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spiritedtete:
Dear wife don't embarrass yourself by confronting my side chick oo


I will respect you and still love you like i always do.. side chick won't change anything.

It is my choice and please deal with me instead.. and do it with wisdom.

Signed
By me

Lol.


On a serious note... the wife just subjected herself to defeat by showing her insecurity openly.

and she had to share years at some point in the video,showing side chick how weak she has become. Side chick and her hubby will be rocking this weekend, she neva start to embarrass herself

Pablo19:
The issue of tribalism made my affair with this beautiful girl of 3 years end just like that. Igbo and Yoruba don’t walk on the same path

they do walk on same path.families differ,background differ, so is orientation.

TechCapon:
see how the courtroom is empty. The public has lost interest in the case. Not even the family of the girls are coming to court. This guy may go scot free o. Public need to be interested in this case

the same way we have ALL lost interest in;
1. https://www.nairaland.com/3725565/sodienye-mbatumukeke-accused-murderer-jumia
These one has gone cold,the father happen to be a senior accountant with Agip oil and gas,the aunt is a big lecturer in university of port harcourt with a billionaire husvand,so money is working

2. https://www.nairaland.com/5635571/justiceforchima-chima-ikwunado-mechanic-tortured
Police wants out of court settlement like I heard on the radio,it might also go cold cos our interesting is going down each day on these case.our society is pathetic. God help us.

proclinician:
He didn't kill anyone. This Nigeria is nonsense. When some one denies a felon in a court of law you simply present the evidence you have against him and ask him to comment on that. Why are they adjourning the case?

exactly my point,why adjourning case when all you need to do is present the evidence before you and sentence the idiot,our judicial system is messed up,from SC to the least

fergie001:
Let me thank the SC for maintaining its stand and its supremacy.

I thank all here on NL who participated in this discourse whilst it was on. Let me also thank all the NL legal gurus who participated in this process...for or against

vicdom dansuqi kahal29 ejimatic ChristianNorth agborojietiye Lostz, and many others too numerous to mention.

Let me officially congratulate the miracle Gov Diri and the people of Bayelsa, and in other words stretch out to Govs Uzodinma, Matawalle, President Buhari likewise for officially retaining their seats for the upcoming reviews which will be pooh-poohed and thrown out the window.


She said, “There must be an end to litigation, the decision of the Supreme Court is final for ages in a matter.”

She said that with tears in her eyes she regretted that “very senior” lawyers were responsible for filing the applications.

The apex court awarded the costs of N10m to be personally paid by Lyon’s lawyer, Chief Afe Babalola (SAN), and APC’s lawyer, Chief Wole Olanipekun (SAN).

It ruled that each of the lawyers must pay the N10m to each of the three respondents – the Peoples Democratic Party, Governor Duoye Diri, and the Deputy Governor of Bayelsa State, Lawrence Ewhruojakpo. Punch
https://leadership.ng/2020/02/26/bayelsa-governorship-poll-supreme-court-dismisses-apcs-application-for-review/

NB: Olanipekun 10million, Afe Babalola will pay 20million naira each from their pockets.

while I congratulate the governor again,my concern is,let Diri get to work,let him prove people wrong that he won't deliver.BY is far behind in terms of development, the governor needs a cabinet of technocrats who are willing to wholeheartedly work with him to deliver.

Kaka24:
Am currently doing my master’s degree program at a Germany. However have been to Uk, Sweden and Czech before while am in Germany,
Now I want to attend a scientific conference at USA in relation to my field of study.

But the issue is I have a brother at USA who use B1/B2 as a mean of entry and later stabilize with marriage.
Mention me having a brother will be detrimental to my chances.

What can you advise me in these case.critism is welcome.

in my opinion,you can apply without mentioning you brother's details. You stand a good chance from what i know.Gurus in the house over to you

seyewest:
We need to cool down, I know she meant no harm and it's her opinion.

baba seye,ur boy is calm o, lik stream water. I de onli inform aunty ibukun say quarrel no de for ground. @ anabor is free to use agent or not use agent ,for me,DIY remains my policy.

ibukunpops:
When you guys say don't use agent, it is very annoying sometimes.
Not everyone has the time to sit and read hundreds of pages on a thread
There are agents that are well traveled and know their onions, not every agent is a quack so to say

Why not "if you have to use an an agent, ensure they are credible'

Alot of people have gotten Visa denials when they dont know exactly how/what they are meant to state on the forms or the appropriate supporting documents to upload/submit to give them a better chance with the VO.

