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Nah, I'm like 5 - 6 hours from LA. I thought you were a london girl, sorry didn't know you are one of those american trouble makers.

Yeah recommend good yoruba movies, please - with good quality. I can hook my laptop to the tv and really enjoy it.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=278025.msg3948861#msg3948861 date=1243655556]it's midnight. you're going to stay up?
it as an understatement to say that the movie is longgggggggggg. u will be up till 9am. lol

there's nothing interesting about basketball for that matter[/quote]Whot? Where do you stay? It's only roughly 9pm here.

If I can't watch it tonight then ima watch something else. Recommend somethin good

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=277265.msg3948902#msg3948902 date=1243656420]yea it's not all about money. It's about one's passion. If ,however, I want money badly, i'll consider getting married off to a rich guy. j/k[/quote]OLE! olentelafa

platinumnk:
I'm not, it came from the lions mouth!

One of my friends just graduated and is going back to school so she can stay in the states.

1) The Economy is bad- ppl are being laid off

2) if they are hiring, now they will hire citizen 1st before issuing work visas

3) She applied at more than 6 different companies ans she is a very bright girl i must add

Same thing with my other friend in another state

Going back to school because she cant find a job.

Yeah, school and experience is a big factor for people trying to get jobs out of school.  It can' be emphasized enough that while you are in school you should try your best to build up an attractive resume.  It boosts your chances at landing that good job.   The school you attend also has a big impact.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=277265.msg3948886#msg3948886 date=1243656130]you can make a lot of money with engineering though. Where would the country be without our math geeks/geniuses. lol[/quote]Geeks?  Why are you taking a swipe at him?  Is it because he's fat?  Please stop it o.  
He's actually a fatter version of brad pitt.  Sexy ain't it?

Engineering is not about crunching numbers.  At least not upper division Engr.  It's much more technical than I can even begin to explain.  A lot of hefty thinking involved.  Not that plug and chug nonsense you learn in algebra 1.


BUT as long as you are happy with doing what you do, then I could care less what major you choose.  Rather be stuck in a job I'm happy with than some unsatisfying high paying profession.  

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=277265.msg3948866#msg3948866 date=1243655655]i'm not a sociology student but i'd rather be a sociology student to engineering. everyone to his/her own i guess.[/quote]WHAT? Did I hit a sore spot? Sorry dear.

platinumnk:
yeah engineering students cant find good jobs in this economy especially those with student visas.

Yeah right. Keep deceiving yourself.

As an Engineering student you don't even have to work in Engineering if you choose not to.

We're going to paradise baby. This is the year of the purple & gold. We have waited many years for this. Let's get it done this time around baby! Let's go.


Come on Orlando, hurry up and close out the bums.

The Lakers come first. i'll watch it after the post game interviews.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=277265.msg3948839#msg3948839 date=1243654983]u got it wrong pal[/quote]What do you know.  Aren't you a sociology student. Weak sauce _{j/k o}

Pele o I should have kept my mouth shut. I saw the post pop up in 10 recent posts and thought I should chime in.

Pls tell him you love him _{no ooo do the opposite}

I have all three of them but I haven't even bothered to watch them. After watching like 2 minutes of part 1 I turned it off. Is the movie any good?

Uche2nna:
Coming from an AA, that sounds really funny   U seem to forget Tyrone in a hurry  

ROTFL haba now.

Yahidatiff:
No he has never been abusive towards me or unkind

Then you don't exactly have anything to worry about yet do you?   He has been a good man to you.  Focus on that and do whatever you can do within your power to make your relationship work.  If he starts being abusive (if any man abuses you) then you might need to take a step back.
For now concentrate on being comfortable with one another.

Moonstone:
LOL! You are very very mean.
KAI! KAI KAI KAI!!!! Na wa - Where is he to defend himself?

Does he really need to?  The guy is the man of the hour.  Every girl on the thread is singing the tune of his name.  whitelexi na NL James Bond.  Action Man.

Yes the head is big. how did you know? have you seen it?  you must have been peeping while I was taking a shower.

topup welcome back.  i could tell it was you.  way to make a grand entry.  is everything okay? what's been up? how did the meeting go with the ex?  how have you been? we have missed you.

topup:
[color=#008855]The sooner men take responsibility the sooner we can truly address such an important situation.

Yes, there is the traditional mentality that sympathises with a hormonal man who can't control his urges because of a woman dressing provocatively, but in all sincerely, who's fault is the rape.

How can you look at a woman and say, "It's your fault a stranger forced sexual intercourse upon you, because you showed too much skin." Can I ask all the men, does the same rule apply??

And if it does, do you expect to be raped for wearing 'flashy' clothing??

Are you trying to tell us women that if we wear anything attractive - we should expect to be raped??


The problem with this argument comes from those who don't understand free will, self-control and rights.


NO HUMAN BEING HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE YOU DO ANYTHING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.

If a man was misbehaving would you say that same man was entitled to a beat up??

RAPE is sinister, it is weakness on the man's part for not being able to handle his urges, that is not OUR responsiblity as females. 

It reflects badly on fellow men if they sympatise with the rapist instead of condeming the crime.

