helinues:
Engineer Dave is not interested in hearing payan

More like don't ask me dumbo questions

Obviously dumb like your pay master.

Klass99:


From other social media accounts of the story someone said her 3 kids were in Naija with the husband and he threatened that she would never see them again, if she didn't include him in the travel/relocation plans.

The threat of not seeing her kids again was hanging over head like any good/responsible mother she gave into the threat for the sake of her kids. The narrator said she was also a nurse in Naija and she single handedly sponsored herself to UK before all of this drama.

I have been appalled by the comments of many male users here who have condemned and blamed the dead woman without knowing the full story. Even when presented with the facts on this thread one guy persisted in his foolishness.

There's a deep seated hate and darkness in most men on this forum that I can't wrap my head around, they are usually gleeful and malicious at the tragedy of others even without knowing them personally. I saw that hate and darkness in the wake of Herbert Wigwe's passing from the comments some of them made.

May God help their souls because this is irrational insanity.

@bold:

Wizardry borne out of poverty (not just lack of money) and lack of love.

They rejoice at the misfortune of others. Especially those who seem better off than them.

Where it is so terrible is that they don't need to profit from the tragedy; the fact that others 'suffer' something is satisfying enough for them.

emelda86:
But why did it take the cops 25mins to break-in where as they heard banging on the door...rip to the dead, although Nigerian women are something else but this is not the right way to handle matters.

Very pertinent question.

25 mins is an extremely long time.

Abagworo:


Not true. Majority of my friends that relocated with their family no longer love their wives and wish they never married. There is a kind of dangerous freedom the West gives to women which is not African and they use as menral torture to their husbands. Only few women retain their original character

Maybe nobody wants to be in bandage

And maybe what your friends feel is not 'lack of love' but sadness that their 'slaves' are now free.

AKINBOLADANTATA:
The time is ripe for Nigerian men to start looking outward to other African women especially East African women - Respectful, Non greedy and Peaceful. Guys go online, do whatever- seek and ye shall find. Most Nigerian women are quick gravitate to these western feminism culture - which is incompatible to true Christian married life.

I guess killing of wives in 'compatible' to 'true Christian' married life.

Creamz:
When people say don’t bring your wife to the west. They know what they are saying. I am not in any means justifying what the man has done because that is EVIL! However, our Nigerian women need to calm down when they have almost the same pay as their husbands . It turns to what else can you offer me. Our women have been so brainwashed to think the only thing a man can offer them is Money, besides which they are nothing. Our women need to realize, it was the man who made it possible for you to be in the position to have the power to earn, hence the intelligent ones amongst them will continue to respect their husbands. Those of you who think you have arrived. Remember what you think you have now might not last forever, you might end up running back to that man whom you think wasn’t important in the first place because you thin you have “ARRIVED”

@ bold:

It is because the husband had nothing else to offer apart from money in the first place.

If I am getting value, no amount of brainwashing would tell me otherwise.

NewDea4:


A lot of these fools are motivated to murder mainly because they are aware the United Kingdom does not apply the penalty of capital punishment

Interesting.

I want to infer that the prison conditions are 'comfortable' enough?

So maybe he calculated that he would live a better life in prison than outside it.

sunsweet33:


It’s really extraordinary how much people are bending over backwards to justify somebody quite literally bludgeoning his wife to death.

Perhaps it is a common occurrence in their families.

ARISHEM:
During face off, Angry Husband will warn wife to stop been rude to him. Wife will walk out majestically out of his presence and squeal "Duuuurl" on his face and you wisely expect a possessed man not to kill her for that.

In what scenario should we wisely expect a possessed woman to kill her husband?

Creamypie:
Don't take your wife abroad to save your marriage if u really love your wife. In Nigeria, once a man becomes rich, he turns his wife 2 a queen, but once a woman becomes rich, she turns her husband to house boy and slave, why

@bold:

Funny.

Chrisrare:
As a woman if you know you can't respect and submit to
your husband, then it's better you remain single.

In all the story, this is what you learnt?

