounded the city of Samaria and nothing could get in or out. It was a desperate situation. Eventually the inhabitants began starving to death. Four lepers who’d been quarantined and forced to live outside the city walls decided to go into the Syrian camp hoping to find mercy, and maybe food and water. But when they got there they discovered an army of angels had scattered the Syrians, who fled leaving behind food, water, clothing, and treasure. These four men couldn’t believe their good fortune! They ate, drank, exchanged their rags for fine clothing, gathered treasure and hid it where they could find it later. Then they remembered that in Samaria their own people were hungry, thirsty, needy, sick, and dying. And they were faced with the dilemma: Do we keep this all to ourselves, or share it with those who need it as much as we do? “Then they said to one another, ‘We are not doing right. This day is a day of good news, and we remain silent. If we wait until morning light, some punishment will come upon us. Now therefore, come, let us go and tell the king’s household.’” Today you will meet someone who’s spiritually hungry, and what they need is Jesus. So what are you going to do about it? If you don’t tell them, who will? If you don’t share the good news they may die spiritually. You say, “But I’m timid.” God used four social outcasts to bring good news of deliverance. And if you let Him, today He will use you too.

Psylas:
who sends?

Fuc.k God!

God forgive your soul, you baby of evil.

The Alimi of a boy is suffering enough though. It shows all over his face.

Monday February 22 



“Since he was stronger than she, he raped her.”  2Sa 13:14 NIV

Discerning those who abuse others

One of the things that make many women particularly vulnerable to different kinds of abuse and manipulation is their God-given maternal instinct. Women are nurturers, reaching out to needy people to nurture, love, and provide them with inner strength. For example, mothers love to take care of helpless babies. But all too often these healthy desires are taken advantage of by those who want to fulfill their own lusts. Sometimes it seems that the more helpless a man acts, the more maternal some women become. And wicked men capitalize on this in order to have their way with them. That’s why the gift of discernment, “the ability to discern” (1Co 12:10 NLT), is so important. There are many wonderful men out there. But be warned, there are also men who are cut from the same bolt of cloth as David’s son Amnon. Second Samuel chapter thirteen gives us a tragic example of this principle when Amnon took advantage of his stepsister Tamar. Amnon was dangerous, and there are other men just like him. Violence in relationships and marriages is growing at an alarming rate. The abuse includes physical assault, rape, molestation, psychological threats, stalking, and financial coercion. At the heart of abuse lies a desire to gain and maintain control over another person. And as a woman it’s particularly important never to allow loneliness or your nurturing instinct to coerce you into a position of vulnerability with another Amnon. If you find yourself in that kind of situation, “blow the whistle” immediately, expose the offender, and seek help.

Monday February 22 



“Since he was stronger than she, he raped her.”  2Sa 13:14 NIV

Discerning those who abuse others

One of the things that make many women particularly vulnerable to different kinds of abuse and manipulation is their God-given maternal instinct. Women are nurturers, reaching out to needy people to nurture, love, and provide them with inner strength. For example, mothers love to take care of helpless babies. But all too often these healthy desires are taken advantage of by those who want to fulfill their own lusts. Sometimes it seems that the more helpless a man acts, the more maternal some women become. And wicked men capitalize on this in order to have their way with them. That’s why the gift of discernment, “the ability to discern” (1Co 12:10 NLT), is so important. There are many wonderful men out there. But be warned, there are also men who are cut from the same bolt of cloth as David’s son Amnon. Second Samuel chapter thirteen gives us a tragic example of this principle when Amnon took advantage of his stepsister Tamar. Amnon was dangerous, and there are other men just like him. Violence in relationships and marriages is growing at an alarming rate. The abuse includes physical assault, rape, molestation, psychological threats, stalking, and financial coercion. At the heart of abuse lies a desire to gain and maintain control over another person. And as a woman it’s particularly important never to allow loneliness or your nurturing instinct to coerce you into a position of vulnerability with another Amnon. If you find yourself in that kind of situation, “blow the whistle” immediately, expose the offender, and seek help.

bedspread:
Take off the beam from your eyes and Read clearly. 200k for each one of the 155 widows.

I don see am now.

He tried.

Take her picture with the phone camera for keeps. She will grow up one day to see herself.

What's wrong in sleeping on the floor Julius? Do you know the emotional distress you will cause this women if they find out that their picture is all over the places? It will be a big embarrassment for them all, and they won't be happy towards you.

Doing business or whatever you call it doesn't make one to loose his senses sometimes. How will you feel, if it were to be any of your family?

Totally disappointed in you mate.

Good one. Evidence of good things/time coming back to Nigeria.

This don't seem to be a mating position. Except they are glued body to body sha.

highpriest4:
threat? As in bawoo?
Those two religions are almost the same, they are good in brainwashing, just in two different ways

OK oooo. I understand.