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Salam Alaikum brother,

I red your post and am impressed you shared your feelings and for others to learn.

First, every matrimonial home faces challenges and as a Muslim we must stand and understand this.

Second, as some point both men and women loss interest in marriage, therefore, when we begin to experience this we must double our efforts in prayers.

Third, to assist you from your problem, I would advise you take your wife to camping in another town, lodge into a average hotel room. Even if it's for Friday, Saturday and return home on Sunday. Keep your grown children to the family.
At the camping, make her happy and buy some gift not too expensive ones and if you can afford buy the expensive ones.
While at outing, try and touches her in Islamic way and keep telling her I love and missed you till u return to hotel room.
In the night don't rush for sex, touches her and have it at the your mind that no sex.
A day to leave, attempt sex and if she agreed be it and otherwisw, don't be angry.
Inshaa Allah as you return home, the new life would begin.

She has loss many homornes and you needs to assist her bring them back.

God bless you.

I WAS SCAMMED AS A NYSC MEMBER IN COMPUTER VILLAGE, LAGOS:

I went there to buy a phone, been a corp member posted to Lagos state from northern part of the country.

I left my office at Apapa for computer village on Friday, I have intention of to observe JUMAAT CONGREGATION prayer at Ikeja after getting the phone.

Unfortunately, that day, I first stroll around before settled a particular SHOW glass seller. As I pointer my finger towards a particular phone and we begin to negotiate, as the seller insisted on #3,500 for a small NOKIA phone (tokunbo).

A guy appeared and just talk to me in a silent voice that he have same thing just for #1,500. I immediately became interested and he showed me but warned me to followed him to not far place around the area.

We both agreed on #1,500 but told me to be careful with police. He asked me to go to the PHONE CALLER nearby and make call to confirm the authenticity. After making the call, I heard him and same thing from him.

The unfortunate incident happened before I could paid the phone caller and came back to meet him. He had changed the original phone to toy.

Immediately I returned he asked me pocket the phone to avoid police seen us and I complied. I paid and left.

Not to 200metres away i decided to check a new phone I got, I tried to power it ON and my finger deep inside, I pressed another button and same thing. I check the back for battery, behold! It is deep cycle, TOY PHONE package with carton.

I quickly turned to check if I could see someone that resemble him, A GHOST am looking for.

I JEJELY, walked to the mosque, performed ablusion and observed salat.

The following week on Wednesday, colleagues asked why I cannot be reached on weekend, I told them I bought latest phone and showed them, they laughed and mocked me.

Thank God to madam Cynthia whom we are serving in the same company that gave me another phone to use.

Since then, till date, I don't believe in promo or whatever and I believer that YES, SCAMMERS EXIST.

This story happened sometimes in 2007 NYSC year at Lagos.

I still lov e Lagos anyway.

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

The truth of the matter is that some women do go through POST PATTERN DEPRESSION after birth and most men doesn't reason along the line, because all they want is sex

The only reason why a young at 20 not contend with his prig is that he entering POT OF HONEY that is wider.

If he is not been actively in such act, he would not be thinking of making his prig bigger.

My advise to you, if your girlfriend is mocking you for small prig, ask her to reduce the size of her VJ.

Many young girls have damaged their boyfriends life, through am not satisfy.

Be contended

I thank Almighty God for everything, built my house and promoted with my faith intact

My experience with my new boss is very intrigue.
He was posted just 3 months ago and because of bad altitude he was transfered to another station.

Very rude, unpatriotic, arrogant and above all lack home training.

I came to conclude that he may have psychological problem.

In my station now we tag him as 3 months OGA.

If you check their background well, they will be from neighbouring countries.

Their influx are doing more damage to our living.

Frankly speaking lots of men are passing through hell in marriage all in the name of children are involved and don't want to divorce.

My case looks like yours but mine is different because my woman have nobody to fight or injured, occasionally she spit venom on the two kids we have, by maltreating and reluctant to cook for them.

But my case have long have solution, because my religion allowed me to take another woman as wife which I did and am happy and left her with her altitude.

No communication, no food, no sex, nothing between except living in my house to look after our kids.

My second wife live in another apartment.

Conclusively, am planning of divorcing her finally, to set her free but I still love my two kids and the kids love me.

Just last week I got a call from my brother of their plan with her mother to visit our house for settlement which am not happy about, because I have made up my mind.

God, please save and protect married men out there.

I budget a token for my ram every year, either to add little or get deduction.

My candid advise are as follows:

1. Run DNA on that child ASAP.

2. Don't take that lady to U.S.A., you will regret.

3. Narrate this bother families ASAP

SaintLucia:
Barr Kurtis Adigba wrote:

THE SERVER IS A RUSE.

Atiku and PDP hired Political Consultants for the 2019 Presidential Election to help them to win.
The Consultants did their job,and concluded that the Data obtained do not support an Atiku/PDP win. They conveyed their findings and conclusions to the party and the Presidential Campaign Team by Internal Memo that was leaked to the press. Atiku/PDP, denied that such thing happened.

