Zeal0000007:
Pals I'm still trying to live with this shock that my supposed fiancee though I've not engaged her yet but we're planning settling down next two years have cheated severally and I didn't know. This is someone when my friends talks about problems about the problems they faced in their relationships, I will be thanking God for blessing me with someone like her.

I loved this girl with every atom of me and this is our 5ft year together. I love my gal because she's hardworking she doesn't believe that she needs to sleep with any man to feed and pay her bills. she's will be turning 22 by next month while I'm 29 already.

Pals d tin weak me because this is som
eone I assumed I mould right from teenage, someone that was chased out of d house by her sister at 19 just because of me and she took d pains making me promise her that I will never abandon her. Back then the problem was solved and the family now knows my intentions and the are cool with it. I talk to the mom who is in the village and she's currently staying with me fully then partially in her sister's place.

Cutting the story shut, we had a misunderstanding two days ago we humbled ourselves to each other to resolve it. We were emotional after forgiving each other at point of love making I just felt I should make gest, so I told her why she's always lying down like a log of wood during sex no involvement apart from spraying her legs, cos I can remember how she always wanted sex years ago, abi my thing no big enough.

Pals my gal boost my bubbles, telling me that sincerely she has cheated on me once, guys d shock didn't allow me to ask her when was that, if it was when I left for service so I could come back and look for something doing to better our lives, we don too suffer.

I was shocked, she told me to my face that the guy's dick was too big and she doesn't like big dick, that it was terrible in her eyes, so after that day she blocked the guy's number, that she prefers my own always. I shaded tears in my heart then I covered up with smiles, I was like ''no wonder you have not being enjoying me''I covered up with lots jokes and smiles. this someone I could swear I was d only one banging her. I'm still living with the shock.

currently she just returned to my place after visiting her brother for 4 months now, my gal that never asked any man for money before I just found out that she has been asking guys for money as we speak she's expecting about 8k from one guy I believed she met at d brother's place.

Her phone is currently passworded and I warned her that I don't want her phone on password as well as mind, I can't live that way with someone I want to get married to atleast ur phone should be accessible by me she obeyed now she has locked it back again . Pals I know what to do, but I'm just weak after all this years, this is one that has aborted for me, I just got a job offshore since on March this year but I have not started because of the pandemic.Someone I wanted to celebrate by standing by me all this years.I just tire.

Even in marriage these things happen.It is very risky to build a relationship on deception.As a young girl, she is looking out for independence.She is trying to explore her youthfulness that comes with its attendant exuberance.Don't go on with the marriage if you don't trust her.E get reason.Broken relationship is better than domestic violence and broken marriage.

Prettyjanet1:

Ok, can you come down to check?

the price and location will interest me

Who dey cry sey see road!

Prettyjanet1:

Are you located at abeokuta?

Igbesa

Prettyjanet1:
A plot of land for sale @ a giveaway price in abeokuta, along mechanic village ajebo road just after the newly constructed federal housing estate

how much?

Make una add una own.make the fun continue

DOBOEFEMENA:



Very Wise. You didn't lie.


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flokii:


What kind of advice is this?

Why can't guys visit her? Nothing stops her from having her normal life please.

Oga advice your own now!
Na you want visit her?
Haven't you heard of rampant cases of rape and killings?
Girls like these are usually vulnerable.They fall in love easily and trust guys who take advantage of their vulnerability to harm them.

AmIaYahooGirl:
Hello Nls,
I'm not really someone who listens to what people say but I just want to share this so that y'all can air your views.

I'm a young girl, 23 and an orphan, dropped out of school and came to Lagos to make ends meet. When I first came to Lagos, I stayed with a married female cousin of mine, along the line, the husband started making advances to me which I politely declined. He got angry and told his wife to throw me out of the house, and yes she did.

I was thrown out of the house without anywhere to go and as someone who has survived losing both parents at such a young age, I literally lived and survived in the streets. Did all sorts of menial jobs, hawked purewater, soft drinks, worked in a bar and all that before I finally got an apartment.

The story isn't quite necessary but when I get talking with people and I tell them that I stay alone, next thing I'll hear is "you're too young to stay alone... it's not a good idea...blah blah blah. Some older woman even told me to go back to my cousin's house and beg them so I can continue
staying with them, another told me that it's better I stay with my boyfriend than staying alone.
I really don't understand all these talks, like despite all I've been through, isn't staying alone the best option? Or is there something wrong with staying alone as a single young lady?

Your humble opinion is needed, thanks

Just take note of these rules:
1.Don't allow males visit you at home
2.Have a very close female friend who you can rely on in case of emergency
3.If you are the church type try to have at least one trusted female member who will look out for you if you are not available due to any unforeseen
4.Be very friendly but firm with your neighbours.Don't ever allow a male neighbour spend the night in your room
5.Always make sure your apartment is safe and secure
6.Avoid keeping late nights.
7.Keep to rules 1-6

Na feel at home,feel at home make uncle visitor spoil TV remote.

