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Now this is the definition of " GO AND DIE!!!", whiners go cry out their eyeballs .

Totally agree, teacher don't teach me nonsense. My kids, my call.

I will take over from him so he can join his wife, what's the big deal?

Ear phone has killed many, how can you block both ears in this uncertain country. You can walk into danger because you willingly tuned to selective deafness. Keep your ears open!

The man is a Clown.

You will reap what you sow.

I can't marry a man with 1/2 (half) kid, don't need extra baggage.

Your heart will continue bleeding if you have refused to fight for your own survival. He is jobless, he cheats and squanders your money and you are still praying? Continue giving him your money and make sure you don't stop praying .

The reason both couple 's relatives should remain in their parents house or get their own .

I thought is the husband 's until they corrected me when I went for national identity card. That will urge one to review the meaning of origin, it remains her original state.

The idio*t is begging, please delete, please delete .

Married men disgracing their families, tufiakwa!!!

Post partum belt, available now...

cococandy:
10 words Beev. 10

I remembered the instruction in the beginning of the sentence, then forgot . I will modify,my phone has fallen off my hand twice, sleep typing then.

A good man is that man with a living conscience .

I send my 2yrsold back to his room, why then will I have a 15years old teenager in my bed? End the rubbish jare.

You can't lay curses and remain with him because you will partake in his punishment, you leave him to his curse.

MsGlobalwonder:
dear byvan03, it is "bothered" not "bordered"; you are welcome. I choose not to reply you with a befitting insult( you should be grateful), because if I do; I will be banned because I go in hard especially when the insults are unsolicited like yours. Work on your grammar though. Cheers lad.

Clown!

MsGlobalwonder learn to discuss like a sane human being without ranting off like an irate mad woman, I wouldn't have bordered with your mention if I knew you are that perpetually angry type. I won't bother responding next time.

MsGlobalwonder:
selfish? After two children? Woow!! Do you even know what it takes to give birth to one child? Maybe you should visit the maternity for a day, maybe you'll understand. Smh!! How do u even do it to talk someone against her wish. Do u know d trauma of child birth? So she should get pregnant against her wish. Something she isn't psychologically and emotionally ready for? If she dies in the process i'm sure in 1month u'll replace her, u can as well replace her and let her live!! Go get your new wife and let her go with her two kids in peace while u pay alimony. Everyone is happy! KMT!

I don't know what childbirth is neither do I know the trauma that you know and I don't but compromising isn't such a bad thing for a marriage to run smoothly. You are bursting your arteries too much on this matter, are you the woman in question?

MsGlobalwonder:
u'll rather own the other "womb" other than having your wife be a part of the plan. You wanna eat your cake and still have it. Osheyy

How will a wife who is so selfish be part of any plan that matters?

MsGlobalwonder:
... But u'll foot the bill when you marry another wife abi? SMH!!

At least that one isn't asking me to rent another 's womb, compromise is important here. There are things that aren't issues but whoever makes it an issue deserves a run for their money. Don't forget you mentioned the issue of marrying a second wife by yourself, you didn't see that in my post.

The best of waist trainers and kiddies....

Better go empty handed, be yourself. Don't struggle to seem nice if you can not sustain it. She will still expect gift the next time, for the first time go without. I don't expect my DIL to come bearing gifts on our first meeting.

Please if you acted super woman from the beginning, better continue or employ help.

See how you exposed yourself to be bashed beyond repair just because you can't reason for yourself. Please in future exercise self control, sex is not something you do with whoever that is available .

Close your f**king mouth and take your confessions to God. He is not your husband, both of you should be confessing before God . Nah so dem dey take their big mouths undo themselves , what do you want him to do with the knowledge? Did he ask you abi nah only busy body?

bukatyne:
Abi?

Before we hear husband kills wife

Even the Bible says if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave, let them leave.

Yes nah, there are situations you don't use "please ". You can't reason with someone that has already checked out completely. It's better to save what is left of your ego and let go.

I love to know, so I always check. I can't bear the anticipation, my heart might just burst right outta my chest.

I don't think 100k can pay for shop and stock it, except you want to open a kiosk.

Let her give him what he wants, she can't continue begging to be loved.

edwife:
Lol trying to help op to understand that her watching tv is not enough.I am emphasising on it because of the fact that her husband is the only man she has ever have sex with. Also to some people like me who don't use Love Machine(ewww) that thing still a mystery to me,masturbation as well.
Anything giving sexual pleasure to oneself disgust me .

I really feel sorry for OP's plight, waiting so long for so little. As for the.....i don't have any strong opinion about it, it's better than humiliating ones self outside the vows.