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That is an abandoned building right?
Are people actually living there?

montelik: Who said Rio is no longer valuable to United? See how Huddlestone dominated Vidic for the goal. Vida is losing it a little. Lennon once again molested Evra to point where Evra was running was avoiding for the last 20 mins.

Are you serious?
You are blaming Vidic for the goal?

montelik: We didn't let Pogba go. We very much wanted him to stay. The boy on the other hand preferred to move elsewhere and turned down our numerous contract offers.

With the weather condition in north London, good handling is going to be harder today.

Why would he want to stay when he wasn't getting chances even when he should.
When Rafael, Park and co will start ahead of him, how the hell is he gonna stay?

coogar: pogba is gone......celebrate angelo henriquez's goal today for wigan - it was a beauty!

I don't see anything beautiful about that goal abeg

I hope this snow doesn't affect todays matches though. I've got 6 players to bank on.

What is it with the constant homophobic insinuations on this thread.

It breaks my heart every time I watch Pogba play for Juve.
I just can't watch

I actually think the United fans have the best command/control of the English language on this section...the Arses on the other hand

[quote author=A-40]A solitary slap is not enough reason for the man to take out kobokos and start whooping a grown woman. That guy had better hope the woman doesn't have grown male kids
Forget the bull these inconsistent feminists be selling. Man is still Man and Woman is Woman. Even Bible talk say Woman na the Weaker vessel



That is man to man combat lol you should get laughed at. The woman is not built to be as physically strong as the man[/quote]So since she is the 'weaker vessel' and not built to be as 'physically strong as the man' why she go slap person wey be the stronger vessel and physically stronger than her in the first place? Abi she didn't realise that?

dayokanu: If she slapped and you held her hand locked her outside it would be better. Her bleeding shows the degree of beating. It means it was severe beating not mild ones

You didn't answer the questions I asked you

dayokanu: Laws are not equal for men and women

Thats the reason for calling them the weaker sex. Until the laws are changed the guy would till be held responsible and get the longest side of the stick

So she didn't realise she was the 'weaker sex' before slapping the man?
This is myopic to say the least.

dayokanu: Beating someone weaker till she bled

Its like you beating a 14yr old boy till he bled because he abused or slapped you

Oh so it would have been a tad bit acceptable if she didn't bleed?

Or let's assume it was the brother that bled...we should conclude that it is okay since she was the weaker one?

dayokanu: Of course, No one would tell you any of the acts was right

The wife abusing the sister, The sister coming to their house and slapping the man or the man beating the sister till she bleeds All were wrong actions

But the worst of all was the mans

Why? Because she is FEMALE?
They were all wrong...fact! But the initial action probably provoked the reaction.
If she had kept her hands to herself she most likely won't get a beating.

dayokanu: If patience slap Klitschko and , Klitschko panel beat am till she bleed, Guess who Popo go carry? Dem go even forget the slap sef

Of course but does that make it right? That is the point.

dayokanu: Gender Equality ke? Bring Usain Bolt to compete with women or bring Klitchko to fight with Patience Ozokwor

But it's okay for Patience Ozokwor to slap Klitschko first and then play the 'gender card' afterwards?

montelik: Check it out http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/football/picturegalleries/9808659/Premier-Leagues-worst-penalty-takers.html

RVP, Rooney even Young make the worst 10. I don't have confidence in RVP.

Exactly why I said RvP is our BEST candidate.
10 out of 14 isn't bad.
And we should judge him on his United stats not adding stats from his previous club.

[quote author=A-40]Its shocking really. Like I said before one day na one day he would also protect his secretary from his wife by beating her. Let's see what the consensus would be then


She's his sister firstly a woman secondly whether younger or older he shouldn't beat her period


The brother should be a peacemaker! This same wife can pack her bags and leave tomorrow. There is nothing wrong with him asking the wife to apologize to his sister. For the sister to slap the brother obviously he didn't do enough to calm down the situation


This is where the older sister is to blame! She should not have done that. But u gotta ask if it where the wife that slapped him would he not have smiled like a man that just finished a bottle of coke


The wife said stuff that could jeopardize her marriage! Its not like the sister just saw her in her dreams and made a beeline to their house


The wife was obviously disrespectful to the elder sister. The way I see it the wife has no regards for her in-laws


Lol have you seen a professional boxing fight where a woman faced a man? I'm not saying its right but its a bit more respectable


All violence is bad I co-sign that anyway. Just saying everything has it roots and the family is the smallest unit of the society. So if we find ourselves in a violent society its because there are a lot of violent homes out there so I hope you can now see where I am going with this[/quote]Baba, fi story le fun ijapa.
This issue is not hard to understand.
The whole consesus here is there any sort of violence is not acceptable.
You guys are defending the fact that it's wrong because she is a WOMAN...no matter how you look at it, it's preferential treatment.
She slapped the brother and the way he reacted was wrong but she can't be hiding behind the fact that she's female after she got kobokolized.

As a man, if I slap my junior brother and he replied me with a 'pacquiao type knockout blow' and I pass out, I have no right to start claiming the 'elder brother' card afterwards.

