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I always thought people who divorce must have been lazy in their marriage to keep things together.... but the sad fact is i am now going through a divorce. Its even more painfull to realise the key reason for me parting ways with the woman i still love is simply because she wont address the error of her ways.

Ironically, if she had said, "my husband, i am sorry please fogive me and lets patch things up (even for the sake of the kids)". I would with out doubt reconsider. it would help restore my confidence in her and my marriage.

The harsh reality is without these words, I would continously battle with her in respect of who wears the pants in our marriage. it truly doesnt help that her tenacity is supproted by her family. This truly chops my legs of me manhood and dignity... My marriage is currently the spin off from Eastenders... the family affairs is out there...

Im guessing you want to know what she should be sorry about it will pop out when i get enough feedback from the women out there.

9yrs knowing her, 5yrs married, 2kids later and a divorce............ Ladies, Learn these words, it goes a long way to retaining your marriage " my husband i am sorry"

First of, I know the information you've given here is quite incomplete and its 'your side of the story'...would be different from 'her side of the story'. But I'll still comment byour side of the story.
I think your proud and selfish!(Sorry for d bluntness)
It takes two to tango. All you've been saying here is how you've tried to make her do what you want her do and then getting angry cos she obviously has her own life as well. Have you ever talked to her(I mean TALK not scold, shout or intimidate) concerning whatever you feel she doesn't do right? I dnt support her bringing her extended family into HER FAMILY. But your pride hasn't allowed you dialogue rather you've been authoritarian.

You're selfish because you're only looking out for yourself? Have you considered the effect the divorce will have on her, your kids, your n her extended family? I guess not. But you now want to leave because she doesn't do what you say. Well, Mister, she's your wife not your housegirl!

People should seriously learn how to communicate in marriage. When things are good know how to enjoy communication in such moment. If things go bad, know how to communicate! If you're marriage is going down, you're equally culpable.

So swallow your shitty pride, and the overbloated male chauvinist attitude and go talk to your wife. And save those kids the life of asking, "WHY?"

mjconcept: This is a very good move but involving a foreign company how safe are we?

So do you have any company or atleast any individual from your village to handle it? Or do you think its opening and closing Mozilla Firefox?

Being on mtn network is like an abusive relationship....u wan leave but u no fit.
Mtn has the cheapest mtn-mtn call rates sha! Ask any Supersaver.

Saka don gain pass for number portability!

Etisalat is my preferred Service Provider for data. But I'll chill till I see the network that brings to the table the lowest internetwork tariff...Viam! I teleport!

Just have to be careful how you port. The gainers might just be the Service Providers. Because you won't be sure anymore which network your friends are on. But I'm very sure I can't port from etisalat to mtn.... Saka or no Saka.

See what calls wiould look like now:
Guy1 0809: Oboy, how far? Which network u dey?
Guy2 0809: Omo I dey mtn o.
Guy1 0809: Ok na. Bye bye. Let me know when you come back etisalat mbok!