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i might, but dat doesnt still stop him 4rm goin outside some men are just born cheaters and are insatiable

its right becos she looks good, but it shoudnt go farther than that

pray about then seek counselling

@zayhal - does dat answer my question, whether is me or not, its becoming a serious issue to my younger sister to be precise dats why am sharing it here 4 more advice. becos i dont want her to end up as a divorcee. am not here for mockery or boredom. i just need other opinions nd want to hide their identity.

if the girl really loves u she will call u and always want to hear ur voice. except she doesnt ve d means or money to call u.

@MRbrownJAY - i ve taken notice of ur advice.
i think lack of energy contributes, and moreover she is adventurous as in diff styles but once she proposes he is usually not interested.
and this has been goin on since they got married she is just been hoping its get better.

@minute - she allows him enjoy it because she feels it would make him more sexaully aroused and to know how fun it could be if he also reciprocates. she also felt by doin these he can be aware of how romantic and submissive she can be.
and this lady is quite young,attractive,very neat and beautiful. she can actually get any guy outside but her strict and mindset wount make her think of goin out. but i can also feel if she doesnt get a solution soon she might fall.

@minute- yes he gives her money and gifts but she is a workin class lady and have more than enough for her self. she doesnt care about the money or gifts.
@queeneve and @ Plutarch - yes the guy is a little traditional about talkin over things.
@missy b- yes i feel he should know d important of this but upon d talk there are no improvements

she has tried to talk to him sweetly and quietly and ve seem to hear her for a short while but there are no improvements.

HI
   
please wat advice can i give her because she is gettin fed up and bored, and as a christain she has never cheated and never want to cheat becos of his incapabilities.

desmond elloit

sit fer down and talk to her, moreover u can start d process and make it a gradual process. i guess she wants to be more secured

YES, TRUE LOVE EXIST O. WERE U HAVE NO LIMITS

just take heart poster. moreover she is young
wat did u expect. anyway try cheer up life continues

hey poster, just change ur priorities, sit with her and ve a heart to heart talk. moreover if u love her and was intending marring her b4. u just do it sooner now dats all. but no matter wat dont abort it.

every women likes money it just depends on d degree

no big deal
can wash it anyday any time,

if this is false or a tale its quite interesting
but if its true i hoped u are cursed for life, u are heartless and wicked infact death is too small a punishment,
but how do u think u can be normal again it will take years 4 u to be sane again,

first give ur life to christ ask 4 his 4giveness and then go to ur wife too tell her about her friend and ask 4 her 4giveness dats if she can 4give u, then
dont ever see ur mother in law again barnish her away from ur life, moreover this is just a starting point 4 u o.
dont forget u will still reap wat u ve sown surely!!!

i dont know wat advice u need again, tell ur girl to return d phone immediately wats there to ponder, and threaten her about seeing d other guy. if she loves u then she will sit up. and wount try it again. but open ur eyes sha she looks like she has ojukokoro. moreover this issue is not enough for u to be thinkin about breakin up. just keep watching her dats all.

yeah
d advice from @ ursa is cool
but wount last for a long while though. so just give it one more try and just guard ur heart with all deligence. cheers

i really think u shld think about this well. nd ask ur male friends wat they think. left to me i think u shld just be watchful, maybe she is just be lonely, moreover noone is perfect

SO WAT DO U WANT US TO DO. NA WE GO FIND GIRL 4 U, NA WA O

not good for his health, moreover i cant stand smokers around me i automatically detest them

if u really loved her then u should ve helped her. noone is perfect. and am sure u gave her reasons to be insecured. she is insecured becos she loves u and is afraid of loosing u. check urself guy maybe u didnt give her much attention cos ladies like dat

dats african mentality 4 u

girl just tread carefully. insecurity its a teriible thing and dats how u are feelin rite now. talk to him nd see how he replies,
if u are not confident on his replies. girl move on he might not be wat u need but if he opens up and confides in u then relax and talk ur way out of it, unless does stuffs u saw will continue to hunt ur judgement.

lol lol!!! wat a tread

true, and stop worrying let God do dat 4 u. just engage urself with friends and family u will be fine with time.