I tell you, I am aware of the way I dress for the mere fact of this stupid idea that "you brought it upon yourself." and I am paranoid thinking - "if I show too much skin." something might happen to me, and then I won't have any sympathy.

YES raping someone dressing provocatively is a CRIME

But the biggest crime of all is letting that lustful man get away with it because "she dressed provocatively."

Some men have different opinions of provocative, I mean what about the paedophiles?? Also, some girls may not be able to afford to buy new clothes as soon as they've grown into their old ones, may wear their usual skirt - which now becomes tight around the bottom - is she going to be raped??
Some women are unware of how their bodies appear in the clothing, or even what the guy sat across her is thinking.

Would it not be much more pro-active to assess and deal with the root problem - the men causing these crimes, or shall we render women powerless again, and remind them that their power only works passively - they can't do anything to avoid being raped, but they can do stuff to get raped?? - What the heck is this rubbish!!

I'm sure not all men think this way. . right??
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Moonstone:
Chei! Na so dem dey do you? No wonder - Oya - start with NL girls. . . Go for consultation with Toyinrayo and she'll teach you how to catch very good village girls.

I had to give that thing a red card after I catch am cheating on me with over 20 NL guys.  Since then I have converted to a catholic priest.

LOL @ Remii that was some funny shit.

Moonstone:
@ Topic - please has anyone claimed that C2H5OH has gone around looking for village girls to call his own? I heard this gist from the horse's mouth

Maybe the village girls will be a much needed upgrade.  The kain girls wen i don dey find since don tire me.  Imagine the last one I was talking to, she actually turned out to be a very Hot crackhead.

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=277677.msg3948715#msg3948715 date=1243651776]every woman has the right to dress the way she likes and no woman deserves to be raped regardless. but the morons among the mens will alwayz find a way/excuse to justify their moronic acts. idiots[/quote]ROFL you are on fire tonight. You go girl

Yahidatiff:
I am an African American Women and no i have no children. The stereotypical statements i have heard are that they are very abusive toward women

Has he been abusive toward you so far?

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=278020.msg3948684#msg3948684 date=1243651294]only stupid and brainless men are abusive towards women and it is not an igbo or african man sydronme as you can testify to since you are AA, cuz AA men, white men are also abusive.[/quote]ROTFLMAO .

Moonstone:
Whitelexi is doing what?!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO! This is hilarious. . . truth be told - most of the guys in London on NL are a bunch of womanizing idiots. They have nothing better to do than to seek for girls up and down.
I think they need to keep their kobokos in check before they start spreading all kinds of things.

Moonstone, shey you are back? WElcome o.  Who is peppering your own suya    
Congratulations on the cavs win last night.  
It's a shame manU got disgraced in that final match.  once again please lease accept my condole

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=266978.msg3948676#msg3948676 date=1243651107]never said i was extroverted. I'm both introverted and extroverted. or shuld i say neither introverted nor extroverted? and I don't really have any fat male friends. now that i think abt it.lol you can be my token fat male friend. haha[/quote]ROFL your token fat friend. What the heck am I, a short fat loner? LMAO . Don't worry, it would be an honor to be your first fat friend. so funny saying that. Since we are friends now when are you coming over to visit me at home? I need help getting from the toilet to the parlour.

how am i typical?

you so called "extroverted" girls are so predictable. which of your male friends is your whitelexi

Hey now, I am nothing like white lexi. The guy is James Bond compared to my Jack Black. If you didn't want to help me with my weight watch why are you dissing me? Typical Naija chick. Sharp mouth.

Besides, if I am ever to date a girl on this forum it would be a well-kept secret between me and her. Nobody else's biness

Gay people never quit. Sore losers!

JIL:
Don't you have anything doing.  You waste all your life on nairaland making meaningless posts that make no difference whatsoever. You were created to irritate the world and to demostrate the epitome of foolishness. If my dog was half as stupid as you, I would happilly dash it to a Calabar man.  . Im my lifetime, I have met a lot of jobless people and also foolish ones but this is the first time I'm meeting someone who is both jobless and foolish. Be a real man and get a life.

WORD OF THE DAY: The only difference between a cow and an atheist is that the cow knows its stupid

jesus the nazarene.  see abuse

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=277265.msg3948610#msg3948610 date=1243649750]he had a picture of him in his profile pic up until a couple of hours ago (yea i checked his profile to see who this whitelexi guy was). In that pic, he looked really fat. his face alone took up 75% of the pic.
now that I check his profile pic after your comment, he's the same person but looking slimmer. I'm sure he replaced his profile pic with an outdated one.

what do you think we're supposed to be saving ppl's profile pics on your pc? lol[/quote]Stop dissing fat people.  PLEASE!!!! I am very insecure about my weight.  
Btw, the guy is not fat.

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=266978.msg3948594#msg3948594 date=1243649517]you don't drink beer and you have a beer belly
see ur doctor asap. obesity leads to serious medical implications. not a sign of good living at all

not saying it to be mean. just being concerned. lol[/quote]If you are so concerned about me why don't you email me some serious health advise so that I can alter my lifestyle lmao.

_{I am almost 390 pounds.} Too heavy for a young guy.

Few questions before I can answer you

Are you white?
Are you African American?
Do you have kids?

What kinds of stereotypical information have you received?