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Aren’t you a bit ashamed that your source is Hanty Kemi, someone long compromised, with zero credibility?

How can your source be someone who:
1) Has said she is mentally deranged
2) Has abundantly demonstrated a willingness to sell herself to the highest bidder
3) Has been continuously begging for money
4) Has been wrong so many times about people and issues
5) Has demonstrated a willingness to do anything for money including throwing shame to the wind and shaming her own family
6) Was just tearfully and shamelessly begging that people send her N2000

Can’t u see that type of person has less than zero credibility?

Nukilia:
What are Nigerians doing in Malaysia, Philippines and those rubbish countries. I believe now is the time for Nigerians to fix this country. Let's war it out and make Nigeria a better place.

Those are countries you can do yahoo in peace especially if u have paper, instead of all this EFCC wahala

Biglittlelois:
Hahaha switching off the phone wouldn't end anything, you'll have to switch back on and talk it out eventually...

Recently I did a LDR that was very intense, we never saw, had issues cos I wasn't ready to see him, there were fights but it was never about trust cos there was trust, it was more like because of commitment issues so we decided to end it after seeing all odds were not in our favour, but I enjoyed every bit of it though, so you're right, LDR is very broad cos there are different types, there are some that will work out even though they never see each other, there are some that when they eventually see it just doesn't work out e.t.c so yeah it is broad.

U may laugh but it works. By the time the phone is switched back on, tempers have cooled, apologies all around. While if they were together quarreling in the middle of the night, there is no escape until someone says or does something unpardonable.

The truth is, it depends on the type of person u r.
Some people are loners by nature - LDR is ideal for such people. Then there are some who must be with someone all the time - LDR is a nightmare for such people.

Biglittlelois:
True, but there will always be fights, maybe cos there is nothing else to keep it going,,but the fights can be exhausting.

I think this topic is malformed. The term “long-distance relationship” is too broad. Example, there was that story of a couple who met in their 20’s and never saw each other again till 70’s. They stayed in love all that time - there were no fights. So, what type of long-distance relationship? Did the couple just meet, are they in love, are they married, are there children, have they ever met in person, etc.
As for what u said, it is easier to end any fight - simply switch off your phone.

Sorry o

Officialgarri:
The story looks so touching. Maybe it's because I'm high. Most likely.

Just move on okay? Forget the money and you will feel like you just dropped a burden.
It has always worked for me

OP, good advice. Expecially coming from a high guy.

That’s how it starts

Poor baby. Maybe it’s msmywater, your spiritual wife

Well u may have a point - no human being is really worth being in love with. But it’s better FOR YOU to find someone u r attracted to (then trick your mind into loving them) then stick with only them (we all know all vaginas are about the same). You gain NOTHING jumping from bed to bed. YOU LOSE.

Just loving someone brightens YOUR life no matter how u managed to trick your mind into loving the person. Be in love and suddenly ordinary things look beautiful and hard goals seem easily achievable. I think there is some magic to love (not to be confused with possession or sex.)

frankkydee:
Most people will think they would be able to handle it but not until you've tried it and it has failed(not leading to any where) talking from life experiences

But many don’t fail, while many local relationships also fail - or end in murder!

This too

And this

skywalker240:
there's nothing theoretical here,

those girls you're talking about beleive they have something to gain from the relationship and its not driving by love. Hence why you see a girl who love her broke boyfreind with all her heart, but would still leave him and go be a sixth wife to a rich old man.

distance has it's pros and cons

Well, it’s not me that came up with the sayings:
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder” “scarcity makes price go up” “familiarity breeds contempt”
And the ones below

lefulefu:
long distance relationship is a complete waste of time.dating someone u havent met or seen and u have no idea how he or she looks like....it could be a guy pretendin to be a woman and u no wiser

We are talking about LOVE not dating or sex or such. Just loving someone brightens YOUR life no matter how u managed to trick your mind into loving the person. Be in love and suddenly ordinary things look beautiful and hard goals seem easily achievable. I think there is some magic to love, not to be confused with possession or sex.

Coool

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skywalker240:
With a woman, When the fvck is so releiving, it would become so sweet, and when it becomes so sweet, it becomes emotional, and when it becomes emotional,...


LOVE GROWS

again i repeat, your assertion holds no water.

U r living in a theoretical world. All this parade of girls saying they have a local guy but in love with an abroad based guy. Where do u think they come from? Or abroad guys who impregnant girls the brief time they return home. Distance adds luster, which is what retains love.

iGISTM0RE:
Lalasticlala

Why exactly r u calling lalasticlala?

Joker

skywalker240:
Thats not same with a Nigerian boy and girl relationship, so your assertion holds no grounds.

Would u rather a female far removed loves u and constantly yearns for u or to be having sex with a female who doesn’t love u, who uses u 4 sexual relief but loves and yearns 4 someone else?

lefulefu:
i dont know if u non nigerian or a nigerian based in canada but if either of my assumptions are right and u involved in a long distance relationship with ur partner who is based in nigeria then oyo na ur case ooo .the average nigerian if he/she really likes would want to be close to u.

I wish I were in Canada.
Familiarity breeds contempt. That unsatisfied itch is what makes for great love (and great love letters!) wanting to be with someone but unable to. What does it benefit u, fucking someone but she is in love with and yearns for someone else.

skywalker240:
Yeah right, you be loving over here, another nigga be pounding that pvssy mercilessly overthere.

Why do u think some yahoo boys get so much money. The magas have fallen IN LOVE with them even knowing fully well they are being scammed. Some people are sapio sexual. Some for religious figures or people far removed. It is not always about sex

proudevil:
[b][/b] you geh sense.........celebrities always want to be in the news,say no to rape but I am yet to see a celebrity that will alleged a bus conductor or an okada rider raped her.

U and dynicks should gat sense. If u see someone gallivanting in public it reminds of the act. But u damage yourself by admitting an unknown raped u years ago. He’d probably become popular from it

So what exactly is the news here. IT, tell us something we don’t already know

lefulefu:
only cheating couples would relish long distance relationship to a close relationship cos they can cheat without having any fear of being caught.

I think u might be confusing love with sex. Loving someone benefits you more than them. It is easier to love someone when u can fill in the gaps any way u wish. It easier to love a silhouette

dingbang:
Two people just wasting their time and deceiving each other. But las las, them go dey alright.

Loving somebody can’t be a waste of time. Love is love, and loving somebody brightens your life, whether u r with them or not.

skywalker240:
In a successful Modern day "LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP", the FOUR participants understand's themselves.
if you know you know



and if you dont know, it is waste of time, emotions, resources (ofcourse nigga would be sending cash 4 upkeep)

infact it is total waste of time.

Don’t know how it can be a waste of time to love someone. Love is love, and loving somebody brightens your outlook on life, whether u r with them or not.

adaezeh126:
@canadaorBust @canadaorBust

Princess (for those who don’t know, that’s the literal meaning of Ada eze - king’s daughter), my princess, lalasticlala should do the needfull