₦airaland Forum

Nwanyiogwashi:
They are still accepting CV my mom submitted two yesterday

I hope to tap from ur Mum' generosity

PastorFire:
Is that supposed to be your problem? Are you the employer? If fate favoured one, must you protest over your own?.
Money that you ought to have invested something little with it by now. Civil servant mentality. Make i die on top salary.

invest on money that comes only 65th day of the Month..

PastorFire:
Oga, you had a 2yrs agreement with them or not?.

then, tell us why they didn't disengage 2016 batch in 2018 please answer this...

toffyz:
see greedy people o
So they don't want to give opportunity to others too
meanwhile, what have they been using the money paid to them all this while for?
what of many that has not even benefitted @ all.
Our population is enormous.

quote me nothing will come as Batch C, Batch C is just a strategy to send previous batches back to the street... believe this or leave it.....and if there should be anything like Batch C, it will be successfully be delayed till the coming of 2023 General Election.

Paramilitary:
Our new office has been completed and delivered to NCDMB. By God grace, we shall enter. (Amen)

Amin. In Sha Allah (by God's grace)

I have applied but for the past five hours, am yet to receive an Email activation

Thank God

whick kind wahala be dis

Twoclans:
I am AA but I had to run away from a relationship because his pressure to get married was too much and I felt it was because I was the first AA serious relationship he has ever had.

I did not want to be with someone just because I have the right genotype he wanted.

I understand u don't enter a relationship out of pity... but only God knows when d guy go find an AA again... it's not easy outside there. u don't desperate to get married to a woman.. it will be used against u. pretend as if u don't care about institution of marriage even though u think of it every blessed day.

Millenniumlady:
The man just played himself he'll leave to regret the curse of his actions.......how dare you take side With your mother when i'm your wife which automatically makes me your new mum ......Ladies never you marry a guy that's so close to his mum if you want a successful marriage.

when ur own son gets married, his wife will also become d new mum to him, making his birth mother old rang. cycle of life.

Mizwisdom:
A man should love his wife more

ur son will also love his wife more

MRAKBEE:
The payment they received last month was for which month?

February

lookingfly:
My sister just received October stipend oooo

are you serious pls. hunger dey land ooo

Whiterose21:
You can, since the jobs in Nigeria has become man know man, but for me I prefer work in line with my discipline, because I want to be relevant not been relegated to the background or a bencher. For example, I studied guidance and counselling and got a job in NNPC, what do you think will happen to my career? but if I go to where my services are highly needed and appreciated you will be relevant. That is why each organisation have departments, which department do you want to belong, accounting, engineering, etc or general duty where you don't have a specific duty, (anything goes that is why you will be in an office, you will not know what is happening. Please I stand to be corrected.

I stand corrected.

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

Do I need to read other comments again after your submission? capital No. you have Said it all. May God bless your parents. lolzzz

I also pray for this favour from lord

Dancing of all problems

Ha

I don't have a job

Good

Gowon got married at 35

obembet:
Where is somebody wey like somebody.. He has squandered his money

U don mean it.... all the money... �

Brainardc:
Go for infinix, though I bought mine few days ago #34,500

which state did u get it at dah amout...

luminouz:
It would have been insulting if the woman is ugly. That woman is not. That's why most times, I see beyond emotions of what you think it is or should be, but what it really is,hardcore facts, real,raw and logical. Why would the man in that picture want to disgrace his wife when they obviously look happy?

I expected Nigerians to know this, not react anyhow or turn it into some bullshit fight.

hardcore, raw..... hope shey u no dey live inside xvideo. �

khiaa:
The wife comes first even before your mama.

as ur future son's wife will also come first before you. Isn't it? Lol.

midnighter:
The ones that say "So what are you going to do now...?"

still under no 2....confusion

eteebanky:
The triple-camera setup at the rear really delivered some good photos for me, The selfie camera does a better job too. my friend took a shot with it today, the detailing was better and the portrait effect was decent in this image.

what is the price of the phone now

what is the price of the phone now

He only looks 39 .......27 my foot.