I know people that chose VI only to realize they had to pay more or even chose the wrong type of appointment and had no choice than to pay for them at TLS.

Please you guys should be gentle on the 'dont use agents'

Thank you.

what is annoying here?i only gave a genuine advice, the young man has got all the power to decide what will work for him. agents has done more harm than good to people here and outside these forum. It is not a must to read the whole thread too.
@anabor, use agent if you wish, dont use agent if dont wish. shikena, quarell no de for sambisa gate.

happiestman1, i want to get your contact, to discuss business. my contact is martyn.blend@outlook.com

seyewest:
The UK visa will boost your chance very well... give it a try and branch Ethiopia for few days on your way to UK.

thanks for these info,a colleague at the office gave the U.k visa a trial then went through Rwanda and stayed 5 days,he got his U.S visa with wife and kids though there was 6 months interval in between the trip and application for u.s visa, so you try same as baba seye advise

anabor:
Hello Carnal. What i mean by appropriate is supposing i get an interview date for May for example and i am issued a 2months visa, meanwhile my travel date is December. My wife and i have only been to Dubai together and we have no kids yet. I have an inherited property in Nigeria and have fixed in my account.

modify and remove that figure please,this is a public forum.I can advice you and your wife apply for u.k visa between now and June if you have the fund,you can chose appropriate interview date at u.s embassy say September/October, having a u.k visa might boost your chances.the VO wont ask to see any documents,also read these thread from beginning to learn more.If any challenge we are here to assist, don't use any agent o

anabor:
Good day all, i plan to travel to the U.S with my wife in December for 2weeks vacation. I am self employed and my wife is an engineer working with an engineering firm and we intend staying at a cousin's place during the vacation. Please what are our chances of getting a visa, when is the most appropriate time to apply and is there any document my cousin can provide that can increase our chances? Thank you

there is no time like appropriate.
What are your ties to 9ja,do you have kids, what travel history do you have or you and your wife has together? Good thing you're planning now,December is still far away.your response to the questions i raosed will aid advice that you will get

edoairways:
I learnt from a grapevine that he issues with Nysc discharge certificate however it may not be part of the requirements for electoral position

am on ground in bayelsa,heard same gist last night about the PDP deputy, yet to confirm though but for me I will prefer a Timi Alaibe any day to these Diri.Timi is grassroot plus has good vision as a leader,he did a lot for the youths while he was at NDDC.Diri is not a leader, he is a one man show like Dickson

And your moniker is dilligentniggar?guy, get that babe to abort and if she won't then never ever put a ring on it cos she will make life terrible for you and drain out your hustling spirit. You are seeing the signs now o.run,don't ever think child bearing or marriage will calm her,this two factors will give her bigger boldness. Run I say run

OgaBuhari:
mehn this is wickedness and unbelievable

its happening well enough in fact a lady from Nigeria just did it to a guy in port Harcourt, omo d guy almost ran mad,we all pitied him

paix:
I have seen them, they claim they're now better exposed than their husbands.

@ogabuhari, that thing happens well,if you claim impossible then how about Nigerians who take their wives to the US/abroad?alot of them study becomes a nurse/medical profession, start earning good pay then divorce the guy and even take all the guys has worked for before then arrive? e de happen well broda, well as in well
infact google is your friend
https://www.nairaland.com/776967/why-nigerian-men-killing-wives
https://punchng.com/nigerian-man-kills-ex-wife-commits-suicide-in-us/
https://www.informationng.com/2014/04/nigerian-medical-doctor-shot-dead-by-her-husband-in-the-usa.html
https://web.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281/?_rdc=1&_rdr

Jidexo:
The same thing happened to me last year. It was God Almighty that saved my life. But I thank God today when she came back to plead and saw someone more beautiful and serious than her .She cried like new born baby "WHO LAUGH LAST LAUGH BEST"

my broda,d thin is rampant now, i wonder why our brodas wont just learn. i still wonder why guys take up responsibilities of their babes including her family members when you cant cater enough for your immediate family o.same thing happened to one of my guys two years ago, after sponsoring these babe to become a doctor, doctor o (as in 7 years spending), including on her family, las las, na better slap plus olosho supply for a whole weekend reset the guy brain o.d guy almost killed himself,las las olosho do d magic for us o

Jahkye:
you're 1000% right
only those that has never been through such will bash the guy
depression kills hundreds of teenagers in US yearly
a very bad situation and it takes a strong selfless mind to scale through

but one good thing about it is that if you manage to get through you'll become emotionally stronger and nothing will shake you or suprise you emotionally again

while i agree to your point and several others as regards the effect of depression, i also employ everyone to try and program their mind, this is what i take into any relationship either business or otherwise. Control your mind, program your head when you are in charge of these two then your mind will be strong enough to scale through and believe me this will not happened. this is my own antidote

jimikata:
Good day all, am trying to fill ds 160 form, but I noticed there's no place to fill present employer only previous..
is that normal or am i missing something?

very normal.

