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Thank God for His grace over your life. Do not abandon your parents. Do what you have in power to assist your parents, do not over burden yourself with their children expenses. Let them see what the Lord has done in your life and forgive them not to shame them but to glorify the Lord in your life.

Please have a forgiving spirit. Commit them in to God's hand and God will surely direct you

Thank God for His grace over your life. Do not abandon your parents. Do what you have in power for your parents, do not over burden yourself with their children expenses. Let them see what the Lord has done in your life and forgive them not

Dozie32:
Better Bleep do dey tonight

I tell you. Enough knack sure pass plus the cold weather wey dey self.

SirMichael1:
I told her that I would assist her. I even asked to bring her a female church member to assist but she refused.

Your baby should be less than a year or 2 months above a year.....who will cater for the child while she does the work......who will wash the dishes and serve the guests?

My own opinion get a woman from the church explain things to her and give her little change once she is done. You can use your child as an excuse or you send your wife to travel for the weekend so that she wont be around during the get together stuff.

When next you have your meeting at the group tell them how inconvenient the party stuff is becoming so that you guys can find a way of contributing money and having the get together at a restaurant. Others can also be having this challenges and could not voice it out.

You are indebted to your ex so help her. That your new girl friend is not somebody you should marry she will stand against you in future if you want to help even your own family. Help your ex, tell her and watch her leave on her own. You will locate our own good woman to crown as your queen very soon and if you think your ex will make a better wife you can go back to her. She will be supportive but she will have some ego that you will have to manage in future.


You can also pray about it, if you are a believer.

I wasted money sewing prewedding clothes which the tailor didnt sew when I wanted to take the prewedding pictures and the clothes up till today I didn't collect from the tailor because I was very annoyed that I didn't go back to his shop again because the purpose of the clothe was forfeited......my heart never forgives him, I recently unlocked him on my phone and on all my social media platforms after 2 years of marriage.

newace:
Today, I told my wife to start feeding our 18 month old son sma baby milk once a day so he could take in all the necessary nutrients from the milk since he was never breast fed.

Note: he eats cerelac in the morning, yoghurt at 12 noon, Eba/Amala at 4pm and cerelac again in the night. I mentioned to her to find a way to feed him sma milk at least once a day but instead she started arguing with me.

What do i do?

If she doesn't feed him with the milk do it yourself. Feeding a baby can also be done by the father it is not compulsory for only mother to feed baby. 18months baby is a yr n half son....common dont be a lazy dad feed the son yourself if she doesn't do it and stop unnecessary arguments

I saw much like the couples dressing especially the wife very simple and modest....the husband also appears to be a simple guy. No unnecessary flashy wears.....happy married life to them.

skimena:
Due to this pandemic, the company where I work decided to lay off some staff. Unfortunately I was 1 of the people sacked. But I have N1 million as savings.

Now I'm thinking of starting a small scale business and also buy a car that I can use to pick passengers that are returning from work every evening from 4pm to 8pm everyday. But my girlfriend is against the idea. she said it's too downgrading for a graduate like me that if I go ahead with the plan she's going to quit the relationship. She said she wants her man to do a white collar job n not to hustle like a taut.

As for me, I'm tired of working with people. I want to be a Boss of my own. This situation will help me find my true love. A woman that will love me for who I am, what I have, what I do and not what she wants me to do.

Maybe she should have advised you more because depending only on business gulps your income and create more expenses for you but having a white collar job + business will boost your financial strength. Since you are a graduate try to find another job then do your side hustle. Job vacancy might be tough in Nigeria but I still believe God works mysteriously.

Tina001:
So where is the good?

The good he is referring to is that he is tired of the relationship already and have been finding a way to end the situationship before the alleged dumping

The person in front of Atm while there is a long queue behind him.

Hmmmmm
Level of unemployment in Nigeria is high over 5m applicants.....may God help us

Just do her the favour and start visiting her once in a while. Go to her house and stay longer there till she cook and u eat, do it severally. Ladies cant keep calm forever she will tell you indirectly that her food is almost finished then you take that opportunity to tell her that she has also finished all your food. Then she will get the message and reduce her visitation to your place.

DenreleDave:
My fellow guys, I know how it feels when a lady turns down your request.... I have been in your shoes before and I can tell how its hurts

Nevertheless, don't be bothered because a lady turned you down, what you should focus on is how to improve your self so that when she sees you in the next coming years, she will envy you and want a comeback with you...

Example: I have an ex that I loved so much then.. I did everything to please her and she still fvcked up later... That was 2015... But now, I can't see her naked and get erection.... She Don fat and look less beautiful than b4.....

2ndly, there is this lady I like so much during my ND days, she was in business admin, I was in banking and finance but our lecture hall is beside each other... Very beautiful and nice shape..

Today, I saw her in the bank... I think she is married and she Don fat small... I began to wonder if this is the same lady I trip for then in school.....

So guys, focus on getting better than b4... Don't feel sad bcox she turned u down.... U may see her 3 years later and thank God that u never approached her......