It's sad when a lot of people lay claims to the 'Im a woman so I shouldn't get beat' jumbo mumbo on here.

ritchboy: Coogar,

How does "tooked" fare in comparison with "childs"? I think it just knocked it off it's fuc[color=#000000]k[/color]ing perch!

You can tell he was only trying to be funny.
Arsenal fans are worse

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]No be you? Oloshi[/quote]Me? Msrry you?
Lai lai...Dayokanu is there

Tgirl4real: Yes o. My baby is growing so the questions are less.

lol

But eehh . . .Ileke, why 8 years na?

Who go marry her?

No one has the right to physically assault anyone not to talk of the extent of causing bodily harm regardless of gender.
It's not acceptable whether it's man on woman, woman on woman, woman on man or man on man.
Simple!

willarrie: Couples tend to look alike with time if they make love consistently in a position that enables them look into each other eyes while at it.....for couples who dont look alike probably enjoy the Doggy style....just my opinion sha.

You are having a laugh right?

Your waist...

[quote author=A-40]Its not everyone you insult and expect to have a coke and a smile and just shut up never mind an older person! A polite and sincere apology would have sent the woman back home
The man instead of playing peacemaker (a simple "honey come and apologize to my sister woulda sufficed" ) went into beast mode and brought out horsewhip to beat his sister! Well I don't blame the bully sha he probably knew he could get away with it that's why he carried out such savage act in the first place[/quote]Apologise about what? We don't know what actually happened that they had 'an exchange of words'
Didn't the OP say the man tried to make peace?

the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

That says it all. All na self respect.
A grown matured woman should not stoop that low. Afterall she's the older person right?

ogugua88: [size=13pt]If there are good reasons for the wait, then yes. Aren't you supposed to be marrying someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with? Why the rush?If something happens and you can't wait a few more months to get married, then maybe he or she isn't ready to marry sef.[/size]

You have brain

naijababe: I don't think anyone on this thread believes the sister was right to go and threaten the wife in her house but the wife comes out of this looking much worse by letting hubby assault his sister so badly. Would she have condoned the same degree of assault on her mother or sister?

The wife was already in a precarious situation regardless.
We do not know whether she tried to stop the husband or not...no one would know. It takes a matter of seconds for someone to be assaulted.
We can only go by what the OP stated.
I'm sure there are some missing elements in the whole she-bang that we don't know.
From the moment the sister slapped the brother...the sister/wife incident is thrown out of the window, its now a brother/sister matter which I don't think he handled correctly.

[quote author=A-40]But we don't know for sure if the elder sister actually did that and was ignored. We can't rule out the possibility that the wife also provoked the sister's angry reaction by being more disrespectful on her arrival at their house
The mere fact that the wife didn't intervene in the melee when he started beating the sister tells me already that she must be a mischevious woman[/quote]If she did that and was ignored...more reason why she shouldn't have gone there then cos obviously she should have known it was obvious things weren't cool. She should have talked to the brother about it and take it from there.
As yoruba people will say "ma koja aye ara e"

Whether the wife is mischievous or not is irrelevant. We can argue they are both mischievous with the roles they played.

[quote author=A-40]I got a question for the original poster tho. Is she his full sister? As in same mama same papa because there must be some deep seated hatred somewhere the kind that a polygamous background can cause

And for those saying she is interfering in the brother's family read the story well the original poster said the wife actually made disparaging remarks about her

With that being said the man is a disgrace! However what I don't get are the women supporting the guy! Are you ladies suggesting its ok for dudes to beat women up or that we can do it under certain circumstances so long as we are trying to protect the wife. Cos the day is coming that he would beat you for that secretary at work, that sexy housegirl you got to watch the kids. Its a chain reaction[/quote]It doesn't matter what transpired initially. There are certain ways to handle situations.
If she wanted to confront her about the issue she should not have gone to the brother's house.
A phone call would have been ideal afterall she only needed to TALK to her to confirm the 'he said/she said' remarks.
Going to confront her in her house can be seen as a threatening behaviour.
She could have handled it differently.

A real woman/wife that fully respects herself will not stoop so low to go to her brother's house to confront his wife.
That is just a 'market woman' behaviour and it's a complete turn off. Just shows she has no class.
If you go out of your way to go somewhere you are not welcomed, then you should be ready to face whatever comes your way.
She should have informed the brother about the situation and let him deal with it.

The brother should not have attacked his sister regardless but since the OP is claiming she made the first move, an instant reaction is not a total surprise.

I would have handled the situation in a different way regardless but I know my sisters pretty well...they cant behave like that.

Darren Fletcher unavailable for the rest of the season.
He's underwent surgery for his illness. Feel so sorry for him.
Don't think he'll be the same again.
I wish him well.

montelik: What are we going to do about our PK record so far. Honestly I am worried. I don't and have never felt fully confident with Rooney as designated taker, also don't have much confidence in RVP either. Its a strange problem to have, but none of the prospective candidates (Rooney, RVP, Young, Nani, Chicha, Carrick e.t.c) standout as consistent. Considering we have always had unflappable players from the spot at every point in the last 20 years (i.e Robson, Cantona, Irwin, Ruud, Saha, CR7) its unfortunate.

Carrick a prospective candidate? I doubt if he's taken a penalty for United before.
RVP only missed one and that was cos he tried to chip the goalie. He is the best candidate.