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Thank God for you little boy .

Never seen of these.

Some go begin force their wives to kneel down and hands up just because of Wetin dey read for thread . If such a gesture comes naturally, good. If it doesn't, let it be and don't go begging for someone to kneel down for you.


Kneeling down to greet husband = good woman, people reasoning eeehhh!!

It seems women are getting polygamous in nature too, so it wasn't a man thing after all . Useless married people everywhere!

Hybrid600:
Lol.. but some people says it teaches the kids survival instinct when in boarding school...

I rather enrol them into taekwando/karate classes, I just want to do the guiding every step of the way till they can reason for themselves. The survival instinct part is true, but not really worth missing out on the most important years of their lives.

AngelXs:
A child entering secondary school is no longer a kid nw.

Most kids enter secondary school between 9 - 11 years of age, they are still kids that have a lot to learn. Just don't like the idea of leaving my child in some school for some other people to raise for me. I need to know my kids as much as I can, kids need their parents. I feel most parents do that to relieve themselves of their responsibilities, it's tempting but I can't take it.

No child of mine will attend a boarding school , won't leave my kids for someone else to raise.

Being gay is no different from being an adulterer or even a liar , why will these worthless youths kill a man for his sexual preference? This country eeehh....

bukatyne:
Nor be Naija we dey?

If OP is not married, he will most likely walk her down the aisle.

She better not allow that, I doubt if someone must walk one down the aisle. I don't have any memory of me and pops hand in hand, abi I don forget?

Forgiving is not a problem, you are forgiven even before you asked . As long as you won't be requesting anything from me, in cash or kind, we are good.

I will keep my word if I was high enough to promise that. I promise them what I can easily whip out.

ahnie:
Sometimes whenever he's around,and his ears itching for gists,he'll be like..annie how z yur mum nah?...me...oh mum z fyne,she sent her regards...or how z bishop yur broda..?me...bishop z dooing great,he also sent his regards,when my guy could no longer bear it,he 'l restrategize,annie you know, you hav changed,and you no longer tell me secrets again,i'l response thus::::haaa mr ahlex,its the lords dooings oh,and its marvelous in my sight.case Closed op has to learn how to shut her loose.

the lord's doing.

The truth is, there aren't a lot of intelligent men either. Only intelligent men can marry intelligent women, the equation is naturally balanced. Enough dumb men and women to go round. You are right OP, someone with a bright light up there dazzles the senses.

Please don't go to anybody for prayersoo, before they pray belzebub enter pikin head. You can go to church yourself, kneel before the altar and pray to your God (assuming you are a Christian ).

There is no much to do here, keep it to yourself. It's just really an unfortunate situation to be in, if you can't confide in him, who will you confide in?

I agree with crackhaus, cure the craze with one hand, cuddle him with the other. This modern method hasn't worked perfectly, so alternating will do. I also know that playing with kids do a lot of wonders to their psyche, it makes them very easy to manage. When you punish them, they won't think it's because you hate them. Reward good acts, punish the wrong ones and never be partial.

I really wonder why this should be a cause for concern, whatever number she tags the fruit is its number period!

OP sorry for what you are going through with your son. I think boys have that tendency to be completely out of control if left unchecked. I had to start defining responsibility for them from a very tender age, once I know you can understand, you have to attend to age appropriate errands. I have 3 of them, so I had to deal with that aggressive tendency among them. I use my whip as required, dialogue if the offence is not whip worthy.

Fighting is prohibited because they know the consequences, so I have to deal with the constant reporting. My last son( 2+) is very hyperactive, won't watch cartoons but offer to carry him and watch him cuddle up like an infant. I think your son needs more of his parents for a start. He spends too much time out. 4+ is no longer too young and understand all that you say to him. This child needs attention in my opinion. Do you play with him, Somersault ,dance ? It brings out the cheerful part of any child playing with their parents.


His aggression towards other kids is the only thing I find unusual, please cut down his school time and get closer to this child. Find him a professional help if necessary. Motherhood is not easy but very gratifying if you are getting it right. Teach him how to apologise for his wrong, my 2yrs old fools me with that. "Mami, I will not do it again ", you won't know what to do with him at that point .


Yet again, my brother used to be that out of control as a kid, one day one trouble kinda kid. Now he is in his early twenties and the gentlest of souls . Kids change, just play your part as a mother/father and leave the rest to God/nature.

Miami11:
Both mine were 100% right.
Poster just thank God for your baby irregardless of the sex

I really feel most errors are man made.

bukatyne:
Lols!

She should forgive him to rid herself of bitterness and move on.

Nah to forgive nah, as long he doesn't need anything from her and he isn't seeking a lovey dovey daughter/ dada relationship .

bukatyne:
Lols!

She should forgive him to rid herself of bitterness and move on.

Double post.

Nothing is wrong with the car, I will drive a tipper if it has a functional AC unit. The most important thing is the mobility. Of course if you can afford a fancy toy, go for it, otherwise this will do as long as it is not Nigerian used .

I don't get why people are doubting her age . Pretty woman .

It was 100% accurate for me, please cherish your blessings. Many will give an arm just for a child.

He is a health hazard, you should be glad he isn't touching you. Do whatever will make you whine less . All these marital kasala stories don dey tire person.

cococandy:
Hahaha Tony Umez

The guy is always under one enchantment or the other .

OP you should be ashamed of yourself, genuine people don't get help anymore because of people like you .

If she isn't pregnant, let her end that sham now. Do it without looking back, she still has a future ahead. If she continues with this sham, it will be a thorny road of lies and pain. Your family should give her all the support she needs to end this and learn her lessons. Even the Catholic Church annuls a marriage on the ground of deceit .

People abandon school not because they got married, it's because they never knew what they were doing in school in the first place. She should carry her cross,nothing critical.

Your parents sef, which one is pack out of house again? Why will your mother do this kind of thing, some women sha.

Why aren't you seeking for job offer but money? Well the FBI is already on your case . Good job Ify.

OP come and defend yourself .