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OgaBuhari:
mehn this is wickedness and unbelievable

its happening well enough in fact a lady from Nigeria just did it to a guy in port Harcourt, omo d guy almost ran mad,we all pitied him

paix:
I have seen them, they claim they're now better exposed than their husbands.

@ogabuhari, that thing happens well,if you claim impossible then how about Nigerians who take their wives to the US/abroad?alot of them study becomes a nurse/medical profession, start earning good pay then divorce the guy and even take all the guys has worked for before then arrive? e de happen well broda, well as in well
infact google is your friend
https://www.nairaland.com/776967/why-nigerian-men-killing-wives
https://punchng.com/nigerian-man-kills-ex-wife-commits-suicide-in-us/
https://www.informationng.com/2014/04/nigerian-medical-doctor-shot-dead-by-her-husband-in-the-usa.html
https://web.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281/?_rdc=1&_rdr

Jidexo:
The same thing happened to me last year. It was God Almighty that saved my life. But I thank God today when she came back to plead and saw someone more beautiful and serious than her .She cried like new born baby "WHO LAUGH LAST LAUGH BEST"

my broda,d thin is rampant now, i wonder why our brodas wont just learn. i still wonder why guys take up responsibilities of their babes including her family members when you cant cater enough for your immediate family o.same thing happened to one of my guys two years ago, after sponsoring these babe to become a doctor, doctor o (as in 7 years spending), including on her family, las las, na better slap plus olosho supply for a whole weekend reset the guy brain o.d guy almost killed himself,las las olosho do d magic for us o

Jahkye:
you're 1000% right
only those that has never been through such will bash the guy
depression kills hundreds of teenagers in US yearly
a very bad situation and it takes a strong selfless mind to scale through

but one good thing about it is that if you manage to get through you'll become emotionally stronger and nothing will shake you or suprise you emotionally again

while i agree to your point and several others as regards the effect of depression, i also employ everyone to try and program their mind, this is what i take into any relationship either business or otherwise. Control your mind, program your head when you are in charge of these two then your mind will be strong enough to scale through and believe me this will not happened. this is my own antidote

jimikata:
Good day all, am trying to fill ds 160 form, but I noticed there's no place to fill present employer only previous..
is that normal or am i missing something?

very normal.

My friend just got approved in Abuja.

Strongmercy123:
Good evenin everyone. Pls I need a word of wisdom and advice from matured minds here. I’m 28 yrs I will be 29 in 2days.

I feel I’m about to make a life mistake. I have been dating my bf for 10yrs now, yes I was young and independent as at that time, the love was so sweet that we could do anything for each other. My bf left the country 5yrs ago and since then it has been long distance relationships, our communication was good.

He visited Nigeria December last yr and left the first week of January. He Begged me to wait for him again and I agreed. I’m currently pregnant and I’m scared to keep the baby, I spoke to him about it and he was happy.

Recently he is complaining of not having money and all. he has suddenly change with the way he talk to me and he doesn’t even have plans for me. He hardly calls and hardly pick my calls. I have tried to talk to him about his recent attitude and he will always end up calling me nag.

I’m thinking about going for abortion but I don’t know if it’s a great choice. He is 34yrs, pls I need advice.

first go his own family first,go and inform them about the pregnancy, hear their opinion then take a decision. You alone wear the shoe.

AfonjaBoston:
Just curious, this mystery lady that was denied she "came down " from the USA with a visa to pick up the kids?

She living in the USA on a visa and want to immigrate with the kids on a tourist visa too?

Things they happen for naija! Lol

was wondering too,if yes then its a big red flag,I don't think those kids will get a visa,right?

aboyaji:
Hi guys. Been a silent reader for a very long time now.

I went for my interview yesterday and got DENIED.

Location : Lagos. V. I.
Scheduled Time : 6:45 am

I arrived as early as possible. Got my documents ready and was advised to take a 2x2 passport photo which was quite different from the one I came with. I was charged 2k for 6 copies though.

The time for checking in and screening came, we filed into the reception, got our international passports checked and tagged at the back with a white paper that bore our respective names and codes. We sat patiently on each seats and waited for the next move.

