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TeOwl:
From your replies it is obvious that you didn't come for advice, you just want somone to encourage you to pay for her school fees and upkeep... just dont come back here on nairaland lamenting that she decided to end the relationship after 3 - 4 years.



And is this NOT what you wrote on January 29th, 2016?

Faith111:
Well I didn't create a thread to give Credence to my Hubby...I only commented on a Thread that provided a platform to share my personal experience...
If you feel jealous about the Credence, wait till you get Married. I love my Hubby, im Happily Married, earn well, and a mother at that..so i wonder what hidden agenda i have on a blog like NL.
Not looking for Date...Married
Not Seeking for a Job....Employed
Not In Need of Children... A Mother
Learn To Trust People...Not everyone has an hidden agenda.

livhorgng:
My Brother, my answer is YES. I don't want to read other comments BUT I well know that all are not same, I strongly advise you NOT to unless you both are married already even at that its too risky amd telling you this be two/three experinces of mine. Better watch your step, wome are evil. May I ask what's your own level of education, such was on me before I went to school she said am not educated and I cursed her till date with her education/money no man has ask her out. So be warned!!!!!!!!!

cooker:
Is she of benefits to you ? like as in you gain something from her ? i mean something useful to your well being ? and are you sure she loves you ? was she with you when you are a nobody ? if you are benefitting from her fine then you can sponsor her at least if she walks away you gained something but you are not benefitting anything from her , she was not there when you are a nobody then it will be very painful if she walks away if she can compensate you right now in some ways well you can sponsor her so that you gain and also she gain in the relationship

FTBOY:
LMAO! she started dreaming after all the expenses made on her

tearoses:
Fees + girl does not automatically = Marriage

You can pay her fees and you may or may not end up get married, so have this at the back of your mind.
Like many relationships it may or may not work out in the end.

BuddhaPalm:
If you can assist her without obligation, do it. But if it's predicated upon marriage...banking on a woman's promises is fool's gold.

A girl in 100L is still a baby, and is yet to discover herself.

300 - 400L when she's near her peak sexual-market-value, and there are guys from all angles, would she still consider you a good deal? She doesn't know this yet.

emerged01:
Help her if you have the resources but don't be hopeful you will marry her. Don't do it for her,do it for God. Just don't expect anything good from her in return to prevent heart attack.

shizzy7:
@the emboldened, we have orphans, children with irresponsible parents, some see themselves through school..... Its not always the same rosy affair for everybody....

All I'm saying is there are men who pick students over working class, I had girls like that in my class and they eventually got married in final yr/after school..

I don't have to understand, you're writing from your own perspective and personal opinion and you've generalized on the negative part(break-up, student boyfriend e.t.c...)

mccoy47:
Love it or hate it. 70% of undergraduate Nigerian girls are NOT ready for marriage!

They say the truth is a bitter pill hence I understand the ranting from the students here.

Show me a working class lady who clubs 4 times a week and I will show you 10 students who does the same.

Show me a workin class lady who has multiple bf's and I will show you 20 students who are doing worse.

Show me a workin class lady who begs for virtually evrytin and I will show you 100 students who does worse!

Show me a working class lady who is vain and I will show you 20 students who are worse.

Show me a working class lady who still believes in the perfect man( 6ft tall, handsome, very rich, loving and humble etc) & I will show you 50 students who believes the same!

OP once again thumbs up for this thread!

shizzy7:
Are you kidding?

Men in their right senses have picked students over working class ladies as wife,,,Some even sponsored them through school.....

Everyone has different views towards issues..

sickstars:
So the student wont graduate to gain employment?

We not talking of secondary school students i mean students in d university oh ur mind tinks am defending d childish ones who still club and all nah

M talkin of d everly read ladies who just had a lityle set back with their education level but are of age! Ok?

shizzy7:
Sickstars na wa for you oooo..

You don finish the op for page 0.

sickstars:
We av working female bankers stil sleeping arond like dogs

Just cos u jealous school girls are gettin married doesnt mean u vent ur fustration

I av seen several working class women still sleeping arond for money ur point is??

And dose who are students wont dey mature one day to start working?
Or is it not d certificate to work dey tryin to acquire

Will dey b students for ever?

Are workin class ladies not students at one point

A student can manage a home better

Cos i av arond me alot of married students .nd dey doin fine!

patches689:
I gotta say I really love that English DPM cammo... something about it allways catches my eye

Also, what chest rig do they issue your men? Im talking about the guy who seems to have one with the 3 mag pouches ontop of what seems to be a plat-carrier.

chubbygal:
Respect mothers cos e no EASY!!!!

ZUBY77:
No, the Bible is referring to chocolates and candies.
Another one of them.

If you child misbehaves, give him a candy.

Lilimax:
You go teeh my sister but I'll leave you with these two scriptures:

Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.~ Proverbs 13:24

Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of discipline will remove it far from him.~(Proverbs 22:15)