They managed to convince themselves and their supporters,that they were going to win. They said’ polling globally has become unreliable’ and cited how wrong the polls were in the 2016 presidential election in the US, where all the major polls had Trump losing, and he won on election night to the shock of the world!

They were so confident of winning that they didn’t bother to campaign in some states. The president on the other hand, campaigned in all the states. Atiku and PDP, had a robust online operation. Their campaign and supporters, sponsored so many online polling contests that Atiku handily defeated president Buhari. Every of their online activity, received hundreds and thousands of likes and favorable comments. Atiku and supporters felt confident of winning. They Atikulated the more and drove conversations online. But they had a weak ground game which is more important in a country like Nigeria. Majority of registered reliable voters, are not online and on Social Media platforms.

But deep down in their hearts, they knew they had a difficult uphill climb to win. They hoped for a miracle on election night; but it didn’t happen. Expectedly, they were disappointed, but more disappointed are their supporters that they deliberately misled into believing that Atiku was going to win. They quickly put aside their disappointment and came up with a plan to keep their voters hopeful- we won the election from the results we got from INEC Server.

Hope as is we know, is the fuel of politics. Money is the oxygen. Atiku has the oxygen, but was lacking in hope. The Server story was needed to provide hope to his supporters and keep them in his column.
Atiku knows how flimsy the support of an average Nigerian is. He knows that without a story to keep his supporters hopeful, they will desert him immediately. He is an experience political operative who has switched party so many times. He feared being left alone to fight to retrieve” his mandate”, and so the Server theory was invented to keep the base of supporters hopeful and expectant. Hope is two sided. While Atiku was dishing out hope to his supporters, some very smart supporters also observed that Atiku himself also needed Hope.

They observed he was mourning. And so they came up with their own Hope Elixir for him: ATIKU IS COMING. In other words, Atiku is going to win. Atiku was sold on it and it went viral. Some people have corrupted it by saying: Atiku is Cumming. For me, Atiku is coming-to Nigeria from Dubai after his holiday.

Whatever the outcome of his push at the Election Tribunal where he is demanding to be declared the winner of the election maybe, Atiku, has succeeded in convincing his supporters that he won the election based on the results obtained from a non-existing Server. They believed that Atiku won the election fair and square, and that he was cheated out of his victory. That is why they are already talking about adopting him as their candidate for the 2023 election as compensation. Atiku lost the election but he is winning the support of his supporters and keeping them by serving them the Server story. They are not likely to care about the drama at the Election Tribunal. They believe Atiku’s Server story.
The Server tale is a clever ruse coming from a clever political operative.

Every sane Nigerian now know that INEC SERVER did exist and result were transmitted electronically.


If Prof Yakubu and cabals helps APC do the dirty job for rigging. It is now for PMB, APC and OSHIOMOLE to do dirty job at judiciary too.

But truth, the election was rigged against ATIKU

Senator Remi Tinubu had a confrontation with Senator Dino Melaye and almost slapped her, if not for intervention of distinguished colleagues she almost had her way.

She also had a verbal confrontation with Musiliu Obanikoro when the later was to appeared before senate for confirmation, thank God the latter ignored her utterance and make way through the chamber.

Ladies and gentlemen in the house, does her altitude portray good Senator, good woman, good house wife and etc.

If Dino and Koro were to go rough on her, people will begin calling them unprinted names.

Remi Tinubu shouldn't have be among the senators that will listen to Senator Abbo Elliasha case. But thank God, the Abbo said he can't said anything as the case is in the competent court of jurisdiction.

[quote author=Vcent50 post=79678433]Good day ladies and gentlemen,i have something bothering me in my mind.

I dated my wife almost 3 years before I later got married to her and she gave birth to my daughter last year.

I met her when she broke up with her ex, which was her first love, during our courtship she told me about the guy and many other stuff I can't say here.

But lately this same guy keep calling my wife that he wanted to come back, despite this guy knows fully well that my wife is nursing my baby, my wife told me but I was thinking if I should call him and warn him to desist from my wife or I should got him arrested for invading my home,.

Please how can I handle this situation without loosing my self worth.


YOUR WIFE IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN.
Why entertaining her ex calls

If Adamawa and other states gubernatorial election are declared inconclusive because the cancelled votes is more than the difference between the winner and the first runner up. Then Presidential elections too should be declared inconclusive as the difference between Buhari and Atiku is 3.8 million votes while the cancelled votes is 5.8million..
IS THERE ANYONE WHO OBSERVED THIS ?

ChangeIsCostant:
Some suspected thugs have been apprehended by police operatives earlier today in Akwa Ibom state.

According to reports, the men were allegedly imported from Edo and Ekiti states, ahead of the governorship election on Saturday, March 9, 2019.

It is alleged that the some of them were dropped at the All Progressives Congress (APC) office along Ikot Ekpene while some were arrested.

