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BRO, Get the hell out of that hell-called-marriage.

You made the initial mistake of marrying her. For me, I can't stay a month more in that marriage. No regard for me, my parents et all. Tearing your clothes before your parents.

Your landlord must have been fed up to have agreed to be your lawyer...you too should be fed up.

YOU NEED SOME REAL LIVING MAN...that woman is sapping it all!

RUN! RUN!! RUNN!!! And never look back...you'll see what peace you'll feel out of the marriage

Happy Birthday Sweetomotayo! May your life remain sweet, except your blood o!

Please o I don't have the past question. I have only used the internet to search for practise test. Well I've discovered for myself that test is not my issue....interview is! So I'm working real hard to prepare for the interview.

I've always found www.indiabix.com invaluable.

Happy new year to you all. The preparation continues...more jacking! SHL, Cubik, Kenexa type questions.

Remember, Success/Luck is the product of the copulation between opportunity and preparation!

There's nothing like South-South Ibos. Mr Dokubo. You're either an Igbo man or you're not!!!!

Happy New, New Breakthroughs, New Upliftment, New Grace, New Empowerment, New and Great Jobs. We'll all experience the harvest of our toils this year.

Bask in Grace!

Dannylux: I hate it when a girl breathes in my presence, like can't you hold your breath for just an hour?

Buahahahahahahahahahaha.... Kai! Hilarious!!!

Get yourself a robot for a girlfriend man!

Nothing said! Just an attempt at the Use of English!

Nothing said!

eddychukwu: Is a Zebra white wth black stripes or black wth white stripes?

A zebra is black and white stripe!

Age is nothing. It only becomes an issue when the woman is one conscious of her age.

Try to figure out her dealings with others, if she's one that tends to be bossy, in-charge, not comfortable relating casually with younger friends then she MIGHT have the tendency to be 'less submissive'.
There are older women who will happily hand over the wheel of power to the younger partner and younger women who want to wield the stick of power.

It's not an age thing, but a personality trait. Since you're worried about SUBMISSION, don't marry a CHOLERIC!

About the looking older thing, if you take care of your wife she'll keep her good looks! Good looks na man dey fund am!!!

born_to_be_gr8t: Wat a braggadocious act of bravery from the father lets all thank God as we join Christians in the celebration of Christmas, may we seminally and clinically reflect on the quintessential modus vivendi of Master Jesus the Christ who peregrinated his incarnation as an exempli gratia of eulogisable self abnegation, mental magnitude, spart an discipline, altruistic effusions, hiero phantic candour and puritanical. , the very qualities that have become a desiderata for our national resurgimento.

Please how much this your English cost?

satowind: Ode so u don't even know hw to subscribe and u are here ranting lyk a mad dog. And an slowpoke mod made this front page with out confirming.smh for nigeria youths.

I don't know why people don try to find out information for themselves. No wonder Nigeria is a great rumor-mill. As soon as I saw this I called their CC and it's so false! Guys please learn to research before you conclude!

*thousand likes to u Santowind

I've been part of the Committe of Friends for two weddings now...contemplating on declining a third request. So before I take the decision, I wanna know what y'all think of it.

Here's the thing, the first one I was part of, the to-be couples specifically asked us to help them raise money amongst ourselves to help them with the wedding. Now this is added to the job of handling the logistics of the wedding day et all.

This recent one again, I didn't attend two previous meetings but got an sms with a hormongous amount of money to contribute for the wedding.

Is the right thing? What is the actual job of Comm of Friends? Looks like the trend now is to get people to sponsor your wedding financially.

NB: Trashy posters are highly welcome!

The OP made this post not because he agrees to the intentions of the girl but because he wants some advise that could stall the girl from her actions. Unfortunately, a lot of childish comments have marred this thread. Well I hope you can still pick out the gold from the trash! 2sexy your the man btw!

Now here's the thing, I can imagine how she feels right now! It's a difficult place to be in.

But one thing you have to do is have the desire TO HEAL. I think she does, that's probably why she talked to someone.

Secondly, start seeing the value in you, not the victim the situation has made you. The abortions were the responsibility of you both, you can't necessarily pin it on him.

You're beautiful, you're desirable! If he thinks otherwise, his loss! People have aborted more times than you have and still raised a good home. You can still find who to share that love in you with.

You have to forgive yourself! This is the most important. You're beating yourself up right now, "How did I allow myself to be fooled?". Well everybody gets fooled. King Solomon showed foolishness too. So forgive yourself. You made grave sacrifices for the relationship.

Start forgetting him! I learnt this from a friend. He said another friend told him this during his crisis, "Boy! Forget that girl. These her pictures littered all over your house, burn them. Everything that will remind you of her, destroy it. Conduct a burial for her in your mind. Take her as dead and won't return". Harsh you would say, but that advise was a lifesaver. If you keep thinking of vendetta, you won't forget him and you'd hurt.

Exes have a way of wanting you back when they see you stronger Be strong! Work on your strength. Make him realise he lost! If you get better he'll see what he has missed. What other revenge could worth that?

