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Gbadugbakun:
Like this boy. He took a girl out, she came with her friend to eat free food. He couldn't even afford to buy food for himself. Just sat there like chicken way rain beat while they eat to their satisfaction. I'm sure they even ordered take away.

The boy doesn't look like he can afford the place.

In addition, a boy/guy looking to start a relationship with a girl he likes should be able to tell her his budget, and take care of the ordering since she came with her friend.

But because most guys see relationship as a means to cure konji, they will keep quiet in the hope to get returns aka sex on their investment.

WatchYourSix:
Lol….organised a different question ..

Maths is crazy.. one wrong move and u are in Borno instead of lagos…

My maths teacher set a question so I made a mistake and got +10 instead of a -10…. So I was like it’s a small error, he could have given me half mark…

the nigga is always very dramatic , he had to draw a number line to explain the difference btw -10 and plus +10….

As in, organised into a different question.

I am sure after you saw the difference, it was no longer a 'small' error to you.

@bold: true and that's the beauty of mathematics.

Unrelated to Tunde's age:

I queried ChatGPT if 'of' in BODMAS and 'exponential' in PEDMAS is same since Bracket = Parentheses.

Interestingly, it says what we know as 'of' at least in my time is 'order' which is for powers, roots, exponentials and indices.

'Of' is actually a multiplication operation e.g 50% of 80.

We actually used 'of' normally so how did we normalise 'of' as the O in BODMAS?

WatchYourSix:
So why will u want to insert a bracket?? Thats altering the entire question ….

@bold:

A valid point.

Question seemed more 'organised or natural' that way to me.

Zayttoven:
Use BODMAS rule and you will get your answer
B-Bracket
O-Order
D-Division
M-Multiplication
A-Addition
A-Subtraction

Division comes first so, 30÷5=6
Multiplication is next so, 6×3=18
Subtraction next so, 90-18=72

Final answer is 72

I inserted a bracket before the division sign & got 88.

otipoju:
You have a point and having a freaky prayerful woman is not a bad thing.

1. Nevertheless you miss the whole point of pretense on the part of woman...who say the want one thing and actually respond to another.

Now if as a man you go gok yourself dey do wetin dem sey dem want, you will be missing in action of the things they actually respond to.

2. A woman will say she wants a good fearing man who treats her nicely and stuff....but be deeply attracted to a man who treats her like sheet and does nasty things to her.

3. Unlike the other guy wey dey pamper her that she sees as boring.

Me I decoded this since around 2003.
4. One night for instance I was on the phone with a very outwardly very pious woman and she was telling me all the things she misses in bed with her late husband and how taking care of herself is not like being taken care of.

5. With women na as you take come na so dem go take attend to you.

1. Do some women pretend? Yes. Some are trying to portray themselves based on what they perceive a man wants and some are just been intrepreted through men's lense of segmentating women.

2. Back to the matter... Does a God fearing man who treats his woman nicely negate him being freaky? Also, a God fearing man doesn't mean a good husband. The skills needed to be a good husband/ lover is different from the skills needed to be a 'God-fearing' man.

3. What some men call pampering is infantalizing the woman. If you see her as a whole, complex human being, then what you can pampering shouldn't be 'boring'.

4. You sound shocked that an 'outwardly pious woman' enjoyed a nice time with her husband & pleasures herself

5. You gerrit!

bestman09:
This is not a time to regret about the past and I am not in support of you leaving the marriage.
Focus on training your children and make them the best of their world since God blessed you with good children and the finances to take care of them.
Live the best of your life and make yourself happy always.

In as much as he's not a violent person, don't allow your children to have a broken home.

What is your definition of a broken home?

JeffreyD1:
Good morning everyone please I need help, anytime I'm eating within minutes of eating I will vomit it, sometimes while eating hiccup will start and next will be vomiting, if I drink water before eating or drink water while eating I will also vomit please note this vomit rush out with full pressure from my mouth.

This thing have been happening over 2 years now the pharmacist friend of mine said it's WARM I took warm medicine the thing stopped for like 2 weeks then it started again.
Because of this I've stopped eating outside if I go work and because I leave house to work early I only eat once a day which is anytime I come back at night even at that I'll vomit while eating. Another thing to note is after vomiting I can then eat the food and drink water nothing will happen again.


Please doctors in the house don't mind my English I need help I want to visit hospital today who know what might be the cause of this ?



I have stopped alcohol since over 2 years this thing started.

I don't smoke oh

Because of this I've slimmed down I'm getting scared.

I've done done, series of taste and they said I'm ok. But I've not gone to hospital though.

Sounds like Ulcer or a digestive disorder.

Is there any particular type/class of food that triggers the throwing up?

Anyways, the hospital asap is your best bet.

Hmmmmmmmm.

This government is trying hard to divide Nigeria into two:

The one where the N77k minimum wage earners + akara sellers will occupy and the Nigeria their cronies will occupy.

otipoju:
What a woman says she wants and what she actually responds to are to different things entirely.

A man's greatest mistake is believing the first. That girl that you are doing bible study together is being taken care of in many different rooms on a steady.

The problem is that you men classify women in your head into good & bad aka fit for a wife and fit for a good time. You don't believe that a woman can love praying and sex; a girl who is serious with her studies can also love phone intimacy; a mother who loves her children can also give a mean BJ.

And because of that classification in your head, you only show the side that will bring out the side of her you 'approve' of.