My friend just got approved in Abuja.

Strongmercy123:
Good evenin everyone. Pls I need a word of wisdom and advice from matured minds here. I’m 28 yrs I will be 29 in 2days.

I feel I’m about to make a life mistake. I have been dating my bf for 10yrs now, yes I was young and independent as at that time, the love was so sweet that we could do anything for each other. My bf left the country 5yrs ago and since then it has been long distance relationships, our communication was good.

He visited Nigeria December last yr and left the first week of January. He Begged me to wait for him again and I agreed. I’m currently pregnant and I’m scared to keep the baby, I spoke to him about it and he was happy.

Recently he is complaining of not having money and all. he has suddenly change with the way he talk to me and he doesn’t even have plans for me. He hardly calls and hardly pick my calls. I have tried to talk to him about his recent attitude and he will always end up calling me nag.

I’m thinking about going for abortion but I don’t know if it’s a great choice. He is 34yrs, pls I need advice.

first go his own family first,go and inform them about the pregnancy, hear their opinion then take a decision. You alone wear the shoe.

AfonjaBoston:
Just curious, this mystery lady that was denied she "came down " from the USA with a visa to pick up the kids?

She living in the USA on a visa and want to immigrate with the kids on a tourist visa too?

Things they happen for naija! Lol

was wondering too,if yes then its a big red flag,I don't think those kids will get a visa,right?

aboyaji:
Hi guys. Been a silent reader for a very long time now.

I went for my interview yesterday and got DENIED.

Location : Lagos. V. I.
Scheduled Time : 6:45 am

I arrived as early as possible. Got my documents ready and was advised to take a 2x2 passport photo which was quite different from the one I came with. I was charged 2k for 6 copies though.

The time for checking in and screening came, we filed into the reception, got our international passports checked and tagged at the back with a white paper that bore our respective names and codes. We sat patiently on each seats and waited for the next move.

I got in contact with some little lovelies (kids). They're twins though. Aged 3. They came with their mom. 2 minutes later, the kids were all over me, asking my name. I told them with a smile and BOOM they started singing it. They'd prefix it with "bro" before my name. I laughed hard and every other persons kept laughing at their hilarious display. They left their mum and clung unto me throughout our stay there.

We headed into the main building for the next phase of screening. The kids didn't let go of me. I was then a father figure to them. They forgot their mom who trailed behind with a wide grin and laughter. She had no option.

Here in the big interview hall, those kids kept screaming my name "bro xxxxx". Ah! It was very loud that people kept laughing all through.

Are you their father? They asked. No, I'm not, sir, ma.

My passport and photo were collected and scanned. I waited patiently to collect it and queue on the line for biometrics. Their mom held them tightly this time for my privacy. Immediately, I withdrew from the window 6, brandishing my passport and other items, those lovelies jump on my body, screaming at the top of their voices " bro xxxx, bro xxxx, he is back".

I laughed heavily.

Time for the biometrics came, I went. Met a white lady who was very friendly on the window 1.

"Your left fingers please". She said. I placed them.

"Are you alone?". Yes.

"Are those your kids"?. I then looked back and saw those angels. They held on my thigh and was screaming my name again, saying I had left them. Then I told the white lady that they're not my kids, they came with the other lady. She laughed and asked why they were following and singing my name. I said that's how today turned out. She laughed and said "you're gonna have a hell of kids in your home". We laughed together and I went to queue in for the main interview. The babies had their biometrics done and rushed to me again.

"Uncle, are you traveling to the USA with us", they asked me. I said yes. Their mum said of course, yes. He's coming with us. They jumped up with laughter. To cut the story short, they disturbed me with series of questions that made everyone laugh out loud.

The lady on window 6 that checked out passports came out and asked " who's this uncle xxxx". The babies mum pointed at me. She approached me as said "you're a lucky man. I heard you just met them outside". I said YES. Then, she walked away.

It was my turn for the interview, I motioned the babies to join their mum. I walked to window 6 where I met a white guy.

Vo:Good morning, sir. He said
Good morning, sir.

Where are you going to?

Houston, Texas.

Why?

Vacation

What do you do?

I'm a Sales executive in ****. I explained further. And further.

