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cococandy:
Story story.
Congrats Hun. *Hugs her*. I hope it's a girl this time.
Btw you think that gif edwife posted is scary?

Nne that's what I'm passing through now.
Sometimes I wonder if this girl no know say na inside person belle she dey.
All elbows and knees poking out and moving at different angles. Sigh.

@edwife this is one of those times I wish I was someone else. I wish I was you right now.
Close my eyes and be done with only project remaining. Phew!
Okay coco stop daydreaming.

Yesooo, I even made a video of my own. The movement can be terrifying because at some point I was worried that he might put his ass where the head should be . It even made me throw up sometimes and worse when am relaxing. Coco nothing concern me and pregnancy oooooo, soso ego ka ndum choro now . You won't believe that pregnancy scares me now, don't even know how I pulled through with that more than once.

edwife:
If i give, na my email and every every i don give you na.

@cococandy thanks, finally! I am so excited sometimes i forgot i never finish my project.



Efemenaxy and chilli are you seeing what i am seeing?

Hehehehe, nothing to see. Even a 100 wardrobes of Efe's hot lingeries can't give you anything to see for here ooo . Chukwu ekwela ngwere gbaa aji biko .

That gif is almost scary .

cococandy:
Not that o.
I can't wait to offload. That's Just my brain refusing to connect with real time.

Ehm ehn

Clears throat.

November? Beev what are you not saying

I want to get to my 85th birthday real fast .

Go for both spec and character .

cococandy:
Lol @Edwife
I don't why for some reason my brain is still operating in January.

You're graduating? That's awesome . Congrats.

@ifyalways tell me about it.
I don't know why these things don't happen when somebody has money.
When the money come now the naira will go back up. Mtchew

Preggy women have a way of fast forwarding dates, seems you love being double and don't want to miss it . I feel like dragging the date forward to November .

Chillisauce:
Yes o. Gone are those days we just we up and move. These days it's from a yr and 2 to plan something like this.

Lol, a year or two . Not far-fetched cos my Ma has been planning for a year plus 8months .

Firmness? Cute kids.

Poverty has really impaired people 's judgment, no wonder marriages continue failing. He doesn't love this girl, yet no one cares, all they think about is the money . The same people urging you to go dig some gold will be the first to say " that's what you get when you marry for money". Don't sell your birth right over a plate of porridge, that majority said so doesn't make it right.

You are terrible!!!no be only 4:am . I wonder where you got your own definition of virtuous woman, I wonder what you would have done if sleep is actually for sale .

edwife:
Lol, Byvan you and Ifyalways didn't tell me that this december will be hot like this.

I am going this summer , after 5 solid years. I no send fat, i will eat and eat and eat!

You don already plan the December ahead of us .

Chillisauce:
Singing. After the reggae play the blues.

Damn. I miss home.

Cococandy Efemenaxy edwife Oya o.buy una buy ticket to byvan03 house this Xmas


After we finish at ifyalways coin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4nT3Od5cxI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4nT3Od5cxI

Lol, you don dey plan Xmas for February? .

A well deserved treatment.

Lucky girl, she is hardly beautiful.

You sound like a freak yourself .

Your mother has no right to make you unhappy, marry your woman or your mum. Parents have destroyed many lives...with good intentions of course . Until you can fully take charge of your life, you are not an adult yet. Don't end up in a loveless marriage because of your mother, you will end up resenting her.

OP I like your last plan, stick to it and avoid anything that will make him hit you till you are ready to free yourself.

Please for now try not respond abeg, so he won't find a reason to hit you till you sort yourself out. Can you start applying in Nigeria first? What of his parents? Do they know what you are going through? Hope you are not covering him up because they will blame you tomorrow if you don't introduce them to their son soon enough . You don't save at all from whatever he gives you for house keeping?

princesca:
If you say I'm unserious thank you I pray you never work in my shoes.

Most times we are the ones that undo ourselves , really sorry for the heart condition. That is the part that bothers me , may God sustain your health so you can raise your kids. Has he always been like this? Can you lay low and find your feet so you can plan your move efficiently ?

Please don't add another child because it will only compound your problems.

EfemenaXY:
The thread is a joke.

The level of detail she went into to describe the beatings says a lot in itself.

The too much details made her seem un serious.

Nothing wrong with baby creams, I use it.

the last pic is just...lol, very cute .

You know you don't want to leave, yet you admitted that you insulted him which made him beat you. Do you enjoy these beatings or what? All I can say is love yourself, have a sense of self preservation and most importantly get a means of livelihood no matter how little. Nothing is worth dying for....LOVE YOURSELF!!!


Please don't add to the statistics of "Dievorced" women, save your life.

mubzay:
Hi, ok, tnks for d clarification. How do I go about it? Hope my tummy will go down cuz b4 bn pregs, av a big tummy. How do I measure myslf or is t a one size for all irrespective of the body size?

No dear, its not a one size fit all. Please contact me on watsapp so I will send you a pic that will aid you take ur measurement . It will go down but you have to be consistent. You can also leave your number.

Don't mind their fooli*shness dear, you are perfect the way you are . You don't need those judges to validate that.

Funny Nigerians, the next minute they are screaming to the roof top about how the average Naija girl sees marriage as all, in one breath they are shouting that the one who didn't see marriage as all should " Go and marry!". Whoever takes them seriously......

Mindfulness:
It may be the case for you, it is not the case for me.

Keep deceiving yourself

freecocoa:
How can you be sure someone wanted to marry her when she was Supposedly younger? Or that she made a mistake?

Only few do not have someone, those ones can not be faulted. Most do have someone but the problem is that some are not even sure of what they want, some have unrealistic expectations. Eternal courtship with no end has blown chances for many too.

Mindfulness:
Ok, let me rephrase what I have said without taking you as an example so that you won't feel insulted by a stranger on a faceless forum. Big deal!

Any woman who believes that a woman's value diminishes with age should also assume that this is also how her husband sees her value while at the same time desiring a more valuable 20+ girl because a woman can only be a high value woman for a very limited period in time.


On a second thought, I do not blame anyone thinking like this. In a country where average life expectancy is 53, being 30 makes you really old.

Stranger or not, remain as civilised as you try to portray, Simple! Your value or no value analogy has little or nothing to do with the point here. There is time for everything, being delusional about how it affects mankind changes nothing. Twisting the point to suit your fascination doesn't change the fact that age remains a very major factor in terms of female eligibility.

edwife:
Byvan03 i am 100% with you.

You might want to read this.Even in the west,women still worrying about marriage.It is not by choice that they are single but many factors.

In the West, men are no longer interested in marriage, the system has ruined many life. I have so many articles,you will understand what is happening. In Nigeria we all know that women over 30 are no longer eligible except they have a good source of income.

Read this

On point! Lol the good source of income at that age mostly attract a certain unfortunate category of men too.

edwife:
Byvan03 i am 100% with you.

You might want to read this.Even in the west,women still worrying about marriage.It is not by choice that they are single but many factors.

In the West, men are no longer interested in marriage, the system has ruined many life. I have so many articles,you will understand what is happening. In Nigeria we all know that women over 30 are no longer eligible except they have a good source of income.

Read this

Hello dear, let me read up and get back.