This thread na for only people wey dey yarn pidgin.Make we share proverbs,jokes and yarn for only pidgin language.

Mine is with a fellow tenant with which we share same meter.The guy cooperated at first as we usually share the light bill after some months na me come dey pay sake of say I get new born baby.The guy comes in very late and leaves very early.Later , I move out as the guy became an incurable debtor owing house rent,security and nepa bills.

In the Voice of Femi Adeshina "These boys who were so happy that they have been well fed from the School Feeding Programme so they decided to dance wherever they saw PMB'sresident's billboards"

Day just break for here.

The guarantor is just someone the landlord could talk to in case of emergency or default.Most married men seeking accommodation are not required to bring guarantors.Also if you could get a good agent through referral he could do all the paper work for you.As long as you are a good guy,I don't think the guarantor is necessary.

kollinzgee:
I joined Nl last year because Harddons of dating drills I was very weak in mind and couldn't approach women and always get rejected many times but after absorbing the dating drills plus some tips here I overcame my fears with women and with life in general it was a blissful era for me I was respected by both male and females the my ego was bloated and I had my women in my finger tips I was never committed to any during this period I lost my virginity but I was getting so much love .I didn't take shit from women and people in general .I was selective of my friends and all.

just like all other things in life I suffered the disadvantages of the drills I was seeing as a fuckboy who doesn't have feelings, doesnt fall in love and doesn't respect women because I was cocky I thought maybe I should loosen up a little . on the other hand I was literally alone in my own world because I was totally surrounded by simps and betamales who saw worshiping women as a normal so whenever I educate them on things I have learnt here they just laugh it off I wish I had an alphamale friend but I didn't.

October last year i clock 27 within this period I had this sudden change in my personality the game gradually left me and I was gradually becoming weak and called it maturity I wanted to be real as possible with women because I saw the drills as childs play.i had so much pressure from home to start a serious relationship because i wasnt getting younger so early this year I met this very beautiful lady and some few dates we started dating she was a 9/10 I respected her as a lady , I spent on her and ensured she was happy because I wanted something serious with her that will lead to the future i forgot my about my other girlfriends and focused on her alone .

after 2 months in the relationship her attitude suddenly changed she was no longer friendly and homely as she was before , she no longer let me touch her she now being up excuses that she has personal problems she is dealing with and needed space but with the look of things Maybe another guy out there has caught her fancy though we have not broken up officially but she has totally changed and I might end the relationship.
my greatest regret is not that she changed but my greatest regret is that I dropped my whole dating game because I wanted to act matured and real but the exact opposite was what I saw
so this very moment I want to retake my redpills and never go back again there is no such thing as love women want a caring and matured guy but will later loose interest in him I regret I repeat I regret

Don't give up! You are on the right path.Just find out where you where wrong and try to make it work but if it's not worth your stress,move on Bro!

neutralmind:
NYSC has lost its relevance.

Let's tell ourselves the truth.

It should be scrapped and fresh graduates should me made to go through a mandatory orientation program in their respective states.

They should learn about history, business, and other life skills.

It should be done in every state. No need to travel

At the end each graduate should have access to a grant for business or post graduate education.

Like of you agree.

Share if you disagree

I always thought so till I got a job that I had to work at the hinterlands.At that point skills from NYSC came to my rescue.

May God intervene so that they will come out alive and unscathed.As graduates please always ask questions about terrains you know nothing about and make adequate research before traveling.Most of the journeys to the north these days should be by air or broken down with a stop-over so as to arrive in the afternoon or in good time.Most of the banditry,insurgent and kidnap activities take place at sunset.You don't travel beyond 7pm especially along solitary and deserted corridors.The devil and his agents come out to party after this time till dawn.

When she reciprocates kind gestures and is ready to sacrifice for your happiness.When you see one who gives equal energy to the care you give her then,I think what she has for you is love. It is sad that most girls are always on the receiving side.I met a lady online and never had intentions of dating her.She opened an office immediately on my head and started to make requests such as subscription for her GOTV and money for her project.And I never asked her out all we did was just chatting.

This one strong gan!

Justice is now for sale to the highest bidders.This is a case of no jurisdiction abi where APC headquarters dey again?

