talented321:
Normally i like the idea of polygamy but on second thought, what are the reason for engaging in polygamy? because
1. The target is to born 2 to 6 children'' and i think one woman can born such amount of children except life circumstances.
* And i think one understanding woman is better than two troublesome wives''
* And i don't think sex is am enough reason to take another wife, except your present woman is giving a tough time for D sex
Pls experience elders in the house what are the benefits of polygamy when somebody has an understanding woman.
Pls is for men''

There are many reasons different men takes 2-wives.

1. Imagine you married for 10years and children yet and according to medical reports, the chances of your present wife give birth is not high due to her condition (she always get pregnant but delivery is problem)

2. What if you are married and have 3 children and the marriage collapsed and you remarried but your present wife not ready to be mother to the kids (as you are having custody of the kids). She can't do it because her condition does not give her the energy
They are 12, 9 and 6yeras old.

The only thing your present wife do is cooking after that, you are everything of these kids.

Sleep, bathing, school, and other house chores

Frankly speaking, I blame you and your parent for indirectly extorted the young man all in the name of bride pricey.

Your fault was that, you suppose talk some sense into your parent, let them know the economy is not encouraging for salary earner and they should have rethink about bogus demands felt your man to be but instead you keep telling to do your parent bidding.

On your parent side, as a parent that want best for their daughter after marriage, I expected to sit your man down and ask what can he afford and make the wedding easier but instead, they want to collect everything, I stead of let the young spend less and make his wife happy after wedding.

My advise, try and send him message of sorry whenever he goes to office until he cool off and never argue with him in this period.

Finally, be dutiful wife and don't forget to pray.

Best of luck 🤞

For the past 1 and half years, I wake up in the early morning prepare foods for 2 kids to school, have their warm water ready to bath, make tea for them and get set to go office too.

My wife is at home.but has cyclerg problem issue.

Whenever she is pregnant, she have to do little house shores.

As a matter of fact, she left her teaching job for good rest.

I cook
I wash kids cloths
Mop 3 bedroom flat (bcoz I hate dust and dirt's)
I clean our outside environment
I get set what we would cook early morning following day


Women sometimes are funny, she begin to abuse the help I render.

This happen mostly as a result of women don't wants the father to be there physically but only financially.

Imagine.

Such man have no options than to find new love and children to call his and forget those ones.

And sometimes, after divorce, no man wishes to visit where his children stay because the woman may be disrespectful to his visit

Honestly, it's not too late to learn skill and begin to enjoy life.

1. Don't attempt to abort any pregnancy
2. If you try anything, God can show you other side of coin. Abort this and have issue with twin sacs (God forbid bad thing)
3. You are doing okay, just let the side chick deliver and have her baby
4. The world is full of disappointment, so don't let this wage you down at all
5. Plan for delivery of both mothers
6. If they can't cohabit, rent good house for your side chick

7. Same thing about to happened to me but I am a Muslim and I want to take another woman legally

8. Congratulations in advance

BuhariCarryGo:


https://dailypost.ng/2023/07/27/states-left-out-of-tinubus-ministerial-list-revealed/

So, former Kebbi state Governor, Atiku Bagudu on the list no more from Kebbi state?

Former senator Kabiru Marafa is no more from Zamfara state?

Always verify before submit a post

No more love.

She is telling him to do, whenever he finish, close the door

As a gentleman, I will ask my wife for us to visit the ex.

Sit him down and let him know how much I love and cherish my wife, I will point blank tell him to desist from whatever communication between both and wish him good in chosing next lady.

Bbnaija All stars:

Some past housemates like Cece, Tacha, Mercy, Erika, Kidwayya, Nengi and few others may not get freak about the grand prie because they are already made and had more now.

But if LAYCON feature again, his fans would still vote for him massively.

LELE OF LAGOS

Pojomojo:
From DM

I would advise you go for natural remedy and belibe me, you good to get positive result.

Use the following:
Cloves
Ginger
Garlic

Soak in ordinary water and let her take it always. Especially during menstrual period.

Good luck 🤞

Highly commendabke.
It's good to go back to where you begin.

Azizat Oshuola and Rasheedat and others are doing good job

No big deal, accept his apology, accept the kids and move on.

If you sister do this, she win the heart of the man for life.

Wish her best

I would advise you be patience a bit, because your management too may be thinking 🤔🤔 the workers way too.