When they were questioned, the men allegedly said they came to work for the APC governorship candidate for Akwa Ibom State, Mr. Nsima Ekere. They also disclosed that four buses filled with able-bodied men have already arrived the state capital, Uyo.

The men were forced to lie down on the ground as they were taken into custody by the police for further investigation.

Watch the video below.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/03/alleged-thugs-nabbed-in-akwa-ibom-ahead-of-governorship-election.html

The NIGER DELTA AND SOUTH IN GENERAL ARE HELL BENT ON DESTROYING THEIE PEOPLE BECAUSE OF POLITICS.

And my prayer for them is to succeed.

ManirBK:
The Sani Abacha Stadium Kano, venue for the presidential campaign of President Muhammadu Buhari, is already filled to capacity.

Daily Trust gathered that thousands of All Progressive Congress (APC)’s supporters converged on the stadium as early as 7am today.

Supporters of the ruling party were mobilised from the 44 local governments of the state for the rally.
It was said that the state Governor, Dr Abdullahi Umar Ganduje and his entourage are presently at Malam Aminu Kano International Airport (MAKIA) to receive the president.

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/campaign-sani-abacha-stadium-filled-to-capacity-for-buharis-visit.html?

ATIKU/OBI in Delta State today

pedel:
Anyone who defends a thief is a thief.
The thieves come to steal, kill and destroy. John 10:10.

Anyone who defends the CJN is a thief. Don't tell me innocent until proven guilty.

I think President Buhari defended SANI ABACHA

The problem is most of the girls you see out there have no specific boyfriend or man friend and what want to belong.

While the men and boys are not ready for any relationship that would cost them their earned money.

mayprince:
The United Nations General Assembly designates a number of "International Days" to mark important aspects of human life and history and one of those days is the World Education Day, the first ever observed today,January 24th 2019.

Share those unbelievable experiences you had in school

I was in the hostel sick while they have shared question paper and a friend have to rush down and dragged me to the exam hall, as I sat down I feel great and relaxed. Despite I didn't read for the paper, I passed it, thank God and my friend.

They visited PMB and collect brown envelope

ACP Mba is better than Jimoh Moshood honestly.

I remembered how he faced journalist during his stint as police spokesman.

I wish him better days ahead.

What would Obi tell people if they asked of Atiku?

His visa was denied? A whole presidential candidates of the most populous country in Africa..

To confirm why Atiku can never go to Usa



Same answer TINUBU & OSIBANJO will give Nigerians should Americans expect from Peter Obi.

Who counted them abi who took the roll call.

Family acceptance sometimes give relationship a direction.

2019 general election, what I will advise Nigerians, opposition parties and stakeholders is to ensure the 2015 general election doesn't repeat itself.

A situation where while some regions are strictly obeyed use of card reader and Kano, Katsina, Kaduna, Borno and Bauchi are using form C8 without accreditation.

How could 1.9millions be accredited between 8:00 am to 12 noon and all of them voted?

Congratulations to Wazirin Adamawa.

APC media propagandist have been asking for this day to come, for they want to know the PDP candidate, think God, they can see who the man is.

Meanwhile, I will advise PDP and their agents to monitor north west votes very well, by doing so, they can checkmate issue of underage and over voting my manipulation.

I also hope other aspirants can work with one heart with PDP and Atiku for better Nigeria.

DadaStephen1:
Let's sample opinions logically without abusing and insulting others.
Who's your choice and why ?
Your simple but intelligent analysis can convince others to reason along with you.

Let's see how analytical nairalanders can get.

Its ALH. ATIKU ABUBAKAR. Because he has a vast knowledge of economic

afroniger:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/08/list-of-apc-senators/

So Sen. Philip Aduda is also in APC?
JOKER

This was among reason I cut a relationship with a lady.

I jokingly asked whether she can use the mortal but she vehemently condemn it and told me she can't use it.

She also said, she can't pound yam, I was gazed.

Though all the aforementioned are not necessarily for women of nowadays to use, but a woman shouldn't be bragging that she can't use it.

Are those meters inspected, test and certified by Nigerian Electricity Management Services Agency (NEMSA), the agency is sole responsible for such task to ensure conformity with our electricity distribution network.

Ensure they were tested before distributed

Boy
How are u
Where is Nabeela
Nabby
Hey
Come
On the TV
Go to channel 309
Let me watch news
What did they taught u today
Did u attended Islamiyya
Take
Give me water inside fridge
Button up
Don't play rough
Is your bicycle OK
How's your uncle at school
Are you OK
Take ur siesta
Let's enter town

Shukuakukobambi:
Ngige na real comedian

I watched it as he was saying "bring back fayose". It must have been up to 2mins before he realised his error (or was corrected) and amended it to fayemi.

Oshokomole juju catch am

Same blunder some PDP top guns committed prior to 2015 general election.

They went to campaign rallies and shouting APC eeeeee