I got in contact with some little lovelies (kids). They're twins though. Aged 3. They came with their mom. 2 minutes later, the kids were all over me, asking my name. I told them with a smile and BOOM they started singing it. They'd prefix it with "bro" before my name. I laughed hard and every other persons kept laughing at their hilarious display. They left their mum and clung unto me throughout our stay there.

We headed into the main building for the next phase of screening. The kids didn't let go of me. I was then a father figure to them. They forgot their mom who trailed behind with a wide grin and laughter. She had no option.

Here in the big interview hall, those kids kept screaming my name "bro xxxxx". Ah! It was very loud that people kept laughing all through.

Are you their father? They asked. No, I'm not, sir, ma.

My passport and photo were collected and scanned. I waited patiently to collect it and queue on the line for biometrics. Their mom held them tightly this time for my privacy. Immediately, I withdrew from the window 6, brandishing my passport and other items, those lovelies jump on my body, screaming at the top of their voices " bro xxxx, bro xxxx, he is back".

I laughed heavily.

Time for the biometrics came, I went. Met a white lady who was very friendly on the window 1.

"Your left fingers please". She said. I placed them.

"Are you alone?". Yes.

"Are those your kids"?. I then looked back and saw those angels. They held on my thigh and was screaming my name again, saying I had left them. Then I told the white lady that they're not my kids, they came with the other lady. She laughed and asked why they were following and singing my name. I said that's how today turned out. She laughed and said "you're gonna have a hell of kids in your home". We laughed together and I went to queue in for the main interview. The babies had their biometrics done and rushed to me again.

"Uncle, are you traveling to the USA with us", they asked me. I said yes. Their mum said of course, yes. He's coming with us. They jumped up with laughter. To cut the story short, they disturbed me with series of questions that made everyone laugh out loud.

The lady on window 6 that checked out passports came out and asked " who's this uncle xxxx". The babies mum pointed at me. She approached me as said "you're a lucky man. I heard you just met them outside". I said YES. Then, she walked away.

It was my turn for the interview, I motioned the babies to join their mum. I walked to window 6 where I met a white guy.

Vo:Good morning, sir. He said
Good morning, sir.

Where are you going to?

Houston, Texas.

Why?

Vacation

What do you do?

I'm a Sales executive in ****. I explained further. And further.

Do you have a relative?

Yes. Her name is *** *** ***.

OK, have you traveled before?

No, sir. But ***

YOU DO NOT QUALIFY FOR ************ (Here, I off). A yellow paper was tendered to me alongside my passport.

Excuse me sir, why am I not eligible, please.

He looked at me and said "You do not have a travel history.

I collected the paper and left.

And to the op that said, you shouldn't chat away, or be stringent and all. No be by muscle bro. It's by his grace and your "content".

That lady whose babies disturbed me had a valid Visa, her husband is in the US, her son is in the US too. She just came down to pick these ones to join the rest of the family. The little kids were denied too alongside a whole lot of people who has valid reasons of visiting the US.

A guy was denied too. He had been to UAE, France, Dubai, China, etc. What do you have to say about this?

There was this man that was issued a visa yesterday. He travels every month. He had been to Netherlands, USA, France China, UK, Germany, a whole lot of countries. From his statement, he was in Spain in December, UK in January, France in November. (Bros, I fear). Country no d finish for where the man dey. He was issued. He stays just weeks in each country.

yea a fine writer you are your narrative skill is top.try again another year maybe after one or two trips elsewhere.

They have old money not some money that will run dry anytime moreover they can overlook your excess plus mistakes but they show love by spoiling and las las,the kerewa na few meters no b young boy wey go tear plus condemn the elastic

JWTheocracy1:
Thanks seyewest.... you sure pass. I appreciate the good deal of a ticket you got me. I flew B.A from Lagos to London and American Airline from london to NC through your assistance. Wouldn't have been able to get such deals without you. Though haven't met with you before but I trusted you enough to send cash to you for my ticket, and you didn't disappoint a bit.

seyewest and a few have always been good and trustworthy here. He has never disappointed from record.