Well, the wife is dead, probably a brutal, gory one hour death; it is the husband that has the next fourty plus years to learn not to be a wife killer.

darediamond:

All the shalaye is TRUTH DEEP INSIDE YOU.

Only an equally Irresponsible Man Cheats Over Her Girlfriend and Fiancee let a lone is Legal Wife.

What happens to sensible process of ending a relationship with a lady or wife that misbehaved?

Do not embrace anyhow lifestyle or character. It does leads to pains Sister.

@bold:

Oh!

You are not in the WhatsApp group then.

Yes, I agree with you: only an irresponsible man cheats on his woman.

darediamond:

No. It is about being "Broke", it is about being responsible. What does a lady like her have to do with Matrimony in the first place? Or is Marital life only for Financial Stable and RESPOSIBLE Males?

Ladies whose love language is money are GENERALLY ALWAYS IRRESPONSIBLE and does not worth becoming a baby mama let alone a Wife because it is takes 2 to Tangle. It takes the SPEARM and OVARIES to be in unison for a child to be brought in to this world.

All this shalaye is about being broke.

She agrees with NL men: Nigerian men are polygamous and lack self control. They are also allowed to cheat in marriage.

She just has a caveat on the type of cheat she would accommodate: a rich one.

Don't worry, the rich cheats know what she brings to the table and they like it.

What is the rukus on this thread for?

Poverty?

Because that is the only thing that makes sense.

A typical NL guy thinks men are polygamous and so shouldn't be faithful.

This lady agrees with your assertion and even accommodating of your excesses.

She just want to ensure she is crying in a jeep.

Or your good wife definition is one who is fine with a poor/broke, cheating, and abusive husband?

Because if a woman laments about a poor, cheating husband, you will still frown that she is complaining.

You'll believe cheating is your right anyways; go and make money so you are useful for something in your relationship/marriage.

Monday60655:
Don't you know that as you lay your bed so shall you lie on it? When you are busy advertising your body, what did you expect? When you are saying I'm available they will certainly come to have their share from your public cake.

And what kind of man wants a share from a public cake?

What type of man has a share in a public cake?

Solofresh2:
That things are going well for you today doesn't mean you should misbehave
You might need the help of any of those guys tomorrow
The fact she saved those number also shows how promiscuous she is

No.

The fact they contacted her shows they are as promiscuous as she is.

The girl has defined herself the moment she wore pant & bra to her friend's wedding.

We didn't know who the men were until they contacted her.

franchasofficia:
Any parent that enrols his kids in this school ought to be probed by EFCC


The only people that can legitimately afford to enrol their kids in this school at 43million per term are successful industry owners, entrepreneurs and executives like the likes of Aliko Dangote, Obi Jackson, Innoson Motors owner, Tony Elumelu, Leo Stan Ekeh, Femi Otedola, etc, etc.


Any civil servants who enrols his child in this school should be investigated and probed.


Even Governors without corrupt practices and looting of public funds cannot comfortably enrol more than one child in this school.

Can even the likes of Dangote spend N129m annually for a child's schooling alone?

ColonelZeus:
There is nothing bad in the way they go about their business.
As long as they pay their taxes, I believe Nigerians should mind their business.

Really

labake1:
You will say that you are looking for a man that don't smoke, drink and womanized. I was told that it is hard to get all in one person.
If he doesn't smoke, he will be a drunkard.
If he doesn't drinks, he will be into hard drugs.
If he doesn't drinks and smoke, he will be a womanizer.
If he doesn't drinks, smoke and womanized, he will be into gambling.

@bold:

Where do you people get your stats from?

greypencils:
When you move around carelessly with your phone in Lagos, you go collect.

First rule of safety in Lag, no dey press phone outside unless say na your area you dey.

Second rule, dey waka fast. When you do, the assumption is you are at alert and can break into a run when accosted. These boys no dey like stress themselves. Them no fit chase you. If you Waka slow, you go collect.

