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BloomingDale:
Those are you beliefs, not mine. Sorry. The only constant thing in life is change. The world was once matriarchal society, now a patriarchal society with the advent of the European.

Yes change is constant but not of things that are mundane and natural... How's the trangender and other homosexuality rubbish playin out for the world!?, last time women in professional swimming were protesting against transgender men competing with them, why didn't they accept them!?... Time can't change nature it's we humans that's changing nature which will bring this world to ruin and an end!

BloomingDale:
Those are you beliefs, not mine. Sorry. The only constant thing in life is change. The world was once matriarchal society, now a patriarchal society with the advent of the European.

when was the world matriarchal!?, please state which century, year or era, right from time immemorial it has been a patriarchal world and don't mention Great Britain, cus I'll explain the history of how the the Queenship came into play!

BloomingDale:
Well, maybe you are surrounded by weak people. Too bad. I on the other hand know whom I am and don’t need validation from anyone.

Quit forming educated and woke... you are just messing yourself up!!!

BloomingDale:
Well, maybe you are surrounded by weak people. Too bad. I on the other hand know whom I am and don’t need validation from anyone.

Hahahaha... bringing your last resort into play!?, "manipulation", I don't fall for that look for men who don't know they're men!!!, I've grown above manipulative minds... better cleanse your ideologies the reality in this world we live is that men and women are not equal and I don't think that will be the case even in millions of years to come!, ask yourself why do men pay child support when there's a divorce or separation?, because nature made it for a man to provide and protect the woman and his offsprings.

BloomingDale:
Essence.

Lol... what's the essence of humans!?

BloomingDale:
That’s why I hate arguing with Nigerian men. Most of them are too dull and emotionally unstable for my liking. Leash your emotions. Women can, and use to and procreate via parthenogenesis. Scientist gave you a hint and claimed it is only certain organisms.

You are mentally unstable, so your hate means nothing!!!... wetin concern feminism with scientific research and certain organisms!?, are we talking of organisms here!?, you are just digging for useless and unimportant things to defend your stupid ideology, sorry reality still remains in this world we exist that women can't survive without men!!!

BloomingDale:
I was not talking about material things when I made that comment. Nature does not care about material possessions.

What were you talking about!?... spiritual things!?, no be nature all of us they experience like this!?, I no just understand you oo.

BloomingDale:
Statistics show that women can function more effectively on their own. Men, not so much. Women are emotionally stronger than men.

Hahahaa, emotionally stronger, yes I agree and that's why you people are very manipulative!... Women surving on there own is a very big fat lie!, you can tell that to imbecilic fools, surviving on there own naim ashawo and runs girls full everywhere!?, sales girls with empty brains looking for rich guys to marry them!?, probably you live in Mars or you are just ridiculously sticking to your scientific trash and oblivious to reality... look around you and count how many women able to survive on their own with out leeching on a man, mtcheeww... abeg go and sit down, you no get talk!

BloomingDale:
The only important characteristics which nature is concerned about is the ability to procreate and a strong immune system which is superior in women. Anything outside of that is just noise. Women don’t need men to procreate.

Hahahaa, are you talking to a toddler or what!?, women don't need men to procreate!?, Yes you need Baboon to procreate!, ana kogeheri!!!

[quote author=BloomingDale post=114144918][/quote]I reiterate it's all trash to support feminist movement!!!... Men have being marrying more than 1 woman from time immemorial, shows you a woman cannot function fully without a man, every woman yearns for a powerful man in their lives, this is fact and reality not some rubbish scientific research to buttress your feminist trash ideologies, it ain't working, they should try harder!!!

BloomingDale:
The Black woman was here first. Scientists today have discovered that the Y chromosome in sperm has 2.8 percent less genetic material than the X chromosome in the same sperm specimen. Researchers were able to sift sperm to produce samples in which 85 percent of the cells had an X chromosome. In fact, the X chromosome is five times larger than the Y chromosome, which means that females existed for generations without males. To get the Y chromosome out of an X chromosome, you lose one of your points, thus the chromosome is defected, which is why a man has the same components on his body, that the woman does. For example, the breast and nipples, however men don’t breastfeed. Men are a genetic defect of women. A woman not only breastfeeds her children, but she nurtures the whole world with her wisdom.
The Y chromosome comes from female scientists, as Ninti, known as Mother Ninti or Nunet, who experimented with the side of an X chromosome maiming it by removing 2.8 percent of X chromosomes. This resulted in a maimed lower right stem (see 'xy' photo), giving the appearance of a Y, which produces less genetic materials, resulting in a Y chromosome, called chromosomal manipulation, a well known experiment today.