Note: all I'm saying is don't waste ur useful life wanting to please a lady.. Develop ursef and see ladies striving to please you.

Be wise... Focus on ur life rather than shaping ursef for a woman to accept u

Thought you want to say you saw them in rags begging. You are so naive, something you dont know is that, that slim body you liked once you married the person and you take care of her very well and she gives birth, I'd she has the tendency of becoming fat the fatness will surely come to display. So guy would you divorce her then or you go ahead and cheat on her.
Please stop thinking like a primary school boy and be wise �

Omakraid:
How did she pee all along? Just on first thought shaaaa
Wow.... FTC on front page, Sunday oloyin momo. This is to God the giver of life who did not allow typhoid to snatch my life this past week

Peeing hole is different from vaginal hole.

She got married to his picture.

What channel airs this on Gotv

BlackHarp:
And my own be say .......

Since yesterday Afternoon No Light ....

And i know normally they will come to my flat to request for Money to PUMP Water .... !!!!

As a sharp Guy i be ...... i comot yesterday evening .... before they came back from work .....

when i came back ... when everybody do go work !!! ...... Water don dey rush !!!

Hahahaha

Am Planning to Go Out this evening again !!!

I Don fill all my buckets and Gallons ...

But woman weah dey Gossip too much , just greet me from my window .... she saw me .... she say Neighbor Good Morning !!!

I Frown face before i respond to her Greeting !!!

Am Planning another thing ...

I Pray they bring light before they notice my plan oooo

My neighbour, so this is what you have been doing.....I have caught you today and I will tell others��

clarocuzioo:
Honestly speaking this present administration has no respect and regards for rule of Law. From Dasuki down to Sowore, it has been flaggrant abuse of court orders.


I wonder why the courts still entertain cases from the executive since they are not ready to respect the courts, the judiciary should completely shun cases from executives to show their discomfort with the executives choosing which court order to obey thus rendering the judiciary useless.

As for Sowore, well, I am not happy with what he has gone and is still going through, but at the same time, I am not sympathetic to his predicaments, he used his platform to package a tyrant and a dictator as a Democrat, decieving millions of Nigeria with his platform, today the monster he helped to create has come for him, karma is indeed a bitch.

I think he should even apologise to Nigerians for decieving them in 2015.

who appointed the head of the judiciary?

I dont care if power goes to south east, power must sha come to southern Nigeria

Twoclans:
This one ebuka is evicting early

Are we sure two people are not lealving today

Fake eviction

Reussite:
I honestly think the single eviction is because the new HMs were at the receiving end cos I don't understand the motive behind saving Elo in a 5 nominated HMs week.

Normally 6 HMs used to be nominated with 2 evicted but this 5HMs was nominated so 1 evicted

izzou:
I'm pitying my future wife already

Heaven knows I can't do all these pre wedding this and that

My hubby refuse to snap prewed shot as well.....it still pains me up till now.

BTCog:
Please, which of the two ladies is the wife or did he marry twins?

Same question bothering my mind......which of the ladies is the wife and which one is the daughter.....are they twin.....too much resemblance.

Chelsea battling at the relegation

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celebgistz:
The Chief Customer Officer MultiChoice Nigeria, Martin Mabutho, has stated why the 4th edition of the hit reality TV show, Big Brother Naija, BBNAIJA, is holding in Nigeria and not in South Africa like the previous ones.

In the below interview, he revealed that the prize money for the 4th edition of BBNAIJA will be N45million which is way bigger that what previous winners went home with.

Read the interview below:

Why did Multichoice decide to bring the show to Nigeria?

It made sense that we bring it here. The first one we did was See Gobe, and Double Wahala last year eclipsed See Gobe …it was completely flawless. Now at that state we said there’s no doubt that bringing the show to Nigeria would be the right decision. It would be worth the investment and it’s exciting for us. Corporate Nigeria and sponsors have latched onto it in a big way so in my view, it’s going to be bigger than all the shows we have ever done.

It is election period, they must vote for their own aspirants. There will be a voting poll at the big brother house.

ogashman:
I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.

So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.


Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.


Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.


That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.


I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.

However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.

There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.

After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.

I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.


We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.


Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really.

U go to church it is for urself, u don't it is for urself. God is never affected with u going or not going.remember fellowship with one another, not ironing ur clothe is not a good excuse for me. If it is on a Monday morning, I believe u won't decide to stay at home and not going to ur place of work and u den called ur boss that ur clothes are rough, I believe u will prepare well for that Monday since Saturday or u find an alternative clothe to wear to work dat day rather than stay at home and not go to work.....we always take God's day like it is worthless.
Pls kindly remember to feed us with the outcome of ur malice. I mean who eventually call first, I am most interested in that part......let's watch out for part 2 of this.

Alepa:
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walahi ipob no they hear Python dance, fear go just grip them.

It is in the interest of the general public and to reset the brain of some ipob miscreants.

The worst thing is for her to post unclad pics and that is all

Mtcheew