The review in your monthly emoluments is coming soon

Flimsy excuses, not enough to commit such act

This happened immediately after I finished charting with a friend.

God have mercy

Mashaa ALLAH and Jumaat Mubarak to us all

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to you naira landers,

I know some of you will criticize me here for always bringing my marital issues here.

Well i believe we got lots of married responsible people here that might have gone through what i am facing through and may have one or two advice for me on how to navigate through my issues.

Some of you are unaware of my stories, i will urge you to read through my stories under my profile name and have better understanding about how it unfolded.

Now i am still struggling emotionally base on the problem am having with my wife, the disloyal, cheating and dishonesty from her ever since she got the job and get an accommodation in the barrack.

She has been a complete different person entirely and still surprise how she turned to be who she is now. well i have decided to divorce her and sent her away because she had caused me enough pains emotionally which am yet to heal from, my peace of mind and mental health is at stake and dont want to run mad because of a woman. I dont think i deserve that. .

My advice to single men and women planning to settle down soon should be very careful with the person they want to marry and know the person very well cos people do change alot when circumstances struck.

That man or woman you are so in love with now might turn out to be a beast when you later end up getting married. Marriage is a very difficult journey.

Now i and my wife are separated living apart but my two daughters are still leaving with me and with the help of my aged mom and sister, they are taking care of them and doing well.

Now am kinda confuse whether i should let the kids go stay with their mother or they should stay with me. Though she is not dragging custody with me but I realize the kids staying with me for now gives me that emotional strength and doesn't make me feel lonely, but if i take them to their mom, i might start missing them and loneliness and depression may strike being that i will be living alone.

I just want to get advice from divorced or separated men or women and even married and single here how they handle the custody part of their kids when their marriage ended, is it easy as a man to raise two girls age 5 and 6yrs and what are the issues relating to these.

As i said, i have a mom and aunt that can look after them very well and all i have to do is provide for them all they will be needing physically and financially, but i just what to be sure if am taking the right decision and wont regret taking their full custody.

pls anyone with useful advice should drop here cos am in a dilemma right now and want to get solution to my issues.

Pls sorry for the typo errors, am writing this with emotions scattered.

My advise to you:

1.Be bold and take full custody
2. You have your mum and sister who assist in taking care of of them.
3. If you allow her to take custody, you will provide tired and she will milk you dry.
4. Raising daughter is a daunting task, you just be prayerful as your ex will pray you fail while raising them.
5. Your ex is not bothered because she wants to explore market and the kids will be a stumbling block for her

Eleven good years controlling your life and you want to put stop to that, it will be a daunting task

But you had taken a step and get ready for retaliation from both the mother and daughter.

If she dares you, don't waste time to settle with another woman.

It is part of their strategic to weak you and make you submit

I will go for MTN shares

Your wife is playing game and I will advise you visit Lagos and spend few days or weeks and see things for yourself.

The hidden online university approved is in Sokoto state and it's named ICONIC UNIVERSITY.

I don't know why the education minister is hidden names of approved institutions.

Anyway, congratulations to us all

Well done irin lady, we are with you and stand by aw you are heading to greatness

9182736455O1999:
This girl don blow already.
Wait o. Does breaking this record come with a prize?

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Very sure with high prize

Don't feel regret talking to him but I hope you just tell him sorry to advise you if you feel hurt towards my words as a junior to him.

Vehicle largely develop faults during heat season and that is when we know good engines.

Internal heat
External heat, and other factors

#TeamGodMeat

Always

It is a specie of spider and commonly come out during heat 🔥 period.

Their is need to fumigate your environment

Her new name is hajiya Meenah after converted to Islam.

All nudes and exposed pictures are invalid.

I pray she find easy and tranquility in her new sojourn.

If you follow due process, to get capturing won't last more than 2weeks or highest a month.

But with the job racketeering in FCT, if you are lucky may be a month or plus.

Those doing the racket also negotiate with those at IPPIS office for any opportunity.

But if your wife not lucky enough, she may not get capture till eternity.

Job racketeering in FCT is real

For those condemning the man to take the young lady.

Hope you have time to condemn underrage girls on TikTok and in baby factories

Do not allowed those that left their matrimonial homes because they cannot endure and narrates bad history to their children stop you from giving your dad enough.

I love my mum so much but I will give my dad 70k for been head of house and mum 30k for been supportive.