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FamilyRe: Missing Fiance Star Michael Ilesanmi Is Seen Being Abused By Wife Angela Deem by busomma: 8:51pm On Mar 02, 2024
She's nothing but a control freak. She has no regards nor respect for Michael. She feels she's doing him a huge favor by marrying him & bringing him to America . It's marriage from the depth of hell. I've met lots of decent Americans,this isn't one of them,by a long shot.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Not Well Prepared For Challenges Confronting Nigeria, Says Osuntokun by busomma: 7:55pm On Mar 02, 2024
Of course we know that. He was busy perfecting rigging strategies & paying off those preselected judges to be at the presidential election tribunal ( remember the tribunal judges did a better job defending Tinubu than his lawyers ) & those at the Supreme Court as well. He barely campaigned as a matter of fact.
CrimeRe: Most Reported Kidnap Cases Stage-managed – Police by busomma: 11:23pm On Feb 29, 2024
Nigeria police is downplaying the seriousness of this kidnapping scourge so the citizens can drop their guards instead of them solving the problems. If na bribe or how to set an innocent person up or extra judicial killings or criminal cover-ups, they know to handle it.
PoliticsRe: Edo: Anderson Asemota declared Governorship Candidate in LP's Parallel Primary by busomma: 4:31pm On Feb 24, 2024
Why is gubernatorial election process in Edo state always full of problems since 1999? No election cycle has been peaceful nor follow the norms. It speaks very ill of the characters in that state.
SportsRe: Victor Osimhen Gifts Girlfriend, Stefanie Ladewig, ₦6.5M Valentine's Gift by busomma: 4:12pm On Feb 24, 2024
My brother, learn from Ebuwe of Arsenal ooo. Don't be carried away by her beauty. Protect urself financially. Women are very dangerous in Europe & America. Love is for sale to the highest bidder. Be warned.
HealthRe: Rebecca Sekidika: Rivers First Class Graduate Dies A Week To Her UK Travel by busomma: 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2024
I'm sure nobody will be held responsible for such painful death. Just imagine the loss to the family. R.I.P dear.
FamilyRe: My 13 Years Old Has Become Terrible! I Want To Send Her Back To Nigeria by busomma: 12:27pm On Feb 24, 2024
Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?
Listen to me very carefully if u may,
I went through same thing with my then 12yr old boy in Dallas, Texas 12yrs ago. He wouldn't listen to me his father nor his mother. At 12 ,he was already 5'7" & towers over his mother. He gets violent & punches holes in my walls with little or no provocations. He bullies his elder sister of 4yrs. Constant calls from school authorities for all sorts of infractions. Everybody around him was miserable.
I had enough one day & told him we have to visit Nigeria, just me & him. He was excited & started behaving normal as a kid should but his fate has been sealed already.
Story short.
On getting to Nigeria & spending 2 days in Lagos in a nice hotal, we traveled by road ( traveling by road was done on purpose to deny him comfort from now on), we got to my village in Delta state. Before leaving United States, all arrangements has been made for him to start a local secondary school, from home. He has to walk almost 3 miles on daily basis. I refused to buy him even a bicycle. My elder brothers didn't like the idea one bit & begged profusely on my son's behalf to at least put him in a boarding house in a big school. I no gree ooo, after all na the same school I go some 43 yrs ago.
My people, this boy hear am & he saw Jesus many times . The day I left village for America, he wasn't aware. To run away, he no Sabi anywhere & not many people could understand him anyway.
Na so my boy groove 2 yrs for village ooo till we thought the punishment was enough.
He came back in 2016, a completely different human being full of respect & admiration. He finished high school & went to UT, Texas ,Arlington campus . He works as cyber security expert in one the IT companies as u read this. He never stopped thanking me for saving his life cos I showed him daddy's tough love. This is a true story .
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Dani Alves Sentenced To 54 Months In Jail Over Sexual Assault by busomma: 12:23pm On Feb 22, 2024
What a way to end such illustrious football career. Let the wise ones learn from this shameful downfall.
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram: 500 detained suspects released in Borno by busomma: 6:48pm On Feb 15, 2024
Once a terrorist, always a terrorist.
PoliticsRe: Even If A Cup Of Garri Goes For ₦1000, I Will Vote Tinubu Come 2027 by busomma: 6:42pm On Feb 12, 2024
Tinubu & all those that support this evil / illegitimate govt may not be around by then.
CrimeRe: A Mother Baked Her Newborn Daughter To Death In An Oven (photo) by busomma: 12:15pm On Feb 12, 2024
Post patom depression. No be her clear eyes naw
Foreign AffairsRe: IDF Uncovers Top Secret Hamas Data Center Right Under UNRWA’s HQ(photos) by busomma: 2:09pm On Feb 11, 2024
Believe anything Isreal says at ur own perils. Isreal has unparalleled propaganda machine that can easily sale television set to a blind man.
Stop the occupation & all hostilities will stop. Killing Palestinians will never give u peace.
BusinessRe: Ship Cheaply From the USA, UK And Canada To Nigeria Without Leaving Your Home! by busomma: 12:25pm On Feb 07, 2024
Do u ship cars? If so ,what's the cost to ship Toyota camry to Lagos? Not containerized.