Third rule, if you are new to an area, no show am. Don't approach just anybody to ask for directions especially when it's getting late. You risk being directed into an ambush. If you are to ask for directions, look for a vendor or kiosk owner and buy something from such a person. It could be anything as small as satchet water. Buy, then ask questions. You won't be misled.

Fourth rule, whatever you do, avoid night waka on bridges and under bridges. If you are cornered on a bridge, E done be. Just settle them Jeje and pray you don't get injured.

Fifth rule, split your money into different places on your person. If you are accosted, you very well might part with the little in the pocket. You won't hurt much because you still have some money hidden elsewhere

Sixth rule, if you know you don't know martial arts, you are not armed, you can't brawl and fight like Jackie Chan, surrender your money or phone jeje when accosted. You have only one life. You can always earn back in multiple folds whatever is taken from you.

Let other people add more rules abeg. You just might be saving the life and property of a JJC in Lagos

@bold:

Never fails

Kajaard:


Very true.

Same way women are crazy but we 'MEN' cannot do without them.

Truth be told both genders have varying emotional identifiers but neither can live without the other. Let's not deceive ourselves to think otherwise.

@bold:

Very true.

What a shame to our Govt!

God1000:
Now I understand US unwavering and ironclad support for Israel even when atrocities are being committed.


Israel is officially the 51st US state


Please I don't hate Israelis my people, I don't just like netanyahu and his right wing government.

@bold:

US is Isreal extension

We used to call spill over dormitories 'extension' e.g. JSS2 girls extension.

Emeskhalifa:
Obviously they don't want other countries to see that bad things happen in their country.

It is only in Nigeria that you will see a Nigerian goes online badmouthing his country before foreigners, making his country a laughing stock. I wonder where patriotism is


No country is perfect but Nigerians think it is only Nigeria that is bad.

Maybe not only Nigeria but we get the point.

From the peeps calling Nigeria a zoo to along 'ndi saner climes' or the ones that see every opportunity to bash Nigeria & Nigerians online.

If not that the Government themselves are useless, they should be able to enact such laws here.

MrCork:


helo. My millionaire uncle is loookin for a beautiful womens who can do housegirl work.he ready to pay u a cool 30k (N30,000 Naira a months) which include housegirl uniform plus cap & u wiĺll be entitiles to free sleeping room & 2 foods a day (breakfast & dinner). U will all so recieve free lesson school to help yor qualification.this is a great shance to makd moiney so are u intaresssted please? smiley

You don't want to keep the wealth in your family?

My concern is how Portable married this clean babe.

As in this woman lets Portable sleep with her?

Omo!

dominique:


Does portable rate her? Popping out babymamas like it's going out of fashion. He is openly cheating on her yet he has the audacity to say he respects her. Giving her money does not equate to respect. He has openly declared that he belongs to multiple women, why is he now fuming that she says she's queen of herself?

Perhaps he wanted her to say she is the 'queen of multiple men'

Zooposki:


Just make sure you also teach your son how to cook so he won’t be a burden to women later on.

Interesting @ your signature

Please share a link I can read this.

missyblissy:
You all agreed that is true, please where is the proof? Yes she's has a dirty life style but the man is also bitter as Korra has moved on and he can't move on!!!!. He wants to tarnish her image by all means possible. Social media has many people crazy. Who told you to tell the world that the slept with he friends fiance while pregnant, why is the said friend not saying it publicly.

Don't get me wrong, I don't support infidelity/adultery in marriage. This is really a dirty break up. Please Oga move on!!!!

What's stopping him from moving on?

I will always maintain my usual energy.

You saw a woman whinning waist online and you decided to privatize her.

Abeg, whatever gave you guts to marry her should give you the guts to stay with her.

Since you decided to move on, move on in peace.

Mystery9:
Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her

G00dharddick:
Dating a Nigerian girl is the third most foolish thing on earth 🌍

You don't date them, you bang them and move on to the next hoe to knack

You want to sleep around under the guise of a relationship and yet complain that girls have high body count i.e. have slept with a lot of men?

I hope secondary school students are still taught things like cause and effect.