Lol... no one is gonna buy that crap!, certainly not here in Africa, if women were here first why aren't you bigger, stronger, more intelligent, adventurous, good in sports, amazing inventors, pay grooms price and finally why aren't men giving birth to children!?, even nature let's you know it's a male's world, keep digging and researching rubbish, funny enough the scientists that did this research will mostly be men!, go and humble your self and marry!, quit being stupid!

Kobojunkie:
See what I mean?

I never said I grew up watching my father serve my mother since that never happened. You can't seem to wrap your mind around the Idea of a partnership in marriage, can you? Because in your understanding if the woman is not serving the man then it must mean the man is serving the woman. It is hard for you to imagine that instead of a woman serving a man or a man serving a woman, the two can both exist as partners, companions with a shared goal and life.

For the umpteenth time, I never had a "high value" father since he never subscribed to such idiocy. He was confident as a man and a father,and raise his children to be as well.

This your useless and unhealthy family arguments... is one of the reasons for any well to do and full fledged man shouldn't marry a feminist, imagine marrying a woman arguing with me like this, your father house straight... rubbish!!!

Jay5mie:
You can’t cheat life.

If you escape am, your children and grand children and their children go pay.

Does that even make sense to you!?, your innocent children reaping your mess!?

Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

Hahahahaa, now you've learnt the hard way!, when dealing with women you have to be very witty because they are mostly born manipulators!

Liars... while South Africa is the main business hub for you guys, keep deceiving gullible people. Ordinary fully functioning paypal Nigeria doesn't have!

Craigbrown4076:
You just proved your stupidity online without making a single valid point. I will pray for you tonight.

As your father proved when he spilled the useless sperm that begat you, stupid idiot next time learn how to argue with respect, go and pray for your soon to be maths teaching child and your useless father not me!, Anumanu!

All most all Nigerian pastors are criminals, infact religion in Nigeria is generally a scam!!!

Craigbrown4076:
Oga, you are talking rubbish. If/when you have a kid, do well not to givem them proper education because you feel it's a scam.

The essence of word problems in mathematics isn't necessarily to make you become successful in life, these type of exercises improve your ability to think logically. You can't deny the essence of logical thinking can you? Abi it's still scam?

Yes it can't be denied but the first thing in this life is to be successful... reason why I said Maths is useless and doesn't need one stressing themselves over it, my child can be successful without maths!, so long he can add, subtract, multiply and divide, that's what's used in this contemporary world... I reiterate all the mathematics students I know mostly end up teaching maths with meager payment, what rubbish use is that!?, maybe you love poverty for your child... mumu!, BTW someone can be logical without being a Mathematician, like Philosophers and Psychologists, the world doesn't revolve around maths, Olodo!

Lastbornbuns:
Nobody is about to ask you this type of question in real life. However, you learn maths for the transferable skills it teaches you (logical, critical and problem solving skills).

All the successful business men and our criminal politicians how many learned maths!?, to me maths is useless and stress to the brain, just learn how to add, multiply, divide and subtract that's all!, the rest to me are waste of time and energy which hasn't yield anything to humanity especially Africa!, look around you what has maths done for anyone compared to English language, Biology, Chemistry and other practical courses!?, most mathmacians I know are all teachers with average to meager salary!, I don't hate maths but I see no need anyone struggling over it, it's of no use to the society!

Abusadiq01:
I understand, u no fit solve am

even if you solve am what do you gain from solving it!?, all the best mathematicians in my class are still struggling while smart ones like me that realised all these are scam are doing better, what he's saying is deep but you have shallow reasoning so you won't understand.

Is not like you are even a virgin... mtcheeww

siofra:
They can't stomach what they dish out.

Its actually a man's world, look everything around you that aids humanity who initiated them?, sorry if it hurts you, come as man after this life.

Michelle55:
Sometimes, it's best if you could just let some topics go and learn. It isn't compulsory that you must comment, arguments don't make one sound wise kobo rather it reveals the level of your knowledge in certain topics.
Seat this one out and let's not turn this beautiful thread into arguments.
Danke!

Learn what exactly?... tell us the answer to her questions na, calling someone with a very valid question childish is wrong, we learn everyday!

Angela62:
I am married for about a decade now, and I am enjoying my marriage. Honestly, if the worse happens and I became a widow, I will not marry any other man, I will train my kids alone. That is how much I love my husband and cherish my marriage. Since childhood, I have always been close to my grandmother, I grew up with her since my mum died when I was a child. I learned a lot from her. I can still remember the advice she gave to me when I wanted to marry my husband, and I will tell you exactly that.