SportsRe: 'A Renewed Super Eagles With One Mandate': NFF Hails Tinubu by busomma: 5:50pm On Feb 03, 2024
A beg no bring Tinubu bad luck & politics into the Super Eagle's camp. Allow Nigerians to enjoy the only happiness available to them while it lasts.
Foreign AffairsRe: UK Could Recognize Palestinian State Before Any Deal With Israel, Says David Cam by busomma: 11:14pm On Feb 02, 2024
Britain created this mess to begin with when they withdrew in haste in the later part of 20th. So they should be at the forefront of fixing the problems of their own making.
CrimeRe: NNPCL Deal: Repaying $3.3bn Loan With $12bn Crude Oil By FG Is Puzzling! - Atiku by busomma: 2:44pm On Jan 28, 2024
Is there still any checks & balances in Nigeria' s style of government? If so, why the recklessness of the executive ( presidency ) mishandling our finances?
TravelRe: List Of Africa's Most Visited Countries In 2023 by busomma: 1:10pm On Jan 27, 2024
Bobojames:
Our country no dey among
U go like to enter fire 🔥 or hv ur family pay ransome 4 u come back alive ? That's if u no come back in body bag.
PoliticsRe: Northern Elders Reject Relocation Of CBN ‘Key Departments’ To Lagos by busomma: 1:50pm On Jan 19, 2024
Na this bunch of clowns 🤡 dey run the federal government or what? What makes them think they're so relevant in this country for goodness sake.
That's why this country is going down the slippery slope .
PoliticsRe: Ibadan Explosion: Illegal Miners Claimed FG Approvals — Oyo State by busomma: 6:50pm On Jan 18, 2024
It clearly shows that Nigeria isn't functioning as a country should. How can state officials not know everything about of such economic activity in their state? High officials in the state has questions to answer.
PoliticsRe: Security Has Improved In Nigeria Since I Assumed Office – Tinubu by busomma: 2:27pm On Jan 01, 2024
Probably in ur compound only.
Christianity EtcRe: RCCG 2024 Prophecies By Pastor E.A. Adeboye. by busomma: 2:25pm On Jan 01, 2024
None of this man's so called prophecies has ever come true. Everything fake
FamilyRe: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by busomma: 2:16pm On Jan 01, 2024
Why should u be poor when ur siblings are doing well? Unless u're not from a good home or polygamous family. If u're rich & ur siblings are poor, u're still poor my friend.
PoliticsRe: History Will Judge Me, I Served Nigeria Best Way I Could – Babangida by busomma: 9:15pm On Dec 24, 2023
History will judge u indeed.
FamilyRe: I Returned To Nigeria Homeless After 30 Years In UK, US – Ondo Man by busomma: 1:46pm On Dec 16, 2023
This man is talking rubbish. He should tell the truth why he was deported & banned from entering any of those countries.
CelebritiesRe: Only 2 People You Cant Drag In My Presence Are My Father & Tinubu - Yul Edochie by busomma: 1:05am On Dec 10, 2023
Working for stomach infrastructure 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
PoliticsRe: Justice Joseph Ikyegh Is Dead! (Appeal Court Justice Dies At 65) by busomma: 2:31am On Dec 08, 2023
He looks 78 yrs old
Foreign AffairsRe: Photos of the Hamas Terrorists Involved In The Jerusalem Shooting Attack by busomma: 2:09am On Dec 01, 2023
Botragelad:
Source: Shin bet/IDF
Ur story is one sided cos u didn't say anything about Isreal occupation & practice of apartheid for the last 75 yrs. Isreal will never know peace till occupation ends.
PoliticsRe: Rashida Bello, Abba Moro, Olubunmi Ojo To Be Honoured At Most Influential Awards by busomma: 1:36am On Dec 01, 2023
As usual, Nigeria is celebrating Aba Moro ,the big thief. Our shamelessness knows no limits in this country. Morals & good names hv been thrown to the winds. The end justifies the means.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Vows To Crash Petrol Price, Eliminate Hardships by busomma: 2:45pm On Nov 26, 2023
Talk is cheap. Name one thing u hv done to improve the lives of Nigerians since u bought ur way into power. We've never had it so bad in this country.
TravelRe: Traveling To Nigeria With An Expired Nigerian Passport by busomma: 3:47pm On Nov 25, 2023
Traveled from Baltimore,Maryland to Lagos with Nigerian expired passport but with valid American passport in May 2023 . It was hassle free with Delta airline as well as going through customs in Lagos.
CelebritiesRe: ‘What God Told Me When I Died In Car Accident’ – Yul Edochie (Photos) by busomma: 7:59pm On Nov 23, 2023
God no tell u anything. U're lucky u weren't seriously injured. U like stirring up some shenanigans from time to time whenever the old one Is dying down.
PoliticsRe: Photos Of Olusegun Obasanjo: Now And Then by busomma: 2:46pm On Nov 18, 2023
Love or hate Obasanjo, he served Nigeria & humanity very well. Thanks for ur service OBJ. Respect 🙏

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