The men who enjoy their women are those who understand that their women are whole, rounded human beings who love different things.

The men who can pray with their wives and do BJ on 3rd mainland; the ones who can get their bubu wearing wives a quickie on their neighbours' staircase; the men who understand that their akpu pounding wives don't mind a spank and doggy style.

On the other hand, a woman wants a rounded man. A woman can want a kind, responsible, reliable, tongue speaking man who gives a great head, can bring flowers and a great tease.

A good visual example is the good male leads in an Asian short drama. A man can a CEO, attentive to his wife, treat her like egg and still make love to her on the highway or his office table because he misses her.

I have heard men say a good 'wife' does not do BJ because she uses the same mouth to kiss her kids.

Goodmarlian:
When it comes to women nobody wins not the bad boy not the good boy,if she is dating a nonchalant boy she will cheat with a good guy that treats her like a queen ,if she is dating a good guy she will cheat with a bad boy that treats her non challantly she belongs to nobody

@bold:

Ah Toor!

Hhh4444:
Exactly, Women will hate you for being kind to them unnecessarily...As a man,make a woman earn your kindness, that's when it's valued. An unearned kindness towards a woman is interpreted as weakness. Sometimes,deny her the kindness she earned and she would value you for it. In a woman's brain,less effort is interpreted as high value. The mind of women work opposite to the the way a man's mind works.

Prof! Prof!!

Professor of Women Affairs

HacheNoire:
Nigeria must go same route the US went towards TikTok

Force MTN and Stanbic to sell to a Nigerian investor or they close down!

While this sounds good, I sincerely hope Nigerians won't mismanage them.

These women with liking the hard way sha.

Which is easier? Appealing, protesting against, threatening or cajoling one man obligated to be faithful to you versus protesting against hundreds or thousands of girls with no obligation towards you?

@OP: Morality & Legality are two different concepts.

Funny how the debate is not 'is adultery legal' considering most Nigerians are affiliated to a religion.

Majesty33:
Will Ayra star tell us that she has never tried aboki roadside egg and bread? Common, enough of these lies

And what if they are never tried it?

I have never tried it myself.

Sammyhoe4life:
So you were not on the planet when a soldier came to social media to say that after he was released to go and see his family, his salary wasn't enough to do tfare to and fro? The salary was 50k. They sacked the soldier that time.

@ bold:

My goodness!

N49k, N100k

How a sane human being thinks N100k is decent for a security officer beats me.

But again, our rulers have been proven over time that they are not sane.

If it is not to fry akara, it is to teach corp members pre-paid meter installations.

Then now N100k is 'something' to 'improve' the welfare of soldiers.

That means you don't expect them to have cars, put their kids in basic schools, eat a semblance of balanced diet or have any sort of recreation.

If eggs are N6k per crate and a soldier has a conservative family of 4, they can't even afford eating eggs once daily.

It is well.

Go Morocco!

CodeTemplar:
What kind of food do you guys eat. Even if you eat two chicken of 20k each every week, thats still 160k for protein. How una take dey chop 400k?

If he spends N160k on only protein, do you think N450k will be enough for his expenses in a month?

So N290k is enough for foodstuff, light, alternative power, transportation, black tax (if any), responsibilities in his house/ church/ mosque, child care, and other miscellaneous expenses.

It seems you guys need to link us up. There must be a Nigeria behind this Nigeria we are living in.

Stephen0mozzy:
I hope this is not you complaining sha. Because it you're using style to complain, then it means you go put hand for lifestyle wey pass you.

But if you're showing off, nice one. Y'all go to Coldstone every weekend ba?

You think someone who only has N450k to spend per month for a family of three can afford Coldstone every week?

It seems you are in a different Nigeria.

I had a good laugh

Exousiang01:
Hehehehe.
But when you go to minister in other churches you get paid.
You call it honorarium.
Sick.....
When you invite guest artist to minister you pay them.
But you want the drummer who comes for every service in the week and plays for multiple services on Sundays not to get paid.

Na very few of us go dey that heaven

And they are getting rich by the second.

Na who no know Bible dem they lamba!

Righteousness2:
The pastor is on point.
But I will rather put it this way,

If Money is your Motivation in your service to GOD, You are a Joker.

Which point?

Aren't full time pastors paid in cash and in kind?

Even Paul said (Bible) Teachers should be paid which they don't follow.

If the pastor does not want to pay a drummer (demanding payment), he should pull off his suit or agbada and drum himself.

nnamdi640:
You are not interested yet you are having intimacy with her, wetin Kama go use you do no be here..... I can't and will never have intimacy with someone I don't have interest for

Any girl waiting for Karma to pay her boyfriend for her foolishness is on a long thing.

vanvickie:
Maybe when you tell ur parents and other ladies parents to stop collecting bride price and giving long marriage list to suitors... Then these men can stop thinking they 'bought' the woman. We can't claim woke and still pay bride price dats not paid in the west/woke reference nations innit?

Men decide bride price and marriage lists; a man collects bride price from other men. Nowhere is a womqn in the transaction.

And bride price is not the issue else Western women will not be lamenting about their men.

It is a man issue

pocohantas:
Or what will you wear on a vacation? 😂

I am convinced these guys hate wives o.

Really do.

Instead of them to face their fellow men with their full chest, they are doing one leg in, one leg out.

Heterosexual Homoromantic bad behaviour.

Amovingman:
France way no fit reach quarter final

Fingers crossed 🤞