1. Look at the qualities and characters of the man you want to marry. Most ''shine shine'' men, as my grandma will put it are not the real men. `Just as sugar is sweet but unhealthy, lots of men are like that. That bricklayer that sends his mum money in the village every month, that doesn't go to a club, doesn't smoke and buy expensive designers, he might not even give you butterflies, those are the real men. Ten years from now when you are pregnant with your third child, his masculinity will be like an umbrella to protect, provide and be the best father for your kids.

But you see those ones that are doing fine boys only, care more about the phone they use and the girl they sleep with this weekend than their future, those you must avoid. They may be attractive now, but when the difficulties of marriage come especially financially, then you realize that truly, internal beauty (characters and virtues) is what keeps marriage. So do not sacrifice the future due to your youthful exuberance.

2. Look at his patterns, those are the secrets to his future and of course, your future. Does he wakes up and go to work every day? What is the relationship he has with his family? How does he handle stress? is he hardworking? Do people around him respect him? Where does he go after work? What is your assessment of his friends? `What are his goals? etc. You might be clouded with feelings with this assessment especially when you are in love, so you might ask people you trust for advice. I saw this thread some few years ago by pansophist, where he wrote about qualities you should look for in a man for marriage, I implore you to check it out. The guy is on point. As I read through it, I kept nodding my head in affirmation because my husband easily covered all these qualities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Also when I first met my husband, I wasn't that interested. He appears so ordinary (if you know what I mean), but as I scratch further, the depth of his manliness opens up. I was not attracted at first, but everything fell into place, and I was glad I didn't just brush him away. But I couldn't see his qualities quickly, it was my grandma that pointed it all out. So you should really have someone older, that have walked the talk of marriage, to advise and guide you.

3. Support him. Men are at their best when their wive are supportive. For example, my husband never asks me about my income, but every of my penny goes to my household. The idea that a man has to carry all the financial responsibilities is a self-defeating adventure. Such a woman punishes herself due to her short-sightedness and selfishness by reducing her worth in his eyes, making her easily replaceable.

Thanks alot... but when it comes to respect many people respect in pretence, mostly for what they're getting from him, once he seizes to give that, you'll know the real people with genuine respect, notwithstanding every other thing you said is premium

It's called Gambian pouched rat... you ate a giant rat not a hare, rabbit is reared at home as food or pet, hare lives in the wild and looks like rabbit but it's brownish gold in colour, Nigerians and not researching.

Hoodnigga123:
Yeah... Your mother gave birth to you by accident. She could have menstruated you way. Foolish boy. Son of a prostitute

Hahahaha, you don't even have a mother, useless thing wey kill im Mama... I pity your father, would have poisoned you stupid idiot!

Hoodnigga123:
Son of prostitute talking about respect. You mother that died of HIV could not teach you anything about respecting others. You drunkard father has nothing to offer you that is why you turn out this way. Carry your frustration elsewhere.

Exactly how your family is, thanks for explaining them to us... mumu thing!!!

Kollins11:
Even if I had nothing doing on that day, I would rather cook half bag of beans, one by one with candle flames.

Lol...my nigga!!!

Hoodnigga123:
Tell same to your entire generation. Useless thing

Next time learn how to address issues with respect... you lack manners which you inherented from your useless parents, Stupid idiot!!!

tamdun:
Of course it's one Nigeria, the question is, why didn't u guys tell Abuja, kaduna, kano, Anambra, Rivers government etc to provide job for okada riders when they banned them?
But if na Lagos, all of una go turn to activist over night

Bikes wasn't banned all over this places you mentioned, bikes still operate but not in the urban areas

YoungBlackRico:
I don't know why you people waste your time with the likes of that guy. It's very evident from his first comment that he's probably ignorant or just plain stupid.

You are one of the problems in this shithole of a country, put yourself in the Okada riders shoes and its not only northerners that ride bike for a living, you are just living in denial if you think so... let's just imagine you're 7 years old and your Father is an Okada rider, I keep wondering everyday why we behave the way we behave in this country no consideration or concerns over others predicament so long it doesn't affect us... How can we grow as a nation with such mentality?

tamdun:
Did u condemn their state govt that couldn't give them a job? Or u want Lagos to give job to everyone that come to Lagos, what ur state govt could not provide for u, go and hold ur state gov responsible

So now the country is no longer one Nigeria and United!?... I see I really see!!!