[quote author=YorubaPrince post=86383952][/quote]Am a rig supretendent,you can Google or enquire what that means in oil and gas

Lastly, tell us your location/state?remote(rig/offshore)

I drove taxi after graduation,taught jamb classes,then ran car/laundry shop then venture into farming(harvesting crops) before oil and gas opportunity came.continue doing your part,baba God go pick ur call las las

Anusiemgood:
Can you DM me for onward processing of ur passport

if you lose your passport are you suppose to go to Abuja or you can capture anywhere else

sisisioge:
But she isn't about to use your money nau! Hian...its stressful hauling a baby about in public transportation oga... You can chalk yours biko. Chai...a typical naija husband is always selfish!

some of us are not selfish 16yrs plus still counting.we don sacrifices enuff,na madam de take charge hence d home front de happy die

Let her get the car first, wait for about 5 months then get yours.though its her money but ensure she gets good and sound car i.e be part of the process to buy the car infact take charge,ask her brand and type,do research engage the seller well that will show you are happy for her plus also being head of the house.
As for family members, seat her down,let her know that you guys need to reduce what you spend for them this period, if family disturb you tell them you took a loan for her car and you're repaying

Has cousin started paying,OP?

Sirvingeo:
your case is complicated . The lady only sticked with you because you sponsored her through school.

true true,because you sponsored her education however this is not a guarantee that she must marry you.the thinking is different, you expect that all your efforts should earn you marriage she thinks she giving you returns(sex) for your efforts. So that's the problem here.my advice
Let her go if you're strong enough, forget what you have spent.as hustler you will always recover.
Secondly if you're also strong enough then seat her down,tell her she is free to advice the best way forward and you will comply,tell her the marriage won't end o but you're willing to work with her solutions. Yes its like the foolish path to you but this will give her the 'freedom' she desire and longed for,let her take decisions for you guys,engage her mind more,carry her along even in business decisions ,tell her you want her to decide,make her feel like the boss,act like you care less about the issues,let her enjoy and use the freedom, give her some space in btw,one call or summarise sms a day then watch how things will turn out.
Number 2 solution worked for my friend,the lady is most submissive now

jamesversion:
Kudos to the media in Port harcourt especially NigeriaInfo and her sister stations for keeping this Chima issue alive, left for Wike and RVSG, the matter would have long been forgotten.

The police in Nigeria is a corrupt and failed force, pray never to have an encounter with them.

my broda, nigeriainfo and rhythm FM did a whole lot on the subject. Wine messed up on these,as in big time. A sitting governor who cannot issue a statement condemning such act and condoling with a family of a citizen in your state is a failed governor.governance is not construction of your roads,the same Wike cried everywhere telling rivers people to defend their votes for him during election. Woke f*ck up big time

Oggg:
Bishop Oyedepo of Winners Chapel denied US visa renewal on Thursday at the Lagos Embassy. I dnt know why the rest of us can’t seem to understand what’s going on now at the US embassy and keep wanting to waste money..
Bishop Oyedepo will probably get one or two calls from a high ranking govt official or office put through to the people that be and his visa will be renewed at next trial. ...(probably)
My brethren pls leave this embassy and America alone. They dont want Nigerians again. Them nor do again.

(Bovi’s visa was finally renewed)

Bovi's wife was still denied the second time

Tonymegabush1:
Mmmmmmmm, the whole of my immediate family. Brothers, sisters, nieces, nephew, sons n daughter we never reach 24 na so one man get,
Na wa ooo... Some ppl sabi born ooo

honestly, my parents has five of us(all married now)and I just did a count of the children that five of us have.its 11 children with our five family, and none of us is ready to add again o,yet one man has 27 and still counting. Black man de wahala

Froshloaded:
Congrats
Wow so she is just 33, I was thinking she is older..

33 what,century she meant?abeg mak she no allow some of us wey sabi her for Immaculate Conception secondary school hear DAT 33yrs talk o,Di's babe an my elder sister(now 42yrs) were in same class o,not minding that my sista wrote WAEC at the age of 18 years o.congrat but drop dis 33yrs stori biko

12Monkeys:
The crime was committed in Abuja and tried in a federal high court.

All convicted capital offenders get an automatic appeal which can be continued up to the Supreme court.