Do you have a relative?

Yes. Her name is *** *** ***.

OK, have you traveled before?

No, sir. But ***

YOU DO NOT QUALIFY FOR ************ (Here, I off). A yellow paper was tendered to me alongside my passport.

Excuse me sir, why am I not eligible, please.

He looked at me and said "You do not have a travel history.

I collected the paper and left.

And to the op that said, you shouldn't chat away, or be stringent and all. No be by muscle bro. It's by his grace and your "content".

That lady whose babies disturbed me had a valid Visa, her husband is in the US, her son is in the US too. She just came down to pick these ones to join the rest of the family. The little kids were denied too alongside a whole lot of people who has valid reasons of visiting the US.

A guy was denied too. He had been to UAE, France, Dubai, China, etc. What do you have to say about this?

There was this man that was issued a visa yesterday. He travels every month. He had been to Netherlands, USA, France China, UK, Germany, a whole lot of countries. From his statement, he was in Spain in December, UK in January, France in November. (Bros, I fear). Country no d finish for where the man dey. He was issued. He stays just weeks in each country.

yea a fine writer you are your narrative skill is top.try again another year maybe after one or two trips elsewhere.

They have old money not some money that will run dry anytime moreover they can overlook your excess plus mistakes but they show love by spoiling and las las,the kerewa na few meters no b young boy wey go tear plus condemn the elastic

JWTheocracy1:
Thanks seyewest.... you sure pass. I appreciate the good deal of a ticket you got me. I flew B.A from Lagos to London and American Airline from london to NC through your assistance. Wouldn't have been able to get such deals without you. Though haven't met with you before but I trusted you enough to send cash to you for my ticket, and you didn't disappoint a bit.

seyewest and a few have always been good and trustworthy here. He has never disappointed from record.

[quote author=YorubaPrince post=86383952][/quote]Am a rig supretendent,you can Google or enquire what that means in oil and gas

Lastly, tell us your location/state?remote(rig/offshore)

I drove taxi after graduation,taught jamb classes,then ran car/laundry shop then venture into farming(harvesting crops) before oil and gas opportunity came.continue doing your part,baba God go pick ur call las las

Anusiemgood:
Can you DM me for onward processing of ur passport

if you lose your passport are you suppose to go to Abuja or you can capture anywhere else

sisisioge:
But she isn't about to use your money nau! Hian...its stressful hauling a baby about in public transportation oga... You can chalk yours biko. Chai...a typical naija husband is always selfish!

some of us are not selfish 16yrs plus still counting.we don sacrifices enuff,na madam de take charge hence d home front de happy die

Let her get the car first, wait for about 5 months then get yours.though its her money but ensure she gets good and sound car i.e be part of the process to buy the car infact take charge,ask her brand and type,do research engage the seller well that will show you are happy for her plus also being head of the house.
As for family members, seat her down,let her know that you guys need to reduce what you spend for them this period, if family disturb you tell them you took a loan for her car and you're repaying

Has cousin started paying,OP?

Sirvingeo:
your case is complicated . The lady only sticked with you because you sponsored her through school.

true true,because you sponsored her education however this is not a guarantee that she must marry you.the thinking is different, you expect that all your efforts should earn you marriage she thinks she giving you returns(sex) for your efforts. So that's the problem here.my advice
Let her go if you're strong enough, forget what you have spent.as hustler you will always recover.
Secondly if you're also strong enough then seat her down,tell her she is free to advice the best way forward and you will comply,tell her the marriage won't end o but you're willing to work with her solutions. Yes its like the foolish path to you but this will give her the 'freedom' she desire and longed for,let her take decisions for you guys,engage her mind more,carry her along even in business decisions ,tell her you want her to decide,make her feel like the boss,act like you care less about the issues,let her enjoy and use the freedom, give her some space in btw,one call or summarise sms a day then watch how things will turn out.
Number 2 solution worked for my friend,the lady is most submissive now

jamesversion:
Kudos to the media in Port harcourt especially NigeriaInfo and her sister stations for keeping this Chima issue alive, left for Wike and RVSG, the matter would have long been forgotten.

The police in Nigeria is a corrupt and failed force, pray never to have an encounter with them.

my broda, nigeriainfo and rhythm FM did a whole lot on the subject. Wine messed up on these,as in big time. A sitting governor who cannot issue a statement condemning such act and condoling with a family of a citizen in your state is a failed governor.governance is not construction of your roads,the same Wike cried everywhere telling rivers people to defend their votes for him during election. Woke f*ck up big time