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Who said they mean the surprised face displayed, it's just to boost your ego and make you feel like you did something great. Will you feel better if she says "Ok, put the ring here" ***extends a finger ** .

I won't even sow with a keke napep to any pastor .

You must have done something to provoke her, try and win back your wife's heart .

Useless man . As for the woman, that one deserves to serve a sentence.

In- laws have ruined many marriages, I really like how you handled your mum. Let her know her place and not cause conflict in your home. Women can be very wicked, especially when they see their sons doing what their father never did for her.

May God return him safely to his parents.

You really can't tell if he is good or not until you are actually in a relationship with him . 13yrs is too old but if you don't mind, give it a trial. Every relationship mustn't lead to marriage.

Seriously I would have told my Ma to give it a rest already, she is beginning to discomfort the man and that's unacceptable. He didn't marry the girl and her mother, I just hope she isn't married to your mother too.

Stop scolding your wife to anyone 's hearing, it is disrespectful. You don't need that to prove your authority , call her aside and correct her, she is not a child that you scold.


As for you MIL, too much of everything is bad.

Your assertion doesn't apply to all men. What you term as respect is also subject to individual understanding .

Happy weekend all!

It's better to remain single than ruin another 's life in the name of getting married for societal reasons. Marriage isn't for everyone, you can contract a surrogate for a baby , that way your freedom remains.

PresVA:
People always taking non-issues seriously; giving relevance to unimportant things. .

Since you were already in front, she would stay at the back...no biggie.. doesn't stop me from being his wife..
if going out together, the couple would be in front but since you were there already, all these moving to the back et al is so irrelevant to me. ..

You spoke my mind.

cococandy:
You've allowed more than an unreasonable woman will allow.

I don't know what to tell you.
I've read your other posts and to be mild it's appalling what you put up with.
To the point his mistress came to live in your house and you're still there.
I don't want to call you unreasonable but damn.
How many hints will he give you before you know he doesn't want you?

Granted he's a horrible husband but right now I can't blame him. He's shown you in all possible ways that you mean nothing to him.
Yet you cling on with the excuse of staying for your kids. How do you see yourself? As someone who doesn't deserve respect? As someone whose identity and sense of self revolves around being married no matter to whom it is?
Common, somewhere inside you've got to think higher of yourself. I hope.

It's not like I don't know letting go of someone you love is hard but it gets to a point where the need for self preservation (which all living things have BTW) should override your need for acceptance by him. If after everything he's done to you you still entertain the idea that somehow serving his mistress might make things better for you,
I can guarantee you're better left alone. No need advising you.

This woman is a joke, utter waste of time.

rubbish!!

Madam you are a complete joke!! How much pity do you need to act human? There is nothing to feel for your type that has chosen to be completely useless. You are always here scaring the singles from getting married just because you can't act human. Let me give it a rest because if I write you the way I should eeehhh....

You are too weak for the average human, continue asking " what will you do, what will you do ".

Terrible look, almost hideous.

Why blacklist this girl this way on a public forum? What happens after airforce jets off? Nawaooh!!!

Maybe hunger is killing her in your house.

You called this a touching story? No vex but I gat to laugh . Life really buttered you well for you to have thought this touching.

Intestines in the bumbum and this doesn't seem daft to most people. how does the Intestines move to the bumbum and yet the person lives bikonu ?

After they will want to know why marriages fail, it falls because they are some boring old sticks in the mud. Please change office ASAP, your colleagues are too dry and stiff to be humans.

No be only forgive devil .

To whom it may concern .

Be very careful, don't give anybody your money with the promise of helping.

I will tell you what I will tell my son, if you know you can't live your life without a child. Do what has to be done, let her carry to term and deliver,then you can wed the bride. Be honest with her about this situation, both of you should try for a baby when ready before tying the knots.


Love alone is never enough.

Go to the court, wed and pop a few babies ,when they need bride price, they will contact you. No one is worth unnecessary trouble.

Please let your mother know, you have no idea of the consequences of keeping her in the dark. She keeps investing with a man that is investing with another woman. A very dangerous triangle that can take lives when the struggle for your father 's leftover begins . Tell your mum so she can prepare herself and protect her own.


Confirm the news before blowing the whistle, ask the story teller for proof.

debbysmyles:
I know his sister but his parent aren't based in lag.

An adult? If yes, you need to speak to her. She certainly will tell his parents, parents will take it from there. You need to tell someone because this man will land you on a quack 's table, is he broke? A quack might cost your womb and ultimately your life, a pregnancy isn't worth dying or going sterile for.

debbysmyles:
26yrs.

He is not a child, he is old enough to take responsibility. Please don't let him take you to any quack, it's likely that this type of irresponsible fellow will take you to a quack. One thing is established, you want your baby, do you know his parents? Be careful with him this period, desperation can make people do fool*ish things including trying to hurt you to hide his sins. Someone needs to know, someone close enough to protect you. Anyone close enough?

Whatever you do, don't end up on a quack 's table so you don't ruin your entire world over a pregnancy. How old is this your boo?