If all appeals are exhausted, the execution can only be carried out by an executive order by a duly elected governor which the FCT does not have. The minister of FCT is not constitutionality empowered to grant pardons or a prerogative of mercy. So if the minister can not grant pardons, he can not sign warrants either.
Who then will sign her death warrant as constitutionally mandated for executions?

This is the reason federal judges hardly pass death sentences. The case of Kabirui Sokoto who was responsible for over 200 deaths in the Abuja Nyanya bombings and Okah's Independence day lethal bombings saw only life sentences as both crimes were committed in Abuja and tried at an Abuja high court.

Only Governors can sign a warrant. Even the president doesn't have that responsibility although he can grant pardons or commutations to a life sentence.

The point I am making is that, the useless woman judge who passed this sentence is not aware of the intricacies surrounding death sentences within federal jurisprudence .

She is obviously from the same school as Tanko.

If in doubt, why did the FG hand Maj Mustapha and Gen Bamiyi to Lagos state for prosecution?

Even in the US, the FBI may decide to try someone in a state court rather than federal when looking for a death sentence. The only crimes that can lead to a death conviction in a US federal court is espionage and treason. Same rules apply in Nigeria.

thanks for these in sight.meaning she might be here until another 10years or even more

seyewest:
Why exclude Jack Ma (Alibaba), Jack Dorsey (Twitter) and Mark (Facebook) visit to Nigeria? oh they don't fit your narratives? this country bashing by those who contribute zero to it is amusing and dangerous.

absolutely.9ja still remain our country,no matter the second passport we all might have

nothingspoil70:
Which kind name be this oo

NCA your attention is needed

the mother is Yoruba. We all still remain one Nigeria.wishing him best of luck in future endeavors

Blainz:
On point.

My friend was dating her before Dr. Sid

Even when my friend broke up with her back then..Dr. was still acting unsecured...always perching around when Simi was in Abuja law school.

I sabi DAT time wella,rather than focus on the goal,as in the babe then improve on the cash she was bringing my guy was busy worrying about her ex's. If you're lucky to marry from a rich home and ur papa no get place enough investment card on the table,never spend like her,invest enough cos at the end that your investment is your only strength. Funny enough Dr. Sid has none

Blainz:
It took longer than I expected. Dr. Sid married the girl cos of her parents' wealth to boost his unpromising music career

very true,the parents are close to the dangote/dantata empire, she herself is a childhood friend of Fatima dangote.the point is Dr Sid failed to invest plus use her family influence to grow himself plus create financial stability when music career was drowning,the ability of a man to switch survival instinct is key when a particular career path is dropping,see Peter Okoye and Lola(she is from a wealthy family) but Peter has got loads of investment and that's majorly a strength for him today

@aminu and arewa,these is not necessary.
Shin za mu iya rufe takobinmu, a matsayinmu na 'yan ƙasar Nijar da za mu ci gaba. Ya zama ba a cikin littafina ba, an haife ni a arewa amma na girma a cikin iyayewi / sauran garuruwa na gabashin, abin ban dariya shi ne cewa ni yoruba. babu buƙatar zagi, don Allah

Koredav:
Mr op. That is a f**king lie. I was born and brought up in d north, back den, they don't too sleep around but now , they are leading in sleeping around. Don't be deceive with dt dr nonsense hijab dt dy cover dr face and body with ooo

was born (tundu wada)and brought up in the north (bida,sabon gari ,yola plus gombe).na dem bad pas ,always available,no complains,ever ready,but well coded with firm bodies(don't know how de achieve these,compare to our sistas down south),the bobi with butt ever firm,d holes are ever tight too but d wetness na super,like running tap.I salute their discreet sha

Mancala:
My brother, things dey happen in the U.S. pertaining to the birthing. Nigerians still dey apprenticeship when it comes to anchor baby business!

you know our problems as Nigerians b say we too do our own loud, wat others will do and you wont hear pim,we go do small den mak d loudest noise.

[quote author=Vortex369 post=86044669]@ vortex,can you introduce me to loan shark?someone has refused to pay me after a service was rendered.it's over a year now.please can you help.

For the first one year,the bobo go knack tire cos mami need to see the young blood work

?heard that was a protest for chima told in PH, anyone can verify these news?