Hon Justice Monica Bolna’an Dongban-Mensem is currently the Presiding Justice of the Court of Appeal, Enugu Division, Nigeria and Life Member of Body of Benchers. Body of Benchers is responsible for the training and discipline of all lawyers in Nigeria. Justice Dongban-Mensem is an authority in Criminal and Civil Procedure Law, Taxation and International Public Finance, Public International Law, Legislative Drafting, Constitutional and Administrative Law and International Commercial Transactions.
After receiving her LL.B and LL.M from Ahmadu Bello University (ABU) Zaria-Nigeria and a Post Graduate Diploma from the Institute of Advanced Legal Studies, University of London, Russel Square – London, Justice Mensem was Registrar of Plateau State High Court in 1979 and Magistrate of various grades up to Chief Magistrate between 1981 and 1990. She was Visiting Lecturer on Press Law at the Catholic Media Centre, Kaduna from 1988-1992 and Part-time Lecturer at the University of Jos between 1989 and 1997.
From 1990-1993 Justice Dongban-Mensem served as Deputy Chief Registrar, Superior Courts and Protocol Affairs and was appointed Judge, High Court of Justice, Plateau Judiciary from 1993-1996. On transfer from the former, Dongban-Mensem became the Judge, Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Judiciary from 1997-2003.
Apart from being on several panels of investigation in the Plateau State Judiciary, she has performed numerous ad-hoc duties in the capacity of Secretary, Plateau State Law Report Committee, Secretary/Legal Adviser, Ad-hoc Committee on Widowhood Practices in Plateau State all in 1991 and a Pioneer Board Member/Legal Adviser, Plateau State Commission for Women from1991-1992 among several others.
She was also an Advisory Committee Member for FCT Judiciary on the National Centre for State Courts International Programs Division from 2001-2002 and was Acting Presiding Justice of the Lagos Division of the Court of Appeal between November and December 2009.
Justice Dongban-Mensem is one of the hardest working Nigeria judicial officers. As at December 2019, she had over 150 Lead and 100 Contributory Judgments respectively. She has always led notable jurists to decide high profile and very interesting cases. These cover electoral, commercial, civil and criminal matters on appeal from the lower courts and court marshal decisions.
Justice Dongban-Mensem, despite the unending demands of huge office work, launched herself into the publishing hall of fame with the book she entitled The Defendant in 1991. This book addresses the rights of the accused person and is an informative and resource material for lawyers and lay persons alike. She has also presented thought provoking papers at different fora on numerous subjects like: Legal Implications of some Widowhood Practices in Nigeria; Right of Women and Children under the Nigerian Law; the Responsibilities of Judges, Lawyers and the Youths under the Nigerian Constitutions; the Role of Women Lawyers (FIDA) in the Participation of Women in Politics, among others.
Dongban-Mensem’s impressive blend of intellectual and professional experience stems from coming from a family that values education and career excellence. Hence she became a strong and passionate advocate for qualitative education especially for the less privileged. Having faced the challenge of going through school with limited resources, she strongly believes that the provision of scholarship to indigent but promising children would substantially enhance their dream of a fulfilled future.
Thus Dongban-Mensem worked hard to make a modest but invaluable contribution to this end by establishing the Pa William Mensem Education and Scholarship Foundation (PAWMESFO) in May of 2009. PAWMESFO has been able to build a school, named after the jurist’s father, Pa William Mensem at Ngotuguut, in Plateau State.
Pa William Mensem Memorial School as it is now known elicited so much enthusiasm in not only the people of Ngotuguut but the neighbouring villages and indeed, the whole of Plateau State. While parents are eager to send their children to the school, the children on their own are zealous to be enrolled in what they commonly call “Monica’s School”.
Similarly, due to her deep distress for losing her first son, Prince Samson Kwapda’as Dongban, she founded a road safety organisation called Kwapda’as Road Safety Demand (KRSD) which has become the most efficient and popular road safety NGO in Nigeria. Every year, KRSD, an affiliate of Global Alliance of NGOs for Road Safety holds road safety seminars, trainings and visits hospitals where relief materials are distributed and payment of medical bills of indigent crash victims are made.
Justice Dongban-Mensem loves writing, reading and golfing. She also delights in working with children, women and the elderly. She has strong religious beliefs and particularly dreams of a world where women and children are not seen as second-class citizens but rather treated with love and respect. Justice Dongban-Mensem had four biological children (one deceased) and four grandchildren.
Indeed, Justice Monica Bolna’an Dongban-Mensem is a gift to society. Her achievements have challenged other professionals and politicians whom she has apparently given a shove in the right direction. For dedicating her life to the downtrodden and serving as a beacon of hope for women and children, many describe Dongban-Mensem as the very essence of compassion and duty as well as the acme of love and generosity.

Confusion everiwia!

This man no get shame.OP,You can call him out on his FB page since you know his account.

Before now the judiciary was the last hope of the downtrodden and oppressed.Now all you need do is to file a mumu injunction in the midnight and the police or DSS go support you as far as bar dey.Nigerian judiciary is a huge joke.Nigerian Judiciary don fall for gutter......................

Government go,government come!Lawmakers chasing shadows and making laws which add zero benefits to citizens.

Hallenjay:
how much is d simcard?

Normal Price

ExKISS me is this TOTO DICKE's thread?

Guys are not smiling.