Think of the consequences if your plan goes awry It could ruin the remaining part of your life. Don't put the future in jeopardy because of the past. There are lots of good things ahead if you cannot just ruin it. You might end up in jail. When the anger has come down, remorse would set in.

Remember pain is an emotion...it's transient!

Be strong! Be strong is a continuous process... Goodluck to you!

The only trait asides BEAUTY that attracts me to a girl is CONFIDENCE!

If you're a nice gurl, don't choke your partner with 'niceness'. Have CONFIDENCE enough to allow him long for your niceties!

Note: Real men want to chase/fight/search/work for what they want!

Most nice girls remove the chase(fun) by giving the full package from the word GO!

cramjones: Time to go Mr President, time to go! Enough of the destruction to our dear nation. Come 2015 we will sweep you and mama peace out!

Coming from you it's hard to believe that you love Nigeria that much!

Well relax till 2019, after then you can come back to pick up whatever you couldn't pilfer then...if Nigerians allow you though!

Battery power nko?

With all this campaign on NL these couple of days against toning aka bleaching?

I'm sure you meant *soap not *soup.

It's called wet dreams and it's perfectly normal.

Caveat: Some people might give it a diabolical undertone. But life's whatever you believe it is!

Well if it was your husband's younger bro, I'd say you should allow him make his own food. But as the BIL is concerned and I'm guessing you're yoruba, with their profound respect for seniors, I'd say get used to it. You don't expect him to goto the kitchen n prepare dinner when you're there. Just a lil sacrifice you can afford.

Now issue of space and some privacy, I feel you have a point there. You should talk to your hubby about it. Tell him how you'd appreciate spending more quality time with him. Let him understand you're asking for the space for both of you and not just for you. Before he starts thinking you're inconsiderate to a brother he obviously loves. Just use your Superior Feminine Convincing Skill (SFCS). I'm sure if your husband cares how you feel he'll give it a thought.

But when all these doesn't work, make the sacrifice for the sake of the union. Someone has got to make sacrifice for Peace. It won't kill you, as you said, you just biding your time.

HML

cyraxjay: abeg ask that your friend how much is annual package. please guys dont start that noise of its too early tto talk about money. me i want to know. haha

The only thing you need to know now is that IT'S HUGE! It's worth every effort you can put in to land the job...

GetUmad: So predictable.

What is it with LASG and Ibos?
Is it still about that deportation ish? I thought Fashola had apologised?
Who removed FORGIVENESS from this people's dictionary?




Now I understand what it means when they say someone has "agidi" like an Ibo made fan.

What has Fashola got to do with this info? Is he d governor that allegedly gave them staff of office?

That guy must have a penchant for 'incomplete' women!

zicoy6k: Na wa ooo. I cant beliv dis...and u call urself a computer scientist?u should be arrested for this mathematical blunder. integers are subsets of real nos. There are +ve and -ve integers. Only natural nos(+ve integers) starts from zero to infinity.Besides who taught u dat u cant add integers and real nos. Infact only some prog languages require parsing before u can operate nos of different types.

True that. Forgive my error.

sage_: The answer is 3100

My explanation:
Take 1000 results in -1000 since we were not asked to take 1000 from 1000.

Chai!

unmask: you or your teachers need to be flogged..... Have you heard of negative integers? Or that integers are a subset of real numbers?......... It might be wrong to add real numbers and integers in your programming without parsing, but in maths it is perfectly legal......................

Then for the second group of olodos that assume take 1000 means take from 0, why don't you all assume you initially had 1,000000 instead of zero?..............

Anyways just give the damned question to your brothers or sisters in nursery or primary school

Integers are supersets of real numbers. Integers span from -infinity to +infinity while real numbers are from 0 to +infinity.
I concur to every other thing you said.

cayesworld: he's actually not being sarcastic. . ..he's adding up two different set of figures . . . . . .
Take 1000 and add 40 to it.
Now add another 1000.
Now add 30.
he's assuming this is one set


Another 1000.
Now add 20.
Now add another 1000.
Now add 10.
And then add 1000
and this is the second set

his reasoning being that he wasn't asked to add the third 1000 to the previous figures

Wow! This is an entirely new dimension to it. Now sheet's cray!

I actually didn't add that 'Another 1000' and arrived at 4100. But this seems more valid than mine.

The majority of people on NL don't have jobs and you expect them to teach you how to write a Resignation Letter.

Ok oooo.

Philistine: It's a surprise that most people cannot solve this simple arithmetic.(even undergraduates and so called Graduates). Yet they call their leaders names like daft, retardeen etc. It's a big shame.

Philistine, you still haven't solved it o. This is not an English speaking session,solve the arithmetic if you can and douse the tension.

oladapo_a1: -1000 + 40 + 1000 + 30 + 20 + 1000 + 10 + 1000 + 1000 = common everybody knows that the answer is 3100

That's if you live in d same planet with Bastien where 'take' now means 'take away'.